Discussions of the day

Do you think the school system has let our children down? There are so many technological things for them to learn that they have had to cut other things out. My neighbor boy who was born addicted to drugs, tells me that school for him is a waste of time, and he isn't learning anything! There are far too many children in his situation, and they don't get the special attention they need in order to learn. Why are there so many children with Autism, ADHD, etc.? ...
Pearlz
Parents no longer give children rules or boundaries which accounts for some problems. I also notice babies no longer get definite sleep patterns. In my day when it was time for baby to sleep we left them to sleep but now mothers are out and about with crying babies and children annoying everyone else. Children are sleep deprived and undisciplined which isn't a good combination, then they go to school where the teachers spend hours trying to corral the noisy and disruptive children in order to begin a lesson on how white people invaded Australia, the earth will burn up in climate change and global warming and finishing with are you a boy or a girl, don't worry because it no longer matters.
Aug 29, 25

I am amazed that we constantly hear how tough people are doing it, the cost of living, unable to afford rent or mortgage, cost of petrol and power, kids going without shoes and yet whenever I am out in the evening or at the weekend every restaurant, cafe or upmarket eatery I pass is full, especially with younger people around 20 50 years. How can they afford to be dining out if times are so "tough?"
Michelle S 553303
I can give you a hint: CREDIT! Yes, these mostly young people who would, back in the day, have already been parents to a couple of kids and might be on their first or second marriages, are being propagandised to play it up and enjoy life WITHOUT responsibilities. Now everyone gets to choose their own path but this is by design. They are paid far more than I ever earned even though I have an undergraduate degree but instead of pesky kids to feed and educate they get to spend like the party will go on forever. Only they are deceived. Most will never be able to afford to buy a home of their own and many live with mates not family, except many still do well into their 20's or even longer. So their rate off disposable income is higher. Their nice cars though are often bought on credit which sounds brilliant to them until they get sick or lose their job that is! Then we have other available credit including the plastic cards but even more commonly nowadays are the Afterpay and Zip BNPL platforms and they can create massive problems which only this generation has seen. The whole "pay in 4" sounds great at first but if you haven't had a good fiscal education, and many have not, then the fact that you can buy a card, with Zip there's no upfront payment to do so although Afterpay requires 25% down, which you can use to dine out, travel, and buy basically whatever takes your fancy even though you don't have the money! I was amazed to find that you can buy groceries with these platforms, and if you are hungry then Im sure its invaluable, but the rest is just trouble! I've watched many financial channels where young people are interviewed and some of them are 50K in debt and they have zero assets. They've had to go bankrupt before they're 30! I understand that those who did the right thing and saved up money, scrimping for years to pay back their mortgage and only driving second hand cars until they own their home outright, like my own parents, certainly deserve to enjoy the fruits of their labour, but today is different and there WILL be a societal reckoning due to this and that won't be good for any of us! Thanks for reading.
Apr 13, 24

When you go to the beach, all you truly need is a bathing suit... what about the amount of skin we show? Are g-strings inappropriate in public spaces?
Tipps
Why do you need to show off your bare body? Isn't your body a precious and personal part of your being. I do not like nudist. Cover up people, Be respectful of others
Jul 15, 24

What Would It Be And How Would You Use It? go beyond the usual wishes for money or fame think life hacks, secret talents, or even completely useless-but-hilarious abilities. Would you become a concert pianist, a master negotiator, or someone who can fold a fitted sheet without losing your will to live? Let s hear your dream skill and how it would really change your day-to-day life. Bonus points for weird and wonderful answers!
IdentifyAs
I would like to have a power to ease pain and suffering in aged people, to reverse old age so they can still enjoy life
Jul 26, 25

When money goes to medical research, which disease or diseases should have priority? Should it be allocated mostly to cancer or heart disease or diabetes or mental health issues? Who should determine the priority, and how should the money be divided? Along those lines, should the money go to administration to pay for staff or to medical supplies or to universities for research courses?
NotFriedLikeMost
It's a perpetual scam.
They research "cures" to ENSURE the money keeps rolling in.
But, if they just looked at the CAUSES of issues...they wouldn't GET money for research because they would know HOW to heal...and, to be fair, it is VERY easy to heal anything...but, they don't know this, and, if they do, they purposely maintain their status quo so they KEEP YOU SOMEWHAT SICK so they can MANAGE your issues, PROFITING OFF YOU THE WHOLE TIME...AND, practicing the SLOW KILL as they push allopathy onto you via petroleum based pills...that NEVER fix anything, they just "mask" the issue, and it just festers internally.
These things are set up to TRANSFER WEALTH from US...to THEM. End of story.
Jul 13, 25

Why is it that since the pandemic, drivers are speeding, going through red lights, hitting pedestrians and not stopping? It is just awful out there!! Where is their sense of responsibility? Are more and more people using alcohol and Marijuana and drugs? A lady with no license just hit 3 people...a mom and her twins as they crossed the street in the pedestrian walkway. One twin died and mom is critical, and driver took off! What is wrong with people that they have...
1
People are selfish. Everyone is an hurry to nowhere. No one wants more police on the streets. However, it may be necessary for a larger police traffic presence to alter driver behaviour. As stated elsewhere, harsher and stricter penalties might also be required. it's not just the speed. There is a general lack of awareness and understanding of the rules of the road. Better and more rigorous driver education standards combined with mandatory re-examination / relicensing for more serious offences might be helpful in altering behaviours as well.
Jul 14, 25

Do consider the end of a product life cycle before making a purchase? A lot of products claim to be better for the environment but when they are sent to landfill they are terrible for the environment, such as those products that take a long time to biodegrade for example.
Thylas
This is unfortunately the problem the world will be facing with all of this so-called 'green' technology such as wind turbines, solar panels and lithium batteries when they reach the end of their usefulness. How is all of this going to be recycled? If it ends up in landfill, what sort of chemicals are going to leach into the soil and river systems?
May 20, 25

How do you guys feel about this? Glyphosate is a carcinogenic. It is available to purchase in most countries around the world to control the spread of weeds in and around our homes and gardens. Market gardeners, Farmers and big suppliers of produce, around the world use this poison (some, not all. But most) Would you pay more and buy only organic produce, or take the risk and purchase food produced by suppliers who use this toxic chemical that is killing people...
Alira
I hope you dont drink alcohol, eat bacon or various other carcinogens. Glyphosate has been proven safe time and time again, you are just fear mongering with no scientific back up.
Feb 12, 25

I was at church, and the pastor was talking about why it s bad to gossip about people. He said it s like killing someone as a person. Then, someone called the pastor on the phone and started getting upset. "If you gossip, there s no point in coming to church," the pastor said. I have been gossiped about all my life at church, but I never called the pastor because of it. This is just one of many things people say. For example, today, a lady told me, "If you don t do the right thing...
Dianne P (NZ)
Can someone explain to me why God doesn't answer the prayers of the people in Gaza or the hungry and their suffering. I cannot understand why such dreadful things happen, yet all the prayers do nothing. Religion in my opinion has been the cause of all the suffering. And don't even get me started on Catholicism and the Priests
Feb 15, 25

Women have come a long way from being thought of as 2nd class citizens. I am all for all the gains we have made. Women are leaders in all aspects of life, Be it politics, business or generally in the work force. But I can't help but feel we have also lost so much. Such as self-respect and respect from our male counterparts. We can swear as good as any man! Not so sure if this is a good thing! Men never used to swear in front of woman, but now it seems...
Michelle S 553303
I truly believe that women in general have less rights now than they did when I was growing up in the 1960's. My mother was able to stay home and raise my brother and I and not forced to leave her home AND her children to afford the mortgage money for the house my father and her purchased together. They had 2 solid years working together at a factory before my mother fell pregnant with me and retired from the paid workforce and she was able to rest during her pregnancy and prepare for my arrival enjoying that time. Even on one income back then we had meat every night for dinner because back then you could afford it, not now! My mother taught me SO many valuable lessons of how to cook well but cheaply, how to sew and how to run a home. I, however, did not think that these lessons were valuable until I got older and unfortunately I bought into the feminist hype of the working woman being able to "do it all"! Absolute BS BTW as all I did was get on a treadmill for 25 years without stopping trying to be everything that my changing society told me was my right but ultimately missing out on some of the most important things in my 5 children's lives. I sent them along to Daycare because I was told it was as good as me caring for them and they'd be well socialised, but they cried when I left them and I abandoned them to a place of noise and no love. They will say to me today "Mum, do you remember when" or "do you remember so and so" and I have no recollection of those events or people because my headspace and I were somewhere else. I wish that I had realised the feminist lies back then and stayed at home raising my children myself and teaching them things of value. You can NEVER reclaim those moments you lost and I regret it deeply. I believe that we are less "women" now than we were before we had the right to choose whether or not to bring to term the children we carried in our wombs and we started trying so dang hard to be as good as men when we already were but in a different way! We got robbed of a lot of simple pleasures of watching our children play or having kids come home with our kids and ask to play in the backyard because there was always someone home back then. These days women, mothers especially, have to coordinate schedules and are often absent from the home and need to organise formal play dates with the other equally busy and exhausted parents of their child's friends. If THIS is what was meant by "progress" for women then we collectively were sold a lemon! Thanks for reading.
Oct 16, 24

