Discussions of the day

What is your favorite short poem or quote from a person, book or poem? I really enjoy picking up quotes for inspiration or to help me express how I feel. Do you? Please share your personal favorites
Maria B 89860
I have come up with a few myself and this one in particular has amused quite a few kindred spirits:
"In my garden most things grow.Mostly things I didn't sow!"Some of you may have heard me sigh about this a few times and know what I mean!
Jan 03, 23

I think the pros are you not going to waste money on something that other person don't like/need/want, but on the other hand there is not any personal input to it anymore. I know some people from my family would get really mad if I give them gift voucher for Christmas, but some would be really happy about it. Where are you at? Gift voucher yes or no?
mary c
Yep- got one for my daughter at her fave Beauty Salon where she gets all her nails, hair, lashes things done. So different from her mummy at same age.
Nov 23, 22

As you age, do you find yourself reminiscing on your earlier years? Do you look back with fondness or regret? Would you change some of your choices, or are you happy with your outcome? What would you do differently?
Michelle S 553303
I'm almost 58 and my dad is 83 years old. I was emailing him on Monday and I told him how sorry I was that it was a very difficult day for him. You see it would have been my brother's 56th birthday except that he died 3 years ago in a car crash. As it was just my mum, dad, brother and myself growing up it is now only my dad and I who survive today as my mother passed away nearly 20 years ago. He said to me "Michelle, every day is a memory day". I told him that I'm finally old enough to understand that each day you find yourself reflecting on memories from the good, the bad and the ugly things that you've experienced in life and I find myself starting to play the "what if" game! What if I hadn't gone out to the disco and met the man who would have become my husband and the father of my children when I was supposed to be staying at a friend's house and not going out at all or what if I had been content to stay at the house my family had been living in, paid that mortgage off and reduced my full-time work to part-time and stayed home more often with my kids, instead of insisting that we renovate the home that I had inherited 75% of which was really my dream to do and to honour the memory of the ladies who gave it to me, but ultimately led to my husband going off with another woman he met while I was at work doing night shifts as an RN and then led to me ultimately having to walk away from and go bankrupt. I could do this all day but the nights are the worst. I don't think when I was younger that I could perceive of me at 57, hardly able to walk, with very little money and without an ability to do the things I used to love, including my job, and existing in constant pain. THIS me was abstract like a Picasso and bore no resemblance to who I am today and I think that we all reach a point in our lives where we can reflect on the good, the bad and the ugly and some of us can find peace in that, but I look back on my life, on my kids and EVERYTHING else and I ABSOLUTELY wish, with ALL my heart, that I hadn't ever been born! Thanks for reading.
Oct 19, 22

In this technological world, where machines are replacing by human power in each corner of life. We are surrounded by machines, and now restaurant owners want to replace staff to robot servers.
Pato Lo Duck
I would have to assume that you don’t have to tip a robot..(unless you get bad service and decide to tip it over..)
Oct 11, 22

The whole world seems to be "tooling up"...tripling its spend on high-tech weapons and war machinery ... suddenly cost isn't an issue.....it's a great time to have a job in modern combat manufacturing, isn't it? A real boom time for one and all...the tills are ringing...the more hi tech the better...they can't build it all fast enough...have we got enough drones? better strap some guns on those robots from Boston Dynamics...when are those submarines coming?....anybody else...
Rockchi
I wish Robin Williams was still around, just to hear him say "Good morning Austraaaaaliiiaaaa!!! But seriously the world is not looking great at the moment. At least the news has something else to talk about other than climate change
Sep 26, 22

Would making more time for ourselves, friends and family improve the quality of lives, tell us what you think?
Kathy C 90112
Sounds good if you can afford to, better work life balance, but production is directly linked to inflation, less production, higher inflation. Can you imagine , its hard enough as it is now, its been shown that lower production has caused many a countries into dire situations
Sep 24, 22

Anyone has any good book recs that don't have a lot of smut? But still have a good romance and not super childish
Thylas
What is Book Tok? I'm afraid those of us who are of older generations don't understand the modern terms that are used. I love books and reading though , and while I prefer real tangible books I will also read Kindle.
Aug 30, 22

Do you find living in a country area makes you a second class citizen, but a happier and healthier one?
Pearlz
I lived in the country and I was not happier. Anytime we had any type of medical problem we had to travel for an hour for treatment. Anytime we wanted to shop in a large store we had to travel for an hour. Our fuel cost more as did many other things due to transport. We had 2 TV stations and one local radio station. There were far more drugs around than we ever saw in the big smoke and our children got a better education and better jobs. Even 20 years later our friends who remained there still had to travel for some medical appointments. The only thing we did miss was the beach and stopped going once we had moved. Far too many people at suburban beaches.
Aug 19, 22

OK...scientists worked out that aluminium from cooking pots and pans could leach out into what was cooking and that we could be eating aluminium...YUCK...get rid of all your aluminium cookware...it's poisoning you...THEN...scientists said that aluminium is not only totally harmless....but also passes straight through your body too...since then we have another minor scare about aluminium...banned in industrial kitchens without explanation....and NOW most of the...
Christina C 466456
Yes it is bad for your health but it has superior cooking qualities.
Cast iron is the safest of all the metals if you're not prone to overdosing on Iron so it's great for women of reproductive age and growing children (due to needing extra iron) but not so great for men.
The most inert material you can cook with is soda lime glass or borosilicate glass. Stay away from leaded glasses which leach lead.
Aug 02, 22

I have never been a fan of Lego because little bits would go underneath furniture, or I would tread on them with bare feet. Only one of my children played with Lego but wasn't able to get them apart so would bite them. He would make weird things with his Lego and I would think "that's not what you are supposed to build with them" but now that is exactly what people are building with Lego. We have a Lego shop in our local shopping centre, and there are...
Juwels
Soon as they were invented they became adult toys. Kids don’t suddenly wake up one morning and say “I think I’m going to invent a game.
Jul 29, 22

I'm noticing more and more... scam adds -- cropping up on well known internet sites, like Google, YouTube, and I've heard that it's happening on Facebook and Twitter, etc. Recently there was one on YouTube, how to get rich easily on an add that came up when I was watching a video. Another was for a plug in device that claimed to reduce your electricity by up to 90 percent. Lol. I don't know how many people get sucked in by these scams, but people do...
Jude21
It is disgusting how many people are trying to scam others out of money on social media. Remember : If it sounds too good to be true...it probably isn't true!
Jul 27, 22

