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If you had to choose between Smarties and M&Ms, which would you favour? See more
APB
I love these deep philosophical debates ...I would only eat either of them if it was the last food source on Earth and I hadn't eaten in a few days...
Oct 11, 20

I could think of nothing worse than spending my days liking and sharing posts on social media. I don't care about a photo of my mate's lunch. Life is short. Who wants to take their last breath scrolling and swiping? Not me See more
Sabine V
lt's pretty sad that people count the stranger they share the life's with as friends. lt must be lonely
Oct 06, 20

Economists say that the future could possibly be cashless. But it could be problematic for low-income individuals. Do you think this would work or not ? If so, why? See more
Bugalugs
I already almost entirely do. I am no techno genius, nerd or particularly "modern" but I find I can manage my money better, I pay all my bills electronically (is that "digitally"?), have numerous accounts (with the same bank) and divide my income between them for specific reasons (Utilities, phone, rates etc.) so the money is always there when a bill is due. All my grocery buying is done using a Debit card.
Sep 22, 20

Most of my friends get fake tans, it's the safer option. But I love sunbaking. I know that it can cause skin cancer, I know that it can cause premature ageing but that doesn't remove my love for it. There is something revitalizing about the sun... See more
Bugalugs
I tyan very easily - thanks to my Indian Heritage all mixed ip with my Irish-Spanish blood. As my Dad used to say: I am a real mongrel!
Aug 04, 20

Do you hire professionals or do you DIY for home maintenance projects e.g. driveway cleaning, exterior home cleaning, painting etc? See more
Susan H 801435
We call my husband's son - who - is a gifted "jack of all trades" and take him out to dinner as a "thank you!"
Aug 07, 25

What stories can you share about first words that aren't Mum or Dad? I know ours was actually our cats name ... See more
Elvira D 70287
My son is 26 years old and up until today I can still recall when he was 5 months old and I was trying to teach him to say Papa instead he would say papaw, it was so funny to hear.
Sep 21, 23

I have 5 beautiful grandchildren ranging in age from 18 months to 9 years. They have so many toys, books & games. Each birthday & Christmas I try to think of something different for them. The 9 year old's last birthday I chose a membership to... See more
Teri 1282723
I spend $100 each on my children and grandchildren for Christmas and birthdays. For Easter I get them each some chocolate.
One granddaughter and daughter always want a gift card to a particular store (Winners) so that's what they get. My sons get cash or gift card depending on their wants at that particular time. I often watch what people appear to like throughout the year and will buy that for Christmas. One year I made everyone an afghan for their beds or to snuggle with on the couch when they felt like. I always ask if there's something they want, but it's often the same gift cards or cash. Cozy sweaters and pyjamas are a Christmas staple:)
Aug 22, 23

Whatever happened to all cars having a strong steel bumper bar front and back and a thick chassis underneath? Back in the day if you had a crash you can mostly be guaranteed to either drive away or have your car fixed quite quickly with minimal... See more
Joanne Y 440141
Sure as hell felt safer driving around in my 1957 Chev compared to my 2009 VE Commodore. Older cars were made of real steel and made to last, new cars are just throw away items hence why they have the safety of the air bags etc etc.
Mar 09, 21

Do you feel guilty when you watch real-life crime shows? They are so sensationalized and basically exploiting a person's tragic end. I love crime shows but I always wonder if consuming them is ethical. Thoughts? See more
Lyn 78550
I do like the way the British do their series such as Midsomer Murders, The Bill, Heartbeat etc. Also like crime shows that actually show the real people at the end of the movie that has been shown. I only watch movies of real life stories and find them very interesting.
Oct 29, 20

I avoid going to the doctor like the plague. I just don't want to know. What I don't know won't hurt me. But I know I should go. I should do a lot of things. See more
boy blunder
every fortnight I check in with my bottle of Woodford reserve [double oaked] he says I am doing fine and see you in 2 weeks, occasionally if I have any doubts I might check in with the cc a dry 10-pack or carton in between appointments and I am generally reassured
Feb 21, 23

I recently got married, and we didn't have a big fancy wedding ... just got married in the backyard with our closest friends. I want to book a trip for me and the hubby that's somewhat inexpensive but romantic at the same time. I need ideas and... See more
Darla T
Sample the options right in your area that you never thought of doing before. You can stay at home but each day plan to do something different and explore what has always been there but you were too busy to notice until now. You get to pick 3 things and so does he.
Oct 02, 22