Never judge a man (or woman) until you realize the (or lack of) choices that man (or woman) had available at that life-changing moment. Or are you the type that goes with the current and that ship (moment) has sailed (and you are always RIGHT)?
mary c
It must be well past your nap time M1364377...your comments and calling people B****es and retard is inappropriate and offensive. I hope you are removed from here by the time you wake up and are packing your lunch for school.
Jul 30, 23

Do you think it is right for small communities to put off fireworks by neighbours with no license or permission? What are the dangers of fire and also of injury doing this?
GB
I have never heard of putting off fireworks. If you are going to put them off you don't need a license. If you let them off you might just BLOW your hand off.
Jul 13, 24

Since Covid-19, I developed a passion for cooking. I found it is a smart way to save money. On top of that, enjoying delicious meals, exploration of flavours of nourishing oneself and others making it a genuine and rewarding passion for many of us. Is cooking your passion?
Michelle S 553303
I hardly ever eat out whether at takeaways or restaurants, and so I have to cook at home. I buy whatever vegetables are on clearance and I make meals with these and pulses as they're cheap. What I really enjoy is getting the "Red Book" out which I transcribed old family recipes from, which had paper that was falling apart, when I was 10 years old. As it's been almost 50 years since I wrote those recipes down and since the writing is fading away, it is almost time to rewrite the family recipes again and hopefully my children and grandchildren will decide to try them out when I'm gone. There are even recipes which refer to "remove plate from fire" which pre date even my own grandmother. The recipes are easy to make, relatively cheap and taste delicious. I like knowing exactly what is in my food and cooking at home from scratch provides me with something to look forward to eating! Thanks for reading and Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers out there!
May 12, 24

Local bylaws say no bikes or skateboards...my own street says 5ks and hour all of that is ignored. Down in the park there is one small sign says "dogs on leads"....also ignored...the same with odd parking rules...nobody wants it...nobody obeys it...nobody enforces it...so what is the point?...someone is getting paid to do this...what is going on?
allinyourNCbc
And the sign said
"Long-haired freaky people
Need not apply"
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said, "You look like a fine upstandin' young man
I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat and said, "Imagine that
Huh, me workin' for you"
Jan 28, 24

I am very much in favour of this. Why? The reason is herd immunity will not be achieved if this does not happen. Herd immunity gives the general population a degree of immunity against this dreadful, unpredictable virus.Herd immunity also protects individuals who through no fault of their own cannot be vaccinated. I fully understand that some people cannot be vaccinated on medical grounds.
Claude H
Yes but the system of getting a jab needs sorting out I am 88 in a couple of days and yet younger people are being done ahead of me
Jul 01, 21

There is a plethora of arguments for and against the above. Towards the end of his life Charles Darwin became skeptical of his theory of evolution. Science is knowledge gained from observable facts. Theory is how we try to link facts to make a story. Given that new facts (evidence) can dramatically change the story should we still see evolution and creation as either/or argument.
The dog house
If we came from the monkeys why has the ape population not evolved yet. I believe we were created in God's image.
Sep 19, 21

In today's fast-paced world, the way we end our day can significantly impact the quality of our rest and overall wellbeing. Evening rituals - whether simple or structured - can help signal to our body and mind that it's time to unwind. Examples are reading, meditation, or limiting screen time. Please, share one evening ritual you would recommend to others and explain why it works for you.
BLM
Why using mouth wash is the last thing I do at night (before going to sleep)? Using mouth wash at the end of my oral hygiene routine - after brushing, flossing, and rinsing with water (in that order for me) - can help preserved the 'beneficial bacteria' in my mouth that plays a key role in my overall physical health (interesting tidbit I learned from my dentist). Furthermore, I do not 'wake up' with that 'awful taste' feeling in my mouth in the morning.
Jun 23, 26

I played slow pitch softball for 40 years, tournament ball for 20. I have been blessed to meet people from all walks of life while playing. Some have given me an insight into a different lifestyle by conversations after the games. It has helped me to understand people in general. How much has sports had an influence in shaping your opinion of the world and people in general?
1
Teaches a lot - how to deal with people from all backgrounds and cultures, how to negotiate / compromise, how to lead / be led, perseverance, how to win with grace and lose with dignity, to do your best and accept others whether they are more / less capable....
Jun 13, 26

Is it a common theme that many of us have great ideas, but we don't have the time or money to get working on them? Do you write your ideas down and save them for another day? Do you dismiss them at the time because you already have enough things to do or because of start up costs, or do you drop what you're doing and action them straight away? What do you do when a great idea pops in your head?
Mrs Invictus
Great read Christina C \ud83d\ude01 I for one am a doer, in saying that many ideas have been just that lol Great ideas are a part of being human and therefore evolution. Regardless of whats going on, anyone with a great idea I encourage to make it happen, don't let any barriers stop you because all great things start from some thing/one small.
Feb 14, 26

It seems like everything from food to cars to electronics to homes have skyrocketed in price since 2020. What's the underlying cause here? Why or how are people still able to buy these things for their inflated prices?
Beth
Two words: corporate greed. Granted covid, wars, inflation etc have some effect, it's not anywhere as pronounced as new set prices would have you believe. Corporations have milked these things to hike prices and get away with it and are continuing to do so.
Feb 01, 26

Yesterday I was taking my bin out to the curb in the evening...a young guy walking past stopped me...he said a couple of doors down...there was a car parked at a slight angle on the driveway...with car door open...that he had tried banging on the front door but no-one answered...so I went down there...banged on the door...there was a Bollywood movie playing really loud in the lounge...nobody home all the lights on... I noticed their bin wasn't outside...and the side gate...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Arjun finally got Anushka to say "OK Arjun . .let's go upstairs now " !!! . . . . . . "OK" said Arjun . . "Just let me put the bin out and shut the back door and gate" . . . . . "Now or never" said Anushka. . . . "I am to be happy" said Arjun !
Jan 19, 26

Most people seem to believe that the weather is at least changing massively and that pumping carbon (and far more worse things that are being totally ignored) into the atmosphere is not helping.... We have aging power stations all over the world that need replacing...be it renewables...Hydrogen...Hydro..solar...wind thermal or Tide (what happened to tide generators?)..or nuclear....or if we go back to coal oil and gas) ... whatever we do is going to cost masses of...
Old sheila
All a lot of Crap Same weather for hundreds of years Nothing to do with Climate change . I have so far lived a long time to already know this
Nov 26, 25

Can divorce really be better for the whole family, including (especially) children, and what are the best ways to support children during a divorce? What's your experience?
Wombat
I stayed with my husband for the kids and it was the biggest mistake because my kids suffered in the long run
Oct 30, 25

The space program costs billions and billions of dollars. There has been talk about new moon missions, missions to Mars, missions to other planets or their moons in our solar system, and missions out of our solar system. For which mission or missions should all of that money be spent? Should we not spend so much on space missions and instead focus on fixing Earth and its problems?
BLM
I don't believe 'we' (governments cooperating together on this planet - solving our environmental issues and natural resources issues, etc.) have enough money to solve earth's many issues - all created by mankind. Might as well have a Plan B - exit this planet (Earth) and start our destructive human behavior pattern on another uninhabited planet ('still') it is a dirty, rotten shame we are condemned to repeat our history on another uninhabited planet in the universe (LOL))!
Nov 01, 25

Are you ready for the Christmas rush! Every year it seems to arrive faster & my preparations are not nearly as good as they used to be! Have you started your Christmas shopping? Maybe you have made your Christmas cake. Do you still celebrate with family or friends, or does Christmas pass by without recognition? Old traditions seem to be dying out. What do you think?
CAMC
DO NOT LIKE THE MADNESS OF CHRISTMAS. WE SEEM TO FORGET THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS AS EVERYONE GOES CRAZY AROUND THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
Nov 02, 25

