Discussions of the day

Thousands of bright teachers are leaving the school system rapidly. Many highly intelligent students are also simply not choosing teaching as a career. Remuneration and rewards are much better elsewhere. There are many reasons, but I believe the growing violence in the schools is not being addressed adequately. What we are left with is an industry with only mediocre teachers remaining. Is that good enough for your kids? Are there any other ways we can keep our brighter...
Secret Squirrel
Most of my family ( in laws) were or are teachers. In saying that the work load increase,integration of children of all abilities and constant expectation of updating knowledge/ skills,being available to families,lack of support and low remuneration has come to this. Dubious or flimsy behavioural guidelines and expectations for student/ teacher interactions has cemented it. An overhaul is needed. And honestly I think classes need two teachers per average class as well as an aid if required. It's not the same as it was when even I was at school. Burn out is common. Teachers for the most part are good,the problem is retaining them. There just isn't long term experienced teachers willing to put up with the working conditions. I challenge anyone to work with 25- 30 children of any age everyday and be at their best 100% of the time.
Jul 28, 26

Nowadays, everything is apps. Is it right that seniors who built this country have to rely on younger relatives to book doctor's appointments and so on. This sounds like rejecting those people as expendable. What are your thoughts?
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
I have no problems with apps,BUT I wont pay for them.....I make my own appointments and I know what I am doing.....I am not that stupid
Jul 06, 26

A relative was issued with a new amended license after having two eye operations. Despite being given a medical clearance by his specialist, a condition was imposed for daylight driving only. It has taken three months to cancel this condition. Medical reports were submitted, but the authorities kept saying a doctor somewhere had imposed this unwarranted condition, but no further details were forthcoming. This has been a frustrating and time-wasting experience, but finally...
Liane H
Yes ,try dealing with fhe Victorian housing people. I was asked to fill out forms and get back onto their endless wait lists as they had taken me off and not even notified me.
Dr filled them but then they wanted me to go back and get another letter to explain exactly why i would need proper heating and cooling ( l have a medical condition well known for requiring this) ln fact i already have medical cooling concessions on my power bill .
But no.., i was then told i needed to go back again for another letter explaining in more detail. And a complete new form as the other one is now obsolete??? So i have to run around and jump through hoops. The Dr gets paid 3 times ..
. And they've now taken me off the lists again ( l was not told this i had to inquire by a third party channel who found out for me )
This how people with disabilities are treated .
All i got was " l'm sorry you're in this situation and i wish you all the best" .This from the main housing group that are supposed to help people in crisis. I'm so fortunate my landlords have currently put a hold on selling this place as the bureaucracy in govt depts is gobsmacking.
Jul 12, 26

Go back a few years, you were able to purchase a block of land, put up the garage & live on that as you built your house slowly, as you could afford it. There was a level of how much you could borrow depending on your wage & the spouse's wage did not come into it. Young people today do not seem to want to go without: two cars, going out, a lot of technology, which makes it difficult to save. We went out to dinner twice a year, which we saved for, other...
Pearlz
One of my daughters-in-law wanted a dishwasher in their first home. I had been married for 12 years, had 3 children and the cash to buy my first dishwasher. Then I had to get a carpenter to cut into my kitchen cupboards for a place for it. We started small, 3 bedrooms, separate toilet and one bathroom in a location we didn't really want to live in, but today they want everything all at once. We went without eating out and we didn't have a phone. Coloured TV had to wait until the old one broke down. However, we didn't feel we were disadvantaged or hard done by. I think it made life simpler.
Jul 10, 26

AI is taking over boring stuff...like talking to you on the phone...sending you mail and email...it is already telling you what to buy...next it will be doing your shopping, having it delivered and putting it all away. Who needs to go shopping? Who needs shops? Just massive warehouses like Amazon...it will transport you around...it will clean your house, cook your meals...organise your holidays...all the boring stuff...and you will have so much free time too...because...
Teri
We should all watch Colossus: The Forbidden Project. Or The Terminator. It's here. It's there. It's dangerous. I'm not so worried about it in my life because I can try to limit it to a point. It's the AI in government and military hands that makes me a little frightened.
Jun 21, 26

When my alarm went off this morning I told my Google speaker to stream the radio. It said something, but I didn't hear because I was still half asleep, anyway, there was no radio, so I got up. To my surprise the TV was on and it was showing ABC radio. How on earth did it do that? My husband and I had no idea, but it took us ages to get it back to being a TV. I want the TV to turn on when I turn it on, not the Google speaker. We are losing control...
Brick
You have a choice! Nothing forcing you to use it - anything involving technology relies on power - have an outage and you have problems - reset this that and the other - why do you need technology to run everything in the first place? I have a key that opens my front door and if the power is out who cares! it will come back on sooner or later.
Jun 15, 26

Lets help each other out..we all have some product that is fantastic, you cannot believe how good it is..and you tell your friends and relatives...I've got a few..so why not help all of us and share your knowledge?..I used to buy coffee machines and they would break in a few years...and when they got too expensive...I bought an ANKO one...in Kmart...the price on it was $129...but at checkout I was charged $69...and 10 years later it is still pumping out great...
Chosen
My wife. Was not on sale but my best choice ever. Reliable and hard working. Gets better with age and looks outstanding.
Jun 10, 26

Is it ever OK to gaslight someone you say you love absolutely not so then why after 10 yrs of marriage my husband started gaslighting me ... do i think he's cheating
Whitehawk
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse. The manipulator deliberately distorts the truth, denying facts or the victim's feelings, to make the victim doubt their own memory, perception, or sanity. The ultimate goal is to gain power and control
May 16, 26

Do you talk to yourself? I often do! Have full on conversations with myself. LOL, but I ve read in several places that it s a sign of high intelligence!
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I often chat to myself (and occasionally to my husband - he passed a couple of years ago but I still like to tell him when something happens that he would be interested in).
Mar 03, 26

As we all know, life is getting more expensive. With ridiculously high rental prices, mortgage rates going through the roof & profiteering supermarkets constantly raising grocery prices & crazy energy prices - many are struggling to make ends meet. What are your best money saving strategies? Share the love !
BLM
One, buy generic (not brand name) - when it comes too food. Generic is as tasty as brand names! Two, stay away from microwaveable (convenience) foods (too expensive) and you pay for convenience in a grocery store. Last, set up a monthly grocery budget and (tried) to stay within your monthly grocery budget!
Jan 16, 26

Fireworks petition proponents argue for banning the sale of fireworks due to animal distress, environmental pollution, and safety hazards, while opponents highlight the cultural tradition, enjoyment, and economic benefits of fireworks. Would you sign the fireworks ban petition?
JoLongLegs
In Melbourne Australia, it is illegal to buy or set off personal fireworks. You can go and watch the big fireworks events. I personally find them boring.
I have seen the drone lights displays and find them more appealing and no noise.
Nov 08, 25

What would you do? Ask for help? Do something different? Or leave things as is? Most leave things as is, thinking something negative, and if they try to change the situation it may just stay the same or get a whole lot worse. Not just you, but others as well will be affected and is very difficult to change, especially on your own. But one thing is certain, and that is regardless, to find someone you can talk to about anything without fear and that will listen.
Izzy
I will 100% step in and say something.. I have many times in the past and will at any opportunity. I was bullied as a kid then abused by my ex as an adult in public many times, but it took years for me to stop living in fear, and now I will stand up for anyone!
Nov 24, 25

With the recent raise in government benefits, I am wondering whether or not it's actually made a difference to those receiving them. I mean, $1.77 a day hardly seems much when a bottle of milk is nearly $7.00 at some places. What are your thoughts on the recent rise in government benefits and, if you receive them, how are you coping
Spaceant1
I have been self employed for over 30 years. I worked between 100 and 120 hours per week, until my heart attack at 40 years old. I reduced my work to between 60 and 80 hours per week. I had huge insurance costs and half my money was taken by the government as tax not including the gst. I dont smoke, dont gamble and rarely ever drink. I never waste money on junk food or things I dont need. I pay full price for dental and medical treatments, which i cant afford at the best of times. I am now 59, semi retired with destroyed shoulders, and currently unable to work until my shoulders heal. I have a small superannuation account that i cant access as yet, and not elligible for the age pension because i own my home. When i sit on my porch enjoying a coffee and look down the hill at the goverment housing development, I see 3 late model BMW's, 2 late model Mercedes, a HSV Commodore and plenty of SUV's etc parked in the driveways. These individuals are home most days when not at the club playing the pokies, drinking and smoking in their sun chairs. I look at my 16 year old work van that is also my transport, no A/C and rust spots surviving on about $150 to $300 per week taken from my personal savings and wonder if all my hard work was actually worth it. Regardless of that, I have self respect and have a personal satisfaction of my achievements.
A raise in benefits makes no difference in my world. My personal oppinion is that benefits should be only for those who absolutely require it which should include other benefits based on individual needs. If you are able to work, then you should. Be an assett and not a financial drain.
Mar 26, 23