Do you have pets? If so, what kind? Do you have any interesting or unusual pets? Did you grow up with pets? My daughter has 2 rescue cats who are real characters & who have brought much joy into our lives. I like dogs, but I do prefer cats, as I love their independent nature. They can also be very affectionate & love attention. I didn't grow up with pets and if it were just me, I probably wouldn't have any, but they have brought much joy to the house with...
Pearlz
When I suggested this topic it was ignored. Perhaps it was the way I framed it. I am a cat person and while I have had dogs it's cats I can't live without. My 16 year old lady left us last September so I now only have 5 boys. They are all rescues so come with health problems but I love them, not like children but family members who are animals. My one rule is that they don't have human names, and I never use the same name twice, the name also has to suit the personality. All 5 have long fur which annoys my husband as he feels they shed, they don't really as they usually leave it on chairs or clothing. I have always had at least one cat other than when I lived overseas. All of the cats has it's own personality and all 5 own me. They are neurotic, bossy, fussy but love unconditionally and get very annoyed if we go away for any reason. They are very independent, dogs are far too needy for my liking, but they know if I'm not feeling well and will stay with me even if they have to hiss and growl at anyone that attempts to get closer. They help me garden, they always want to go with me when I walk and will hide so that I can't see them until they get frightened by a car or dog and I hear them crying. I had to carry one home from almost a block away one day and the bus scared him so much he almost got away from me. They are sticky beaks who have to know where I am at all times. They help me when I'm sewing or making the bed, oh that's great fun, they also enjoy a feather duster, getting into drawers, cupboards and washing baskets. I was missing one once and looked everywhere for him but I was pretty sure he hadn't left home. The following morning I turned the dryer on to air my towels and I heard a loud banging and when I looked his little face was looking through the dryer door at me. He had gotten in while I left the dryer open as I took the towels off the clothesline the previous afternoon. I hugged him so hard as it could have ended quite badly and he was very forgiving but hungry. Ny eldest son keeps birds and doesn't like cats, he says they are sneaky, my daughter has no pets but prefers dogs while my youngest son must take after me and has 5 cats. My grandchildren call me the crazy cat lady but they all love my cats. The feeling sadly is not reciprocated.
Jun 29, 22

Why is it that when rich and/or famous people do something illegal or immoral, they are excused? Nothing ever happens to them. Never get jailed, etc But if the average "Joe" does the same thing, they would be severely punished. Not fair.
Biscuit
Really ? Bill Cosby, O.J.Simpson, Martha Stewart, Harvey Weinstein, Oscar Pistorious, Robert Hughes, Gary Glitter, Rolf Harris and I could go on.
I know people raise these topics for the points but come on. Put some thought into it.
Jun 19, 22

It's thought that one of the reasons for rising rentals is the availability of short stay accommodation, run by them companies like those of Airbnb. Some people are saying that these companies should be regulated as they are helping to force up market rents, and they are taking advantage of the market to earn money for their particular-- company, and preventing some people from accessing long term rental properties. Your Views?
Jellypony
We had a brand new house we rented to a couple with 2 children for 4 years while we did our trip around Australia and I would never rent any thing again. The amount the real estate said was normal wear and tear was just total BS. Who can blow up an oven in 4 years? Tried to fix the water tank after their puppy chewed the wires, totally failed to any way. So with short term rentals I think the damage could be worse and I would never do that because there is no respect for other peoples belongings. Use and abuse then some of the better tenants are tarred with the same brush. Like most things there is always some one whom will spoil it for every one else. I read about a couple with 2 children and another on the way having to live in a tent because there aren't any rentals available in their area. It's sad and temporary housing needs to be arranged for these people. As much as I wouldn't rent any thing again surely there are others that would. Some are selling up as interest rates rise and this will only add to the problem but then a first home buyer gets a chance to buy. Rent is dead money so if the younger ones can buy it is better but then are they still going to be around that area in 3 or 4 years? It's a hard one that is for sure.
May 26, 22

Recently, Elon Musk, the world's richest person, has taken control of Twitter. What are your views on this? Will he make Twitter better or worse?
KD burner account
I don't understand why Elon and Twitter is such a big deal. Not to sound condescending but the majority of the world don't actually care about Twitter. On a side note: Notice how almost every time Elon is reported on in the news etc he is either doing some very silly dance or pulling a weird face when they show footage of him? Doesn't matter what channel. Does the media feel threatened by him or something?
May 18, 22

I started out with steak and burgers....then increasingly more Indian Food as a mainstay ... then suddenly didn't enjoy it much and live now mostly on Italian food...someone else did a similar thing but now lives on Chinese food...how about you?
Lachelle B
Two months ago I was getting a sore gut and became best friends with the toilet. I am now officially lactose intolerant which sucks. I used to drink two litres of milk a day. I will still eat my favourite 'creamed doughnuts' as a treat once a month and handle the consequences. Run Forrest Run!
May 06, 22

Do people tend to copy the ideas of others, especially the groups they belong to? Do they then shut out other ideas as a threat to their social position within their group.? When they said the world was not flat or that the Earth was not the centre of the Solar System, scientific groups and institutions and the church held the new ideas as evil. So do people today think for themselves and research reliable evidence, or do we still follow social beliefs?
JoeB
It’s my own idea to follow like a sheep, in fact I love sheep, slow roasted with duck fat potatoes and green beans…..lol
Apr 13, 22

So they are talking about having 4 rubbish bins now. A new one for glass only. Most people have 3 bins already. Where are we going to store this one? Council doesn't like you leaving they on the footpath, they look ugly. I sort all my rubbish, rubbish in the bin, recyclables in the other bin, compost to the compost bin, soft plastics to the supermarket, and hard rubbish to the tip, where you sort out electrical, batteries, drums, paint tins, green waste etc. Where's...
DrSuz
It would be okay if you could choose to have four VERY SMALL bins. Otherwise I’ll have no backyard left. Living on my own, it takes me months fill a large council bin, and I resent the large bins taking up so much space.
Apr 11, 22

Ok, that was a long winded title. As an example, my youngest daughter was diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum in the last year at 19. It is something that apparently often goes unrecognised in girls who are "high functioning" as they become adept at masking symptoms. Anyway, long story short, I am pretty sure as a woman in my 50's I am on the spectrum as well. Things that I had always thought of as just my own weird quirks are most likely symptoms. I also...
jdoubleu
You are not strange. We are all on the spectrum. Some a little crazy, others totally nuts. It only becomes a problem when it leads to dysfunction in your life. Labeling oneself can be detrimental because it is limiting. They are designed so professional people can group a set of behaviours easily. Do not take it seriously unless it becomes debilitating. Remember all these little quirks and traits make up the unique person you are.
Apr 09, 22

What does it mean to you? Is it really free? What is the price of freedom?
Bugalugs
So long as Governments, politicians and self-styled Do-Gooders who think they know better than everyone else stay out of the way and keep their mouths shut we have all the freedom we need. Abolish Political Correctness, allow people to think and say what they really think.
Abolish the Greatest Curse ever visited upon Human beings: Religion - at least Religion as it is today which has been bastardized again by people who think they know better than everyone else, who deliberately misinterpret and selectively use parts of books such as the Bible, the Koran etc. to persecute others who don't agree with them.
Mar 05, 22

I understand that owning a dog should mean walking it...even when you don't want to...but does owning a cat...or a rodent.... or bird keep happier, healthier and more sane? a fair bit of research suggests it might ... what do you think?
lys
I have accepted many stray cats over the years. They keep me sane, make me laugh and have different personalities. They have different mannerisms and like a variety of music.One I have at the moment loves Mick Jagger singing the blues lol The other one I have to sing his favourite song as HE tucks the sheet under MY chin. Only then he will roll over and go to sleep (bossy bum Maine Coon) LOL I also feed the local crows that have learnt to yell out to me at the front door when they are ready to eat lol I have had to bury many animals which is heart breaking but I wouldn't have missed a day being with any of them. They have given me far more than I gave them.
Mar 03, 22