Common disadvantages of homeschooling include a lack of real-life socialisation, limited access to resources and facilities, the demanding load on parents, and potential legal challenges. What are your thoughts on homeschooling?
Joanne D 124129
I come school my child. I do not believe that children need to attend a main stream school. Parents can access so many different resources and facilities. Homeschooling allows kids to learn without disruption, without all the waiting. Kids queue to enter a school classroom they wait while students organise themselves, they wait while instructions and resources are distributed. Waiting to ask questions plus all the rest. Homeschool kids have access to as much socialising as mainstream school students if not more. This depends on the parents and locations. We do group sporting, Homeschool group activities, play sessions, group library activities activities. The difference i find with my kid is that they are socialising with kids of a wide variety of ages, stages, and walks of life.
I have found Homeschool kids to be more friendly, they actually think more, are kind and great well rounded kids. I've not come across bullying and harassment behaviour. We live how we attend a monthly science activity. The kids get together and start group games. No parental instruction and they support younger kids or kids that may have disabilities and adjust things to include kids. These kids do this without any adult direction. Talking to the kids they take each kid individually likes/dislikes and all abilities. There has to my knowledge no restricting or isolation of any kids. They have been happy, confident, caring and intelligent kids. The kids can adjust attitudes and behaviours if they are playing games with toddlers, thru to high school kids and even adjusting games to include kids in wheelchairs or crutches, blind or other disabilities. They don't make a fuss of adjustments. An example was 12 boys (aged between 8 and 15 ) playing with a ball kicking it from one side to another. Then allowing some toddlers to have a kick of the ball and encouraging the little ones to be part of the game.
Oct 28, 25

A family name is usually carried by a man, which has been for such a long time when this world was created. To me, a man is a man that brings his name forward with pride to his wife/partner & children & makes decisions & is the main bread winner of your home. Now these days, life & family meanings & structures are changing a lot. Many men now are adopting their wife/partner's name instead of keeping his name. How do you feel when this has been done? It brings the...
Neo
"taking a man's name" is antiquated and sexist. It is easier (legally) and cheaper to keep your own name (especially these days when people are in the habit of remarrying).
When I was married, I always earned MORE than my husband so I find it offensive when people say "the man is the breadwinner" and I am talking decades ago (when we first married) right up until recent history when we divorced.
Oct 14, 25

I hate group homes. There are people who love to steal and don t admit it, so they don t have to pay back the person they stole from. One or more bathrooms have bad plumbing, messy bathrooms, not enough of them. People bothering people, staff accusing people, they even talk behind people s backs. They tell certain people they can t use the clean bathroom with good plumbing. Certain people get held down. All day long and all night you hear annoying beeping noises on all doors and...
APB
well I have no idea what you are talking about..what is a group home?..is this an American thing?...what country are we talking about please?
Oct 08, 25

Throughout my years, I could never understand how Families could get to the stage where they would not speak to each other. That so much hatred could come between them. Understanding that yes always the arguments that occur but no matter what it is the love that is always there. Do we choose to ignore things that are said or done which would not be tolerated if coming from someone else? Throughout My Years I Could Never Understand This, But Now I...
Goofie
I used to believe family was everything. Life has taught me otherwise. Doesn't seem to matter with some how nice you are or what ever you do! You just keep getting abused and used. Friends you can choose!
Sep 19, 25

What is the voting age in your country, and is it compulsory to vote? In New Zealand at the moment, there's a push to lower voting age from 18 to 16 years It has been stated "it's against human rights not to lower the age" wish someone could explain that one to me!!
guy
I wasn't eligible to vote until 21 and that really is the age the human brain starts to gain a bit of sense and maturity, the left want a lower voting age because the kids can be controlled in their thinking at school and have no idea of the realities of surviving in the adult world
Nov 24, 22

I'm a good person who likes to help others. However, it seems to me that humans have changed in the past 5 years as I've been used, and then I'm kicked to the curb once they've gotten what they wanted from me. I've helped someone learn how to use technology as she was leaving her partner of 30 years and did not understand technology at all. I give up my time twice a week from hiking (which I thoroughly enjoyed) to assist her. I helped her with her move. She moved and never...
Meggan 1691859
In today\u2019s world, good people are often misunderstood. Kindness is mistaken for weakness. Empathy is seen as na\u00efve. And those who help without asking for anything back are sometimes taken for granted, used, or dismissed as \u201ctoo sensitive.\u201d
But the truth is: good people are the quiet strength holding everything together. They show up when no one else does. They forgive when it's hardest. They keep choosing love in a world that sometimes celebrates cruelty and selfish gain.
Being good today isn\u2019t always rewarded, and it can feel lonely. But that doesn\u2019t make it any less powerful. In fact, it makes it more rare \u2014 and more necessary.
Because in the end, it\u2019s the good people who change lives, even if the world doesn't always notice.
Jul 28, 25

We 4WD and Camp all over Australia, when Camping in the Northern part of Northern Territory one evening I hear and saw a woman aged about 25 screaming as she entered her tent, she never zipped her tent closed and a common green tree snake got into her tent. The common green tree snake is not dangerous, and I removed it from her tent (she was from the US) for her. What has scared you when camping?
Smiley
The evidence of a Drop Bear attack to a teacher during a school camp. You've got to be careful of them, they attack when you least expect it.
Jul 29, 25

When faced with something as life-changing as a cancer diagnosis, the path forward is never simple. Chemotherapy, alternative therapies, or even choosing to let life unfold naturally none of these are easy or wrong, just deeply personal. The truth is, we can only choose what we know. And if no one tells us about all the options, or if we re too overwhelmed to ask, how can we truly say we chose at all? It's not about rejecting one path or glorifying another....
Len G
Having had testicular cancer 20 yrs ago and deciding on what form of treatment to do was tough. .i chose radiation and in the end it worked out. But like many times and things in life one size definitely doesn't fit all
Jun 27, 25

What do you think about your Country going cashless? There are thousands of older people who are not doing digital banking, or even have computers, let alone "smartphones." My local branch has closed all their teller's, so now we have to use the ATM...
mumk
I think to go cashless they will have to change the law as what will be "legal tender' I am now in my eighties. I hope I die before this happens
May 26, 25

What have you learnt, good or bad? Has it changed your perspective? Was it a farce? Fearmongering? Are you better for it, or worse off? General question, many options, speak your mind
Edienz
I learnt that the govt is a dictatorship and refuse to listen to any opposing opinions. I never wore a mask unless at doctor or supermarket and I didn’t get any boosters. I was fine until I went to hospital and caught covid there. Headache and sore throat only on first day. 95% vaccination did not stop a huge rise in cases. I will never trust the govt again.
Sep 13, 22

Over the past few weeks, I've noticed more garbage thrown along hiking trails. This includes old vehicle parts, old washing machines, hoses, plastic containers, and the list goes on and on. I live up North in Canada, and I used to enjoy hiking as many trails as possible. I'm now disgusted by the mess people are making. Some of the people have bush parties, they cook all types of foods etc. When the parties are over, they leave all the trash in the woods. Do they not take...
Bugalugs
People are just Lazy. Its not just Litter the dump when and where they want to there are other things people do which also gets up our noses.
Gyms. The great Big, Muscle-bound men and Women use equipment, particulatly Heavy Weights, and then simply leave them where they have been using them so that Gym Staff have to go around putting all that gear back on the racks, we even have one of them who uses the toilet, never flushes we simply assume that Mum/Mom, Dad or some servant at home wipes their bums and flushes for them
The other annoyance is in Supermarkets. People go to the Service Delicatessen get a heap of Smallgoods and then later decide they don't want any of it. So what do they do? Take it back to the Delli? Of course not! They just dump it anywhere and never in any fridge so that when hours or even days later it is found it has to be thrown out. This costs the Supermarket owners and, just like Shoplifting, means that prices are increased to cover those losses.
Is it really so difficult to keep your rubbish until you get home? You are big and strong enough to carry those FULL cans, bottles, wrapped sandwiches etc. into Parks etc. so why are you suddenly so weak you cannot carry the Empty bottles and cans, wrapping papers/bags out and dispose of them at home?
May 25, 25

If you could have three wishes, what would they be (and no more wishing for more wishes). 1. World peace. 2. Healthy planet. 3. Good health. What about you?
Chosen
and only one more wish ..... " That Rewardia pay more for Surveys and Games." .......................... Ummmmmmm.
May 05, 25