In 1985 most people would have not known what Gluten was or lactose...or A2 protein...they all drank normal dairy products...ate peanuts...and nobody died...AND now there are a massive range of problems that we have ...what is going on?...no-one seems to question all these new health problems...are they real?...
Timtam
Allergies didn't just 'appear' spontaneously after 1985. Simply because you don't know anyone who was allergic to nuts or had coeliacs before that time doesn't mean they didn't exist.
Better medical diagnostics has certainly made diagnosis easier, so people who had been sick all their lives now had a name for their condition & guidelines for how to avoid symptoms from occurring. My friend is 58 & has been coeliac all her life, as well as having allergies to other food items. She didn't suddenly become coeliac in 1985, nor did her mother who is in her 80's.
My sister is in her 70's & has always had digestive issues in regard to milk. She's only known in the last 10 years that the reason is she is lactose intolerant. Prior to that she was just bloated & and felt sick if she drank milk etc.Now, she avoids symptoms by choosing lactose free milk. People certainly did die from anaphalysis due to nut ( & other allergies) before 1985. For some people exposure makes them feel ill, others it can be fatal. Better access to epipens has increased survival.
Has the rate of new allergies increased or are more people who have intolerances etc being diagnosed? I'm not sure. I would need to look at actual scientific studies to see what the conclusions are on that one but allergies & intolerances did not just suddenly appear, they have been with us for a very long time.
May 09, 25

When you go to the beach, all you truly need is a bathing suit... what about the amount of skin we show? Are g-strings inappropriate in public spaces?
Tipps
Why do you need to show off your bare body? Isn't your body a precious and personal part of your being. I do not like nudist. Cover up people, Be respectful of others
Jul 15, 24

Not everybody knows what they're calling in life is, for most of us it's not until we're much older and much wiser that we stumble upon it and if you're one of the lucky ones, you've found it early on, but nonetheless we all have one, a calling, a purpose, a thing we're really good at and that we really love doing. If you've found yours, write a few sentences about it and share it with the rest of us, I'd really love to hear how your story impacted you. I'm sure there isn't...
Michelle S 553303
Mine, IMO, is kind of unique. I had been working in marketing for McDonald\u2019s and I was overseas opening up the first store in New Caledonia. There was a female staff member who was having a threatened miscarriage and she was taken to the white hospital in the capital. She didn\u2019t lose the baby but that experience led me to look at the hospital for the indigenous population and I was very disappointed in the difference of care and the infrastructure which the Kanak people had access to in comparison to the French speaking population. After returning to Australia I made the decision to apply to University and study Nursing and become a Registered Nurse instead. That career choice was the best decision I ever made and although I earned less money the satisfaction was far greater than selling hamburgers to 3rd world nations. Thanks for reading.
Sep 04, 25

Do you think the school system has let our children down? There are so many technological things for them to learn that they have had to cut other things out. My neighbor boy who was born addicted to drugs, tells me that school for him is a waste of time, and he isn't learning anything! There are far too many children in his situation, and they don't get the special attention they need in order to learn. Why are there so many children with Autism, ADHD, etc.? ...
Pearlz
Parents no longer give children rules or boundaries which accounts for some problems. I also notice babies no longer get definite sleep patterns. In my day when it was time for baby to sleep we left them to sleep but now mothers are out and about with crying babies and children annoying everyone else. Children are sleep deprived and undisciplined which isn't a good combination, then they go to school where the teachers spend hours trying to corral the noisy and disruptive children in order to begin a lesson on how white people invaded Australia, the earth will burn up in climate change and global warming and finishing with are you a boy or a girl, don't worry because it no longer matters.
Aug 29, 25

If you could have one hour with your Head of State or Prime Minister, what topic would you like to bring to the table and why?
Woodster
Give up on renewables and give us affordable electricity. Mind you own business about international affairs. House the homeless and young people who can't afford to buy a home. Get your act together! You are only PM because of preferences.
Aug 15, 25

What Would It Be And How Would You Use It? go beyond the usual wishes for money or fame think life hacks, secret talents, or even completely useless-but-hilarious abilities. Would you become a concert pianist, a master negotiator, or someone who can fold a fitted sheet without losing your will to live? Let s hear your dream skill and how it would really change your day-to-day life. Bonus points for weird and wonderful answers!
Ghostly
I would like to have a power to ease pain and suffering in aged people, to reverse old age so they can still enjoy life
Jul 26, 25

When money goes to medical research, which disease or diseases should have priority? Should it be allocated mostly to cancer or heart disease or diabetes or mental health issues? Who should determine the priority, and how should the money be divided? Along those lines, should the money go to administration to pay for staff or to medical supplies or to universities for research courses?
NotFriedLikeMost
It's a perpetual scam.
They research "cures" to ENSURE the money keeps rolling in.
But, if they just looked at the CAUSES of issues...they wouldn't GET money for research because they would know HOW to heal...and, to be fair, it is VERY easy to heal anything...but, they don't know this, and, if they do, they purposely maintain their status quo so they KEEP YOU SOMEWHAT SICK so they can MANAGE your issues, PROFITING OFF YOU THE WHOLE TIME...AND, practicing the SLOW KILL as they push allopathy onto you via petroleum based pills...that NEVER fix anything, they just "mask" the issue, and it just festers internally.
These things are set up to TRANSFER WEALTH from US...to THEM. End of story.
Jul 13, 25

Why is it that since the pandemic, drivers are speeding, going through red lights, hitting pedestrians and not stopping? It is just awful out there!! Where is their sense of responsibility? Are more and more people using alcohol and Marijuana and drugs? A lady with no license just hit 3 people...a mom and her twins as they crossed the street in the pedestrian walkway. One twin died and mom is critical, and driver took off! What is wrong with people that they have...
1
People are selfish. Everyone is an hurry to nowhere. No one wants more police on the streets. However, it may be necessary for a larger police traffic presence to alter driver behaviour. As stated elsewhere, harsher and stricter penalties might also be required. it's not just the speed. There is a general lack of awareness and understanding of the rules of the road. Better and more rigorous driver education standards combined with mandatory re-examination / relicensing for more serious offences might be helpful in altering behaviours as well.
Jul 14, 25

Do consider the end of a product life cycle before making a purchase? A lot of products claim to be better for the environment but when they are sent to landfill they are terrible for the environment, such as those products that take a long time to biodegrade for example.
Thylas
This is unfortunately the problem the world will be facing with all of this so-called 'green' technology such as wind turbines, solar panels and lithium batteries when they reach the end of their usefulness. How is all of this going to be recycled? If it ends up in landfill, what sort of chemicals are going to leach into the soil and river systems?
May 20, 25

How do you guys feel about this? Glyphosate is a carcinogenic. It is available to purchase in most countries around the world to control the spread of weeds in and around our homes and gardens. Market gardeners, Farmers and big suppliers of produce, around the world use this poison (some, not all. But most) Would you pay more and buy only organic produce, or take the risk and purchase food produced by suppliers who use this toxic chemical that is killing people...
Alira
I hope you dont drink alcohol, eat bacon or various other carcinogens. Glyphosate has been proven safe time and time again, you are just fear mongering with no scientific back up.
Feb 12, 25

Our society has come a long way from the olden days, as today's life is so different now. In our currant society, people have changed so much. They use their bodies far more than many years ago. It is in the way they dress, their hair dos, piercing & tattooing wherever. I sometimes wonder to why so many people do these things. Is it to be different from someone else, getting back to someone you loved or hated. Jewellery anywhere beside where it should be. In my opinion, body...
JessicaP
I have 11 piercings in my ears, 1 in my belly button & a few tattoos. My mother actually took me to get my belly button done since I was only 17 & I went with her to get her second piercing in her ears. I'm not a fan of some facial piercings or over gauged ears, but a small stud in the nose or ring in the eyebrow is fine. I think if you're qualified to do the job, it shouldn't matter what kind of piercings you have. If you're the face of a company, the employer should make it clear in the dress code policy. Don't judge a book by its cover.
Jul 09, 24

I was at church, and the pastor was talking about why it s bad to gossip about people. He said it s like killing someone as a person. Then, someone called the pastor on the phone and started getting upset. "If you gossip, there s no point in coming to church," the pastor said. I have been gossiped about all my life at church, but I never called the pastor because of it. This is just one of many things people say. For example, today, a lady told me, "If you don t do the right thing...
Dianne P (NZ)
Can someone explain to me why God doesn't answer the prayers of the people in Gaza or the hungry and their suffering. I cannot understand why such dreadful things happen, yet all the prayers do nothing. Religion in my opinion has been the cause of all the suffering. And don't even get me started on Catholicism and the Priests
Feb 15, 25

In addition, loneliness has been found to raise levels of stress, impede sleep and, in turn, harm the body. Loneliness can also augment depression or anxiety. What do you reckon? What are the effects of having no friends?
Nerd Face
Depends on the circumstances. I\u2019m a migrant from another country without friends but freedom to choose what I would do and I was contented with that. I found solitude can be a source of healing and rewarding. Friends can cause more stress for you as you have to keep up with them and time and be with them can be all consuming. There are other things you can enjoy on your own that you are not dependent on another for happiness.
Jan 29, 24

