Discussions of the day

What books have you read in the past that made you really think, it opened your eyes? I like to read stuff about COVER UPS. People that have experienced things and revealed information... especially when it's not political-correct to do so or the mainstream media didn't want to touch it. These sorts of subjects are often on videos as well... these days.
Bugalugs
"The happiest man on Earth" by Eddie Jaku. "The Auschwitz Photographer" by Maurizio Onnis and Luca Crippa. "The Tattooist of Auschwitz" by Heather Morris. If those three accounts of the Appalling things that can be done by Human Beings to Innocent men, women and children - 6.4 million members of the Jewish religion and another 7.3 millions simply because they did not fit in with the beliefs of a Dictator and his collaborators - do not convince you that these monsters should be stopped then nothing will.
Hitler described the Polish people & those of the Jewish faith as "Sub-humans, the "Scum of the Earth".
The Russian Dictator, Vladimir Putin, has used exactly the same words to describe the Ukrainian People.
He Must be stopped or he will, just like Hitler, exterminate them as well.
Apr 28, 22

Do you ever lend money to family and friends, and if you do are you expecting them to pay you back or not to pay it? My experience has been that whenever I have lent money to friends I always get it back, as for family they just disappear for a while and when they do show up somehow they completely forget about it. So now I just don't lend family any money and if I do in certain dire circumstances I don't expect it back. What are your opinions on it.
Viola9
I've lent money to my sons now and again. It's usually my idea to do it and often I end up telling them not to worry about paying it back. One example was my eldest son one day telling me he was going to get a solar system installed and how much it was going to cost paying it on a plan. Worked out double the cost so I said I'd give him the money and he can pay me back when he has that amount saved up. Then my other son needed money for something some time later and I gave him money for that. In the end I told them both not to worry about paying it back. I have a fair bit sitting in the bank. We don't need much to live on because our house is paid off. We aren't big spenders going on holidays etc and the money will be theirs not so far down the track when my partner and I are no longer here so I figure why not let them have some of their inheritance now. One thing I always do though. If I give to one I give the same to the other so there's no favouritism.
Mar 25, 22

Recycling is a positive thing...but REUSING is the best way of reducing our carbon footprint and it is STILL not a priority...half the salt and pepper grinders in the supermarket cannot just be refilled...there are more now than 5 years ago...bottles, containers and jars that cannot be resealed...plastic packing that is designed solely for one use...why?...is no-one paying attention?
Belle S
We've gone from paper everything to plastic to save the trees, now they are trying to reverse it back. We had an incinerator in our back yard, which alot of home rubbish was put into it & burned. They decided it was against the law & incinerators were removed. Maybe bring back the incinerator & maybe, we wouldn't have so much landfill like back in the 70's/80's. Like fashion, goes out of style but eventually comes back. Our Government needs to stop fixing things that aren't broke & working well with the planet & fix things that aren't working.
Mar 24, 22

I being bullet from the day one from year 1 to year 6. The teachers think was funny and never stop its. My parents dismissed my said never cry and my father was working long hours bearing at home. I feel like was teaching child be see not hear. I crying all my young life. I being bullet in high school by two teachers to quick years 12 put me down them i crying i fail in the end from them. I was bullet at work crying as no way get home i didn't drive and had a sick mother...
freckes
best solution. go learn some marshal arts, and put them to use, mind and body control, show what you know and they will think a bit differently
Mar 10, 21

Do we respect the law anymore, do we take the police for granted and not treat them properly, or have they abused their power so much we don't trust them anymore yet when we are in trouble it seems they are the 1st to be called, myself I respect the police a lot, they deserve it and have a horrible job to do
sherry s 714699
THEY SHOULD BE RESPECTED FOR THE WORK THEY DO BUT, THEY SHOULD REMEMBER THEY ARE PEACE KEEPERS NOT EXECUTIONERS AND TRY A LITTLE RESTRAINT AND IMPROVE THEIR TRAINING
Mar 18, 22

I recently started study in NZ University. I am almost 33 years old. Furthermore, I believe education is an important part of our lives. And I feel good about it. I got very diverse feedback from others. Would you go back to school to educate yourself after 30s, 40s or even older? You have money and time for it - Would you go?
Morenita
Of course I would! After having both my daughters I decided to go back to school and so glad I did! They are now 26 and 17yrs old and I’m working in the field I went to school in. Your never too old!
Mar 13, 22

What is your opinion...people using ... after a few words... Do you find it annoying? I know I do...
Paul J
I don't really have a problem with it....if that's what someone wants...it's a free country...for now...
Mar 12, 22

Australians are getting fatter. And experts say diets just don't work in the long term. But should we be looking at this debate differently? Can you be fat and healthy? And are people resorting to surgery too soon?
Smiley
I believe that some can be both overweight and healthy.
As a teenager, i was the "fat kid" and always picked on, but it was also during these years that i was at my healthiest. I went for 15km walks at least twice a week, i was quite strong, being able to pull/push carts loaded with up to 250kgs (bags of soil/fertiliser, etc), i was quite active as well, enjoyed playing soccer and squash as often as i could, i went bushwalking and worked on the farms of family friends (fencing, marking lambs, helping in the shearing shed, digging up paddock weeds by hand/mattock, etc)
I don't think it is fair to tar all larger framed people with the same brush. Some overweight people can be quite fit and healthy, others not so much, while others are all overweight due to medication they need to take.
Feb 15, 22

Would you prefer to text before arriving at someones place? Or just show up unannounced? Or would you ring before turning up? My friend thinks it's rude but I don't have a phone and we usually just knock and if they are there they are there
Sha
I hate unexpected visitors, especially when I'm not in the mood or feeling sick. The very last thing I want to do is entertain other people.
Feb 04, 22

I know it's a kind of cliche - The good old days! A time when we were growing up, without too much of the advanced technology that we have to day. Before ... computers, mobiles, Siri, spy cameras just about everywhere. Carefree days, holidays, great music, fun and laughter. Where has it all gone? Well before Covid showed ... it's ugly head. What were those OLD DAYS, like for some of you?
Larry S 382961
Having great music from the 60’s that was able to be understood,no swearing, lyrics made sense. Great TV shows that we’re funny,sometimes a bit naughty and no one cared. Having freedom to ride around the streets without some hoot running you over. No junk food except when you went to the local fish and chip shop or hamburger place. Going to the movies and seeing 2 films and a cartoon,news reel and having fun. Now you go to the movies 1 film,some junk ads,what’s coming and then home. That is why I have Fox on and Netflix ( free). And my mums cooking. She made Anzac biscuits that you needed to dunk so to soften up to eat
Feb 09, 22

Do you have a loved one in a nursing home and have any tips for others that might be new to this?
JANN R
I worked in aged care for 45 years some of the staff are good but others are only there to get paid they have no empathy for the elderly I always said it would be over my dead body that my mother went into aged care but if there is no one to care for them in there home it makes it hard I moved home to be here for my mother and I am her full time carer she is now 97 and still heathy and on no medication
Oct 20, 21