Believe it or not, living frugally can actually make you happier than living lavishly. Living a frugal lifestyle isn't necessarily about pinching pennies and denying yourself things you want. It's about making your life easier and worrying less about money. What would you say? Are frugal people happier?
Susan KTC
I\u2019m also of the mind that \u2018happiness comes from within\u2019 living one\u2019s life with Gratitude \ud83d\ude4f and with Joy in everything you do, attracts happiness and abundance!
Apr 21, 25

The best way to deal with someone who constantly asks you personal questions is to ask them why they want to know. It really is that simple, folks. Depending on what answer they give, it's at that point you have the option to proceed or not. You don't have to answer anything that you don't want to. What is your advice? How do you handle people who constantly ask personal questions you're not comfortable answering?
keimanzero
Sorry but I do not have any personal questions that I am afraid of being asked so I answer them and fire back at them a personal question they may be uncomfortable at answering! Tit for Tat!
Jan 11, 25

Sometimes we hear, see or experiment something that is not normal. We try to find a rational explication, but can't find one. Maybe was the wind blowing, maybe was the of house pipes, maybe were my child playing during late hours or my dogs barking. Sometimes is not ourselves the ones one live those experiences. Maybe you know someone who had this kind of encounters. I personally haven't this kind of experiences, but there's a lot of people out there that say yes, and...
Lachelle B
My partner of 24 years passed suddenly on the 30th January. We had him lying in state at home and a fantail flittered outside the window behind him. Two weeks later a fantail flew into the lounge and sat on the ceiling pendant and continued to follow me throughout the house as I opened all the doors and windows to let it out. It wasn't frantic or chirping, I sat down back down in the lounge, said thank you and it flew in front of my face and then left. Being Maori it is meant to bring news of an upcoming death but my mum who's 75 said it was my partner visiting and regard it as a blessing. So I looked it up and the first article I clicked on was written by a person called Stewart (his name), later that day our son got the mail and there was an envelope addressed to him with a $200 grocery voucher and no return address. Probably a logical explanation but I like the idea that it's him and not conincidental.
Feb 25, 24

A lot of the surveys seem to target young people or people raising children, and I am worried that I will not be eligible for them as I age. It is my birthday tomorrow, and it is harder to get money for anything as you get older. What do you do to earn money as you age?
Chosen
I'm lucky that I am a multi millionaire, manage over a thousand staff, make all decisions re labour, training and hiring. My companies turnover is in excess of a Billion dollars annually. I do all the shopping and I am the sole shopping decision maker. I also like giving input re my use of mobiles and broadband both for business and home. Also I regulary watch and go to many films, and also watch TV and use and go to my Bank every week. Yes I do have All insurance products also. I am young, have many children and don't mind them doing surveys either. I also travel for business and vacation many time a year and know nearly all airlines. I regret I do not qualify re surveys re Cleaning products as I don't do that as I have hired cleaning help !!!
Jan 12, 25

One of the key reasons why the world feels chaotic is technological advancements. Technology has revolutionized nearly every aspect of our lives, from communication to transportation to healthcare. While these advancements have brought numerous benefits, they have also created new challenges and complexities. What are your thoughts? Why does the world feel so unstable right now?
Dude49
There have been so many stupid people, with such fragile egos, out there and everyone wants to prove they have the biggest d@*k! So you have whoever it is who is running the White House, because we all know that Biden couldn\u2019t find his butt with both hands and a flashlight, who is pushing all of the LGBTQ+++++ crap, destroying the future of America, who is pushing the hatred between Jews and Arabs, Russia and Ukraine, China and the World, and doing everything they can to line their own pockets, with no care whatsoever about the Nation! Then you have the Europeans, who have been such big powers years ago, who still think they are top of the mountain, when they can\u2019t even take care of their own people! The New World Order, funded by Soros and his Ilk, who have way more money than they can ever spend, and are just bored to death and decided they want to play in politics to get back at every perceived insult or slight that has happened to them in their lives, just spoiled 80 year old \u201cspoiled children\u201d, who have decided that if \u201cYou won\u2019t play by the rules I just made up, I will take my ball and go home!\u201d Sheer stupidity! If the governments of the world would just work together, there is enough money, assets and skills to give every person in the world, clean water, good food, a roof over their heads, abd safety from the ills out there! But no, EVERYONE wants to be in charge and control their own little corner of their world!
Jan 09, 25

Playing old music to dementia patients seems to bring them "back" to be massively helpful.... I have a fairly large collection of CDs... I put one on, and I am transported to when I was 19....or 24...and everything else about being there ALSO comes rushing back too...people...names...masses of stuff it can be really emotional too....not to sure if our current youth will have this resource...maybe a video rather than real experiences connected to each song...mixes and...
BLM
Last Night, a DJ saved My life is a song (a very popular song released by an American Musical Group - called Indeed in the dying years of Disco in the USA) - sold over 1,000,000 copies on 45 formats. I use music to link 'pleasant memories' in my mind - the safest place to hold fond memories that are near and dear too ME - in MY MIND - because I CAN visit my fond memories in my mind at any time (day or night).
Dec 28, 24

I know I will get a lot of negative feedback for this and if someone is alone, I can understand them treating their pup like it is their child, but dog clothes are expensive and unnecessary. That money could be put to much better uses, like feeding hungry children.
Sylvia Y
I think it is dreadful to do this to intelligent animals be they dogs or cats and it should be treated as animal cruelty
Dec 17, 24

When is it time for an elderly person to be in aged care? Should it be up to the person themselves, or should their children help them decide? My Dad lives on his own and is happy, but he has recently had a fall, and I am not sure if I am happy about him being alone. What do you think?
BLM
I was never close to my parents or my immediate family on my father side or my mother side. I went on to become a runaway when I was a teen-ager - and never saw my parents or immediate family EVER again! Anyway, a very bad warning health sign is you stated your father recently fell - you need to schedule an appointment with a geriatrician and neurologist ASAP. After the health data comes back from both medical doctors - you and father need to have a heart-to-heart talk about his living on his OWN and any adjustments NEEDED for him to continue to live on his OWN! FYI: I turned 79 - yesterday - I see a geriatrician and neurologist - once a year - to make annual adjustments pertaining to the status of my health - so I can continue to live on my OWN!
Nov 30, 24

There are a few countries that provide school children with free food. Even teachers are allowed to have it too. However, so many developed countries don't intend to do it. What is your opinion? To have access to free food at school is support for children and parents, as well. It is interesting to hear different opinions and facts from the residents of different countries.
APB
Australia should have this nationwide...there is no excuse...we waste our taxes on rubbish...lets feed and love our kids
Nov 16, 24

Lately, renting has become very high. When it comes to food or clothes, one can save up. But renting is something that you depend on others. The cheapest renting in Canada is $2,000 for a family. It takes half the budget. Even if one wants to rent places with low price, it doesn't work as it is wished.
Warrior
Renting is a problem when you let to many foreigner into a country who buy up properties and leave thise homes empty.. you know who these people are.
Sep 30, 24

The other day, I noticed an elderly woman shoplift in a grocery store. I felt sorry for her - she must have been low on money to buy food, and so she was stealing. Would you report an elderly shoplifter or let it go OR maybe offer to buy the item for her?
Imperia S '' PIER''
there are plenty of places for people to get food for nothing eg. Food Bank, Salvation Army, etc.there is no need for stealing, they set bad examples to the younger crowd
Aug 26, 24

Some scientists believe that Climate Change is bogus. It's not real according to their analysis. Some of these Climate change sceptics have done analytical studies and --couldn't find real evidence of it. The earth is always changing, and nothing remains the same for too long. But if these other Scientists are right and this has all been a lie, then what would be the reason for this? Why would so many want to believe it and insist it is happening?
Pearlz
Stalin once said if you tell a lie make it a big lie because people will believe a big lie. Darwin came up with the theory of evolution, and it was only a theory as there has never been any proof. With the advances in DNA this theory has been blown out of the water and yet it is taught in schools as a fact. What did Darwin gain from what is a lie? Fame! Climate change is another lie that started as Global Warming but when it became evident that the world was not warming it was changed to climate change. The CSIRO know it isn't a fact but if they announce that the money tap will be turned off. Malcolm Turnbull pushes climate change, and why wouldn't he as he and his son are making a lot of money from green technologies. As with anything, follow the money. Just look at the money being made by people making and installing solar panels, electric cars and batteries. And all this rubbish needs replacing every 10 or 20 years. It is one huge con and many people have been sucked in either because they didn't really think about it or are too afraid to disagree. How on earth can mankind change the weather? There is the sun and moon with all their effects, undersea volcanoes spewing hot water that heats our oceans altering the currents which effects the rain we get. Climate change has been blamed for the recent floods which is totally incorrect, they were caused by El Nino which has been known by the South Americans for thousands of years. People should ask questions and not simply accept the rubbish pushed as FACT.
Jun 08, 22