Regarding the elderly people, should they have a donated time slot to do their shopping? In me opinion definitely no, but I can t believe the polls are asking normal people in a survey to separate the elderly, because they are slow and very talkative, which slows everyone else through the isles and checkouts. To me, this is really discrimination for them. This people need to be treated with respect at all times. We all will be in this position one day. How would you feel if...
BLM
Equality has NEVER existed on this planet - you will FACE some form of discrimination (ageism, racism, sexism, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, lack of religious beliefs, social economic status, etc.) - before you DIE on this planet!
Nov 26, 24

Women have come a long way from being thought of as 2nd class citizens. I am all for all the gains we have made. Women are leaders in all aspects of life, Be it politics, business or generally in the work force. But I can't help but feel we have also lost so much. Such as self-respect and respect from our male counterparts. We can swear as good as any man! Not so sure if this is a good thing! Men never used to swear in front of woman, but now it seems...
Michelle S 553303
I truly believe that women in general have less rights now than they did when I was growing up in the 1960's. My mother was able to stay home and raise my brother and I and not forced to leave her home AND her children to afford the mortgage money for the house my father and her purchased together. They had 2 solid years working together at a factory before my mother fell pregnant with me and retired from the paid workforce and she was able to rest during her pregnancy and prepare for my arrival enjoying that time. Even on one income back then we had meat every night for dinner because back then you could afford it, not now! My mother taught me SO many valuable lessons of how to cook well but cheaply, how to sew and how to run a home. I, however, did not think that these lessons were valuable until I got older and unfortunately I bought into the feminist hype of the working woman being able to "do it all"! Absolute BS BTW as all I did was get on a treadmill for 25 years without stopping trying to be everything that my changing society told me was my right but ultimately missing out on some of the most important things in my 5 children's lives. I sent them along to Daycare because I was told it was as good as me caring for them and they'd be well socialised, but they cried when I left them and I abandoned them to a place of noise and no love. They will say to me today "Mum, do you remember when" or "do you remember so and so" and I have no recollection of those events or people because my headspace and I were somewhere else. I wish that I had realised the feminist lies back then and stayed at home raising my children myself and teaching them things of value. You can NEVER reclaim those moments you lost and I regret it deeply. I believe that we are less "women" now than we were before we had the right to choose whether or not to bring to term the children we carried in our wombs and we started trying so dang hard to be as good as men when we already were but in a different way! We got robbed of a lot of simple pleasures of watching our children play or having kids come home with our kids and ask to play in the backyard because there was always someone home back then. These days women, mothers especially, have to coordinate schedules and are often absent from the home and need to organise formal play dates with the other equally busy and exhausted parents of their child's friends. If THIS is what was meant by "progress" for women then we collectively were sold a lemon! Thanks for reading.
Oct 16, 24

Do you think it is right for small communities to put off fireworks by neighbours with no license or permission? What are the dangers of fire and also of injury doing this?
GB
I have never heard of putting off fireworks. If you are going to put them off you don't need a license. If you let them off you might just BLOW your hand off.
Jul 13, 24

Since Covid-19, I developed a passion for cooking. I found it is a smart way to save money. On top of that, enjoying delicious meals, exploration of flavours of nourishing oneself and others making it a genuine and rewarding passion for many of us. Is cooking your passion?
Michelle S 553303
I hardly ever eat out whether at takeaways or restaurants, and so I have to cook at home. I buy whatever vegetables are on clearance and I make meals with these and pulses as they're cheap. What I really enjoy is getting the "Red Book" out which I transcribed old family recipes from, which had paper that was falling apart, when I was 10 years old. As it's been almost 50 years since I wrote those recipes down and since the writing is fading away, it is almost time to rewrite the family recipes again and hopefully my children and grandchildren will decide to try them out when I'm gone. There are even recipes which refer to "remove plate from fire" which pre date even my own grandmother. The recipes are easy to make, relatively cheap and taste delicious. I like knowing exactly what is in my food and cooking at home from scratch provides me with something to look forward to eating! Thanks for reading and Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers out there!
May 12, 24

Never judge a man (or woman) until you realize the (or lack of) choices that man (or woman) had available at that life-changing moment. Or are you the type that goes with the current and that ship (moment) has sailed (and you are always RIGHT)?
mary c
It must be well past your nap time M1364377...your comments and calling people B****es and retard is inappropriate and offensive. I hope you are removed from here by the time you wake up and are packing your lunch for school.
Jul 30, 23

We are all human beings, we are all equal, we all need the same things to survive. Water, food and shelter! Peace & happiness is what we all long for. How can we all contribute to world peace?
writerrochelle
Only one person can bring world peace to this earth. His name is Jesus Christ. He is the son of Jehovah God. Soon God will hand over the kingdom rule to his son, who will then cleanse the earth of all wickedness, and peace will reign forever! Please read Matthew 6:10; Matthew 24:14 and Psalm chapter 37 in your Bible! ;-D
Oct 16, 23

There is a plethora of arguments for and against the above. Towards the end of his life Charles Darwin became skeptical of his theory of evolution. Science is knowledge gained from observable facts. Theory is how we try to link facts to make a story. Given that new facts (evidence) can dramatically change the story should we still see evolution and creation as either/or argument.
The dog house
If we came from the monkeys why has the ape population not evolved yet. I believe we were created in God's image.
Sep 19, 21

If you could pick anywhere in the world to live for one whole year, where would you choose and why? Would you choose somewhere warm and tropical, a busy city full of things to do, a quiet countryside, or somewhere completely different from where you live now?
Andrew396
If Hawaii wasn't part of the US, I'd live there in a heartbeat. Definitely somewhere warm and tropical though, or perhaps southern Europe.
That said, where I live now is beautiful, we have mountains, the ocean, and winters that aren't too cold most years. I'm quite content living where I do now (suburban Vancouver, Canada).
1 week ago

Okay, I have a question for all the shoppers. How many check your docket (receipt)? An item you thought was on special - you might have read the price tag wrong, or picked up an item at a very different price than you thought it was. Or the scanner charging more for items. I have found products I only bought one of, but have had the item appear up to 3 times on my receipt. I will say that this supermarket is my favorite, but the receipt print is so small to read - it s just...
Hoppyroo
I know how you feel. some time ago I found a supermarket docket in my handbag. I pulled it out to throw it away and being curious I read through it just to see what I had bought at that time and how the prices had changed. I rarely if ever checked my receipts. The receipt I was holding was almost 2 months old. Going through it I saw I had bought 33 cartons of long life milk. Living alone I only ever but 3 cartons at a time. Next time I was in that supermarket I went to the desk and showed them the receipt saying I knew it was old but I had found it in my handbag. To my surprise the lady called the manager and after I explained everything the manager `repaid the extra amount and apologised. I never thought for a moment that I would be repaid, so it just goes to show that you should always check your dockets
Oct 03, 26

A star footballer evolves into a top horse trainer, a teacher becomes a nurse, or a landlord, a carpenter becomes a Building lecturer, and a plumber becomes a policeman. There are many examples of people changing careers at various stages in their lives. Some do it because it gives them more satisfaction or better remuneration. Others do it because they are forced into it amidst changing job demands or redundancies. What is your experience? Have you had a surprising career change?
Maggie2760
I started my working life as a musician and worked my way around the world. Became a nanny in London and was hired by Veronica, Lady Lucan. Left there to move to Egypt and my replacement was murdered by Lord Lucan. I went back to music as it fitted around my children and then retrained with degrees in Education and Psychology, later working in Juvenile Justice. I was widowed very young but apart from that, life has been an amazing and wonderful adventure.
Oct 07, 26

For many years I've noticed that people I know would say they'll help me out when I need as I have done for them. It never happens, although I've thrown it out to them. Neighbors say they'll give me vegetables from their garden like I had given to them when I had my garden; but due to an unfortunate accident I had, I couldn't do any planting. I desperately needed some of the veggies but they never brought me any. They knew I was injured but did not even offer anything. I...
RonD
I can really relate. My wife of 47 years passed away last year and I found myself completely alone. I would ask neighbors to come visit and keep me company. They all said NO either because I was too needy or I needed to get on with my life. Yet, when any neighbor needed help my wife and I were always there. Things that make you wonder!
Sep 29, 26

They used to have waiters write down your order on a pad... they would then take it to the kitchen... answer any questions from the kitchen... then whoever was in charge took over... organized everything... and if the chef was any good... everything, for EVERY table... in a really busy restaurant... arrived together... in the correct order... easy... with a nice break between courses... sure, staff got yelled at and abused... BUT it WORKED... So pencils...
Lindy28
It\u2019s rude and time consuming. Don\u2019t know how the elderly would cope with all the tech. Part of going out to dinner is being treated nicely by the staff.
Sep 24, 26