What is your preferred method of tanning, and how often do you tan? Do you use anything to prevent damage if you use a sunbed or tan naturally? Do you have any flawless tanning tips and tricks?
RodR
I slip, slip, slap. Spent most of my life in Nth Queensland & have a certain amount of tan that is permanent.
If you're going to lay or be in the sun try not to do it between 11 & 2.
A certain amount of sun each day with SPF is healthy, a particular level of brown isn't.
Feb 17, 22

What is something NOT many people know about you - mine is getting married by an Elvis impersonator in Las Vegas
Grandma
I was the first woman to be a tram conductor in South Australia - at the Tramway Museum, before the public transport service employed women. I also was apparently the first woman to be seen driving a tour coach in Victoria when I was on tour there with a group during my coach driving days. I was the topic of conversation in Bendigo and Echuca for a few days.
Jan 09, 22

In general, homework can help children practice skills, work on projects and learn time management. You can help children by making time and space for homework, helping them get organized, and being positive. When children are having homework troubles, it's best to speak to the teacher.
Cuddles
As long as the child does his or her own homework. Often I found parents had done the homework for the child, and what is the point of that. Homework is a valuable way to practice skills learned in class. If the child can't do the homework, the parent should inform the teacher so those skills can be revised until the child is able to do the work independently. Also, I agree that excessive homework is not good - a maximum of half an hour should be long enough for primary school students.
Dec 06, 21

Why do people pay good money to buy ripped and torn Jeans that make them look like they can't afford new clothes, because I don't care how broke I am , I refuse to leave the house wearing rags.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
This type of 'fashion' is geared towards the young; not mums and dads who look utterly ridiculous wearing them (nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb) .......... apologies if this comment offends
Mar 13, 21

The more I learn about additives to processed food, the more horrified I am. Do they really need to put trans fats and other cancer causing additives into our food? What is their purpose and why does our government allow it to happen?
Carolyn7 P
I just want to know why they have to put all these weird things in our foods! Seems like we are all guinea pigs.
Dec 01, 21

Do you think traveling to a foreign county is a good idea? Would you need to speak some of that country's language or just get by on guessing what is going on? I have been to some countries like China, S. Korea, and Thailand and I found that most of the places I toured in those places the people could speak some English. I felt comfortable there. Just asking for others opinions as there are more countries I would like to visit.
Pearlz
My trip to Hawaii was cancelled last year and I do want to go while I am still young enough to drag my bag behind me but there will need to be next to no Covid out there. I don't want to go anywhere that requires sticking a stick up my nose, and I don't want to have to wear a mask, quarantine in my room for even one day and I certainly don't want to end up in a hospital in a foreign country. So no overseas travel for me for sometime yet.
Nov 23, 21

Do you think a digital identity will become compulsory? It sure seems ... that we are heading that way. I do have concerns with the privacy aspect of Digital ID! How can we be sure it won't ever be misused?
Buttonpops
Well they will try hard to make this mandatory like the rest of their sick plans for one world government
Nov 05, 21

We all keep hearing about everything we have to do to be successful in life. I'm talking about things like getting a Uni Degree, getting a job, getting married, having children, earning more year after year, having friends, buying a house, getting a new car and so on. What do you thing is the cause of social pressure and how do you deal with it?
lippy loo
I am in my 70's and we had it back when I was a teen. I started work at just turned 15 and I paid for my clothing, transport, board, health care etc. At 21 if you were not married you were being talked about as being left on the shelf. Always been pressure put on everyone but the trick is to ignore the pressure and live your life as best you can with a good conscience, respect for family and yourself and never let friends influence you in ways that are not healthy. These days I think people should put their phones down and start talking to people. Influencers as they are called are just wanna be's who really do not know much anyway but seem to get a following and many become quite rich because of this so called fame.
It used to be called keeping up with the Jones's back in my day and that was something I never aspired to. I still don't. There will always be someone prettier, have a better figure, be taller, have a better car, house, job etc. I guess you have to learn to be satisfied with what you have and improve it if you wish by common sense approaches.
Sep 23, 21

With the current housing crisis in New Zealand getting out of control. Do you feel that it's up to Real Estate Agents to help the crisis by setting realistic house prices and rental prices instead of driving the prices up. These agents seem to have a lot of clout when it comes to "setting the price"
Joanne D 188999 NZ
i believe they go by the council valuations on setting the price for houses. Its the council that is at fault, making the land more valuble which in turn they set the price for how much people pay in land rates.
Sep 06, 21

If you ask your child to keep plate in sink or do laundry is it wrong? Are parents responsible until they turn 18?
Michelle S 553303
I had 5 children who are now aged between 28 and 39. When they were growing up I and my now ex husband had his Italian father living with us. He had worked so hard all his life after being a prisoner of war in WW2 and became medically retired by the time my eldest daughter was born and she is now 35. Because his wife abandoned him AND the 2 children who were 3 and 5 at the time and there wasn't a pension available for him to recieve in order to be able to keep his family together, the children stayed with grandparents and great grandparents on their mothers side, and sometimes in the Catholic orphanages which were very cruel as was their maternal GM. By the time I met my children's father at age 15 Giuseppe would leave at 4:30 am and bot arrive back until about 6pm at night and then go to bed and start all over again. I mention this because it's important to the story. I didn't fully realise until about 20 years ago when I gained a little perspective and started to head into my 40's just what a wonderful man I'd been blessed to know. As I had more children my FIL would do the laundry, being fully retired now, the cooking, a lot of the cleaning and garden maintenance, including having a large vegetable garden that fed us fresh vegetables. Because of this being waited on hand and foot my children didn't learn to do the chores which I had learned to do, without argument, since I was a very young child. I am not lying but stating a truth that my husband grew up very lazy and unmotivated and this, combined with their grandfathers constant help, prevented my children from developing a disciplinet hat I had in spades having come from a typical nuclear family of the 1960's with traditional gender roles. My children have however developed their own discipline and now are functioning members of society and appreciate just what a blessing they did have growing up with a grandparent living with them. Giuseppe too got what HE wanted: :a family with children he could help raise and be at home with to watch them grow! My children talk about their grandfather often and his ashes sit not 2 feet from where I write this in bed having lost him at age 97 3 years ago. But children enjoy getting mum a nappy or "folding" up a face washer or carrying swmething for whatever parent is taking care of the child at the time. It gives them happiness and pride in their achievements and that's ALWAYS a good thing! Thank you for reading this and have a nice day.
Aug 24, 21

Who believes that instantly falling in love with someone the moment you look at them real?
Juwels
I do not believe in that at all. You can be attracted to their looks but love is a totally different measure.
Aug 25, 21

Yellow light means: A. Slow down or B. Speed up? We all know it means A so why do people do B?
Imperia S '' PIER''
it sounds that some states don't have the flashing amber to warn the drivers that the lights will be changing to amber so they can start to slow down before you get to the intersection and these days every set of lights have cameras, and red lights regardless to the situation a fine will be issued
Aug 12, 21