Young adults are taking more time to marry, and cohabitation has become a popular alternative to marriage. People may also not want to marry if they have previously felt intensely controlled by others. What are your thoughts? Why do some people never marry?
Lachelle B
Was with my partner for 24 years (he passed this January) and we both never felt the need to get married. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
May 15, 24

Some research suggests that loneliness can increase stress. It's also associated with an increased risk of certain mental health problems. For example, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and sleep problems. My anxiety and depression isolates me from people and stops me from being able to do the things I'd like to do. What do you reckon? What does being lonely do to a person?
BLM
I am NOT a people person - I enjoy being ALONE without ever feeling LONELY! Furthermore, there is a BIG difference between ALONE and being LONELY!
May 22, 24

Well wow this discussion can hit on so much nerves. I can fully understand a life between 2 adults, but when children are involved that is too much to take in. If you live in a dysfunctional life or in an abusive situation, I also can fully understand, but when especially a mother to decide to leave your family & especially children, in my opinion it takes the cake. I find this to be so selfish on your part to up root your children's lifes for what you think for a better life. It...
Turbo Leonie
We have no right to judge anyone as we do not know the complete story. There could be many reasons for a mother to leave, she may be putting her kids first, who knows? It would be such a hard decision. We have not walked in their shoes. Anybody who has made the decision deserves our support as well as the children and other parent. The last thing they need is others judging. How will that help a family?
May 04, 24

Is it just me, or has there been a rise in people who in insist on correcting other people's Spelling and Grammar?? (even now, I'm sure I've probably put a full stop in the wrong place or misspelled a few words) Is this a battle worth fighting or just plain Jerky, what do you think?? By the way, it annoys the crap out of me
DrSuz
I do editing and proofreading for work, and I never correct spelling and grammar when I’ve not been asked to do so. I think it is rude and can be a form of bullying and belittling someone. If the spelling or grammar is wrong but the meaning is clear, there’s no need to annoy the writer with corrections. And if no one ever made mistakes, I would have a lot less work!
Sep 12, 22

At my age (I am old), my number one issue in life is my health and health coverage. Every year I have to wade through Medicare (a government medical program for everyone who is at least 65 years old (and paid into medicare for at least 40 credits (and you can only earn 4 credits a calendar year) in the USA. Because of my income (which the federal government claims is HIGH - HAHA - I am not covered by governmental supplement plans for dental coverage and...
Warrior Woman
At the moment it is convincing those selfish people who still refuse to be vaccinated against Covid. If we are ever to get a hold on this disease or become immune we must all be vaccinated so at least we stand a chance of surviving. Millions of precious people have died and maybe they don't belong to the unvaccinated but they did belong to others who loved and mourn their passing. Too many millions of others now suffer life long health issues because they caught the disease. Most of those I know claim "God protects me" .Well who protected the thousands of Christians and other believers who died? Others claim their body is their property and yet stick strange chemicals and other suspicious mixtures into their arms and up their noses and eat so called 'natural foods which are so chemically modified in order to make them edible. I am vaccinated but even catching the milder version now circulating will affect me because I already have severe respiratory problems and had lung cancer surgery. I know the unvaccinated will give all their silly, selfish reasons and I won't bother reading them because my number one issue is to live to see 2023!
Jan 02, 22

It seems of late that all we hear is how we should eat plant foods and not meat or dairy products etc. Almond milk is not as nutritious as cows milk and should not be given the children? It is also produced with pesticides and heaps of water to grow them. I was watching a cooking show last week and the vegan chef said h I also feel that a acre of plant food will give the grower more money they a cow or sheep would over a year. However, if the environmentalists...
Bugalugs
What I don't like, in fact I loathe, about Vegans and Vegetarians is thet they adopt the attitude that they are so much better than everyone else. yet these are the same people who want all their "Flesh" replacement meals to taste just like the Beef, Chickem Lamb, Turkey, Pork, Salmon, Barramundi, Herrings etc. they used to eat before they became so much better, more Environmentally Conscious and overall Much Superior Citizens than the rest of us.
The next time you are in the Supermarket have a good, close look at the Ingredients Label on all this Vegetarian, Vegan food. You will be surprised, very possibly, and justifiably, shocked at the amount of Laboratory-produced "Nature Identical" Flavours, Colours, the amount of Sodium, NaCl, and other Artificial Chemicals which are used to make those Meat Free Sausages, Mince, Steaks etc. taste just like the real thing!
It is a bit like those people who say they have stopped using sugar, the Cane or Beet variety and have switched to No Calorie, No Fat Artificlal Sweeteners all sold under trade names but which are, in truth, produced in laborarories and some of the ingredients have been shown, no, Proven to be Carcinogenic!
You don't have to adopt any of these extremist fads such as Veganism, if you want to reduce the amount of Meats you eat, just do so and increase your Vegetables including Potatoes!
For the extremists they all seem to think they are better than everyone else, they are so arrogant, so smug, they really have no idea what problems they are setting up fopr themselves after eating all that Artificial rubbish. They won't eat Cheese, drink Milk, eat Eggs and try to imply that this is contributing to cutting down on Animal Cruelty. Garbage, utter garbage because the Cows will still be producing milk, chickens still laying infertile eggs and they do it al Naturally.
Jan 07, 24

Honestly, as road users, we all pay our share of taxes. It is my opinion that anyone using a two-wheel bicycle should pay a share of road taxes and wear a numbered identification bib of some sort, bet that gets a few hot under the collar.
APB
and pedestrians too...we could tax animals even...dogs using the footpaths...what about wheelchairs and motorised buggies?...kids triikes too...think of all the revenue!!!...we could make lots of money and crush everyone under our will....fantastic...we could tattoo numbers on people's heads....and if they didn't pay their taxes we could gather them all up and keep them in camps.....
God I love discussion pages!
Jan 15, 23

Lately, if I am not director or CEO of a company, or I don't have own company, I am scanned out of surveys. I mean, be realistic - would really the owner of a company have time for online surveys? Or someone with income greater than 150k a year would spend time to do online surveys about groceries stores? I don't think so. That requirements of being even able to do some survey is almost impossible lately. What are your experiences?
Magpie
Like a lot of others, I get screened out of countless surveys - certainly there are far more outs than acceptances. There is absolutely no doubt that the main reason I get the 'cold shoulder' is my age. I am 77.
Being rejected used to annoy me but I have come to accept that the so called marketing experts aren't interested in considered opinions from us older folk and believe that the world functions around the upwardly mobile with more money than sense. That's okay, they pay their money and get what they want but I wish they wouldn't waste everyone's time in this manner.
Nov 04, 22

How much are we eating, and we don't know it. Starting to notice warnings on a few foods, what do you guys know about it?
WonkyandProud
I think we have no idea what we are eating. How could we know? We aren't there where our food is grown or even worse where it's produced, handled and packaged. Unless you grow your own food and raise your own livestock, you don't know what you're eating. Even then, what part does the environment and the feed for the livestock impact the final product? Almost everything from the air we breathe to the items we interact with to the food we eat affects us. I'm more concerned with the electronics and all the things we can't see. I have proof that the electricity in our homes can kill us, even our pets and trees. Now there is so much more than just the electricity we use. All the devices we use affect us, and I feel we are forced to use them out of necessity. I hate mobile phones, but almost every company wants you to download an app which I think is for tracking purposes, but they make it appear to be for out benefit. When do companies EVER do anything just to save us money? That doesn't even make sense. I feel like we are lambs being sent to the slaughter and everyone just follows along. I try not to, but sometimes we HAVE to in order to do what we have to do. They assume everyone has a cell phone and internet. We should be able to make that choice and not be forced into using things that we don't even understand how they work! Maybe I'm just too old for this. Does anyone agree or am I paranoid? I've been around long enough to know not to trust everything. You can't even believe what you hear and see now with the AI which is another subject I'd like to avoid!
Oct 19, 23