True brilliance involves empathy, intuition, creativity, and seeing solutions around hidden corners. What's the smartest person you've ever met?
Fancythecat
President Trump. My Father was really smart too. He made something when I was a little girl, and it was such good workmanship it is one of a kind and I was told by high up people what a great perfectly job he did.
Sep 19, 26

There's a kind of technique to build that is call eco building, and like the name indicates, it means you can make your constructions eco. If you build in determinate direction, your building will be warmer in winter and more fresh in summer. Plus, if you plant some plants around the walls of the building they will absorb the heat from summer and stop the wind, plus increase the wellbeing of the employees. There are a lot of things that eco buildings can achieve, why do you...
Von
Well I think if this is all we need to do to prevent climate change...I must be doing my bit...I'm growing moss in my gutters...\ud83d\ude43
Sep 13, 26

I don't understand why we get warned not to use AI when doing surveys. For myself, it's fine - I'm not bothered, nor do I have time to worry about learning to use it. AI is shocking enough when you're trying to get an answer to a question and it actually argues with you about something you know is a completely wrong answer. Getting annoyed with a computer is a waste of time; we already have a world of humans who are annoying enough. I just did a survey that was...
Rodwings
I am positive some are using it to participate in some games. The top times displayed in classic solitaire are humanly impossible. Current top time is 94 seconds. Impossible with a mouse or finger. Just completed one with minimal moves and it still took 403 seconds. I have done them in a shorter time but 94 seconds ain't happening. \ud83d\ude06\ud83e\udd23\ud83d\ude02 583 seconds on single card classic solitaire just now. One of my slower results mind you.
Sep 07, 26

Many brands and companies claim that their product is "Made in x" or "only contains y" but it has been proven, aside from straight out fraudulent claims, that these claims can be allowed due to laws which only require x of the product to come from product or country y or some other nonsensical formula. It is time for more transparency! As long as a product or service is high quality, it does not really matter to me where it is from. What I care about is that the brand or...
The ghost
Regardless of country, I feel for anything to be labeled made in Australia, it should be designed, produced and manufactured of 100% Australian commodities and ingredients then packaged in Australia with 100% Australian made wrappings, the same as for each country.
Aug 10, 26

As my old friend used to say: - I am muddled Meaning that he forgets well he forgets almost everything. It hurts him. He often gets lost. I am so sorry for him. But he could fight his muddliness! He is still able to live alone, but his fridge is often empty only hunger makes him to go to the shop. He has good days though Dementia doesn t start in old age, it starts much, much earlier. That s what we should know and do whatever we can to prevent it. What s your...
BLM
There is no sure way to 'prevent' dementia; there are steps you can take that 'might' slow down the full effects of dementia. A lot more research is needed. However, it MIGHT help to do the following: Keep your mind active. Be physically active and socially active. If you smoke, then quit smoking. Get enough vitamins (see a general practitioner aka a MD). Manage cardiovascular risk factors (thru a medical specialist aka a MD). Take care of your mental health (thru a licensed psychologist and/or licensed psychiatrist) and neurologist (MD). Maintain a healthy diet (you are what you eat). Get good quality sleep. Treat hearing loss. Get regular eye exams and treat vison loss. Most importantly (to me) see a licensed MD (or as many medical doctors you need to see) on a regular basis. FYI: For me it is slowing down the full effects of being diagnosis with dementia at an early stage in life.
Aug 07, 26

Many businesses put you through lots of ai hoops before you can PERHAPS get a human and then, once you do get a human, I seriously doubt it is a human OR that the human speaks your language adequately to be of assistance (and this is obvious when you read their replies to your problems, even when you have simply and succinctly given a description of the problem). Are they hiring incompetent people who lack basic comprehension skills or they just do not get paid enough to...
Paul the Undead
if you cant get customer support just remind them you can always always withdraw your custom and you will tell all your friends to do the same and why
Aug 05, 26

I know times are tough for restaurants but being extremely stingy or skimpy with main ingredients or toppings will just drive people further away. My favorite submarine sandwich place now has tomato slices that are so thin they are almost paper like. A tiny line of shredded lettuce, not even a tablespoon worth. We went to our favorite Italian franchise eatery last night. The sausage penne pasta dish had 3 slices of sausage the size and thickness of quarters. It used...
writerrochelle
My favorite 2 restaurants in Oak Harbor, Washington are El Cazador and the D&H Mongolian Buffet. Although the prices have gone up a few dollars, for $15 you can eat all you want at the Buffet, which has everything anyone could want, and on Monday El Cazador offers a Senior Citizen's discount of 50% off any Combination dinner, and the amounts have NOT decreased! That means a 3 item (including refried beans, Spanish rice, and a serving of avocado and sour cream on lettuce, + chips and salsa to start), $20 combo is only $10! I eat half there, and bring half home, which I eat for dinner! Find gems like these and you'll be able to enjoy your time eating out! \ud83e\udd17\ud83d\ude0b\ud83e\udd2d
Jun 30, 26

Is it a common theme that many of us have great ideas, but we don't have the time or money to get working on them? Do you write your ideas down and save them for another day? Do you dismiss them at the time because you already have enough things to do or because of start up costs, or do you drop what you're doing and action them straight away? What do you do when a great idea pops in your head?
Mrs Invictus
Great read Christina C \ud83d\ude01 I for one am a doer, in saying that many ideas have been just that lol Great ideas are a part of being human and therefore evolution. Regardless of whats going on, anyone with a great idea I encourage to make it happen, don't let any barriers stop you because all great things start from some thing/one small.
Feb 14, 26

It seems like everything from food to cars to electronics to homes have skyrocketed in price since 2020. What's the underlying cause here? Why or how are people still able to buy these things for their inflated prices?
Beth
Two words: corporate greed. Granted covid, wars, inflation etc have some effect, it's not anywhere as pronounced as new set prices would have you believe. Corporations have milked these things to hike prices and get away with it and are continuing to do so.
Feb 01, 26

Yesterday I was taking my bin out to the curb in the evening...a young guy walking past stopped me...he said a couple of doors down...there was a car parked at a slight angle on the driveway...with car door open...that he had tried banging on the front door but no-one answered...so I went down there...banged on the door...there was a Bollywood movie playing really loud in the lounge...nobody home all the lights on... I noticed their bin wasn't outside...and the side gate...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Arjun finally got Anushka to say "OK Arjun . .let's go upstairs now " !!! . . . . . . "OK" said Arjun . . "Just let me put the bin out and shut the back door and gate" . . . . . "Now or never" said Anushka. . . . "I am to be happy" said Arjun !
Jan 19, 26

Most people seem to believe that the weather is at least changing massively and that pumping carbon (and far more worse things that are being totally ignored) into the atmosphere is not helping.... We have aging power stations all over the world that need replacing...be it renewables...Hydrogen...Hydro..solar...wind thermal or Tide (what happened to tide generators?)..or nuclear....or if we go back to coal oil and gas) ... whatever we do is going to cost masses of...
Old sheila
All a lot of Crap Same weather for hundreds of years Nothing to do with Climate change . I have so far lived a long time to already know this
Nov 26, 25

Can divorce really be better for the whole family, including (especially) children, and what are the best ways to support children during a divorce? What's your experience?
Wombat
I stayed with my husband for the kids and it was the biggest mistake because my kids suffered in the long run
Oct 30, 25

The space program costs billions and billions of dollars. There has been talk about new moon missions, missions to Mars, missions to other planets or their moons in our solar system, and missions out of our solar system. For which mission or missions should all of that money be spent? Should we not spend so much on space missions and instead focus on fixing Earth and its problems?
BLM
I don't believe 'we' (governments cooperating together on this planet - solving our environmental issues and natural resources issues, etc.) have enough money to solve earth's many issues - all created by mankind. Might as well have a Plan B - exit this planet (Earth) and start our destructive human behavior pattern on another uninhabited planet ('still') it is a dirty, rotten shame we are condemned to repeat our history on another uninhabited planet in the universe (LOL))!
Nov 01, 25

Are you ready for the Christmas rush! Every year it seems to arrive faster & my preparations are not nearly as good as they used to be! Have you started your Christmas shopping? Maybe you have made your Christmas cake. Do you still celebrate with family or friends, or does Christmas pass by without recognition? Old traditions seem to be dying out. What do you think?
CAMC
DO NOT LIKE THE MADNESS OF CHRISTMAS. WE SEEM TO FORGET THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS AS EVERYONE GOES CRAZY AROUND THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
Nov 02, 25