I've been communicating with my friend overseas for almost 3 years now, and have become quite close. With all the uncertainty in the world now, it is unlikely we will be able to meet in person. Any ideas on how to keep the relationship fresh and exciting?
Edward S 497347
The advice here starts with a question:- Have you met each other in person yet or not?
IF NOT, You do not know how well you would get on together once you do meet.
IF you have only met online and communicated online, emails and by phone, it could be risky because people online often lie and mislead the other person into believing they will meet one day and have feelings for you, when in fact they have no feelings for you and have no intention of meeting in person.
Too many scammers online.
IF you have NOT yet met in person, use a "Scammer Test" which I have divised as follows:-
1) Write a list of questions to ask the person. Once you ask him/her write down their answers; then wait a few weeks and ask him/her the same questions again...If their answers are NOT the same as the first time then you know they are lying and it's a scam.
2) Ask them to send you a photo of themselves, wait a few weeks then tell them you would like more photos of them; then compare the photos.
3) Take step 2 further and ask him/ her for a video chat; so you can confirm what they look like and if they refuse or give excuses continuously not to do that, then its a scam.
HAVING PASSED ALL OF THE ABOVE TESTS.
How much does this person mean to you?
Is the person worth waiting for?
IF yes, keep the relationship fresh by being romantic online, if you both have cameras arrange a time where you can have dinner together online...Meaning each of you at your own home, on camera, eating together.
Use emails / phone calls to tell each other about your day as if you were in a relationship face to face.
Finds things to do online together which you both enjoy doing.
Try something old-fashioned like writing long letters to each other and mailing them to each other by 'Snail Mail"...Everyone enjoys getting mail and the excitement builds up while waiting to receive and read the letter.
IF you have never met in person; NEVER send the other person money or valuable items in case it is a scam.
You said you've been communicating with your friend for over 3 years, but yet, the covid-19 pandemic has only existed for just over 2 years; therefore ask yourself and your friend why you never met in person BEFORE the pandemic hit the world.
GOOD LUCK!
Feb 05, 22

Do you think that the average citizen understands what combat troops actually experience and how this can affect them mentally? Young men and women return from combat zones where they see people being killed and are then are often discharged from the military. They then try to lead a "normal" life among people who can not imagine what the ex service person has experienced.
Firefly
Am ex navy, no war service, still difficult just being away from family without the combat side of it as well, Politicians should do more for them post service, but they won't!!
Jan 22, 22

Look up, like, into the sky. Look for the stars, every star is a sun for another solar system. Imagine if there is another planet with living organisms living on it. Are aliens true or false information?
Raymond E
Haven't ever seen them, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. God definitrly exists, and I haven't seen him either.
Nov 17, 21

I knew a few kids that were adopted when I was a kid! One couple... had a few kids that they adopted, her being a neighbor of ours! At high school..a few kids were adopted that I knew as well. What's your view on adoption? Should people when they are old enough, be allowed to or encouraged to find their real parents?
BLM
One, I am completely in FAVOR of adoptions at the county (government level in the usa) or you are just buying a baby (which is illegal in the usa - but not really enforced). Two, if you are adopted (in the usa) - you legally have the right (now) to (when you turn 18) find your biological parent (which does not translate - into any sense they are your real parents - because any two idiots (female and male) can conceive a child). Three, alot of kids (I was one) are better off cutting off contact with their real parents (biological father and birth mother) - as soon as possible - I was a teen runaway. The first things that are cut (funding) in the usa - is social programs and education. Last, Child Protective Service (CPS) is a social program - ran at the county level - a child is on a waiting list before CPS can look out for the child (hopeful, the child lives long enough to become eligible for CPS services). Other words, I am in FAVOR of adoptions (because between 1.6 million and 2.8 million kids become runaways EACH YEAR - an indication that most parents in the usa - have lousy parental skills).
Dec 26, 21

Should political Donations be stopped, or reduced? If we did that however there is a risk the smaller political parties will suffer, be less able to compete. Saying that, the bigger parties have too much influence. What's your take on this?
James
Stop the corrupt leftists for sure. Facebook, Google etc shouldn't be allowed to fund the demorat/communist parties!
Next they will fund Australian and UK Labor parties.
So yes, ban funding altogether
Dec 05, 21

We know that people have passion. Do you have it? A person without passion is that one whose passion wasn't discovered yet. Have you got one? Tell the World about your passion.
misfortune8
Literature! There are so many books I want to read that I'll have to live to 1000 just to read what's on my list now! Some of my best friends are books.
May 03, 21

If you had the chance to change anything in the world and it could only be one thing, what would it be? Would it be for yourself or for the world? Would your change effect the world or only yourself? :)
Cuddles
I would change the pay-scale of politicians so that it became a job which only genuinely caring people get, not for the power and affluence as is the case now. It should be a position of caring for others, but at the moment it is a case that they seem to always put themselves first and foremost, (continually voting themselves increases in pay), not the people they supposedly serve. More people like the former president of Uruguay, President Mujica, who was said to be the poorest president in the world. He donated 90% of his salary to charity, chose to continue living in the farmhouse he shared with his wife, and drove an old VW beetle when he could have lived in luxury.
Nov 08, 21

What's the best/worst compliment you have ever received from a stranger?
lippy loo
I had a photo taken for my passport and it was horrible and I aid I did not like it as it did not really look like me and this woman says "It's funny how we perceive ourselves as better than what we are" I thought how nasty. Left and went elsewhere and got a much more accurate and nicer photo.
She was either jealous of other women or just woke up on the wrong side of the bed but it stayed with me and I am now 71. Imagine if I was a teen and someone said that to me. I was 40 at the time and going through a nasty divorce so it did imprint a bit negative on my self esteem.
Feb 11, 21

I love listening to music when I lived in a family home they took my radio off me and said that it bad to listen to music I think that was wrong I love listening to music how about you
PatCat
I would literally go nuts if I couldn't listen to music.It calms me down, it lifts my mood, it is my best friend as I walk around the house, doing the cleaning, digging the garden, the background to my life.
Oct 27, 21

Do you have a family member you're not willing to speak to? I personally haven't spoken to my father in more than 5 years and have no regrets about it. I believe more in surrounding yourself with people you like, love and care about regardless to being blood related or not. I'm curious what are your thoughts?
'smee,SWQ!
We still don't speak to my Sister -In--Law or her husband who raped my wife over 35 years ago when pregnant with our 2nd daughter who we subsequently lost through the trauma...my wife's sister defended her husband saying he'd never do that! My wife says she never had that sister!
Oct 11, 21

Do you have a massive regret in life? Perhaps it's something you wish you did, but have never got around to doing, or something you did, but wish you hadn't.
Michelle S 553303
We ALL have regrets I'm sure but not lebe arning from those stupid, idiotic things that you did do would be my greatest regret of all. I wish that I would have listened to my FIL when he pleaded with me not to sell the home we had built on land he'd paid for. It was perfect for us and my 5 children and would have been for years to come, but I had been bequeathed a 3/4 share in a home which belonged to these elderly sisters I helped to care for in the community and whereas I could simply have paid off the animal welfare organisation that they bequeathed the other 1/4 to and paid my share of the lawyers exorbitant fees and then, after the sale was completed, I could have paid the mortgage on the home we had built, bought my now ex and I a car each and then STILL had money left over. We moved in the weekend my mother died and because the home phone had been switched off at our old residence for a few hours before going on at our new address my mother had passed away of cancer. I missed being with her AND my father was alone with her when she died. He'd been trying to call the home number but couldn't get on to us so he eventually rang my mobile. We'd spent the whole weekend moving houses and my plan had been to go and stay with her that Monday after I got the kids off to the bus stop and remain with her when she died. My old home was officially sold that Thursday and for some reason we had to be there to hand over keys or something, but we were over an hour away from the Chapil where my mother's funeral was to occur at 11am and I still had to pick up the wreath along the way. We were late of course and my father knew that something fishy was going on that week but I didn't want to tell him what we'd done because he'd told me in no uncertain terms NOT to move into the sisters home. I would NEVER make such a mistake as that now, but hindsight is a wonderful thing. We spent over $70K repairing the home as the sisters hadn't been able to afford to fix all the things that needed replacing and tearing down. That "tearing down" happened later that year when my my marriage broke up and a year after that when I couldn't sell the now lovely renovated home and 3/4 of an acre of land within walking distance to town and public transport, the bank came and foreclosed on it. So in 2 and a half years I destroyed my family's finances that we'd built up over 18 years or so and ended up bankrupt. It was, ALL of it, the most difficult experience to go through and the ONE decision out of ALL of life's bad choices that I wish I could change. I know it is shameful and worse because I hurt the very person that had helped me the MOST of anybody in my lifetime, but if anyone reading this can possibly get a family member or another loved one NOT to make a similar disastrous mistake then it's worth it. Thanks for reading.
Oct 07, 21