Has anyone heard of the 'Bulla Rescue' in Australia which involves horses? I watched a documentary about rescuing Race horses that were left to starve to death by a trainer. There were many reports sent to the RSPCA, but it was not investigated. They found over 20 horses dead or dying from starvation. 23 horses were rescued, but 3 had to be put down. If you report something serious, shouldn't it be investigated. In the end the police were also involved.
Mooi
So much goes on in the racing industry. It is all about money and greed. It happens with horse racing and greyhound racing, rodeos and any form of animal exploitation. It is always about the money they can make out of an animal and when it is spent and considered no longer profitable, it is discarded. These animals are sentient beings, not commodities.
Aug 15, 23

I was recently at the Doctors & the waiting room & treatment room all had posters stating, "abuse of staff will not be tolerated!" I then went to the Medical lab & X-ray rooms where there were more posters stating the same in large bold writing. It is sad that society has come down to a lack of respect for people who are doing their best to help others. A nurse at the hospital said they cannot put their surnames on their name tags, or they get trolled & abused through social...
gordy
How disgusting this behaviour is. Sometimes it is because of a medical condition or illicit drug taking. Sometimes people are just downright abusive. The internet has made society very unsociable
and aggressive. Not to mention all the other stuff that has changed our society. Manners and respect - where the hell is it.
Jun 08, 26

What makes you decide a person is beautiful? Is it just their outward appearance? Or, what they are like inside? In my experience with deciding if a person is beautiful, is their initial attractiveness on the outside, and then seeing what they were like on the inside changed my perspective of them as they showed how nasty they actually are. I'm not saying all attractive people are not good, but some can be very arrogant.
writerrochelle
And some not so attractive people can have such a good heart inside that they eventually appear attractive outside too! I've known people with a beautiful outside appearance that, after I got to know them, they actually started looking ugly on the outside for their evil inside. Jehovah God is looking for, and directing us to through his angels, goodhearted people since the end is drawing near, just like before the flood in Noah's day! \u263a\ufe0f
May 30, 26

As the local bank branches have closed and the ATM has gone I have to travel to the next suburb in order to get cash, so when I was in a large shopping centre recently and saw an ATM I decided to use it. I first noticed the keypad was very low so I had to stoop as I put my card in. The screen asked which security I wanted, facial recognition, thumb or PIN, then did I want a withdrawal, deposit, transfer or balance. Then it was cheque, savings, or cash...
Terry G 153626
I bank with Macquarie. They dont have branches or ATMs but i can go to any bank ATM and withdraw cash without paying any fee. They pay me 2.75% on my transaction account and 5% on my savings and they dont have any silly requirements like making desposits every month. Best bank for my needs.
May 27, 26

Woke used to mean one thing.... now it is just confusing... Gay was happy once.... Quark can mean a Desktop publishing program....or a fundamental particle or a type of cheese!....why don't we just make up some more words?...is it a lack of imagination?...what do you think?....if that is too tiring maybe we could get AI to do it for us...it saves us from thinking doesn't it
writerrochelle
I don't use slang words that are meaningless in their context. I prefer using the English language, which is confusing enough already. ;-D
Apr 22, 26

If you knew the world was going to end soon, what would you do? Would you go crazy and do wild things, or would you accept the fact and try to help others to come to grips with this?
Mike Pike
Know Jesus Know Peace No Jusus you're in trouble
May 04, 26

When you set a list of Surveys which one do you choose? By Colour By Number of Stars By Reward Amount By Time or Just start at the top and work your way down I personally go by the Time because I am completing a Survey between jobs or chores or going out. What do you do?
Katya
I start with Azure. Then take the shortest time ones. I am so tired of the long ones. I finish them, then they say I didn't, and give me compensation. I send in screenshots where they say I finished them to Rewardia, and Rewardia says it looks like I didn't finish it, when I have proof. So no wasting time on long ones.
Apr 21, 26

Based on recent data from early 2026, New Zealand households are experiencing high levels of financial pressure, with nearly half (49%) reporting more pressure than usual at the start of the year. How is it where you live? What's your household's current level of financial pressure?
Woodster
I hope this Middle East war doesn't go on for too much longer as this is affecting prices and causing pressure for so many, particularly farmers and the transport industry. Our household feels pressure when the stock market falls and so does our superannuation.
Apr 28, 26

Over the years I have seen servers in restaurants being treated badly by the patrons, and often for no good reason. And yes, there are those servers that obviously don't care if your food arrives cold or even if it arrives at all. But there are a lot of good ones that do the best they can under difficult circumstances. My husband would always go out of his way to single out these people and let them know that they were appreciated. Once in Vegas we watched a poor kid...
Secret Squirrel
Working with the general public is a thankless job the majority of the time. But it takes only one person to notice you and give you some words of appreciation to make your day. A real smile,some words of encouragement or acknowledgement goes a long way. And believe me ,they remember you. I know I did.
Apr 24, 26

Due to cost of living, raised rents etc. my household has increased by 2 extra adults and 2 school aged children. My daughter and her family are struggling to save for a home of their own - they have good full-time jobs. Problem is, even though I love them to bits, the extra work e.g. washing, cleaning, cooking is exhausting, not to mention the noise factor and increased costs - electricity, water, groceries. I just want my house back, quiet, clean and the ability to walk...
Norman PSBHRJ
If it's more expensive for you then why aren't they paying for all the extra or giving you any money. You also mention the extra work, why are you doing it all? Busy or not, your "Adult Children" should be helping you a lot more, They are taking advantage because you do every thing for them. They don't work 24/7 and they could pitch in by giving you money and doing some of those chores. Partially it's your fault as your not saying anything to them. You want things to change, speak up and set some rules, your house after all, so take charge.
Mar 11, 26

I have hearing disability but some people even after I have informed them, continue to want to contact me by phone and try to make a point of I have tried to ring you many times. Should I ignore them? Should I apologise to them? Should I tell them where to go? Should I block their phone numbers? Should I pretend to talk to them and then hear about what they have said in the conversation? Should I believe what they say I agreed to in the phone call? It seems to be mainly...
Tara
I feel your frustration; I too have hearing loss and can relate to what you're going through. Something that works like a charm for me that I've found effective:
Create a Voice mail message 'Hello you've reached ######### Please 'text' me as I'm hard of hearing and occasionally miss calls, if you don't text me, don't be offend when your call is not answered, thank you.
Mar 12, 26

What does grateful living mean to you? Occasional thank-yous, or a constant state of gratefulness for everything, good or bad? I admit it is not easy to be grateful for a bad day, but any given day means so much - one more day lived in your life. I say thank you for every single day to God, or to the universe, or to my body. I have pretty painful legs, but these legs have walked and still walk on this earth an immeasurable number of steps, so I say thank you to them. No legs?...
The ghost
I\u2019m grateful for everything, except those self centred bastards that won\u2019t give me what I want.
Feb 23, 26

The housing problem is terrible...there aren't enough houses....what can we do?...blame earlier Governments?...deport people...ban immigration and not allow nasty foreigners to buy any?....we could build big complexes so we have cheap housing where people work?....no..everyone wants a house with a garden...we could just build loads of houses everywhere...and connect it all to hi-speed trains...no hi-speed trains cost too much...and everyone who has already bought a house...
IdentifyAs
We had no problem until the Liberal Lite woke asses came in and then Labor. We need to stop immigration. Send back those who are out to hurt the rest of us and dont assimilate. Climate change is just some crap from the WEF, WHO and all those acrinyms. We need to band together as aussies Im voting One Nation, if you dont agree with me just shut up.....
Feb 06, 26

By now I have travelled more than 15 countries, have met people from a lot of different countries. I think that the people in Indonesia are the sweetest. What would you say? Which country in the world has the nicest people to tourists?
Andrew C 287196
No idea. Never been a tourist. People are people, and countries are countries - there are good, bad, and stupid people in every country.
Feb 02, 26

I have heard it said quite a bit lately that it is much harder to make friends as an adult, than as children or young people. School and extracurriculars are options for children and Uni/ Tafe or work, parties and hobby related activities are often places young people make friends as well. As we get older sometimes the opportunities to make new friends are more limited. Has this been your experience? Do you make new friends? If so where did you meet them? Was it...
BLM
As I get older (I am eighty years old) - it became EASIER for me to make friends (as I became less judgmental in my social (personal)) life!
Jan 06, 26