Just wondering if anyone has told a lie no matter if it is big or small to make sure that your partner stay with you See more
Debra D 624780
I found out last week, people in authority do not believe the truth, I am age 66, this shocked me. Had I lied, the person would have believed that.
Aug 17, 22

Wanted to know if anyone still uses remedies or have remedies they don't mind sharing in the comment for colds & flus, with weather getting so much colder than usually this year? I like to go with good old pumpkin soup but with a few dashes... See more
Carmel C 103964
Can't go by putting a few drops of eucalyptus oil in a bowl of hot water and putting your head over it, covering yourself with a towel and inhaling deeply for a while. Then off to bed with a hot lemon juice and honey drink. Stay hydrated. Rest up, eat a balanced diet, laugh lots and get some sunshine if you can.
Jun 28, 22

Who has had the greatest influence in your life? Someone who has really made a difference See more
Jania S
Jesus, and family and friends, I have been truly blessed through thick and thin,,, I have always had the best influence.
Jun 23, 22

Easter seems to changed over the years with many more products on the market. Do you give Easter gifts other than chocolate s? If so, what do you give others at this time of year? See more
Lones
Growing up, we made an Easter basket at school and received small eggs from the Easter bunny, Easter is about other things than chocolate. These days children seem to get too much and don’t appreciate what they receive. Maybe the should learn the true meaning of Easter
Mar 15, 22

What do u do if u don't want to invite certain family members to celebrate holidays activities? Do u forget their invite on purpose or invite them and out up with their nonsense anyway? See more
Graham I
Live is too short to bear grudges and families are so important so just put on a brave face and enjoy
Dec 25, 21

I love very much my son, but the love that I feel for his 3 years old twin girls (my grand-kids) is much much more that I can express. It's that OK? See more
Linda C
How lovely for you. I do not have any contact with my grand children and have never met 2 of them. Family dynamics can be sad sometimes.
Jun 18, 21

How has distance learning been going for all the parents out there? Especially parents with special needs children? I have two autistic toddlers and it has been rough! See more
Imperia S
I am so lucky my kids are grown up with families of their own. I am so proud of all parents who had to fill this void, I would have never been able to cope,
Apr 12, 21

I read recently that purchasing these products in public makes some people feel awkward. I kinda felt that was weird. I mean it's not the 1800s. There is nothing to feel ashamed about. Most people out shopping are only focused on... See more
Phyrephly
Not really for these products (part of life, as has been said here), but I was in line behind someone who was looking - it turned out - for some anti-nit shampoo. When she (or he ;}), got to the counter, the lass behind asked "the person" to speak up then ... practically yelled, "oh, you mean nit-shampoo!"...
Sep 09, 20

I prefer to pack my own groceries at the supermarket, even though I have ample bags they always pack to overflow and pack all the cans in together so I can't even lift the bag. Bread laying down on top of one another instead of standing up so it... See more
Queenbee
It is quite often that they will overload your bag and it is dry heavy to put in and out of your trolley. Of course they want to serve and scan quickly and packing takes time. But the supermarkets need have more staff at checkouts and then we all win.
Feb 10, 21

How lovely is it, when we receive a gift where a lot of thought has gone into it? ie: something unconventional or homemade. You remember those kinds of gifts forever. It's easy to buy someone chocolates or flowers, as nice as they are. ... See more
Morton B
I am grateful for whatever I receive because it means that person thought of me. Its the thought that counts
Dec 27, 20

Futurists believe that human immortality will definitely be a certainty, what are your thoughts? Would you like to be immortal? See more
Joe B 288252
Genetic modification will allow people to live longer but when your number is up, it’s up. Perfectly healthy people die for no reason....except maybe the Force wants your story back....lol
Oct 20, 20

I could never live in a home without a bath, I honestly don't know how people do it. My nightly bath is a ritual, a tradition. It s my much needed me-time. If I never had a shower again, it wouldn t bother me. But my daily bubble bath... See more
Bugalugs
They, like perople who rinse thier dishes under a running tap before putting them into their energy/water hubgry dishwashers, waste untild amounts of water.
Sep 20, 20