The world is full of them, young and old! It's never my fault, it's someone else's! No matter what the issue...you always get this from people. Famous people are some of the worse. They seem to love to air their dirty laundry to the world! Why can't people take responsibility for their actions anymore? Your Views?
Grommie
Why can't people take responsibility for their actions anymore? Answer, the Government doesn't so why should anyone else? The example is set at the top. NZ currently has Saint Jacinda of Covid who cannot put a foot wrong according to her fatuous grovelling ignorant adoring fans.
Sep 27, 21

I was reading about a woman (on twitter) whose 19 yr old daughter found a distinctive earring in one part of Sydney and then days later her 13 yr old found the exact same earring in another part of Sydney. Both had picked them up and not realized they had a pair until days later. It could be that they are a popular design, but in any case still a coincidence that siblings found each separately. Have you experienced any extraordinary coincidences?
Disie
I had an Online friend of 2 years. I ended up in hospital for a few days and said so on our Group discussion. I got home and received a message asking if I was still in Maroondah Hospital because my online friend was there also 1 floor up. I visited on my check-up and we became fast real-life friends until she passed from Cancer
Sep 26, 21

When do you think the world will be completely free of COVID-19 and everything will be back to normal? Personally I think it may take up to 5 years.
Victoria 315341
I think we are just going to have to live with this , have a shot each year just like the flu vac. I do think the precautions we have been using have been effective, no way have we seen the numbers of other bugs. Just take care and keep up the hand washing, and masks indoor major shopping centres and medical places.
Sep 16, 21

I understand science's relationship to technology, but I am not talking (or writing) about that. I mean, in terms of viruses. Like the fact that a virus can escape from a lab, in the first place. I mean, I understand, the cures and trying to find an antidote, but when is it bordering chemical or biological warfare and when is it for an antidote? Basically, is there such a thing as TOO MUCH science?
lippy loo
Like all things there is good and bad. Science gave us the Atom Bomb and yes maybe the covid virus (unproven yet) but it has given us many good things also. Science is not the problem it's in whose hands it is in that is the problem. Sometimes I think they want to know too much and go too far and this is dangerous.
Sep 01, 21

A colleague recently had three vehicles stolen plus other property by three teenagers who are not locals but travel regularly to our town to commit robberies and wilful damage. A policeman was seriously injured when one rammed a stolen car into his police car. Police state they are well known and have a long list of offences going back some years. How are they able to continue their crime sprees 'just for fun' with no regard for the trauma, costs and damage they cause?...
Edward S 497347
Here in Australia most violent home invasions and car thefts are carried out by Sudanese teens. Most rapes and sexual assaults are carried out by Indian and Asian males.
These Sudanese people come from a country where there is lots of violence and many poor people so stealing is their way of life in order to survive and this is instilled into their brains. Just like a dog or wild animal will bury their uneaten food, to return to when they cannot find fresh food to eat...
When these people migrate to another country this method of living is etched deep within their brain therefore they continue living that way in their new country. When these people ( and other people from violent and poor countries ) immigrate to new countries, the Government needs to teach these people that they DO NOT need to behave that way to survive in that new country.
As for the high number of Indian males who rape, attempt rape or carry out other sexual offending they come from a country where this type of behaviour is basically approved of and where some male police officers and defence force people carry out sexual crimes then get away with it. When these people immigrate to other countries the Government needs to teach them that this is NOT normal behaviour and NOT tolerated in that country.
Having said that; I MUST also add that I have nothing against the Sudanese, Indians or Asians and NOT all males from those countries behave in these ways; just some.
Aug 29, 21

I have notice that members of rewardia.com - ATTACK a person by name calling - not attacking his/her logic - and I dislike admitting it - I have done it myself - more then once. I assume everybody on rewardia.com is at least 18 years old - so we should be able to restraint our worst impulse when it comes to Free Speech. If we can not do that at a website, Free Speech (that a person's has his/.her to express their opinion - you do not attack the person's opinion -...
Larry S 382961
There are 2 choices here. Read it and keep reactions to oneself OR Read it and react how you think you should. Better still how do react to someone who takes a potshot at you. If it’s too hot in the kitchen get out
May 17, 21

I was wondering if people who retired would be able to give some advice about when it is the right time to take his / her retirement: at 55, 60, 65? What is a good guideline? So the question would be: - When do you know when it is time to retire?
'smee,SWQ!
I was forced to retire at 60 when a raft of medical conditions culminated in my first heart attack...lost home, lost everything and now just on a Disability Pension - Rent alone takes more than half of that a fortnight - If you have the luxury of planning when to retire do it when you own your home and have enough in your Super or Savings to see you through to your expected Expiry Date!
Aug 02, 21

Are people in general getting ruder, more selfish etc. or are people behaving generally in the same manner, but I m just more sensitive to it as I get older?
'smee,SWQ!
I believe it depends on the demographic Catherine! - If you learnt manners 50 or so years ago or more - you are, I believe generally quite polite but for those educated in the 80's onwards they're taught they are entitled and how dare you expect them to be polite (or anything as the world owes them a living and you'll not get in their way-smack on childish bottoms?No Way!)
Feb 17, 21

There has been a bit of talk recently about raising the age of responsibility, from ten, to about 13, 14, in Australia. When a child commits a crime, should they be held responsible at the age of ten, or under? Does it also depend on the intelligence of the child? Your thoughts?
Therese M 73305
They will never learn right from wrong if they just get a slap on the wrist..I don't know about other countries but Australia there are alot of juvenile crime I ask the questions where are the parents ??? Why are kids out very late at night??? Can they control their kids?? Make the parents pay for damages or the stolen car perhaps they might spend time with their children instead of just collecting government money and using it for their own uses drugs gambling and alcohol .with my kids I knew where they were and who they were with and was definitely home by certain times
Jun 04, 21

I don't have any children, but I know more than a few parents, (and their kids), who were/are home-schooling. What do you think about the idea of schooling your children at home, these days with the way things are, well, quite frankly going to pot, in society as a whole. Are there still advantages to H/S? and do they make up for the changes that would necessarily have to occur in the family dynamic for H/S to start with kids who have been at public/private schools...
Christine M 323842
Homeschooling and online learning are two totally different things.
To homeschool your child, you need to get approval from the Education Department, and need to demonstrate to them the level of work that is being achieved. It is hard work, and you need to link in with other homeschooling families in order to share lesson plans and ideas, organise excursions etc. It becomes its own school community.
It’s not a choice that I would normally make, but was left with no other option for my 13 yo daughter at the time.
Unfortunately, as several people have said, some schools and teachers, are not that great at teaching. In fact some educational environments are so caught up in worrying about things that are not important like, wearing the right coloured socks, not mixing any summer uniform with winter uniform, making sure children have their hair in one of 28 approved hairstyles like Kim Jong-Un, that they forget they are supposed to be providing a safe, welcoming and nurturing environment.
Teachers are often the bullies. They have no life experience as they have never left school, so have no understanding of what’s going on in the lives of their students, and how to engage them. Schools and teachers (mostly) are not that good for many students.
What is needed is an improvement to our education system.
May 29, 21

What would you do if you saw a mother hitting her child in public? Would you say something or just mind your own business?
Dale.K Chch NZ
as a parent of 2 special needs children ( now Adults in age) I would be aware of many different reasons, Child abusers who are the ones that are killing our children by abuse do not display their actions in public, and many time's discipline is more about safety issues, protecting the child from danger
May 06, 21

I notice that many who don't eat meat (vegans, some vegetarians) are ready to throw punches at those of us who do. Our morality is questioned many times, alongside our sanity. The same with some of us who eat meat, I've see fists thrown at those that don't eat meat, as well as, insults. Here's a solution, let bygones be bygones. Can't we all just get along?
Neo
I really wish these militant vegans and vegetarians would show the same respect to meat eaters as we do to them: I do not try to convert them to be meat eaters or give them lectures on why a diet including meat is best or how some plant based crops use more resources than animal farming so WHY don't these vegans/vegetarians do the same?
Apr 26, 21