Should police departments tackle the issue of mental illness and sociopath within their own ranks MORE aggressively to minimize the danger of unstable officers? I m not sure that tackling officers mental issues is as important as tackling the 'causes' of police officers mental issues. Police officers should be expected to be excellent at their job. However, they should not be expected to be perfect. No one short of God is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. A mistake...
FastBird
These days I doubt a mentally unwell person would get through the screening process in NZ to become a police officer.
I am concerned about those serving that get PTSD from the job, which is common. How are they helped?
PTSD changes people's lives for the worse in an instant and it's also culmative.
I believe it can be as high as 35% of police have PTSD and associated depression.Today I was watching the trial of the person who killed Constable Hunt a year ago and wounded Constable Goldfinch.Watching Goldfinch today give his testimony he obviously has PTSD he was shot a number of times and lost his partner. He's still in the force, I wondered if he's getting any help.That concerns me.
Jul 16, 21

I've heard, and read of some men, being treated unfairly due to custody matters. Some men lost their .. kids, family-home, money, other assets, due to these -disputes. Some have even suicided, or become really sick. Most kid's get awarded to mothers. Do you think the family court is biased in favour of women? What can be done to change the status quo?
Maria B 89860
Didn't someone once say "the law is an ass"? A very simple statement but there is no simple solution when it comes to broken families. Everyone gets battle fatigue going through the process and children get more and more confused by the to and fro state of affairs and sometimes even thinking that they are the cause of it all.
May 18, 21

After all the trauma, tragedy, restrictions and anxiety with Covid-19 affected everyone of us to a greater or lesser degree, do you think the world will be a better place?
Mike Pike
The Bible says that when you made Jesus Christ the Lord of your life you have no need to worry about anything for God said that he will take care of us.so what if china takes over the world. My God is in control. my God will never leave me nor forsake me. My future is in my God. and without him I have no future. if you want to know Jesus as your Lord and Saviour Prayer this simple prayer
Lord Jesus I ask that you be my Lord and Saviour come into my life and be my King.
Acknowledge: We have sinned - Romans 3.23, Luke 18.13
Repent: Repent of Perish - Luke 13.3, Acts 3.19
Confess: Jesus is Lord - 1 John 1.9, Romans 10.9
Forsake: Forsake your sins - Isaiah55.7
Believe: Believe and be saved - John 3.16, Mark16.16
Receive: All who receive Him are his children - John 1.11,12
Attend a Church: Find a Faith filled Church.
Mar 22, 21

People in wealthy countries are entitled to healthcare and a basic education by law. Is it fair that this free education stops once we have completed High School, or should those who want it get a free passage? Should the poor be able to attend college or university without having to gain a scholarship or bursary first? Should you be able to get that expensive operation at no cost whatsoever? Is education and health being ignored or is it ok because the government is spending...
Sha
I think that less funding should be given to private schools and hospitals should have adequate equipment and hospital beds especially when COVID-19 is still an issue. And having a degree can't guarantee you a job. I wish that the government would offer free courses for people who are struggling to get jobs.
Apr 24, 21

I recently joined Ancestry.com and, although l expected to find my immediate family and inlaws, l was also expecting it to be a tedious and hard slog to find many relatives after that. However, after my initial family names had been put in, hints suddenly appeared against each name. Now, 26 family members have grown into a family tree of 1800 names and growing! Genealogy is addictive! Are you interested in genealogy? Do you belong to a genealogy website or...
Krissy
I never uses Ancestry.com before is because I don't too much about my family and where they came from. To me I would like to use Ancestry.com to find out who are my family is and where they a came from.
Mar 31, 21

I find so many young ones nowadays are always on sick leave or just ring in sick. I have over 100hrs owing to me. I'm hardly ever sick but when I do I feel guilty ringing in. I know I must get over that feeling guilty. Oh well, at least I'm reliable.
Metachair
I had a flu and was cough and can't to work in the pass. I had a boss them made to take to management why i was sick they tell me you needed to go to work. So my father made each time go to work. My father point if don't believe you them go to work. I was coughall day in front of peoples did they say go home. No. Tell i said i sick them made me go to doctor get sicking. My father was sick they made go to work if didn't were out of job in crutches. Tell this day i go sick. I came once 1 day before sicking over put in boss office say not sick this days but was made me cry. My sister is sick boss make go to work she cough didn't send home no made go to work next day. They is one at work get 100 or more a years sicking plus holiday. Noone say nothing. Always one rule one and others as well. Law be if don't take sicks be pay out.
Feb 22, 21

If you read the news, you would have heard of the saga surrounding preferential treatments for the top 3 tennis players where they can enjoy freedom in Adelaide while the other lower ranked players have to suffer strict quarantine conditions in Melbourne. The fact is, they are the top players and they have greater bargaining powers and SA government accepts them to go there as long as they play the exhibition matches. I think it s fair. They attract audiences therefore they...
Sheree T
The top three tennis players should have been treated the same as the rest. I agree the top players do have greater bargaining powers but the government shouldn't have allowed it to happen.
Feb 20, 21

Share what phobias do you have? Here is the list of mine: - Catoptrophobia / Eisoptrophobia - Fear of mirrors (Partially; only sometimes; I feel anxious to look at the mirrors in the dark to see someone there except me) - Cleithrophobia or Cleisiophobia- Fear of being locked in an enclosed place. (For me that's being in very narrow and small places that thinking about it makes me feel lack of air and I start panicking) - Pediophobia- Fear of dolls. - Scopophobia or...
lulu
Being a passenger in a car when the drivers going alongside a semi trailer, talk about shake rattle and roll.
Feb 15, 21

I know there are people who refuse to use them but there are others who use shopping rewards cards to their advantage and earn some extra income from them. It's not just getting points for every dollar spent but you can also earn points for taking up special offers they send you. We only take up offers if they are easily achievable and if we don't have to spend extra money on things we don't need. We have Coles and Woolworths Reward cards and we've done pretty well...
Sha
I maximise the use of membership cards as much as possible. Get bonus points for buying certain products and every once in a while redeem free samples of new products.
Feb 03, 21

We have to live and do the best with what we have. Sometimes I feel so frustrated with myself like a cat - chasing its tail going around and around, have so many bad habitats like all the bad habitats are stopping me from genuinely enjoying and getting the best out of my life. I do have some good habitats like listening to music, god please help me and my family and friends, I know life can be better and more enjoyable god bless you all.
Joe King
I only get frustrated when I knock my beer over and it spills onto my breakfast cereal. It makes them taste a tad odd.
Jan 30, 21

If we enroll our children to day care so we can go back to our workplace, can we justify our children doing same when they have to tend to their lives and put us in ages care ?
Gypsy
Neither my children nor my grandchildren went into care. When needed, my children were looked after by my parents. When needed, my grandchildren are looked after by me. Just recently my grandchildren told me that when I can't look after myself I will be going to live with them. I thanked them and said we will discuss that when the time comes.
Jan 24, 21

To better ourselves we have to change the way we do things. We set goals and take actions in order to achieve it.
Elizabeth J 447888
I joined the Heart Foundation walking group in my local area in late December so i am ready for my first early morning weekly walk on 7 December. Yep, not go overboard but definitely take the steps I should have taken years ago to slow down the decline that comes with old age.
Jan 01, 21