I don't really care what's in fashion or what's considered cool. I have my own classic style. People that pay attention to fashion trends are sheep who don t know themselves. See more
Katzeye
I wear whatever makes me feel comfortable,happy,stylish and sometimes sexy lol basically whatever my mood is on the day,I wear something to match that unless I am just blobbing out at home on the couch,well then that's a PJ day..You won't find any designer labels in my wardrobe though,i'm not that rich.
Sep 01, 20

So much of our time is spent on the net, but I'm wondering if it is right that I might put up a birthday message to someone and then have another friend add a happy birthday sentiment even though they do not know them? See more
glory 1277945
You put message on the board so expect this. If you want privacy send a card. More time spend, but it's more personal
Dec 05, 23

Is it inevitable. Companies are getting smarter and gathering more personal data with every click - what's your experience so far, do they get the 'suggested' products or services right and does it actually suggest things you would like? See more
Pennye R
I really don\u2019t like the fact that my phone is listening to my conversations and Facebook is tracking my likes. I prefer to look up products that I need myself.
Aug 07, 23

Boardgames were very popular when I was growing up, and I really enjoyed playing them. These days people play more on computers, smartphones and gaming consoles. Do you still play boardgames? What are some of your favourites? See more
IdentifyAs
I don't have anyone to play with, so if I play any games it's usually on the ipad like rewardia. I loved monopoly, cluedo, trivial pursuit and trouble
Jul 13, 22

My children do jobs at home to earn pocket money, but are slowly approaching that all important she where they can work outside the home in part-time jobs. Currently, they have a few after school activities and homework etc each week. My... See more
Carmel C 103964
Depends totally on the child. They are all different. There are many different ways to help your children learn things and become more independent.
- For some children that involves not being paid to do chores but by being asked to do 'free' chores as a way of being taught that not all worthwhile activities in life are financially rewarded. That some rewards and benefits in life come purely from being involved, doing their share, helping others, doing their part in the running of the household and helping in the care of themselves.
Out in the adult world not all activities are rewarded by money. It is an important lesson to learn.
-Hence some parents teach their children to think of 'the bigger pictures' by not paying them to work around the house, or paying them only for 'extra' work done outside of the normal chore expectations. Some parents choose to reward the children for good family participation with special outings or the occasional junkfood treat rather than cash.
Other parents expect the children to divide their pocket money into three. Savings, spending and charity donations. Each family is different and has different lessons they wish to teach their children to help them be stronger, independent adults.
- Paying jobs outside of the household can also teach many good life lessons as well as giving them a better appreciation of how finances work and the value of money. Once again it comes down to each child being different, their ages, each job being different and how well each parent is involved in guiding them on how to save and how to socialise publicly. Is it 'necessary' for them to have a job whilst still in school? Only the parents can really decide if that is best for their child. There are so many things that need to be considered. Some children will flourish
whilst others may not. Some jobs are fun. Some jobs are just tiring and non-beneficial in anyway.
- Likewise, extra-curricular activities like sports can teach many good life lessons and help to keep them fit and happier. Sometimes those activities may lead them into a small paid job, like helping to coach.
* Overall each parent needs to look at each of their children differently and as separate individuals with different personalities and needs. What is right for one is not right for all. One may flourish in a small part time job, whilst their sibling may do better being left to concentrate on the karate they love so much or by simply being left to study and help around the house whenever they can. These are the tough decisions that parents have to make and although seeking advice from others is awesome....in the end only you can truly know what is right for your offspring. Even when you make that choice, it may need to be tweaked as time goes on. If something doesn't work well, then move on and try something else. That will help them learn resilience and that change is ok and sometimes it is for the best.
Jun 10, 22

Would you move countries at the drop of the hat? Only having less than a month to decide I've done it. It was a blast. I left NZ to go and live in Dallas, Texas (San Antonio, Arlington, and Grand Prairie) back in 2000. I lived... See more
Elizabeth J 447888
I am rather taken with Finland. It is known as the happiest country on earth. Their language is hard to learn I believe. I think I could live there for a few years. It is a year and a half since making a move in my own state and still haven't finished unpacking. No, don't think I could go through it again.
May 25, 22

Can you give an unbiased opinion? Sometimes, in the least? Or, too difficult when it involves your close relationships? See more
Dimitri T 100433
in my humble opinion, we all have biased since it is our opinion based on our perceptions,which are also biased
Apr 27, 22