Or maybe death suffering and rebirth? What will you be doing at Easter?... I'd rather celebrate either way!
Ruth 404159
whether with family or not, i want to think about the reason we celebrate Easter and be thankful for the sacrifice that was made for us.
Apr 03, 21

Are you concerned about low interest rates and how badly they are affecting many people? Banks are generally paying most -customers much less interest than even a few years ago. Have your savings dwindled down - lower, and lower as time goes on? Low interest rates have been great for mortgage borrowing, and investment. The downside is that it's also forced the cost of buying a home. Many people can't get a foot in the door because of much higher property prices. Do...
Anneliese
The government and banks should just let the market crash normally so prices of houses can go down. This fake businesses of propping up the housing isn't good for people trying to buy their first home. It's only helping those with investment properties.
Mar 12, 21

Do you think Leaders and Presidents should have age limit to run? Even normal work force make people retire by the age of 65.
Cuddles
Look at Trump! He should not have been allowed to get into the position he is in. Perhaps there should be a test of mental competence?!
Jan 10, 21

Do you believe in ghosts? And if so, have you ever seen or experienced a weird situation?
Nearby
When I was seven I see. but is eyes and a cut off hand. very horrifying.I I only learned later, where was the Japanese battlefield before. can't see when I grow up.
Once staying in a hotel, the hotel actually gave us two people, a room with three beds. When I was sleeping, I heard someone talking to me in my ear. The problem was that I couldn't understand the words. He was like speaking French. I can't see anyone.
Dec 21, 20

Currently in most countries around the world, only rich women can access IVF treatments which is absolutely unjust. IVF should be made affordable for all women!
Arthur
It may seem harsh but a law should be introduced to stop junkies and lifetime dole bludgers from having offspring altogether, some folks need to have a licence to have kids otherwise deformed and neglected, unwanted kids will be permanently dependent on welfare
Nov 20, 20

Do you agree? I guess we could also send their followers and fans up there too. Elon Musk could shoot them into the sky.
Lachelle B
Why would you subject Mars to such punishment? There's no mirrors, make up or labels, and worst of all no social media!!!!!!! What will they do?
Oct 16, 20

When you buy a product or service, you expect to either receive what you pay for or get a refund or exchange when you do not so how is it legal that airlines and accommodation sites (for example) are not required to give you a refund when they have not provided you with a service you have paid for? If you have paid for a flight or a stay (or both) and the service is either not provided or cancelled by them, that they do not have to refund you for services not provided? This would...
NotFriedLikeMost
You failed to read the fine print before you made the purchase. Coming from that industry, it sucks...yes...but you bought something without reading the legal implications, thus, you contracted yourself to it. Shitty...agreed...but, thats the world we are in.
May 19, 26

So they told you to buy a dog with a fluffy coat. You bought that dog with a fluffy coat. Soon you realize that fluffy coat needs to be groomed every 6 weeks at the cost of 100 to $200. Do you take your dog into a groomer to get groomed or do you groom them yourself. I have a Cavapoo and I groom him myself. Am I very good? No but I always say it's better than nothing, I just saved $150 and fur will grow back. Maybe next time the result will turn out...
APB
I'd shop around you are paying too much...Benson (that's him in the picture) only costs me $80 tops and sometimes less...and he is a pretty big dog... that is cheaper than Netflix...and I know which one I'd get rid off first!
Apr 29, 26

Do you watch sports on TV that you played earlier in life? If you do, does watching remind you of the good plays you made, the camaraderie that you had, and the sense of accomplishment that you experienced when you won? Would you consider watching live events or even coaching now? I miss playing, and I would love to hear from others who played. The game was all about winning and having fun, but it was also learning how to lose gracefully.
NotFriedLikeMost
I played baseball at a high level right up unti I was 21. I was scouted by the Los Angeles Dodgers at age 17...they had the rights to me for 5 years. I injured my knee at 19 and got over sports immediately. The irony is I can HARDLY watch baseball on TV, it is far better live.
Apr 04, 26

Has anyone been in a committed/married relationship for a few or many years, and realized that they do not love that person, and probably never did? You don't dislike them, but there is nothing there emotionally for you. In this case, there are no children. What would you do?
Morenita
Omg is that me talking\u2026\u2026\u2026I really felt like I just wrote that. I can\u2019t breathe lol it gave me anxiety I really thought I posted this. I\u2019ve been separated from my husband since June that\u2019s like 6 months. I\u2019m still in shook I\u2019ve been trying to survive this.
I\u2019ve been married for 17yrs and been there done that. I was mentally exhausted dealing with his drinking problems but I stood by his side no matter what but at the same time I was losing myself. I\u2019m so used to him seventeen years never thought I\u2019d make it that far with someone. We have no children together. I do love him but I think I out grew him. I changed I stopped drinking to make things better but he was still struggling. He said I gave up on him and we were supposed to be together til death do us part. But I was losing my mind over him. What do you think?????? Now he\u2019s been living in an Rv trailer\u2026..so long story short, don\u2019t stay if you\u2019re not happy
Dec 30, 25

When I was younger, I was always having holidays with my children, but now they are grown up and have their own lives. Should I still try to spend time with them in the holidays?
blunder boy
time spent with family is always worthwhile most of the times , my kids tend to treat me like a kid now because technology has surpassed my level of understanding, I had no idea my seniors card had a free bus pass on it until I spent 2 hours walking home having forgotten my wallet and I don't have a phone, where are all the phone booths ,I don't know life is moving way to fast
Nov 25, 25

We are in the process of looking for a new home. Finally, we settled on a suitable property in our chosen location. We decided to offer the full price asked for. We thought we were getting a good deal. We tuned up to the Estate Agent's office to pay our deposit and were extremely upset when he told us that the price listed was a starting point for negotiations, not a fixed price, and that the sellers now wanted 30K more. Would we agree? No, I felt...
BLM
Gazumping is legally if it is based on a verbal offer; however, gazumping is illegally if it is based on a written offer (without stating the listed price was a starting point for negotiations). Still a lack of business ethics (under both circumstances) - which shouldn't surprise anyone on this planet (aka Earth)! FYI: Caveat Emptor applies in all business transactions (verbal and/or written)!
Nov 19, 25

The fact is that overtourism is getting worse in cities where Airbnb is heavily restricted: in Amsterdam or Barcelona, the introduction of stringent restrictions on short term rentals have coincided with a steep increase in guest nights driven by hotels, and a surge in accommodation prices for travellers. Have you ever experienced overtourism?
Pearlz
I experienced it in Shanghai. As I stood looking at the lights along the riverside a crowd of Chinese people who were tourists came past and somehow sucked me into the middle of the them. They were so crowded together I wasn't able to get out and was dragged along with them. I felt pretty stupid as I was far taller than they were but clearly they are very used to being "together". I started to feel afraid as I had no idea where "we" were going so I fought harder and eventually I was able to get out at the back by slowing down. Then I had to find my husband who wondered where I had got to because one minute I was there but the next gone. I walked back as he walked forward and I was very happy to see him. I am now very wary of crowds.
Oct 11, 25

While money is important for meeting basic needs and providing comfort, education has the long-term benefits of personal growth, opportunities, and social impact, making it more valuable in many respects. What would you say? What is more important in life, money or education?
BLM
You can achieve an education with money. Money offers financial stability. Money brings happiness (lack of survival issues). Money provides opportunities (on personal levels and business levels). Money offers social status, etc. (the more money you have - the better society treats you). 'We' all reside on a capitalistic planet (based on personal greed and corporate corruption). Other words, on a capitalistic planet - MONEY is WAY more important than attaining an EDUCATION (aka the Donald John Trump Effect/Capitalism). FYI: Money is not the root of all evil, people are the root all evil!
Aug 09, 25