Common disadvantages of homeschooling include a lack of real-life socialisation, limited access to resources and facilities, the demanding load on parents, and potential legal challenges. What are your thoughts on homeschooling?
Joanne D 124129
I come school my child. I do not believe that children need to attend a main stream school. Parents can access so many different resources and facilities. Homeschooling allows kids to learn without disruption, without all the waiting. Kids queue to enter a school classroom they wait while students organise themselves, they wait while instructions and resources are distributed. Waiting to ask questions plus all the rest. Homeschool kids have access to as much socialising as mainstream school students if not more. This depends on the parents and locations. We do group sporting, Homeschool group activities, play sessions, group library activities activities. The difference i find with my kid is that they are socialising with kids of a wide variety of ages, stages, and walks of life.
I have found Homeschool kids to be more friendly, they actually think more, are kind and great well rounded kids. I've not come across bullying and harassment behaviour. We live how we attend a monthly science activity. The kids get together and start group games. No parental instruction and they support younger kids or kids that may have disabilities and adjust things to include kids. These kids do this without any adult direction. Talking to the kids they take each kid individually likes/dislikes and all abilities. There has to my knowledge no restricting or isolation of any kids. They have been happy, confident, caring and intelligent kids. The kids can adjust attitudes and behaviours if they are playing games with toddlers, thru to high school kids and even adjusting games to include kids in wheelchairs or crutches, blind or other disabilities. They don't make a fuss of adjustments. An example was 12 boys (aged between 8 and 15 ) playing with a ball kicking it from one side to another. Then allowing some toddlers to have a kick of the ball and encouraging the little ones to be part of the game.
Oct 28, 25

A family name is usually carried by a man, which has been for such a long time when this world was created. To me, a man is a man that brings his name forward with pride to his wife/partner & children & makes decisions & is the main bread winner of your home. Now these days, life & family meanings & structures are changing a lot. Many men now are adopting their wife/partner's name instead of keeping his name. How do you feel when this has been done? It brings the...
Neo
"taking a man's name" is antiquated and sexist. It is easier (legally) and cheaper to keep your own name (especially these days when people are in the habit of remarrying).
When I was married, I always earned MORE than my husband so I find it offensive when people say "the man is the breadwinner" and I am talking decades ago (when we first married) right up until recent history when we divorced.
Oct 14, 25

I hate group homes. There are people who love to steal and don t admit it, so they don t have to pay back the person they stole from. One or more bathrooms have bad plumbing, messy bathrooms, not enough of them. People bothering people, staff accusing people, they even talk behind people s backs. They tell certain people they can t use the clean bathroom with good plumbing. Certain people get held down. All day long and all night you hear annoying beeping noises on all doors and...
APB
well I have no idea what you are talking about..what is a group home?..is this an American thing?...what country are we talking about please?
Oct 08, 25

Throughout my years, I could never understand how Families could get to the stage where they would not speak to each other. That so much hatred could come between them. Understanding that yes always the arguments that occur but no matter what it is the love that is always there. Do we choose to ignore things that are said or done which would not be tolerated if coming from someone else? Throughout My Years I Could Never Understand This, But Now I...
Goofie
I used to believe family was everything. Life has taught me otherwise. Doesn't seem to matter with some how nice you are or what ever you do! You just keep getting abused and used. Friends you can choose!
Sep 19, 25

I am amazed that we constantly hear how tough people are doing it, the cost of living, unable to afford rent or mortgage, cost of petrol and power, kids going without shoes and yet whenever I am out in the evening or at the weekend every restaurant, cafe or upmarket eatery I pass is full, especially with younger people around 20 50 years. How can they afford to be dining out if times are so "tough?"
Michelle S 553303
I can give you a hint: CREDIT! Yes, these mostly young people who would, back in the day, have already been parents to a couple of kids and might be on their first or second marriages, are being propagandised to play it up and enjoy life WITHOUT responsibilities. Now everyone gets to choose their own path but this is by design. They are paid far more than I ever earned even though I have an undergraduate degree but instead of pesky kids to feed and educate they get to spend like the party will go on forever. Only they are deceived. Most will never be able to afford to buy a home of their own and many live with mates not family, except many still do well into their 20's or even longer. So their rate off disposable income is higher. Their nice cars though are often bought on credit which sounds brilliant to them until they get sick or lose their job that is! Then we have other available credit including the plastic cards but even more commonly nowadays are the Afterpay and Zip BNPL platforms and they can create massive problems which only this generation has seen. The whole "pay in 4" sounds great at first but if you haven't had a good fiscal education, and many have not, then the fact that you can buy a card, with Zip there's no upfront payment to do so although Afterpay requires 25% down, which you can use to dine out, travel, and buy basically whatever takes your fancy even though you don't have the money! I was amazed to find that you can buy groceries with these platforms, and if you are hungry then Im sure its invaluable, but the rest is just trouble! I've watched many financial channels where young people are interviewed and some of them are 50K in debt and they have zero assets. They've had to go bankrupt before they're 30! I understand that those who did the right thing and saved up money, scrimping for years to pay back their mortgage and only driving second hand cars until they own their home outright, like my own parents, certainly deserve to enjoy the fruits of their labour, but today is different and there WILL be a societal reckoning due to this and that won't be good for any of us! Thanks for reading.
Apr 13, 24

We 4WD and Camp all over Australia, when Camping in the Northern part of Northern Territory one evening I hear and saw a woman aged about 25 screaming as she entered her tent, she never zipped her tent closed and a common green tree snake got into her tent. The common green tree snake is not dangerous, and I removed it from her tent (she was from the US) for her. What has scared you when camping?
Smiley
The evidence of a Drop Bear attack to a teacher during a school camp. You've got to be careful of them, they attack when you least expect it.
Jul 29, 25

When faced with something as life-changing as a cancer diagnosis, the path forward is never simple. Chemotherapy, alternative therapies, or even choosing to let life unfold naturally none of these are easy or wrong, just deeply personal. The truth is, we can only choose what we know. And if no one tells us about all the options, or if we re too overwhelmed to ask, how can we truly say we chose at all? It's not about rejecting one path or glorifying another....
Len G
Having had testicular cancer 20 yrs ago and deciding on what form of treatment to do was tough. .i chose radiation and in the end it worked out. But like many times and things in life one size definitely doesn't fit all
Jun 27, 25

What do you think about your Country going cashless? There are thousands of older people who are not doing digital banking, or even have computers, let alone "smartphones." My local branch has closed all their teller's, so now we have to use the ATM...
mumk
I think to go cashless they will have to change the law as what will be "legal tender' I am now in my eighties. I hope I die before this happens
May 26, 25

What have you learnt, good or bad? Has it changed your perspective? Was it a farce? Fearmongering? Are you better for it, or worse off? General question, many options, speak your mind
Edienz
I learnt that the govt is a dictatorship and refuse to listen to any opposing opinions. I never wore a mask unless at doctor or supermarket and I didn’t get any boosters. I was fine until I went to hospital and caught covid there. Headache and sore throat only on first day. 95% vaccination did not stop a huge rise in cases. I will never trust the govt again.
Sep 13, 22

Over the past few weeks, I've noticed more garbage thrown along hiking trails. This includes old vehicle parts, old washing machines, hoses, plastic containers, and the list goes on and on. I live up North in Canada, and I used to enjoy hiking as many trails as possible. I'm now disgusted by the mess people are making. Some of the people have bush parties, they cook all types of foods etc. When the parties are over, they leave all the trash in the woods. Do they not take...
Bugalugs
People are just Lazy. Its not just Litter the dump when and where they want to there are other things people do which also gets up our noses.
Gyms. The great Big, Muscle-bound men and Women use equipment, particulatly Heavy Weights, and then simply leave them where they have been using them so that Gym Staff have to go around putting all that gear back on the racks, we even have one of them who uses the toilet, never flushes we simply assume that Mum/Mom, Dad or some servant at home wipes their bums and flushes for them
The other annoyance is in Supermarkets. People go to the Service Delicatessen get a heap of Smallgoods and then later decide they don't want any of it. So what do they do? Take it back to the Delli? Of course not! They just dump it anywhere and never in any fridge so that when hours or even days later it is found it has to be thrown out. This costs the Supermarket owners and, just like Shoplifting, means that prices are increased to cover those losses.
Is it really so difficult to keep your rubbish until you get home? You are big and strong enough to carry those FULL cans, bottles, wrapped sandwiches etc. into Parks etc. so why are you suddenly so weak you cannot carry the Empty bottles and cans, wrapping papers/bags out and dispose of them at home?
May 25, 25

If you could have three wishes, what would they be (and no more wishing for more wishes). 1. World peace. 2. Healthy planet. 3. Good health. What about you?
Chosen
and only one more wish ..... " That Rewardia pay more for Surveys and Games." .......................... Ummmmmmm.
May 05, 25

The best way to deal with someone who constantly asks you personal questions is to ask them why they want to know. It really is that simple, folks. Depending on what answer they give, it's at that point you have the option to proceed or not. You don't have to answer anything that you don't want to. What is your advice? How do you handle people who constantly ask personal questions you're not comfortable answering?
keimanzero
Sorry but I do not have any personal questions that I am afraid of being asked so I answer them and fire back at them a personal question they may be uncomfortable at answering! Tit for Tat!
Jan 11, 25