Do you think there is any justice in the law and do you think the wealthy have an unfair advantage in matters of law?
Bugalugs
Of course money buys Justice. Money can buy anything, anybody & power & that includes the Police, Magistrates, Juidges, Politicians. How often have we heard an accused person being treated with kid gloves because if the "reputation" - that simply menas they have money to buy their freedom.. If you are poor you haven't a hope in hell of getting Justice. Just look at how some of the Wealthiest Organisations in the World, such as the Roman Catholic, Anglican, Lutheran, Islamic, Jewish religious businesses got away with so much Child Sex Abuse until the outcry from the Public became too loud to ignore. They were all responsible for covering-up and protecting 1000s of paedophiles and they were also responsible for "Murder from a distance" - some call it Suicide, the 10s of thousands of lives they destroyed and they asll got away with it because those orgnaisations had the money to buy protection starting with the Police and then all the way up to the highest courts in the country.
Nov 30, 20

In all honesty, I probably outlay around six hundred bucks a month but it is most definitely worth it. And it will end up getting spent on something else anyway.
The dog house
I have not had an alcohol drink in over a year. As I have coeliac disease I am reluctant to have any thing. I do feel like some now and again but walking the dog helps to relax me so I do not need alcohol. $600 is a lot of money on alcohol. You could save that money and when lock down eases you could go on holiday. I also feel that the preservative in alcohol is not good for our body.
Sep 19, 20

Self-care is really important during these challenging times. So many people (particularly on social media) are in a constant state of hysteria. But you don't have to get caught up in the fear and negativity. You can choose to be positive and hopeful. I am spending this time looking after my body and mind. I feel great.
lippy loo
I do not dwell on it. I go about my house and do opinion polls, watch a bit of TV, take my dog for a walk, housework, etc. What's different. Never been all that social so I don't miss that. All these people who are treating this virus as nothing though make me angry. It's not a conspiracy, it's nothing to do with 5G, it's not made up, I am from another culture so don't understand, and worse the ones who think they can do what they want. I get angry at the ones who think they are beyond the rules and actually spread the virus to innocent people who have been doing the right thing. We have it here in Queensland again and it looks like it has spread from a few people who thought they could do as they please lying and crossing the border after leaving Victoria. Personally, I feel now as there is plenty of information out there and if people flaunt the rules and people get sick or worse die they should be made accountable with heavy fines, jail and charges of murder in the case of a death linked back to t
Aug 26, 20

Women who have Caesarean births in Scotland go home on the second day of the birth. This is a financial decision, not a medical one. Surely, the care of the mother and child should be paramount. I was concerned when I heard this. Do you think this is going too far in the cost-cutting exercise, potentially putting patients at risk?
Liane H
Absolutely disgraceful. Higher risk of post natal depression and undiagnosed versions of it ...
Why put so much pressure on new mums ? Day 3 is the worst day after birth for the baby blues to set in and milk production to come in properly ,then complications can arise ... that is all just after a natural childbirth!
Aug 19, 24

I've had a lot of bosses, both male & female. Which do you prefer?
Maria B 89860
Had both, don't care what sex so long as they are fair and have no favourites whose work I end up doing as well as my own.
Jun 12, 24

What is your opinion on which martial arts class is best for a 13-year-old? My son wants to sign up for one, but there's so many to choose from. Which is worth to sign up to?
Andrew C 287196
There was a discussion on the radio the other day about kids "wanting" to do various activities, the parents paying for it, and then the kid quickly pulling out again ... sports, dancing, scouts / girl guides, horse riding, etc.
Before paying any full term / year fees (often non-refundable because you're taking up a spot and the classes cannot start again to catch-up a later fill-in), you should find somewhere that either offers pay-per-lesson prices or even gives a free trial. That way you can find out if the kids *really* wants to do it or not before paying out huge piles of money.
Apr 20, 24

Scientists have been studying what goes on psychologically and physically in fathers before and after having children for years. What do you think? What does becoming a father do to men? Do men who become dads change?
BLM
I don't have children. Don't know if men go thru psychologically and physically changes when they become a parent! However, the articles I have read (written by scientists) state that "Gay Parents May Be the Best Parents". Gay parents tend to be more motivated, more committed than heterosexual parents on the average, because gay parents chose to be (come) PARENTS.
Dec 28, 23

My answer would be no, just because you don t have kids doesn t mean you don t have friends or family that is looking forward to spending the holidays with you. I don t think parents should always be first in line, but I also don t think the person who has been there the longest should always get first pick either. Rotating is probably the most fair option. What do you think?
Claude H
No. There are too many laws now giving preference to everyone. We are all equal & should have equal rights.
Nov 27, 23

Assuming that NASA invited you to be part of the crew that next flies to the moon. Their task is to establish a permanent settlement on the moon. You would be required to stay on the moon for 12 months, after which time you would be returned safely to earth. Would you do it?
***...***
considering no one has been there, then NO...Ask yourself..Has anyone been to the moon??? Since apparently 1969. Ask yourself this. Who filmed that moon walk? LOL LOL LOL . I am on a fence here
Nov 20, 23

Does it annoy you when people leave rubbish in the shopping trolley? Like the shopping trolley is the garbage. I found drink containers from a take-away and a paper in a shopping trolley, when the supermarket was busy and not many trolleys were available. A garbage bin had been provided at the front of the store, in a convenient location. What's next?
Jeneral
There are far more serious issues that concern me in this world than someone leaving rubbish in a trolley.
Oct 12, 23

How to deal with bullying and harassment in the work place? I've been at a job for 2 years with constant bullying from a couple coworkers.. Management doesn't do anything I just don't know what to do. Need this job yet being pushed to the edge. Some advice please :/
Neo
It is sad to say that though companies love to say how inclusive they are and how much they don't tolerate bullying that they do nothing when things are reported and even going higher up the chain of command does nothing. Your options are then:
1/ Report the matter to the government authority for action
2/ Tolerate it
3/ Resign
Not fair but this is life and it is sad to say nothing changes.
Sep 17, 23

Do you have a motto that you live by and practice on a daily basis? Feel free to share. It will be interesting to see what everyone has to say.
BLM
Live every day like it is going to be your last day above ground, because at some unknown point - it is going to be your last day above ground!
May 27, 23

Women who change their surname when they get married are subservient to men. I mean your maiden name is part of your identity. And to just throw it away willy-nilly, I think is disgraceful!
Metachair
I married and didn't change my last name. I keep my father last name and i am happy. My husband understood why i keep my last name is my father. In the end a last name is just a name. If you want to change or not its up to boths.
Aug 21, 20

City planning and quality of life are believed to go hand in hand. If you were to think about public transport infrastructure, road layouts or accessible leisure spots, what in your day-to-day life is affected by poor city planning, and how does it affect your quality of life?
Sandra C 12043
Too many apartment buildings going up in our area. We are close to the city and now the lovely old houses that are on larger blocks being torn down to replace with ugly apartment buildings. They will never last as long as these houses have and what is even harder to take is that all the lovely old trees are being cut down. It will soon be a concrete jungle. These buildings de-humanise the area and within a short time look dirty and shabby.
Apr 04, 23