Lots of people are on their phones but for how long? I see people that act like they can't stand being away from their phones but other can, so I want your opinion on this. Are you a phone freak or not? How many hours do you spend on your... See more
Elaine D 99552
I use it most of the time instead of a computer. I download and read books, do banking, play games, do surveys, take and edit photos, send texts and emails, research products, order products, watch videos, listen to music, read the news, find recipes and craft patterns, learn French and Chinese, book tickets and accommodation and ask questions about anything I want to know. That takes up most of my day! I very rarely use it to ring people.
Feb 12, 22

As a precautionary measure - Are you a person who would video record your interaction with law enforcement and what do you think of cop-watchers in your country. See more
Elvira D 70287
a smartphone camera to me is very valuable because sometimes in an accident or emergency you can take photos of the damage especially rego plates and get other party contact details, sometimes it comes in handy if you don't have a pen on you.
Jan 19, 22

So what are you actually supposed to do with old Electronic, Electrical & other "Non-Organic" things in this Brave New "Green" World"? Just had a message from a supplier of vacuum cleaner parts, I was looking for a charger to go... See more
Rose S 88496
Recycle as much as possible Office Works accepts a lot of tech things, batteries, ink cartridges etc and our council has a free tech and electronic product drop off once a year
Dec 08, 21

Do you still have long lasting friendships? A year ago my best friend from Primary School in the UK died. Almost 65 years ago she arrived from India and I was the only one who made her welcome. We lost contact when she married an... See more
Stephen W 322826
My mum was such a good friend when i was older, she collapsed and died in my arms of a brain embolism on xmas eve 1999. The pain eases but the hurt is still there. Always take the time to tell your freinds and family how much you love them.
Sep 28, 21

It's been 2 years since I've seen my mother who lives in Europe. We were supposed to meet in March 2020 but I guess you know how it turned out. It's the longest we haven't seen each other and I don't even dare to make plans or... See more
Stephen F 84899
Have not seen my family in QLD for 2 years. And maybe at Xmas time,but the premier of QLD has changed her mind so many times -- often over very silly events --
Sep 22, 21

Progress continues to be made on developing toilets that undertake fecal and urine analysis when you use it. This can detect disease and warning signs of poor health, and even send the results to your doctor over the internet. Would you use... See more
Frank N
In my experience doctors have not been too good at detecting health issues, including some major ones. Given that, a toilet that provides health data could be an advantage.
Jun 15, 21

Do you believe that the internet is a possible risk for starting WW3? We hear of occasionally, or read of situations of spying that goes on by some countries, esp by Nations of ... influence, Such as China, Russia, North... See more
Catalina
There is no such a thing as corrupt nation. And no, the internet cannot start WW3. People can. People can prevent it as well. That’s what I think. Think about it.
May 04, 21

What do you think of all of the recent remakes, past and present? Are new ideas becoming scarce? Have you actually found a production (remake) of an old film or TV series, that was enjoyable?? Well, regardless of how we feel, the film... See more
Pauline T 68358
Many of the old movies are better than some of the rubbish and stories made today. The ne movies could not be classed as entertainment.
Apr 21, 21

Apart from money, what have you been saving during COVID. For me it has been recipes. I now have so many I will be cooking a new main or dessert every day for the rest of my life! See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
My sanity - unfortunate - I reside in the land of idiots (USA) - the overwhelming majority of the population - still thinks COVID-19 is a government cover up - the good old days (before the pandemic) are not coming back - not anytime soon!!
Apr 06, 21

Would you leave a note if you left a scratch or dent on a parked car in a car park? See more
Craig P 469035
oh man all day do people have a sook about a scratch or paint mark, if ya gonna get paranoid over it dont take car soft ass cry baby car out.
Jan 31, 21

If I see Santa, I will hug him straight away, and thank him for his generosity to all people especially to kids. I would tour him around my house, and I would give him some cookies. I will touch his face and his long white beard and ask him to... See more
Rifat H
It's said that The Legend of Santa Claus is : based on the historic figure of Saint Nicholas, a real-life Greek bishop who lived during the 4th century and was known for secretly leaving gifts at the homes of children. The name Santa Claus is from the Dutch 'SinterKlaas' which means 'Saint Nicholas'.
I think to 'see' Santa Claus would be like seeing the spirit of : a wonderful act of kindness such as giving presents to Children (of all ages young or old) which brings much Joy and Happiness! Something very bright, on a very special occassion!
Dec 24, 20