I have recently heard about 29 'Urgent Care Clinics' in Victoria, Australia. I even spoke to a family member, and she also had not heard. The Clinic is available for those with severe pain or broken bones that need urgent care. It is free. They may possibly help to free the hospitals in the emergency sections. Has anyone heard of these clinics before?
Tim @miAimTIL
Find your nearest Medicare Urgent Care Clinic
You can walk into any Medicare Urgent Care Clinic (https://www.health.gov.au/find-a-medicare-uccMedicare UCC) in Australia for bulk billed urgent care. Use the map to find your local clinic.
Urgent care is when you need medical attention for an illness or injury that can be managed without a trip to the emergency department, but cannot wait for a regular appointment with a general practitioner (GP).Medicare UCCs provide acute episodic care and treatment that does not require a hospital admission. This may include: minor infections, minor fractures, sprains, sports injuries and neck and back pain, urinary tract infections (UTIs), sexually transmitted infections (STIs), minor cuts, insect bites and rashes, minor eye and ear problems, respiratory illness, gastroenteritis, mild burns.
Medicare UCCs are open early and late, seven days a week. Please bring your Medicare card or number with you.The Government is investing $1.4 billion over seven years to establish and operate Medicare UCCs across Australia. This includes $644.3 million over three years from 2025-26 Budget to establish 50 additional Medicare UCCs, expanding the current network of 87 to a total of 137 clinics nationwide.
Aug 05, 25

If a family member divorces their mate, do you treat the former in-law as an out-law? I do not feel you should have to sever ties with someone that has been considered as family for many years. It is really hard to cut ties with friends and family during and after a split. There are boundaries. What do you choose to do? Is it different in every case, or totally taboo?
NotFriedLikeMost
You answered yourself...."CONSIDERED as family".
When you divorce...you are divorcing THE ENTIRE FAMILY. Same as when you married...you married INTO THE ENTIRE FAMILY.
Only thing you should keep tabs on is if you had children together. You can be cordial, but you DO NOT need to be a part of their lives moving forward. And, by "their lives" I mean the rest of the family...not the kids, lol.
Cut ties, it didn't work out...oh well. You don't have to hate anyone, but you also do not have to maintain relationships "just because".
Jun 30, 25

Genetics are fascinating, my sister is a mirror image of our mother looks, personality, love of fishing and camping, same taste in clothing, same tiny shoe size it's all there, they were often taken for sisters when Mum was younger. I was gifted with her medical issues thanks Mum.
Larry S 382961
My dad was strict due to his Danish family. Mum was of Scottish blood and strict but me. I am a softy when it comes to seeing hurt. My grandson is very soft and I feel his hurt and can only give him a big hard hug.
May 19, 25

Should parents help their children buy their first home, or guarantee their mortgage? What about buying an investment property? What if there is more than one child, and you can only afford to help one?
Andrew C 287196
Nobody should be allowed to buy an "investment property" nor a "flip property" - it should be illegal to own more than the one house you actually live in. Anything else is just pure greed at someone else's expense and simply causes increases for house prices. \ud83d\ude20
May 04, 25

Of all those, research shows the top impulse purchases are clothing, household goods, and food and groceries. What would you say? What do people buy without thinking?
BLM
Everything I buy I think about it (is this a want or a need) - do I still spend money foolishly on my wants (clothing and sneakers) - yes - can I afford to do so - yes - is it going to affect my standard of living (while I am still above ground) - NO! Could I blame this affection on clever advertising (buying without thinking aka impulse buying) - YES! Do I - NO! I have never been a 'saver' - because I enjoy spending money TOO MUCH. However, I have two tax-free-civil-service-retirement checks coming in every month, still getting interest from numerous saving accounts, and I am getting alimony from my ex-wife (till she dies, I die before her, or I get marry again (HAHA) before she dies). Life is SWEET, except for the annoying Christians trying to get me to 'save' my SOUL - I am a hard-core-atheist - WHY would I want to 'save' my SOUL.
Apr 16, 25

When children are growing up & you find out that they are well-educated, or they are behind in their work, do you actually keep pushing them after school to pick up their pace or further their education for their future? I believe in a certain extent without going over board kids need to be kids & enjoy growing up as kids & do what kids do, but also without pushing too hard, lead them into the right direction in their education. I don't believe that kids need to stick their heads...
JoeB
Not everybody needs to be a clever clogs. Where would the world be without its truck drivers, sales assistants, drain layers etc.
Mar 31, 25

Rewardia has a lot of ads, and they don t bother me at all except for that little bunny .it freaks me out. It s bringing back too many childhood memories of my parents hunting rabbits at Kangaroo Valley then having to eat rabbit stew for dinner ugh! It's funny how little things trigger buried memories I will be glad when Easter is over.
Roeli L
Easter is NOT about bunnies, but about a Living Lord Jesus Christ. Get to KNOW Him as your personal Lord and Saviour!
Mar 23, 25

Scams are everywhere these days email, phone calls, SMS, and more seeking personal details for identity theft, investments, deep fakes, security, and romance scams. People lose millions globally. An older family member had her accounts hacked when someone stole her phone, even attempting to steal her pension by changing bank details. Luckily, they got nothing but the phone, though they took her confidence and security. I regularly get scam messages and block them, never...
Glenystas
I called in on a friend and she was on the phone and sat in front of her computer... She acknowledged me, and indicated she was on phone so I put the kettle on for a cuppa and went back to the lounge which is where her computer was... suddenly realised she was about to give someone access to her pc, and I jumped in and got her attention, she told me what was happening and I advised her to call technical support herself if she was having problems cos it sounded like a scam to me. She ended the call immediately, she made the phone call and it was a scam. Thank goodness I dropped in when I did.
Mar 20, 25

Nothing is as it seems means that we aren't able to see the whole picture. Something may seem to be true, but we don't know all the facts. This is true from both a global perspective and a private perspective. I'll give you an example of how gossip in families can influence people's thoughts. How do you deal with that?
Tigera
I ignore it! I don't have time for gossiping. If they can't say it to my face it's not worth me mentioning it.
Mar 17, 25

I wanted to catch an Uber to a large Restaurant...they quoted $56... I order the Uber to go to a nearby location without a restaurant...3 minutes walk away...$26......in another example...my son caught an Uber in the early evening today and the journey cost $26...when he wanted to come home later...the return journey was $56...HOWEVER the same return journey to a nearby house was $26... So if you are going out somewhere good it is expensive....an...
keimanzero
Duh! Do not use Uber or Door Dash. Most folks have driving licenses and cars (I do not so I walk places my friends with vehicles cannot take me) and with an intelligent prez and veep in the White House again, fuel prices are coming down fast! Our local Turkey Hill gas prices drop by a penny a day and have ever since Harris opened her big mouth to bad-mouth Vance and Trumpy! The reason for the high Uber prices? The Uber drivers are fixing their own 'guesstimated' rates! Too many of us are just plain too damned lazy! You drive to a gym and exercise for an hour and then drive home again or to work! How re walking to the gym and then back home? I walk about 6 miles a day to and from our local parks and I am 75 years young!
Jan 17, 25

Hi all, I am interested in what vouchers Rewardia members redeem. I tend to get the Woolworths vouchers to help with the increased cost of groceries. Do members redeem to get vouchers for gifts, or hobbies?
Debbie
I haven\u2019t yet for vouchers etc as still building up points, I have a little over 40,000. Maybe vouchers and or cash back I\u2019d go for. I\u2019m promising myself to log in everyday this year, so far have missed one day lol \u2026. good luck with points everyone \ud83d\ude0a
Jan 07, 25

Working too hard - it s true, we all seem to be chasing something. More money, higher status, the plush corner office, you name it. I see so many people trading countless hours of their lives to buy stuff they don t want to impress people they really don t like. End this madness. Invest in yourself. Take a break. Go on a vacation. Life is too short! What would you say? What are some bad habits people develop in their 30s?
Rosemary E 383382
For some it is buying everything on credit card, getting into heavy debt instead of saving for the items first as I was taught to do. To me doing that was a reward to myself. I have never had a Credit Card
Dec 02, 24