The scariest dream I ever had was when I was staying alone at my Nan's house. Nana was being cared for by mum and dad at our house at the time, so it was just me on my own. From home, I had to catch 2 buses each way, whereas from Nan's I could walk to my school. I was staying there for a few weeks whilst I had exams on, so I could study in peace and not worry about being late to exams. I dreamt in extremely vivid detail that someone had broken into the...
Jewel
This one was definitely a nightmare...I ended up going back to live with my ex husband! I've had nothing to do with him for the last 25 years.
Feb 19, 23

Lots of people in the age 20-30 bracket are choosing to have an engagement ring that does not include a diamond, what could be the reason behind this trend? Cost? Straying from tradition?
merricat
Judging from the number of ads and commercials featuring diamonds, I would have to say that diamonds are still the preferred choice for engagement rings.
Jan 14, 23

You meet online. Everything seems fine, all the boxes are checked, and yet you are not getting your needs met. How do you have this awkward conversation. You can tell that the collateral damage to a long marriage that lacked real into me, you see, has left them lacking vulnerability. When do you leave?
Joe King
I left him as soon as I found out that he was not really a girl. However I have to admit that he was the prettiest girl at the party.
Dec 16, 22

I have recently started using the new Laundromat that has opened up down the shops. Wow, just like everything else, the prices have risen. It's now $6 for a small washing load and $8 for the larger machine. I have no idea what the dryers cost. Luckily, I only do a load of clothes and a load of linen once a fortnight. Do you think they are fair prices or too steep?
Tom S Qld
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 2 years
($8 x 52 wks x 2 = $832)
A good new washing machine will cost $800, then after 2 yrs the washes are free. The machine will probably last for 20 yrs.
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 20 years
($8 x 52 wks x 20 = $8320)
Buy a washing machine!
Dec 11, 22

"Oh my God!" came from blasphemy through to a shocking outburst about something really important to initials only to be used in general conversation about just about anything ... valueless. LOL were the initials of "Laugh Out Loud", a simple condensed form to show something was REALLY funny, now it too is sprinkled everywhere, meaningless and worthless. I went to the shops lol ... its like its like its like...no it is usually not like anything else ... it just...
Juwels
Apropos your last sentence I heard today the new abbreviation is “mpox”.
A few years ago I heard of a woman who was mortified when she found out the LOL she put on a “with sympathy” card did not mean “lots of love”.
Nov 29, 22

We all know how tornados form, but why exactly? In my opinion ever since climate change happened a lot of stuff is now happening, but tornados has gone down a lot what I mean by that is not many tornados are being seen well in most area's they're not being seen as much why?
Pearlz
It's like everything else in nature, it changes. Some years we have lots of snow or frosty mornings. Some years we have lots of rain. Years of droughts and years of floods. Look back at history and you'll see Egypt had droughts then floods. It's just a natural cycle. However, when it comes to damage that is purely due to population. We have always had hail storms. I have photo's of me as a child holding huge hail stones, but back then there wasn't much damage. About 6 years ago a hail storm went through and our house fared pretty well but a new suburb that had just popped up and had 4 houses per quarter acre instead of 1 copped it badly. All you could see was blue tarps over roofs, and they were there for months with not enough tradesman and insurance companies trying to assess the damage. The storm was no worse than usual but there were far more homes than previously.
Sep 20, 22

I m facing the very real possibility to have full upper dentures. I m very afraid. Many people wear dentures, I d like to ask your experiences. Is it very uncomfortable? Is it possible to get used to it?! If you have one, do you wear it all the time? Thank you
Disie
I just got a partial upper plate but wasn't ready for the lack of taste and texture. Not having the food on your palate takes that. You still taste, but it's not as intense. I actually cried when they told me. So I understand your hesitancy. The one question I'll ask is; Is it necessary for you to eat properly and still have healthy gums and teeth? If so, keep your teeth for as long as possible,
Sep 11, 22

Wanted to watch the Grand final of the women's European soccer cup 2022...not available on TV...even the goals not available on the various news services went to YouTube...some young guy took me along to Wembley...along with his two mates...up into the stands to really experience being there...and filmed all the best bits and the crowds around him...it was about the best TV coverage of a soccer match... I felt like I had really been there...that is all I...
Juwels
In the 1950s and 60s we used to listen to the Saturday football (what is now AFL) on the radio. We thought all our Christmases had come at once when it was played – of course in black and white - on television.
Sep 01, 22

Like an accident or a close shave ? Were you at fault ? Or was it somebody else faults ?
mary c
Embarrasing..i was rushing to get a workvisit kit and left the Hospital car with the brake off- came back and it had rolled into a handrail. ThankGod it didn't hit anyone. Also left handbrake off when rushing our newborn pups into vets for checkup. Dented car and didn't want to tell hubby and managed to sneak it to panelbeaters and get it back next day fixed without him knowing. Er there's been a few other handbrake incidents too. I try to avoid parking on hills or slopes these days.
Aug 26, 22

The speed limits in Australia are far too draconian, if you stick to the mandatory speed limits when overtaking you would stand a good chance of being killed or involved in a head-on collision. Australians are not taught how to overtake and the law as it stands does not permit safe overtaking, if you overtake a lorry or a car that speeds up, and you have to exceed the speed limit you can and will be done for speeding, it appears the Police have no discretion or prefer to not use...
Hoop
As a motorbike rider, all drivers are the devil to me/us.. I am highly trained and always ride within my limits. I ride to the conditions. If I overtake or pass, I do it quickly and with great thought. I do not want to be anywhere near cars or trucks. Of couse this is said in hindsight, but bike riders know what I am talking about.
Aug 08, 22

When we first moved to our present home, we discovered a weird-looking plant called homalocladium platycladium. It is also known as a tapeworm plant or centipede plant, which describes it well. It has flat segmented branches instead of the usual rounded ones. Do you have any unusual plants?
Elizabeth J 447888
Last year I was wandering through Coles supermarket and saw a Stingray plant. It has big green, glossy leaves which are round with a long green tail - just exactly the shape of a Stingray. I just had to have it.
Jul 28, 22

Until you research your genealogy, you have little or no idea where you came from. It was very interesting to discover that my family on my father's side came from France in the year 1066 his name was Nigel (they didn t have sir names back then). He was the commander of William's army.
QMY10
Sadly there are so many secrets kept that some of us got intrigued too delve deeper then we find out things we didn't really want too know bit were maybe always suspect about
May 27, 22

Can you see changes in male behaviour around you? I'm talking about fake six-packs, calf implants, nose jobs and make-up. Do you know many Australian men taking grooming to the next level?
77ccusmc
Men have become more feminine. I personally don’t like it. We need men to teach the next generation of boys how to act like a man and treat women with respect.
May 19, 22

If you could only pick one food item to describe you, what would you choose? It could be anything like a type of beverage, a specific cereal brand or confectionery, a type of cake or biscuit or a fast food item, a fruit, a vegetable, a particular cut of meat or a type of dish for example. So what would you choose and why?
Maria B 89860
Lollies, a BIG bag of Mixed Lollies. I am strong willed and can resist buying them but once open the pack just like magic poof, they disappear!
Apr 23, 22