A lot of the surveys seem to target young people or people raising children, and I am worried that I will not be eligible for them as I age. It is my birthday tomorrow, and it is harder to get money for anything as you get older. What do you do to earn money as you age?
Chosen
I'm lucky that I am a multi millionaire, manage over a thousand staff, make all decisions re labour, training and hiring. My companies turnover is in excess of a Billion dollars annually. I do all the shopping and I am the sole shopping decision maker. I also like giving input re my use of mobiles and broadband both for business and home. Also I regulary watch and go to many films, and also watch TV and use and go to my Bank every week. Yes I do have All insurance products also. I am young, have many children and don't mind them doing surveys either. I also travel for business and vacation many time a year and know nearly all airlines. I regret I do not qualify re surveys re Cleaning products as I don't do that as I have hired cleaning help !!!
Jan 12, 25

One of the key reasons why the world feels chaotic is technological advancements. Technology has revolutionized nearly every aspect of our lives, from communication to transportation to healthcare. While these advancements have brought numerous benefits, they have also created new challenges and complexities. What are your thoughts? Why does the world feel so unstable right now?
Dude49
There have been so many stupid people, with such fragile egos, out there and everyone wants to prove they have the biggest d@*k! So you have whoever it is who is running the White House, because we all know that Biden couldn\u2019t find his butt with both hands and a flashlight, who is pushing all of the LGBTQ+++++ crap, destroying the future of America, who is pushing the hatred between Jews and Arabs, Russia and Ukraine, China and the World, and doing everything they can to line their own pockets, with no care whatsoever about the Nation! Then you have the Europeans, who have been such big powers years ago, who still think they are top of the mountain, when they can\u2019t even take care of their own people! The New World Order, funded by Soros and his Ilk, who have way more money than they can ever spend, and are just bored to death and decided they want to play in politics to get back at every perceived insult or slight that has happened to them in their lives, just spoiled 80 year old \u201cspoiled children\u201d, who have decided that if \u201cYou won\u2019t play by the rules I just made up, I will take my ball and go home!\u201d Sheer stupidity! If the governments of the world would just work together, there is enough money, assets and skills to give every person in the world, clean water, good food, a roof over their heads, abd safety from the ills out there! But no, EVERYONE wants to be in charge and control their own little corner of their world!
Jan 09, 25

Playing old music to dementia patients seems to bring them "back" to be massively helpful.... I have a fairly large collection of CDs... I put one on, and I am transported to when I was 19....or 24...and everything else about being there ALSO comes rushing back too...people...names...masses of stuff it can be really emotional too....not to sure if our current youth will have this resource...maybe a video rather than real experiences connected to each song...mixes and...
BLM
Last Night, a DJ saved My life is a song (a very popular song released by an American Musical Group - called Indeed in the dying years of Disco in the USA) - sold over 1,000,000 copies on 45 formats. I use music to link 'pleasant memories' in my mind - the safest place to hold fond memories that are near and dear too ME - in MY MIND - because I CAN visit my fond memories in my mind at any time (day or night).
Dec 28, 24

I know I will get a lot of negative feedback for this and if someone is alone, I can understand them treating their pup like it is their child, but dog clothes are expensive and unnecessary. That money could be put to much better uses, like feeding hungry children.
Sylvia Y
I think it is dreadful to do this to intelligent animals be they dogs or cats and it should be treated as animal cruelty
Dec 17, 24

When is it time for an elderly person to be in aged care? Should it be up to the person themselves, or should their children help them decide? My Dad lives on his own and is happy, but he has recently had a fall, and I am not sure if I am happy about him being alone. What do you think?
BLM
I was never close to my parents or my immediate family on my father side or my mother side. I went on to become a runaway when I was a teen-ager - and never saw my parents or immediate family EVER again! Anyway, a very bad warning health sign is you stated your father recently fell - you need to schedule an appointment with a geriatrician and neurologist ASAP. After the health data comes back from both medical doctors - you and father need to have a heart-to-heart talk about his living on his OWN and any adjustments NEEDED for him to continue to live on his OWN! FYI: I turned 79 - yesterday - I see a geriatrician and neurologist - once a year - to make annual adjustments pertaining to the status of my health - so I can continue to live on my OWN!
Nov 30, 24

There are a few countries that provide school children with free food. Even teachers are allowed to have it too. However, so many developed countries don't intend to do it. What is your opinion? To have access to free food at school is support for children and parents, as well. It is interesting to hear different opinions and facts from the residents of different countries.
APB
Australia should have this nationwide...there is no excuse...we waste our taxes on rubbish...lets feed and love our kids
Nov 16, 24

Lately, renting has become very high. When it comes to food or clothes, one can save up. But renting is something that you depend on others. The cheapest renting in Canada is $2,000 for a family. It takes half the budget. Even if one wants to rent places with low price, it doesn't work as it is wished.
Warrior
Renting is a problem when you let to many foreigner into a country who buy up properties and leave thise homes empty.. you know who these people are.
Sep 30, 24

The other day, I noticed an elderly woman shoplift in a grocery store. I felt sorry for her - she must have been low on money to buy food, and so she was stealing. Would you report an elderly shoplifter or let it go OR maybe offer to buy the item for her?
Imperia S '' PIER''
there are plenty of places for people to get food for nothing eg. Food Bank, Salvation Army, etc.there is no need for stealing, they set bad examples to the younger crowd
Aug 26, 24

Some scientists believe that Climate Change is bogus. It's not real according to their analysis. Some of these Climate change sceptics have done analytical studies and --couldn't find real evidence of it. The earth is always changing, and nothing remains the same for too long. But if these other Scientists are right and this has all been a lie, then what would be the reason for this? Why would so many want to believe it and insist it is happening?
Pearlz
Stalin once said if you tell a lie make it a big lie because people will believe a big lie. Darwin came up with the theory of evolution, and it was only a theory as there has never been any proof. With the advances in DNA this theory has been blown out of the water and yet it is taught in schools as a fact. What did Darwin gain from what is a lie? Fame! Climate change is another lie that started as Global Warming but when it became evident that the world was not warming it was changed to climate change. The CSIRO know it isn't a fact but if they announce that the money tap will be turned off. Malcolm Turnbull pushes climate change, and why wouldn't he as he and his son are making a lot of money from green technologies. As with anything, follow the money. Just look at the money being made by people making and installing solar panels, electric cars and batteries. And all this rubbish needs replacing every 10 or 20 years. It is one huge con and many people have been sucked in either because they didn't really think about it or are too afraid to disagree. How on earth can mankind change the weather? There is the sun and moon with all their effects, undersea volcanoes spewing hot water that heats our oceans altering the currents which effects the rain we get. Climate change has been blamed for the recent floods which is totally incorrect, they were caused by El Nino which has been known by the South Americans for thousands of years. People should ask questions and not simply accept the rubbish pushed as FACT.
Jun 08, 22

Some research suggests that loneliness can increase stress. It's also associated with an increased risk of certain mental health problems. For example, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and sleep problems. My anxiety and depression isolates me from people and stops me from being able to do the things I'd like to do. What do you reckon? What does being lonely do to a person?
BLM
I am NOT a people person - I enjoy being ALONE without ever feeling LONELY! Furthermore, there is a BIG difference between ALONE and being LONELY!
May 22, 24

Well wow this discussion can hit on so much nerves. I can fully understand a life between 2 adults, but when children are involved that is too much to take in. If you live in a dysfunctional life or in an abusive situation, I also can fully understand, but when especially a mother to decide to leave your family & especially children, in my opinion it takes the cake. I find this to be so selfish on your part to up root your children's lifes for what you think for a better life. It...
Turbo Leonie
We have no right to judge anyone as we do not know the complete story. There could be many reasons for a mother to leave, she may be putting her kids first, who knows? It would be such a hard decision. We have not walked in their shoes. Anybody who has made the decision deserves our support as well as the children and other parent. The last thing they need is others judging. How will that help a family?
May 04, 24

Is it just me, or has there been a rise in people who in insist on correcting other people's Spelling and Grammar?? (even now, I'm sure I've probably put a full stop in the wrong place or misspelled a few words) Is this a battle worth fighting or just plain Jerky, what do you think?? By the way, it annoys the crap out of me
DrSuz
I do editing and proofreading for work, and I never correct spelling and grammar when I’ve not been asked to do so. I think it is rude and can be a form of bullying and belittling someone. If the spelling or grammar is wrong but the meaning is clear, there’s no need to annoy the writer with corrections. And if no one ever made mistakes, I would have a lot less work!
Sep 12, 22