I am not much of a storyteller, but in this case I will make an exception. A few weeks ago I had the pleasure of making a new acquaintance (male, obviously) over a social network group at a fairly prestigious venue. We exchanged a phone number, but that was it. A few weeks later, for some reason, I connected with him over the phone. Long story cut short, we met up for lunch on a weekend, which was very pleasant. After that, we parted ways. I learned that on that...
darsol
I think men these days are over it,we have women that look like rhinos with 5 kids to different dads saying men need to be a list of things that are in fantasy land.We also have men that are accused of being stalkers for even saying hello to a lady they see.In essence men are just over the whole dating scene.its very sad actually
Nov 15, 25

Now that I've got another year to upgrade, I'm trying to decide what's best. I'm fine with Windows 10, but then I hear how much better Windows 11 supposedly is. I also hear the downside, like insufficient disk space to upgrade, programs not running once you make the change, and all kinds of other stuff. What I'd like to know, is how many of you have upgraded and what you think of Windows 11? Was it worth it?
Uncle Peep (Robert F)
My laptop doesn't meet the requirements for the upgrade so I'm gonna just keep on using it as long as possible. If it starts having issues I'll buy a new one with the newest version of Windows.
Oct 26, 25

There is nothing wrong with it, other than it probably won t give you the status you were assuming would come with the car. It s a terrible reason to buy a car and sooner or later, you realize that the people that you think care, don t. In fact, it has no influence in anything. What would you say? Is there anything wrong with buying a car for status symbol?
BLM
Is there anything wrong with buying a car for status symbol? NO (your money - you do 'whatever' you please with your money)!
Oct 18, 25

What are your thoughts on Education? Is the system too rigid and doesn't cater to individual students needs, or do you feel it's too loose and has no real meaning anymore? It may be what you remember during your years at school, or the experience you have/had sending your children or other children in your care to school.
Pearlz
The education system is nothing more than a left leaning brain washing scheme. The teachers have no authority over the pupils who do pretty much what they like. There is no discipline or routine and nothing worthwhile is being taught. One of my children had a subject called pastoral care. I thought it was spelt "pasture" and wondered why they were learning about animal husbandry. I never did find out exactly what he learnt but his children have been taught about the stolen generation, how we stole their land, the world will burn up via climate change and you can be gender neutral or gender fluid and that there are more than 2 sexes. When I told my 10 year old grandson he might like Mork & Mindy he was quite concerned telling me many old TV shows aren't appropriate today. Fancy loading that on the shoulders of a 10 year old. In my opinion it's nothing more than child abuse. They are children and should be able to enjoy a childhood free of concern and unnecessary worry.
Oct 20, 25

We went to the big hardware store yesterday (Bunnings) and they have started to put out Christmas decorations. Is it me, or is it getting earlier each year?
LA
At this rate, by 2030 they\u2019ll be putting up Christmas decorations right after Easter. I\u2019m half-expecting to see Santa riding the Easter Bunny down aisle 3.
Oct 05, 25

I am a single mum of 3 children, I have tried too hard to keep up to date with rentals I have been in, absolutely skyrocket prices. I have luckily been selected by government housing which gives me oppoyto provide a stable roof over our heads, help with 25% of rent and bills. Grateful for this opportunity and I wish that all other people in my situation could be lucky as myself. Don't get me wrong it's hard to get a rental being single and income is government income only also...
Allan 1713395
why are you single with 3 children, didn't your parents teach you how to keep your legs closed. I would have thought you'd have applied for after just one child.
Sep 22, 25

In my humble opinion, Prime Minister, Anthony Albanese, should be congratulated for his efforts to ban social media for 16-year-olds. Will it work, though? Young people (year 10 students) I have spoken to recently seem to think not. There are too many sad stories. Something has to be done.
Squeekums
We will be ignoring it, we will help our kid get around it
Social media hasnt been bad for her
My kid was bullied out of school and NONE was online
They knew that left a trail we could take to the cops
They did it in person, in front of school staff and nothing would happen, she got told by staff that being told to off herself wasnt that bad and to turn the other cheek cos the bullies have a hard home life
So tell me where and how this will stop bullying?
All it stops is kids being informed
Stops them being connected
Stops them interacting in the modern world
Stops them from accessing hobby groups, like art or my kids venturer group communicate on discord
Stops kids forming social opinions that governments dont like
Sep 08, 25

With AI and self-service being the new darling for many businesses and the scourge for customers, do you have any suggestions for businesses on how to ACTUALLY keep your business? 1. Instead of outfitting your staff with body cameras, how about having MORE STAFF available to serve you? All cameras do is prove who did what after the fact and do not help anyone when help is actually needed. 2. Train your AI/chatbot to ask: "Would you...
Andrew C 287196
Get rid of the plethora of unnecessary over-paid management types, and lower the product / service prices.
Don't waste piles of money on ridiculously priced advertising company campaigns that tell customers nothing about the product / service.
Don't buy / rent hideously over-priced buildings to operate from (including NOT renting shops in over-priced shopping malls).
Don't get greedy #1: Stick to the business' core products / services. Don't try branching out into other weird sidelines that have nothing to do with the business.
Don't get greedy #2. There is no need for any company to "take over the world". The business does not need a billion branches all over the country / world.
Sep 06, 25

Does anyone who struggles in financial stress experience hard out depression? Work part-time. Trying to get more hours. Can't live comfortably, and it's starting to mentally affect me where I feel like I'm going crazy. My money goes to rent and food, and I have barely anything left. Makes me wonder, what is the meaning of life? :(
blunder boy
as grandparents we moved in with our daughter to share the costs and help her with the grandkids, putting us in a position where occasionally we can help others, if you are in Australia I know there is plenty of help if you ask, don't be ashamed of struggling everybody is, the meaning of life for me is the little things, when I retired some 5 years ago I made it a mission to be the reason someone smiled Everday, I have succeeded so far but for me its a great way to cope with the world we live in
Aug 11, 25

I plan to retire in hopefully 10 years. But I will need much more money to retire than I currently have. Everything is getting more expensive, and I don't know if I will have insurance for my medical needs by then. I don't know if medicade and Medicare will be available to me in 10 years or social security. I am scared I will not be able to for retirement in 10 years the way the economy is trending right now unless they Republicans and democrats fix things together...
Charles VIC 3044
I live in Australia and I don't understand why an ordinary citizen like myself who has worked his whole life and never received any sort of government benefit has to apply for a pension and yet a politician gets one automatically when he/she retires without having to do any sort of means test. Is this fair or unfair?
Jul 04, 25

Why does every Tom, Dick and Harriet (and their children) have to own a car? Isn't the world full of too many cars? As an older person that no longer owns a vehicle, it seems ridiculous why 17-year-old Junior must have a car and Mum/Dad will get it for them. Many households in NZ have multiple cars, this is excessive within the cities when buses run and people can carpool. "Must own a car" for my independence mentality is wrecking the planet What is your...
nobody
everyone should ride motorbikes - less costs, less congestion, easier to park. They would be better car drivers at the end of their time on a bike too, through more awareness of other road users
Apr 17, 25

I am wondering, as I live way out in the country, and I was seeing drones flying at night. What concerned me is I also saw the medivac in the same area as these drones. I let the Sheriff know seems for now the drones are not flying. My Blink door cameras were picking up all the activity, and it was going on night after night after night. Do others see drones this often in the country?
Alison B
No I don't see them. I would have thought that unless you have a special permit you wouldn't be allowed to operate them at night. It sounds like there might have been an illegal activity going on.
Jun 05, 25

Education is something that can never be taken away from you. Once upon a time, someone said to me, Your education is something that no one can ever take from you." That has stayed with me all these years and I realize why this is one of the most famous educational quotes. It's not only true, but also yours to own. What would you say? What is something that can never be taken away?
BLM
Here is MY list of a few things, society cannot take from you (but will try). Your fire, your life skills, your effort, your ideas, your common sense/street smarts, your reactions, your perspective, your life experiences, your determination, your self-respect, your knowledge, your uniqueness, and your poise under pressure!
Apr 29, 25

Most people live on high credit that will take forever to pay off due to living on higher means than what we can afford. Bad enough having one credit card, but many have a few, which make you go into a spiral life of credit & you never can get out of. I believe one card is bad enough, you shouldn t be able to obtain any more to stop you from getting out of control. Do you feel banks should stop this to stop people s lives from getting out of control?
Vicki2026
I honestly don't know. I am trying hard to pay off our cards, but our debt did not come from living too well, but simply having to pay bills. My husband had to have operations & could not work or get unemployment because he had his own business, so we accrued debt from medical & other bills. I worked, but it wasn't enough. I can't wait until it's all paid off!! I look forward to that freedom!
Mar 05, 25