While music changed radically in the 1960's, the need to have funny lyrics and songs survived and thrived...aside from funny bands like the Bonzos and the Scaffold...bands from the Beatles to Madness to Ian Dury...all managed to write funny songs...why does everyone take themselves so seriously nowadays?...what ever happened to fun?
lippy loo
All these rap songs are so hard to understand or full of anger or foul language. Some may like it but who remembers any of these so called songs. Many of the 60's music is still played everywhere these days. Some are classics. There are a few songs these days which are good but it seems a lot are sung with nasally whiney voices and again hard to understand. If it is not sung in this fashion then we have to put up with women dressed skimpily and gyrating across the screens. I do not think there is much talent being shown
Apr 08, 22

When we think about rising the property market, we should think of our demand in our future generations. There s no point of increasing the prices of our rentals when we know it takes time to find people who want to move in the house, but if we low our price people will always work hard in order to pay the pills and to have food on the table
Jacq
Prices just crazy most aren't worth the money. Have to me a millionaire these days to rent or buy. We all aren't on politicians wages!
Apr 12, 22

AA is in place for alcoholics! GA is in place for gamblers. Both are big social issues which not only effects the individual but also the entire family. It s like a ripple in a pond. Everybody is effected. Also friends and neighbours as they step up to help. The financial and emotional toll is unable to be calculated. And yet here we have gambling advertisements all day, especially during the time children watch television in the afternoon. We are literally bombarded with...
Raymond K 449636
The very least that should occur is a total ban t v advertising during the hours that children watch t v
Mar 08, 22

Should we believe the weather forecaster when they always seem to be wrong? The only time they get it right is in the middle of a thunderstorm or cyclone. What do others think?
Kristina
They are almost always wrong. My dogs actually act funny right before we get the bad weather, as of lately I tend to depend on my dogs for bad weather. Weather stations are usually way off or the weather starts before their predictions.
Feb 27, 22

When they are in need or can not do something buy themselves ... I have been down a lot when someone helps me when I can not do something I fell like there is some hope in the world I hope for good things and what to do good things
Grommie
give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, give him a fishing line and he feeds himself forever...hand up not hand out
May 15, 21

Do you keep anything as a pet that's a bit different? I have lots of pets but I love my Green & Golden Bell Frogs
lys
This is probably off the subject, but I have a theory. lol When we went into lock down the air became cleaner (fewer cars on the road) and there was less rubbish around town. The birds started chirping around 4am every day (I wasn't the only one that noticed this). So now I feed the wild birds...well not so wild if you count the crows that call for me at my front door. I like to look after the crows because they are Aboriginal talismans...bossy bums lol I also feed a variety of other wild birds seagulls,wattle birds, different parrots etc. Nothing goes to waste. People probably think I am weird putting a fresh container of water and food scraps on my front lawn every day...but they clean it all up everyday LOL
Jan 23, 22

Do you buy clothing used? If yes, what is the best and worse thing about buying second-hand? If you do not, why do you choose new?
Pansyrhonda
I do, but not as much as before. The secondhand shops keep raising their prices, and sometimes not worth the price.
Jan 08, 22

Does anyone else feel as though time is speeding up? Or is it just my mother and I, who feel this way? It just seems like, one minute it's Monday, and, what seems like only 5 minutes later, it's Friday. (Well, maybe a little longer, but you get the drift). Love to hear your thoughts, on this one.
freckes
it is our perception of time that changes. you feel time is "flying by" as you get older. go back to your early years, ie about 6 to 10 years of age. your birthday, christmas, school holidays, easter, they all seemed to take forever to get there. it is all your age perception. ask a person in a convalescent home who lay in bed all day, bet their time goes very slowly
Dec 04, 21

Since, the speed of light is 186,000 miles per second in a vacuum. If homo sapiens could close too moving that fast in real time, then would homo sapiens be moving faster then time? Could a homo sapiens outrun time and never aged?
Shannon H 68876
Never faster than time, and from your own perspective you would still age, but the universe around you would have accelerated greatly.
Nov 20, 21

We need to get out sometimes of the mood that we are into right now. Let's talk about 3 things that make you happy, no matter what are they. They could be a ray of sunshine in the morning or a piece of cake every week. Please, make it the easy way and explain why.
BLM
1. Yesterday is history (and you can not change history (or your past) - move on (or try to move on). 2. Tomorrow is a mystery (enjoy the slow unfolding of the mystery - since it will be an unique experience for every homo sapien on this planet). Besides, who doesn't enjoy a mystery revolving around themself everyday for the rest of their lives? 3. Today is a gift - that is why it is called the PRESENT - still - Who doesn't appreciate getting a PRESENT - every day for the REST of their lives (I know a lousy PUN - HAHA)? CONCLUSION: Being above GROUND - is still infinitely better then being planted in the GROUND!
Oct 12, 21

Does anyone notice weather changes in air pressure affecting their joints, aches and pains? A physio said there is anecdotal evidence people with certain conditions appear to act like a barometer. I know I have predicted rain when it was not on the radar.
The dog house
During cold weather my knees ache. Rarely both and walking is painful. I usually put on the stretch supports and this helps. Yet this cold weather my knees are fine. I have had one dry eye for a year now. I have tried many drops. Just recently I tried another more intensive drops recommended by the Pharmacist. I thought this is great my first night went very well. Next night I awoke with the same problem. Not as bad but who knows tonight. It is horrible when the whole eyelid sticks to the whole eye ball. Scary especially when it impairs your vision. Getting old is not pleasant.
Aug 08, 21

I've always felt sorry for smokers, they are demonised by everyone. Yet governments don't mind taking revenue from tobacco tax. What a pity smokers can't be treated like human beings instead of pieces of garbage.
Sandra C 12043
Now they are going to ban Vapes which are giving people the chance to come off cigarettes to vapes. I was a smoker for many years and thanks to Vapes I have weaned myself off nicotine after only 3 years of vaping.
I still vape but use no nicotine in the liquid.
Sep 13, 20

Australia has let people down who want to learn a trade or in agriculture. Employers found it expensive and hard to accommodate an apprentice who needs to attend college in the bosses time for long periods. In some trades there may only be one trades person who has employed an apprentice and without the apprentice the trades person cannot do his work as he has no assistance. Some of the training should be done in the time of the apprentice not the employer. Proper training...
Maria B 89860
We need to bring back the Technical Colleges we used to have that taught young people who preferred to work with their hands parallel with High Schools where young people's capabilities belong in the academic arena. Australia should be concentrating on advancing the schooling needs of our own young people and not investing in the education of overseas students who either go back and take their knowledge to their own country or stay and soak up the employment here leaving our qualified brilliant young people to what? Go on the pathetic dole and be labelled "dole bludgers". We need to think smart, act smart and we will have our own smarter home grown workforce. Keep it simple and keep it here.
Jul 25, 21