In your dreams, whose home would you love to be invited to for Christmas. I have been tuning in of late for a bit of inspiration. After watching Nigella Lawson Christmas shows, she goes to the bottom of the list. Being prediabetic, she would tip me over the edge with the first mouthful. I wouldn't mind being invited to share a meal cooked by Gordon Ramsay or Jamie Oliver. Merry Christmas to all.
Andrew C 287196
The only reason to visit Gordon Ramsay would be to wash his mouth out with a ton of soap!! The guy shouldn't even be allowed on TV constantly swearing. \ud83d\ude20
Dec 20, 24

What is your favourite Christmas Carol/Song and why? Mine is Jingle Bell Rock because it's a reasonably modern song with a happy sound to it.
Clever gal
Silent night. I am a Christian and love the carols especially the ones about why we celebrate the season
Dec 10, 24

Children growing up in wealthy families may seem to have it all, but having it all may come at a high cost. Wealthier children tend to be more distressed than lower-income kids, and are at high risk for anxiety, depression, substance abuse, eating disorders, cheating, and stealing. What are your thoughts? How does money affect personality?
DAphne 1604241
I'm surprised to hear this. The kids I knew from a higher income bracket seemed more confident than many others.
Dec 07, 24

What about stepchildren who break up families with their selfishness and lies. I have had enough of that, especially with my husband's spoiled grown daughter who is almost 40 and still expects daddy to pay her way. She manipulates him and makes him feel guilty so he will give her money, even though she can afford to drink and smoke cigarettes and eat out all the time.
blunder boy
the horse has bolted here I believe, 40 and still manipulating dad who will never be reigned in, as a dad/grandfather I have tried to give my kids everything I can but as they grow older the most valuable thing I can give them is advise not help, its dad who needs to close his wallet, reliance is an addiction and his daughter needs to learn to live below her means, life is tough and dad needs to start teaching life lessons its the best thing he can do for his daughter
Dec 04, 24

Communication is key to handling various values in a partnership. There are many long-lasting relationships among people of differing political or religious viewpoints. You might give your marriage a chance to survive if you can properly discuss and disagree. What are your thoughts? How do those who are married work through their differences?
Henrietta
Have read the comments with interest. I was 2 months from turning 16 when I met my husband at the local swimming pool. I was keen on one of the attendants but the one that walked me home was to be my future husband. The following day (Saturday) I ad to do some shopping at the local shopping centre & lo & behold, who do I see but my future husband (Dave). He couldn't remember the house number of the house where I lived, so he was riding his bike, hoping that by riding around, that it would jog his memory of where I lived. I called out to him & that was the start of us becoming a couple. That was the 30th June & on the 12th July, I asked him if we could get engaged as I knew he was going into the English army for 2 years National Service. Luckily, he said "yes" but I didn't an engagement ring until my 16th birthday which was in the August just prior to him doing his duty. We remained engaged until Dave got demobbed 2 years later which gave me time to save for my "bottom drawer" & to save up some money. The outcome of all this, is that last month we celebrated our 64th Wedding Anniversary. I can't say that it has always been easy but those 2 years being engaged gave us time to become friends, we've always tried to compromise & to talk things through. Afterall, we are each individuals with different opinions so you have to take this into consideration. We are both now in our 80's, do things together, as he does the cooking & I do food preparation, such as vegies etc. Still very happy to this day. Hope I haven't bored anyone with the story of my marriage.
Oct 01, 24

One of the biggest barriers to sharing has to be ego. Some people simply won't admit that they have made a mistake. This may be through fear of how others might see them or because they believe they don't make mistakes (in this case it's usually somebody else's fault ). So, how is it with you? How often do you admit when you are wrong about something? Is it difficult for you to do so?
Roses
I don\u2019t have a problem admitting I\u2019m wrong \u2026. My partner however has a saying that goes \u201cI\u2019m not always right but I\u2019m never wrong\u201d
Sep 22, 24

If you could travel to anywhere in the world and money was not a constricting factor, where would you go ? I was supposed to do a tour of England, Ireland and Scotland in 2020, but unfortunately Covid intervened, and I since had to use the money for house repairs. I would do that trip if I could, and I would also love to see other places as well, maybe Italy and Greece. Where would you go if money was not an issue?
Asesh S
My wife is planning a trip for our 30th wedding anniversary to Switzerland and Netherlands so I guess that is where I would be going soon
Aug 30, 24

Considering the shortage of tradesmen and other educated people, should post-secondary training and education be free?
MoB
Education is never free, the question should be, should taxpayers pay for all education or should parents pay for some of the education their children get.
Aug 06, 24

I love watching cooking shows like Master Chef on TV, cooks from all over the world on YouTube and chefs on Facebook. I regularly am trying out new recipes, which fortunately are usually a success. My husband is very appreciative of my efforts. I especially enjoy trying out a variety of vegetarian dishes. What is your favourite recipe you would like to share?
Pongo
I once won a comp\u00e8ttion for a Canadian fair cake. But have lost the recipe if anyone has a copy could they please send it to me
Jul 03, 24

You can buy a British car...that is mostly built in China American, French and German cars that are often built elsewhere Ford Transits and a lot of Teslas are now all made in China...a friend of mine recently hired a Kia car that was designed in the UK and manufactured in Slovakia...never been near Korea...how can that be a Korean car?...maybe it is time to give up on worrying about where cars are made?...and maybe it's time to stop paying top dollar for some...
MoB
Most cars will be made in China very soon. What the average Joe Blow doesn't seem to get is that China won't need a war to take over the western world. They own so much property in western countries, they control most of the western world one way or another. Our left wing goverments think the Chinese way is the way to go. I can only thank God that I was born when I was born an will miss the distruction of the western world as we know it.
Jun 28, 24

How would you feel if you went to the eye doctor and found out that for 14 years this doctor has been hiding the fact from you that you have cataracts? You have been having vision trouble all this time and have been depending on others for transportation because your vision is not good enough to drive. Now you find out, and he is still trying to talk you into glasses, even though glasses make everything seem dark. Would you be angry? Would you sue the Dr?
lippy loo
What sort of doctor would do that. I was told I had cataracts for years but not bad but eventually he told me it was time to get the eyes operated on. I was informed all the time. I have an eye test every year and am sent a reminder. I am due for one now.
I think sometimes one has to change their doctor or medical person just to keep them honest and yourself in the know. My sister was very ill and her doctor for 10 years kept saying it was nothing. She passed due to cancer that has spread through her body and this so called doctors lack of care.
I always say get a second or even third opinion and if you still think something is wrong keep going. Many doctors fob women off as being hysterical, menopausal or whatever. Do not just accept their opinion. Investigate, educate yourself as much as possible and do not be afraid to ask the questions and demand answers. Of course, no need to be rude or abusive.
Jun 27, 24

How do you go about with helping your kid who's being bullied at school and the teachers won't do anything about it? My daughter doesn't want me to confront these kids as it will make them bully even more. I feel lost in trying to support her
Secret Squirrel
Schools are very unwilling to acknowledge this unless it happens right in front of a teacher. Perpetrators are smart,they pick their moments. That being said if the school won't help you there are a few things I found with my youngest son helped. Listen, so they feel heard and validated,talk about your child's feelings.
Try and work out who is who in the zoo,your child's friends,the bully's as well as those that stand by do nothing . Encourage your child to avoid, those that harass them ,so not to be in an area of the school yard,walk away when being verbally harassed,ignoring them as bully's get bored pretty quick and move on if they can't get the reaction they want. If it gets physical they must report it to the teacher. Specifically in my son's case it got to the point where I told him to retaliate and stand up for himself as the teacher had no interest in his problems and would move him on. I told rhe school this, they weren't happy,but it made the bully think twice about tripping him over and pushing him down rhe stairs again. Finally I got a private councillor. After consulting my sons g.p he was put on a mental health plan* to support him and to get 5 sessions free of private councilling with a child specialist of my choice. Best thing I ever did. He had someone else to talk to,was given great advice,talked about coping with stress and bullying. * the session involved together councilling as a family and part individual which was confidential. Things rhe councillor thought I should know was discussed with my son and then we talked about it together. He continued going for 3 years. Now,he is 18,and happy,doesn't care who likes him or not and actually has had many of his ex bully's apologise to him. By the way ,when school found out about the councillor,they contacted them,but was told they couldn't discuss anything with them. The school offered a councillor for him,after 4 years of ignoring my son,we refused.
Jun 24, 24