At my age (I am old), my number one issue in life is my health and health coverage. Every year I have to wade through Medicare (a government medical program for everyone who is at least 65 years old (and paid into medicare for at least 40 credits (and you can only earn 4 credits a calendar year) in the USA. Because of my income (which the federal government claims is HIGH - HAHA - I am not covered by governmental supplement plans for dental coverage and...
Warrior Woman
At the moment it is convincing those selfish people who still refuse to be vaccinated against Covid. If we are ever to get a hold on this disease or become immune we must all be vaccinated so at least we stand a chance of surviving. Millions of precious people have died and maybe they don't belong to the unvaccinated but they did belong to others who loved and mourn their passing. Too many millions of others now suffer life long health issues because they caught the disease. Most of those I know claim "God protects me" .Well who protected the thousands of Christians and other believers who died? Others claim their body is their property and yet stick strange chemicals and other suspicious mixtures into their arms and up their noses and eat so called 'natural foods which are so chemically modified in order to make them edible. I am vaccinated but even catching the milder version now circulating will affect me because I already have severe respiratory problems and had lung cancer surgery. I know the unvaccinated will give all their silly, selfish reasons and I won't bother reading them because my number one issue is to live to see 2023!
Jan 02, 22

Local bylaws say no bikes or skateboards...my own street says 5ks and hour all of that is ignored. Down in the park there is one small sign says "dogs on leads"....also ignored...the same with odd parking rules...nobody wants it...nobody obeys it...nobody enforces it...so what is the point?...someone is getting paid to do this...what is going on?
allinkarma4maria
And the sign said
"Long-haired freaky people
Need not apply"
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said, "You look like a fine upstandin' young man
I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat and said, "Imagine that
Huh, me workin' for you"
Jan 28, 24

Honestly, as road users, we all pay our share of taxes. It is my opinion that anyone using a two-wheel bicycle should pay a share of road taxes and wear a numbered identification bib of some sort, bet that gets a few hot under the collar.
APB
and pedestrians too...we could tax animals even...dogs using the footpaths...what about wheelchairs and motorised buggies?...kids triikes too...think of all the revenue!!!...we could make lots of money and crush everyone under our will....fantastic...we could tattoo numbers on people's heads....and if they didn't pay their taxes we could gather them all up and keep them in camps.....
God I love discussion pages!
Jan 15, 23

Lately, if I am not director or CEO of a company, or I don't have own company, I am scanned out of surveys. I mean, be realistic - would really the owner of a company have time for online surveys? Or someone with income greater than 150k a year would spend time to do online surveys about groceries stores? I don't think so. That requirements of being even able to do some survey is almost impossible lately. What are your experiences?
Magpie
Like a lot of others, I get screened out of countless surveys - certainly there are far more outs than acceptances. There is absolutely no doubt that the main reason I get the 'cold shoulder' is my age. I am 77.
Being rejected used to annoy me but I have come to accept that the so called marketing experts aren't interested in considered opinions from us older folk and believe that the world functions around the upwardly mobile with more money than sense. That's okay, they pay their money and get what they want but I wish they wouldn't waste everyone's time in this manner.
Nov 04, 22

I am very much in favour of this. Why? The reason is herd immunity will not be achieved if this does not happen. Herd immunity gives the general population a degree of immunity against this dreadful, unpredictable virus.Herd immunity also protects individuals who through no fault of their own cannot be vaccinated. I fully understand that some people cannot be vaccinated on medical grounds.
Claude H
Yes but the system of getting a jab needs sorting out I am 88 in a couple of days and yet younger people are being done ahead of me
Jul 01, 21

How much are we eating, and we don't know it. Starting to notice warnings on a few foods, what do you guys know about it?
WonkyandProud
I think we have no idea what we are eating. How could we know? We aren't there where our food is grown or even worse where it's produced, handled and packaged. Unless you grow your own food and raise your own livestock, you don't know what you're eating. Even then, what part does the environment and the feed for the livestock impact the final product? Almost everything from the air we breathe to the items we interact with to the food we eat affects us. I'm more concerned with the electronics and all the things we can't see. I have proof that the electricity in our homes can kill us, even our pets and trees. Now there is so much more than just the electricity we use. All the devices we use affect us, and I feel we are forced to use them out of necessity. I hate mobile phones, but almost every company wants you to download an app which I think is for tracking purposes, but they make it appear to be for out benefit. When do companies EVER do anything just to save us money? That doesn't even make sense. I feel like we are lambs being sent to the slaughter and everyone just follows along. I try not to, but sometimes we HAVE to in order to do what we have to do. They assume everyone has a cell phone and internet. We should be able to make that choice and not be forced into using things that we don't even understand how they work! Maybe I'm just too old for this. Does anyone agree or am I paranoid? I've been around long enough to know not to trust everything. You can't even believe what you hear and see now with the AI which is another subject I'd like to avoid!
Oct 19, 23

Has anyone heard of the 'Bulla Rescue' in Australia which involves horses? I watched a documentary about rescuing Race horses that were left to starve to death by a trainer. There were many reports sent to the RSPCA, but it was not investigated. They found over 20 horses dead or dying from starvation. 23 horses were rescued, but 3 had to be put down. If you report something serious, shouldn't it be investigated. In the end the police were also involved.
Mooi
So much goes on in the racing industry. It is all about money and greed. It happens with horse racing and greyhound racing, rodeos and any form of animal exploitation. It is always about the money they can make out of an animal and when it is spent and considered no longer profitable, it is discarded. These animals are sentient beings, not commodities.
Aug 15, 23

Dental decay is now the most common disease reported in our children and a quarter of their sugar intake is from sweetened beverages. And you can add to that growing rates of obesity. Is it time to ban unhealthy drinks from schools?
P F
There are 10 teaspoons of sugar in a single 330ml can of soft drink. That's 30 teaspoons a litre. (Check Google) Try putting 30 teaspoons of sugar in a glass to actually see what that amount really looks like. Now times that by 365 days in the year. (54 kg bags of sugar a year/no joke/go calculate it as I did.) My school banned it about 5 years ago. We have lemonade, Fanta, Solo, Pineapple, Pepsi, Raspberry and Lime BUT all sugar free. To tell you the truth (apart from Pepsi) I can't tell the difference. Now I know some of you will get on your high horse and complain "My child has the right to choose!!!" Yes they do. But if there was a drink, food, whatever...that had the same taste but 100 times the benefit...wouldn't it make sense to have that rather than the other?
Sep 03, 26

Where I live the education department are trialing school education into 2 time slots were parents have a choice to send their children to school either a morning time slot or an afternoon time slot doing only 4&1/2hrs from 6hrs in total. The shorter the day is less for children to learn. A whole year of education that schools have to teach children is all of a sudden squashed to shorter hours. What education are these children going to end up having? Bad enough in a school...
NotFriedLikeMost
We had the split day in Junior Kindergarten in 1986. We went for the morning half....Senior Kindergarten in 1987 we went at lunch for the afternoon half. This makes sense for JK and SK because you get the child used to going to school. When Grade 1 came in 1988...I ran way from school every single day until Halloween at first recess. Why? My intuition, which I obviously did not realize at the time, was telling me to GET OUT OF THERE!!!!!! Needless to say, kids NOWADAYS should ALL be homeschooled because the predatory "teachers" pushing radical leftist propaganda is beyond out of control now. My niece will be homeschooled by my sister and this is already happening anyways even before she is school-aged. She is far more intelligent that kids her age and she has NEVER use a tablet, phone, NOTHING. She plays outside, she plays inside, she reads books, she helps in the kitchen, she goes on adventures outside, etc. This is TRUE development, not glorified babysitting and brainwashing by questionable leftist predators in an prison-like "school"...no thanks. If you WANT to have a child, you should comprehend HOW to properly raise said child and that involves being intelligent enough to know the public school system is massively fglawed, pushing radical leftist agendas, ran by the same evil ones who run Hellyweird, scripted pro sports, the music industry, central banking, and big pharma. And, remember, McGraw Hill, the company who makes all the textbooks and provides the "content" TO BE LEARNED...was owned by Robert Maxwell, father of Ghislaine, friend of Jeffrey. When I tell you pedophiles run these institutes, thats no lie.
Sep 27, 26

There s something about movies from the past that just feels different. When you look back at films from the 80s, 90s, and even the early 2000s, there seems to be a level of creativity, originality, and effort that is harder to find in movies today. Of course, there are still great movies being made, but it often feels like the really memorable ones are becoming less common. Do you find movies just aren't it these days?
Bugalugs
We are being fed a diet of Violence, Hatred, Cheating, Dishonesty and Greed in every aspect of life. We have a Country, the USA, which, knowingly, elected a Convicted Felon as theur president, we have a Dictator in Russia who illegally invaded a Sovereign Nation, Ukraine, we have an Israeli Prime Minister and his entire Government and the Armed Forces committing Genocide and just as the Israelis did before are annexing and occupying parts of Palestine - as if the Palestinians were not betrayed by theur alleged 'Protector' the UK when it in collision with the USA stole most of the Land of Palestine - they'd been there for 1000s of years before the Isrealites were freed from slavery by Ancient Egyptians, the Illegal invasion an occupation of Souther Lebanon - another Sovereign Nation - then the Convicted Felon President of the USA illegally attacked Iran. Berween 1932 and 2026 the World has been subjected to almost endless Criminality by Politicians from countries which claim to be Peace Loving! Murderers, Pillagers, Dissemblers, Liars, Cheats rule today so it is no wonder Cinema has become no different.
Sep 25, 26