Live TV at one point dictated what we did and when...being able to record it... loosened that hold...but now...even the channels store their own content...and streaming from other sources makes live TV increasingly meaningless...it was seldom ever live in the first place...and you can get better live news elsewhere anyway...and earlier...is there any point in it being there anymore?...who watches it?
Maria B 89860
How can something "LIve" be dead? When we first got our TV, in the olden days, mainly used it for entertainment ie watching the flicks. It is not a member of our family like pets are. It is our servant to meet are needs which is not as luxurious as some. hank goodness for free to air it still serves us well.
Jun 18, 21

So before having a child I have seen mothers clubbing etc. Fathers doing same. After baby, mother compromise and stay home to look after but fathers continue with same life. Why is that the case and what can change that.
Lachelle B
We both worked til I decided to chuck in my job because I was sick of daycare spending more time with the kids than us. I was also earning more as a labourer than my partner in the foundry. I never wanted a night out clubbing and he stopped going to his Friday nights out with the boys after work. It wasn't about us anymore but our boys so our social lives were irrelevant. And he may wear the pants in the house but I'm the one that buys them! Lol!
May 20, 21

Politicians seem to be very much influenced by Big Corporation's these days. It's known that some have lobby groups that meddle in the politics of the major politicial party's. Issues such as climate change, LGBTQI Environment, Farming, Migration, Employment, Multi-Nationals, etc. It seems the ordinary person, rarely gets a look in, listened too. Those with the power and money do though! Should the BIG-CORPORATIONS be listened to, or...
Metachair
Fax is big business rules. To take out big business never will happen as the government is with them for the money they give them in front or in the back money. If you don't like big business go to small business and start buying from them. The old saying is big business make war not peace
Jun 11, 21

It is already one year late, nobody in Japan wants it ... nobody else can go ... it is still massively expensive ... what is the point?
Neo
We don't need ANY Olympics. Waste of time and money. If athletes consder this their job, then they can PAY to go to work like everyone else. If the International Olympic Committee want to have one, then they should PAY to set up a site dedicated to it and just hold it there forever, like a corporate headquarters. IOC is only interested in bribes. Why should countries have to bid for it? Where does this bid money go (backpockets of IOC along with any other bribes paid to them)
May 16, 21

Lottery is always a great way to win if your lucky but the question is it merely a money wasting exercise? Anybody share your thoughts with me on this
The dog house
I believe it is a waste of money. I know someone who spends $30 a week and others even more. Calculate that over a year and that could go towards a holiday or something you might need in the house. I prefer to work for what I have and manage my own expenses. Sometimes money can bring more issues than it is worth.
May 13, 21

Our existence is treated like a magic show....Covid 19 came just in time to delay anyone fixing Climate change...and everyone is VERY concerned about the huge quantities of plastics that are dumped and not recycled....NO-ONE is talking about mankind's obsession with concrete...billions of tons of waste concrete that won't be recycled and will NEVER break down...lets just put in the queue and only bring it up if everything looks like being fixed....
SUSIE W
just relax matey
as we say in Oz she'll be right mate.................
And surprisingly it often is !
May 09, 21

You have inherited a vast sum of money, from a senior ... family --member! Or, got lucky in the lottery's. What would you do with it? Maybe ... travel, buy a boat, house, help out with others in the family? Donate some of it, or even invest part, or all of it! How exciting! So many things you could do with a lot of money.
Bex
If I won a million dollars, undoubtedly, I would wet myself with excitement. First thing I would do is buy some new undies.
Apr 29, 21

Did you have anything interesting - passed on down through you're family? This might have been ... antique's, old-family recipe's, old herbal treatment's, family stories, even health issue's, that tend to run in you're families ... gene's, etc.
Grommie
Zing, clearly the thing passed on down through your family is the use of the apostrophe when it's not necessary.. in every case above it's wrongly used and the word you're should be your in both cases.
Grommie, the phantom proofreader strikes AGAIN.
Apr 19, 21

Thousands and thousands of people around the globe waiting for organ transplants but there are not enough organs available. Legalization might help many people.
BLM
Humans already traffic other humans - now - the concept is trafficing humans' organs by legalization - my answer is still NO!! Legalization will not help many people (the rich) - legalization will hurt many people (the poor).
Mar 18, 21

Do you use Apple Pay, Samsung Pay or, even Google Pay? What about PayPal or other online banks? Do you feel they are safe? Will Cash be a thing of the past, like bartering? Rarely used and rarely accepted? What are your thoughts on this change that seems to be inevitable?
Maria B 89860
I can remember the feeling of satisfaction when we used to get paid in cash, kept a little for expenses, train or bus fares lunch money and paid board and the rest got put in the bank and it stayed in the bank. None of this direct deposit and losing track of how much gets withdrawn bit by bit for all and sundry to track where you spent what.
I only use PayPal to receive survey payments and am quick to transfer it to a real bricks and mortar bank account. Don't like the way the banking system is heading with all the online no face to face person contact ... not knowing who of what purpose your money is being used as it accumulates a pitance in interest.
Feb 09, 21

Should all children care be free for working parents. A lots of peoples pay a lots of money to put a child in day care. Some country give free or less money. Austria almost all day care needed are free. In some others country children have better place for child to go children care. So what do you think and why.
Lones
Stay home with your children, live within your means. If we didn’t try to keep up with joneses, appreciated the way our parents bought us up and appreciated that time that you miss from putting your children in care. Before you know it they are gone and you’re an empty nester. Why have children if you’re not going to nurture, and spend those precious years with them
Feb 27, 21

Whatever happened to cars being sold either new or used with a spare tire in the boot? What is a driver supposed to do if they get a flat tire when on a long trip? Are we all supposed to pay and have someone waste their time to fix the tire. If this is what is expected of drivers today, then why have a wheel brace and a jack in the boot for the sole purpose of changing a tire!
Pato Lo Duck
Just a thought, how many of you regularly check the air pressure in your spare tyre. A flat spare is the same as no spare..!!
Jan 16, 21

Many, many years ago, I worked as a childcare worker and if you witnessed what I saw working in various centres, you WOULDN'T place your kid in childcare. But it's not only the safety aspect. Parents are missing out on their children's important moments. Their first baby steps. Their first word. You can never get that again. Raise your kids yourself!
Katzeye
Some working parents don't actually have any choice but to put their children in to a daycare centre if they have no one else,like a family member or close friend to care for them while they are at work.And some parents don't have any choice but to work to help pay off the mortgage and other living expenses so don't judge what others do until you have walked in those shoes.Just saying.
Nov 02, 20

Have you seen how big strawberries are now? They look like they're on steroids. Fruit is seasonal, it's not meant to be eaten all the year around. All these preservatives and crap they throw into our foods is what is causing our food intolerance and gut issues
Neo
Food is tastiest when in season (that is why there are seasons). Preserving was invented so we could have fruit and vegetables out of season/stock up for winter/not waste a good growing season.
I believe lots of gut issues and intolerances go further back than just today's preservatives. Best health information is, and always has been "eat everything in moderation". Unfortunately, when women are pregnant, they are told by "experts" not to eat this or that while they are pregnant and this is the first stop to helping the eliminated food become recognised as an allergen to the immune system of the forming foetus. These people then "breast feed" for the best of their child but still eliminate these foods for health reasons so, by the time the food is introduced to the child, the child's natural immune response is "this should not be in my body and needs to be attacked" (allergic reaction)
Aug 24, 20
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