Wait until you have saved a comfortable nest egg, or travel while young and able? There's a conflict of opinion about whether our 20s and 30s are for exploration or hard work. What is your opinion? Is there room enough for both at a young age, or should young people be focused on securing themselves financially first (buying a house and securing a career)?
Rose de lune
Waiting for too long sucks. I think it's better done before retirement, while one is still healthy and able bodied. But, it can still be done after retirement too, depending on personal circumstances.
Jun 06, 24

Certainly in Australia, our big bakeries seem to be using almost the same slightly raw tasting (but long-lasting) dough and making it into different shapes and then lying about what it is. We have baguettes and french sticks...sourdough bread...the bagels were some of the funniest...there has been no attempt to make it authentic, it's just the same bread in a different shape....most of it is rubbish...how are they allowed to lie to the consumer and sell these products?
Suzanne S 1017427
We have a great bakery here in my town, the owner/ baker is French..he makes authentic croissants, sourdough etc .
May 27, 24

When it comes to meals, desserts, snacks, etc., everyone has their likes and dislikes, but there are two things I can't recall anyone ever saying they didn't like: pizza or ice cream. Some people may not like certain ice cream flavours or pizza toppings, but I can't think of anyone who ever said they didn't like pizza or ice cream in general. So, it's made me want to ask: is there anyone reading this who doesn't like ice cream, or pizza, or both?
blunder boy
Ice cream is the 8th wonder of the world, I have a shelf dedicated to ice cream in my freezer, You can celebrate/commiserate wins and losses,It is the ultimate answer when the kids are in dispute it also helps with falls,It is a great reward for anything that needs a reward, there are so many ways you can eat it, It is a wonderful product heaven sent
Apr 25, 24

They keep saying in the paper that people can't buy a home. My daughter has her house up for sale at the moment. It is in a reasonable neighbourhood, close to schools, shops and transport. It is 4 bedroom, 2 bathrooms and in the range for 1st home buyers. They keep coming up with the most ridiculous reasons to try to knock 100k off the price. I need to repaint, I need to put new carpet in. The best one has been, it is near a freeway. Well if you want to live in this...
Nomes 2024
I guess they are trying their luck with a low ball offer to see if they can get lucky. The buyers want to get a lower price to reduce mortgage or if flipping have more funds to renovate. Also agree a lot of people want to walk into a house that\u2019s done up and ready to move into but they should expect to pay more if they want something like that.
Keep firm in the asking price if it\u2019s comparable to others in the area and it\u2019s a reasonable asking price. Hope it works out.
Apr 14, 24

Went to the local recycling centre to get rid of some oil from car oil changes that I had done over the recent past. I accumulate the stuff until I have a reasonable amount as going there takes well over an hour and back including the time spent waiting to get in, pay, and drop off the oil. Over the years the price to do this has varied from 50 cents a litre to free to 90 cents. To my surprise the cost had now jumped to $2.50 a litre. Unbelievable. I...
Andi
I recently became a certified master composter in NJ, I learned so much about recycling and the costs these facilities have to pay. If they don't make money to cover their employees and the overhead they will shut down. Now that China won't take our recycling we have a huge problem.
We use the items and we have a responsibility to get rid of the left over from the product.
I am 1 of 6 people who are involved in collecting soft plastics for the Trex Co (plastic decking materials, etc.) and for every 1,000 pounds we collect we get a very nice bench. We are a small 55+ community and in 1 year we have collected 2 tons of plastic!!!!
Win-win, cha-ching!!!!
Apr 11, 24

So I have 2 friends who I like to have over once a week at my home.....only thing is they always bring one or more of their friends along with them even though I tell them I'd just like the 2 of them over. Would it be rude of me to turn "their friends" away, as they were clearly not invited? I don't know these people, by the way
Mayhem
Pet hate for me this one \u2026.!! I never arrive unannounced and expect the same \u2026. Please don\u2019t bring people I don\u2019t know. 20 years I\u2019ve been here on my own half dozen people know where I live. I like it like that ..definitely a hermit here \u2026. Maybe I should put that on my gate \u2026.!!
Apr 09, 24

To ensure you're prepared to turn your setbacks into success, make sure you... what do you do exactly? How do you rebound after failure?
Susan KTC
\u201cImagine yourself 5 years from now, you\u2019re in the best shape, happier than ever, you\u2019re with your soulmate and financially successful. The only way this becomes a reality is if you work for it, don\u2019t wish for it, work for it!\u201d A quote from a man I really admire, Morgan Freeman.
Mar 19, 24

Appetite and hunger can both be triggered by many things that include sight, smell, and changes in the digestive system. However, your appetite can be influenced by things like boredom or undefined thirst that may lead to creative thoughts. What do you reckon? Is it better to ignore cravings or to eat in moderation?
Denise C (Qld)
Eat in moderation but don't deny your cravings. Try to balance your calorie intake to accommodate your guilty urges.
Mar 07, 24

Humans have been dumping thousands of tons of space junk in orbit around the Earth since the 1960s....nobody cared much until it started getting busy up there...hitting the hundreds of nice new shiny satellites or spaceships in orbit...the answer seems to be to use private companies to send up satellites and push all the garbage back at the Earth...so it all burns up on re-entry...aside from the extra damage this pollution this will do in our atmosphere...what happens if several...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
It's getting crowded up there. There are over 8,000 satellites hanging out and an average of 8 a day being launched.
Mar 06, 24

Food is food, everyone can agree with that. But what kind of things will you be disposed to eat? Will you eat bugs? Personally, depend on the bug, I will be willing to try it while travel. But will you eat any kind of mammal animal, or just the ones that are considered eatables? For example, dog is eatable in some places in Asia, but the most of the people wouldn't eat it. Would you eat rabbit or horse? Maybe those are more funny to hear, but in some parts of Spain...
PatCat
As a child I was horrified to be told that our dogs were being fed horse flesh. Rabbits were the main protein food of many working class people during the Great Depression and on holidays as child I often hunted with my father for a "bunny" for dinner when we camped on a dairy farmer's property. Depending on circumstance and how desperately hungry I was I might try anything that looked like food from whatever source if that need arose.
Feb 23, 24

Having a pacifier on hand is very handy to have, or maybe not. I see & understand when a baby or a child needs one, but if you can even better if they are not used to it. In my opinion, I would never introduce this to any child or baby for many reasons. I was so lucky that my children never had it. What I really find that is disgusting when you're in public & you see a child about 3 4 yrs old & still have one. Don't parents know it is really bad for their gum & new teeth...
LindaB
I never had kids because I can't stand a screaming child and wasn't prepared to take the risk. It would have been my luck to get one of those babies that cry constantly. You may think that's a selfish attitude but I wouldn't have had the experiences I have had if I had kids. In my opinion..... anything for a quiet kid - including giving them a dummy.
Jan 25, 24

How do you feel when you find out, the person you're dating, in their 30s & still living with their mother? Do you find this is strange & weird? Many adult children, these days, are still living much longer with their parents or either parent. Is it really a problem, as to me, it can or there is a suitable reason to why they still live all together. In today's world there are many reasons that this does happen, will you just judge a book by the cover, or will you understand...
Cute
To me family is so important and where I live we have four generations living in separate houses but on the same property. We don't live in each others pockets but I just adore having my great grandson around he brings me a lot of joy and I believe he keeps me feeling younger. I think it is sad that so many families seem to be separated.
Jan 08, 24