Do you agree with this? In my opinion, if AI can't do even simple things (distinguish between genuine emails and spam/scam emails and Microsoft is the WORST OFFENDER for not being able to do this even when you tell it this one is ok and this one is not) and giving wrong answers when searching for things (not just search engines but within sites when you are looking for specific products, and you even give it the brand, product name product code etc). ...
BLM
AI is in its learning phase of its usage - which is not an excuse (just a fact). However, operating on the assumption (you presented in your 'discussion of the day') - if AI is DUMB - then how 'dumb' are humans (including me) for using AI??
Apr 12, 25

Being the polar opposite of my siblings in every way shape and form and never having the dad/daughter connection, I always wondered if me daddy were indeed me daddy. It ate away at me for years. I asked my mother many times. I got to a point in my life where I needed to know I did Ancestry D.N.A .BOOM! my gut instincts were spot on Finally got my truth At 70, I found another brother I don t regret any of it, but boy, what an emotional roller coaster.
hiasprdude
I understand your need to know but it's important to realize you are likely not the only person whose life may be upset needlessly with any disclosure. There may be many reasons you weren't told, including your mother having been the victim of rape, incest or long-denied or hidden indiscretions.
How badly you may need to resolve this has to be weighed against the hurt the truth may cause, wounds re-opened and marriages undermined.
Apr 11, 25

Certain TV shows and movies are sexist, unrealistic, ridiculous or something else that is awful about them, yet they are popular, WHY? Why do some disgusting food and drinks become popular or a certain ingredient all of a sudden is deemed in so it is put in everything? What are some things you have noticed that either are popular now or were popular in the past, and you are surprised they are or were?
kittle
Nothing is whole some any more. Can't even watch a TV series where they promote homosexuality. Not every one is for this.If it wasn't for my husband would not have a TV !
Apr 05, 25

If I want to protest, complain or even compliment I put pen to paper and send it either by snail mail or email, but others glue themselves to roadways, make a racket at a function, block waterways or interrupt speeches etc. which inconveniences others. When I write they have my name and contact details, someone reads it and in 99% of cases I get a reply. This does have advantages because I am then on their list of contacts, so I get newsletters as well as information as to...
blunder boy
If the pen is mightier than the sword why do actions speak louder than words, personally, I take action if I feel wronged by never using the service or company again, I have walked out of jobs for wrongful accusations,i have stopped shopping at certain shops because of management changes, would I ever stoop to violence no, I've written letters before never had a reply, i once wrote a letter to the minister of housing here in sa because they were paying me to clean house that they were demolishing, that cost me my job ,
Mar 27, 25

Research shows that certain strategies can help build up self-control around spending and saving money. The advice is to make one financial decision at a time, to track your spending. What else? How do I train my brain to stop spending money?
blunder boy
I have all my money in jars, I don't touch them until they are full, I don't have any credit cards and there is never money in my bank, it isn't the Bank of Pop it's the Bank of Jars, I have 17 different jars all different sizes all different purposes, it is amazing how much you can save by putting your change away and I also save my 5 dollar notes for the bigger purchases
Feb 19, 25

You may feel lonely because many of your friends are at work. You may be bored. The activities you try may not challenge or engage you. Many retirees feel they have lost their sense of purpose. What are your thoughts? Why is it so hard to retire?
Jennifer
Many reasons mainly the cost of living. I agree with a panel member that the Govt don't want you to retire so change the goal posts as frequently as they can get away with. The Govt needs our taxes more and more as people either choose not to have children or can't literally afford to with housing and cost of living. A totally sad state of affairs as it changes peoples' lives so the rich can get richer and tell the middle class which will become almost extinct that they are lazy or didn't work hard enough. Totally unjust and immoral. We absolutely have to choose the best Govt in May this year to serve the ordinary working people of this country. Let's unite together there is absolute power in numbers!!!
Feb 02, 25

The joy to cost ratio can be a way to get a clearer perspective on the relationship. Likewise, many joys are unrelated to money, too. What does it mean to you?
APB
and now all the Christians have joined in too...even though this has nothing to do with them..nice!,...how about some bible quotations?...cannot get enough of those suckers...apparently...
Jan 30, 25

There is some scientific evidence indicating that even moderate alcohol consumption can increase the risk of several types of cancer. What are your thoughts on this? Do we need cancer warnings on alcohol bottles?
Tipps
we all die one way or another, sickness, accident, murdered, run over by a horse. I grew up in the alcohol {home Brew} enviroment for sixty years, and started drinking at the age of 12, and still not out at 70
Jan 27, 25

On the one hand we hear on the news that children are conducting more crimes such as ram raids, teenagers deliberately serving half cooked chicken nuggets (raw on the inside) to kids in fast food restaurants etc. On the other hand, mental health issues are on the rise, and it seems as though people are less resilient now, with more depression and anxiety. Do you think we are raising our kids to be too soft or too uncaring?
BLM
Do I think people are raising their kid(s) to be too soft or too uncaring (good question) ...hm. One, I always 'thought' kid(s) were carbon copy of their parents when it comes to pernicious behavior. Two, if kid(s) are too soft or uncaring (that is not on society, but on their parents - aka parents not doing their job - since their parents got the kid - HERE). Last, I don't have any kids (not my issue or concern)!
Jan 21, 25

For me, it is a no. Once you ve seen a bunch of beaches, a bunch of mountains, a bunch of cities, how many times do you need to do those things again? What is your experience? Is dedicating your 20s to world travel wise?
BLM
Is dedicating your 20s to world travel wise... hm... It will help you decided what you want in life. Fewer physical attachments equal more freedom and more travel. You'll get street smart. It will make you a more interesting person. You'll grow culturally. You'll learn to develop your independence and how to be responsible. You'll learn how to manage your money early in life. You won't resent it later in life (not travelling). Last but not least - because you 'really' deserve it (to travel earlier in LIFE).
Jan 16, 25

In our family, every year we would give the same presents. My Dad would wrap up a potato in lots of newspaper and put it under the tree, one for me and one for my brother. He then did this for my daughters as well. We always had one fun gift, One daughter always got a coffee mug, she has quite a collection now. The other always got funny underpants. I would search all year for both. My husband still gets a cigar (his one a year) and I get good chocolates. ...
MIKE 1
WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT CHRISTMAS WHEN SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE A TREE THAT HAS BEEN CUT DOWN.EVERY TIME I HEAR WELL MOST OG THE TIME GROUPS OF PEOPLE GO OUT TO PLANT TREES TO HELP CLIMATE CHANGE SO WHY NOT BUY A TREE THAT CAN BE USED FOR YEARS
Dec 22, 24

I am an only girl in a family with four brothers. My mother lived to be 88 years old and had dementia. I moved her in with me and cared for her for the last three years of her life. Only one of my brothers came to see her, the others didn't even call to check on her. Mom was a good mother and took good care of us growing up. We had an alcoholic father who cared more about his liquor than about us, but Mom made up for it by giving more of herself. I know of other families...
BLM
Gender is not the issue, more like family dynamics is the issue combined with the stereotyping of males. Furthermore, your sample size is too small to draw valid conclusions on gender. In addition, under the scenario you described you can draw invalid generalizations about males. Which has led to the 'myth' of girls (women) are more responsible than boys (men)...hm - even in these politically correct times - males are winning custody of their child or children from their ex-wives - for the first time - in the history of democracies!
Dec 21, 24

Has anyone noticed that the weather outside is colder than usual for this time of year, especially here in California where I live? It feels like I m living in Wisconsin, where it s not sunny most of the time. Even when the sun comes out, it s not hot. Winters in Wisconsin often reach 50 below zero, and the weather can change dramatically it might rain, then shine, and then snow, which is quite strange. Also, I really dislike group homes and their regulations....
Nel
Hello Lisa thank you for the Californian weather perspective. In Melbourne the weather is similar, it's colder and hotter during this time of the year, than the past few years. Climate change and its effects are quite obvious. Regarding your plight of living with house mates is a bit daunting, but what can you do? When you cannot afford a home by yourself, some sacrifices have to be made. I pass a positive compliment to you. If you are the one who is appearing in the photo, you look quite young and smart, why not try a career advancement to buy your own place? Just a suggestion! This is what I did when I was young: work harder to climb the ladder to achieve career development. It was hard but, it solved a lot of life problems. Good Luck! \ud83d\ude00
Dec 03, 24
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