If you told me a few years ago that local banks would stop accepting cash deposits... I would say you are crazy!! Well its happening!! This morning I went by my local bank (in New Zealand) to deposit some cash only to be told "We don't do that anymore"... What's the point of having a bank that won't let you deposit physical money?? Am I the only one that thinks this is INSANE??
Anand 1651082
It is dangerous to go completely cashless because there will be anarchy in case of natural calamity when internet will breakdown.
Sep 18, 26

Just like to have peoples thoughts. All through history people have followed someone who tells them things that aren't true, like the world will end on a certain date, etc. I want to know what makes an ordinary person turn into a devoted follower? Where is the line between a passionate leader and a dangerous manipulator?
Flamingo
There are so many people that vote for Labor even though they really don't know why so they are following a cult?
Sep 17, 26

Somebody on here told me that she got to hang out with Debbie Harry and Blondie one night...it got me thinking...there must be a lot of other people who ran into or ended up with famous people too...nobody believes you...right? For a week, I ended up sharing the decks as a DJ with Wolf Man Jack...while he was doing a guest appearance in Brussels (he was a massive hit in America at the time a DJ superstar!) people say "yeah right of course you did!".....there...
Len G
I had worked in the Catskills as a waiter in the 1970s . One of my co waiters was a renowned adult film later in life. I told my friends but not one ever believed me. I kept saying why would I make this up.
Aug 31, 26

I m only 40, but there s something I ve had to come to terms with as I ve moved into middle age that I don t remember anyone warning me about : the slow realization that I am no longer the target demographic for pop culture. What would you say? What s the hardest part about getting older that no one ever talks about?
Merchy
Realising I\u2019m not as young as I thought. Not having enough energy to multitask as I did when I was younger.
Looking at myself in the mirror, my reflection and seeing my mother look back at me. Yep I\u2019m getting old
Aug 24, 26

There was something "Naughty" about stuffing down treats....it was fun...you were breaking "the rules" and doing something you shouldn't....it wasn't good for you...it was FUN...now most your treats are healthy...hey they are now sugar-free and full of protein....even part of your normal diet....... Do you STILL think its fun?
Alix
When I was about 8 or 9, I would take my pennies and my little sister down to the corner store and we would pick out penny candy, It was an adventure. It was fun. Today my adventures are of a more maturre variety but they still are fun. Spending time in thrift shops to uncover stocking stuffers is fun. Swimming with my grands and joining in their imaginative games is fun. My oldest daughter rides roller coasters for fun. All three of my daughters take turns creating Christmas gifts that make mom cry and THEY call it fun. Watching my youngest cat stalk lizards like he is the KING of the jungle is fun. (Don't worry, he never catches them.) Going out to get potato chips and dip (which is not recommended on my diet) is fun. You have to find your fun and not let go of it.
Aug 16, 26

Some of us need to be thanked for the things we do for others. It doesn't seem to be enough to just do whatever it is and leave it at that. When I come across someone like this it suggests to me that whatever nice thing they did, or said, was not an entirely altruistic or genuine gesture in the first place. There's an agenda behind it. It's all about them. Make them feel good. Tell them what a good person they are. Tell them they are kind. Pat them on the back....
Nel
Your thoughts are absolutely right if someone who does a good turn to another person is completely non egoistic! Nothing expect in return for doing such good deed! Or just not the person/persons who want to boast about how much good they do to others!
No money can buy a good deed done to someone! It\u2019s a pure feeling!
Jul 23, 26

I recently allowed my neighbour to leave their vehicle and trailer in front of my home. He has now brought a van which has taken over the width of my front nature strip and my next door neighbours. It is bin night and I, neither my neighbour has any room to leave their bins on the lawn. My only choice is the driveway. Their front nature strip has no vehicles there which is odd and why is it they left it on ours. What would you do or say to them?
Sandra C 12043
It's annoying but here in Adelaide there's no law against parking their car in front of your house. You do not own the street area & unless the Council has a reason for not parking there, then you don't stand a chance. It's very frustrating.
Aug 02, 26

I have travelled all over the world... using "unsmart" cars... you just drove them... there was no theatre... bells, whistles, or attempts to drive the car... I used maps... and I realise that a lot of people now cannot use a map... I find that scary... they find my ability to know where I am funny... so be it... we are being drawn into a position where we are fairly helpless with technology... and nobody cares or is listening... don't say I didn't warn you...
writerrochelle
Not me, APB! This old lady prefers a paper map, paper book, and talking to a person on the phone, or face to face! When someone tells me to 'use AI' to figure out a problem, I grab a pen and paper and figure it out myself! I'm keeping my brain! I'm smarter than technology because I refuse to use it! Oh, Yeah, Your Brain: "Use It Or Lose It"! \ud83d\ude02
Jul 18, 26

What has happened to service? It dropped off during the Covid lockdowns, but it seems to have become a lot worse since. I had problems with an online pharmacist and, when I complained, was told they understood my frustration. Then there was the company that sent me a voucher that didn't work, sent another voucher that also didn't work, and when I enquired, was told, "It works for us." Now it's my dryer, which at not even 3 months old blows the fuses. The company...
Pato Lo Duck
The only reason an appliance blows fuses is because it draws too much power, meaning there is a fault somewhere inside it, a short or shorted component. While a power surge can damage your appliance, and cause it to short out, if you experienced a power surge a lot of other items in your house would likely have been damaged as well.
Demand that the dryer company fixes you dryer and if they don\u2019t go to the consumer ombudsman or threaten to take them to VCAT or an equivalent court wherever you live. It\u2019s not expensive to do. Oh, and another good idea is to buy an individual surge buster to plug into your socket first before you plug the appliance in to protect it. Available at Bunnings or any good hardware store
Jul 20, 26

Anyone ever had friends over that ask to use the toilet, yet when directed to the bathroom afterwards they tell you 'oh no it's fine' ...and just continue on with the conversation? It's a bit awkward to really insist, isn't it? Especially if others are present. Have you been to a good friend or family member's house and seen something completely unhygienic, yet thought it best not to say anything out of politeness? If so, does this alter the way you thought this person...
Sandra C 12043
You are lucky you had a toilet to use. In my day it was the dunny down the yard. They didn't have toilets mostly, it was a hole in the ground. Then came the little house down the yard with a wooden box over a hole in the ground, which was filled over with dirt & a new hole made. Then came the big drums in the hole & the Dunny/Sanitary cart came along & exchanged the drums over. My life goes a long way back. We used torn up paper (usually the phone pages) or newspapers for toilet paper.
Jul 02, 26

I adore my grandchildren, but I am tired of furniture being wrecked, food being devoured not just by them but by the parents as well. We love them, and if they are in need, we are happy to help. We have stereos wrecked, carpets wrecked, fridges wrecked, paw marks everywhere, and we can't go on holiday in case we are needed for babysitting duty. They are 9, 7, and 4.
Old sheila
Well sorry but I would not allow them to do that , Tell the parents you will come to their place from now on lol See what happens
Jul 01, 26

Good ole David Crisafulli, had the right line to suck in all those not sure on who to vote for. He's about 500 election promises in front of that one by now. Heard another voting crap line today. Break Bail go jail. Yeah you wish, the lil kid who just stole your new car and wrapped it around a tree, killed all his mates in the passenger seats just got told by a high court magistrate, bend over for a good bum smack, and I'm going to point my finger at you until you cry...
Razz
Start with the parents, ask why a 12 year old is out at 3am. Why courts are letting them out on bail and then they are arrested that afternoon on the same charge. Why criminal gangs are getting away with paying kids to steal cars for them to use in Fire-bombing business that are operating on their turf. I don't have any solution except make Youth Crime a federal offense as it's not being solved at state level.
Jun 26, 26

These days I never can believe what you see at any place especially at church. I have attended a very special service today that was all the children making their 1st Holy Communion. The service was a wonderful segment for these children & families. Why is it that you find some parents don't respect were they are & to teach their child that church is a place of worship & need to obey for a short time. Oh no, the only way the child to stay quiet is your teaching them to play...
Lachelle B
Dragged to church for 16 years, now an atheist for 36. Never forced my sons' into religion and they've turned out to be hard working, moral young men without it.
Jun 20, 26

I was recently at the Doctors & the waiting room & treatment room all had posters stating, "abuse of staff will not be tolerated!" I then went to the Medical lab & X-ray rooms where there were more posters stating the same in large bold writing. It is sad that society has come down to a lack of respect for people who are doing their best to help others. A nurse at the hospital said they cannot put their surnames on their name tags, or they get trolled & abused through social...
gordy
How disgusting this behaviour is. Sometimes it is because of a medical condition or illicit drug taking. Sometimes people are just downright abusive. The internet has made society very unsociable
and aggressive. Not to mention all the other stuff that has changed our society. Manners and respect - where the hell is it.
Jun 08, 26
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