In our today's society, vertically everyone uses internet & platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc. I hate these sites for the fact that most people outlay all their dirty laundry here. What ever happened to keep your private life private. Most people that do this, simply don't realise what a can of worms it opens. I believe that you allow many times that certain people can target you & even to the point of getting harm. These sites are I suppose ok if you're just...
Holly Cat
Well if someone airs their dirty laundry on one of these sites, it's their choice and the site didn't ask them to air their dirty laundry, so it's not the site invading their privacy if they chose to air their dirty laundry. The sites are there for us to use, but it's not required to post personal information/air our dirty laundry.
Dec 15, 23

I don't have Fire Ants...but there are big signs along the motorway telling me to look out for them and be careful...there were no pictures...so I could not recognise them... and they did not explain why they were bad... Australia has a lot of really nasty ants...but I did find out that they were looking for them WITH HELICOPTERS....that is true!...how big are they?...why use a helicopter?...good to we are being taken care of by the authorities...eh?...what...
Angie
Spotting Ants from a helicopter.... \ud83d\ude02 (Sorry, I don't mean to laugh when this is obviously a serious situation)
But seriously... this takes "like looking for a needle in a haystack" to a whole new level
Dec 16, 23

Should you wake someone from a nightmare? What do you think? Apparently it's best to leave the person alone & allow them to sleep through it. They are more likely to forget about the dream if they can continue to the end of it. Whereas, if awakened in the middle of a nightmare, it can make it difficult to forget the imagery or get back to sleep.
Teri 1282723
I take medication for PTSD and it doesn't work 100% of the time. At least 2 - 5 nights a month I wake up screaming. Last time was a mumble and 2 screams and I THANK MY SON each time he wakes me and rescues me from the horrors I'm in. My vote is WAKE THE PERSON UP!!
Dec 14, 23

Have you ever applied for a job on Social Media? Just for the heck of it, I decided to give it a try just to see what would happen. I applied for three or four so-called jobs and went along with their questions. When they thought they had me hooked, they asked for my bank information. Of course, I did not give them that info. Be careful when applying for jobs, a lot of them are scams.
ShawneeBaby
Isn't that the problem with social media? So much fake information I don't know why people keep using it.
Nov 14, 23

Does anyone still write in cursive, and if you were taught cursive handwriting, when did you go to school? I'm curious to know when it started to get phased out, as I was taught to print my letters in primary school in the 00's. What are your thoughts on how handwriting is now, especially with digital technology becoming more commonplace? Or how do you think handwriting etiquette evolve over time?
Gary P 1194496
I learned cursive many years ago. I am 68 now and I enjoy writing. It should have continued to be taught. Technology tends to lessen the thought process in my humble opinion .
Nov 07, 23

My husbands' family does an Xmas draw every year and I sometimes think they forget my husband has been off work the last few years and that we are struggling and due to the price they spend we don t take part. How do I tell them I wish they would lower the price without seemingly hurting my husband s feelings or making us seem cheap to them
Yaya
Fake covid and go into "lockdown" then do your own thing and try not to get caught...good luck...do not actually get covid...that would suck
Oct 26, 23

Do you believe in saving a nest egg for your future life to when you retire from work? My answer is by all means, if you can afford it, in today's world. I find it so hard to keep up with everything that you hardly have any money left over to invest. Then, when you do invest, who do you trust? One person says this, another says that, it goes on forever. Seeing a financial advisor, OMG it does your head in. Nothing is so simply any more, too many technicalities to sort...
BLM
Live fast. Die young. Leave a good-looking corpse (and you will not have too 'worry' about saving MONEY for your retirement)!
Oct 06, 23

Hello, I am wondering if y'all watch cartoons as adults? I'm 43 years old and always a kid at heart. Always. Who will admit they watch cartoons and can you post your favorite even if it doesn't air anymore. Pray tell.
Joy G
Love some old cartoons like Milton the Monster, Casper the friendly ghost, Prince Planet, Astro Boy, Woody Woodpecker and the list goes on.
Sep 23, 23

Home loan rates % will they come back down? I am hearing every month that they are rising, and people are becoming highly stressed and sadly starting to miss out on things, and in some case crucial things. My question is, does anyone know what is really going to happen in the near future? Will it get to the point that people can simply not afford to pay?
LindaB
Interest rates are still very low in comparison to historical rates but house prices make the current rates unaffordable. People are borrowing beyond their means to get the house of their dreams first off instead of buying small and working towards the house they really want. My parents built our childhood home when they first married and added on and made improvements as the family grew and needs changed. Our house was originally a 3-bed, 1 bath, 1 living room with a fireplace and ended up a 5-bed, 2 bath, 2 living rooms with an extended dining room and central heating throughout to accommodate the family of 7 that we ended up as. To a certain extent, people's greed and immigration has pushed up house prices, which also has an effect on the amount of interest they have to pay, regardless of the rates.
Sep 16, 23

What piece of advice would you give your younger self? My advice would be not to care what anyone thought of me. Just do what made me happy. Missed out on so much I feel as I cared what anyone would think, or I let fear get the best of me
Lones
Be more frugal, I was just told I am too frugal? \ud83e\udd23\ud83e\udd23if I didn\u2019t purchase the groceries we would be skin and bones
Aug 18, 23

Your mother has met a man only 6 weeks ago, and tells you she is about to marry him. You found out some information about her new husband to be, and this information is extremely distressing. You tell your mother, but she still marries him. Do you attend the wedding?
Ketyad
6 weeks is much too short a period of time to decide to marry unless the man is 99 with a foot in the grave and a few million in the bank, then it should be "where do I sign up"!
Jul 18, 23

My hair, at 62 years old, is starting to do grey. It's streaked grey in my dark brown. My hair is long. I need some opinions, suggestions. Should I dye it?
Elizabeth J 447888
After having dark hair since I was a baby I find that I am loving my greys. I really think grey can look quite stylish. I see grey hair everywhere these days. Are people going grey at a younger age or are young people dying their grey. I really feel it is the latter. Dark hair on a older person with a sallow complexion looks comical. A good bottle of purple shampoo and let it be is my recommendation Ruth.
Jul 15, 23

In NZ is winter and that means cold and flu time. How do you usually treat cold / flu? Do you buy pricey miraculous pills or hot drink from pharmacy? Do you have any tips from your grandparents or other family member? What work for you when you are sick?
Roslyn A
Stay away from work so I don't spread it! Anyway I usually have the flu vaccination so it would be unusual for me to get the flu.
Jul 21, 21

My dear parents have passed on & I am left with their lifetime memories of cards, letters that they have treasured & beautiful old photo's. Sadly, I do not recognise the people in many of the photo's. There are old telegrams, birth certificates, autograph books & plunket books. Dated around 1924. I would like to donate some of their memories to local museums, if they are interested. Sadly, some of their treasures mean nothing to anyone else, so I had a ceremonial burning. What...
Andrew C 287196
There is no "right" or "wrong" way. What you do with your own personal things is completely up to you and your own family. Nobody else's opinion matters nor is relevant. You might want to keep some, sell or donate some, or simply throw some out. You should course keep any legal documents and financial papers for a while though - people like the tax department can come back years later (in some places it can be 5 years, 7 years, 10 years, or longer).
Jun 17, 23

Well hello there! If you see the title of this discussion, you will probably thinking what is one angle. Well let me break it down for you, this One angle topic will refer to a person feeling trap in one part of life. Doesn t matter love study finances or anything. If they were staying in those part, no matter how small or big the situation is, they always feel trap. If you want your self in this kind of situation, the easier decision is to seek help. I know it sound...
APB
I have no idea what you are talking about..thank you Rewardia for our discussion of the day
..good choice...
Jun 10, 23

How hard is it to find a job related to your field of study after graduating?
Claude H
There are no jobs available when graduating from old age. They say firms are looking for experience, but I have 90 years of experience & no takers.
Jun 07, 23
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