The word "woke" has crept into our vocabulary and found a permanent home. But do people understand what it actually means? I see it used in the wrong context all the time. What does "woke" mean to you? See more
Lachelle B
It hasn't crept into our vocabulary. If you use it in the wrong context you need to improve your English. What I do hate is when people say tooken instead of taken! We will eventually degenerate into neanderthals again with the horrid grammar, speech and antisocial behaviour around nowadays. Grunt grunt!
Nov 26, 20

It seems like imprisonment to me. I mean with DNA testing, the pill and women being financially independent. I'm not really sure what the drawcard is. Does anyone know? As one of my friends says: "Why get engaged when there is call... See more
Sarah G 76834
If you truly believe in God, you will realise why people get married. Marriage is a type of Christ and his bride, and when Christ returns he will take those who believe in him to be his bride, and they will live with him in bliss and everlasting joy for eternity. You see, the Bible teaches that the kingdom of God will be on earth. In the meantime by being married we are glorifying God who wants us to be faithful to our partner in this life, just as we must be faithful to God. Marriage is a big commitment but it is very worthwhile from a scriptural point of view.
Nov 09, 20

The World Medical Association has said that boxing should be a banned sport because it causes fatalities and brain injuries. But life causes fatalities and brain injuries. Sport causes fatalities and brain injuries. Car accidents cause... See more
Katzeye
I don't think it should be banned,if it is going to be banned then all contact sport should be banned.They just need to be wearing the right protection like helmets and mouth guards.
Oct 27, 20

How often do you get your car serviced each year? Sometimes I have to go two or three times. Does this sound like a large amount to you? Maybe I'm being conned. See more
Taffy
If you don't look after it ,it won't look after you. Its generally the second biggest purchase for most people, look after it!!
Oct 19, 20

If so, what was the item? And was assembling it as easy as IKEA makes out? I am curious if they live up to their legend. See more
Margaret B 429563
Have only ever purchased 1 item (as far as I can remember) - got someone else to put it together for me as it was so complicated and takes so long to put it together. The process of finally finding it in the store, selection of the wanted item, collection from the assembly store down the bottom and then getting it paid for, let alone getting it home again is a mission in itself - who has the expertise or energy left to put the item together. Only impetus is saving the $70+ dollars they want for getting someone from their store to assemble it for you. Much prefer to go somewhere else & pay a bit more but get the item in one piece at home. I'm too old to try doing the gymnastics required to assemble the IKEA items.
Oct 05, 20

I don't. I think it should be at the discretion of the cyclist. I mean The Netherlands is full of cyclists and helmets are not mandatory there. If it works for the Dutch, it can work for the rest of the world. See more
GRAEME W 313058
You cannot use the Netherlands as a comparison, their cities are designed for bicycles not vehicles, wear a helmet, stop being vein!!
Sep 28, 20

I deactivate my social media accounts regularly. It's nice to be present and live without distraction. I find I'm more focused when my social media is deactivated. Life's too short to be checking social media all of the time. See more
Katzeye
No I have never needed to, just block weirdos lol.I have friends that have done though for their own reasons.I don't actually spend much time on them like I use to,it get's a bit too much the same old same old ya know what I mean.I really only use it for staying in touch with family and friends that don't live in my city/country.
Sep 11, 20

Having children is a lifestyle choice and not everyone wants to hear children screaming or misbehaving on international flights, in restaurants and so forth. I think we all deserve choices. I think we all deserve to have a peaceful coffee at a... See more
Sharyn W 102987
get a grip Kids are part of the community deal with it or go to somewhere kids don’t like plenty of places to find alone time Be tolerant you where a kid once
Jul 13, 20

TikTok seems to be getting more popular as a platform by the day. I am thinking of making TikTok videos. Has anyone used them to increase their platform and outreach? See more
Elizabeth T 396096
No and am not interested in extending platform outreach as I only use social media for friends and family and not because I want to be an online celebrity or influencer.
Jul 19, 20

For me I absolutely love the Christmas season as the whole family comes together to get into the spirit. This is one season that we dec the house with Christmas decorations. I always remember my Grand parents house inside was like a mini... See more
Rifat H
There are two Christmas occasions which stick to my mind as being the most memorable, simply because it just rained too much. Usually you expect it to be quite warm and dry on a Christmas day in Australia!
Dec 25, 20

In driving at night I've been blinded by headlights on 4-wheel drives. I flash my lights to let the other driver know they are on high beam. Then the other driver flicks up to high beam. So I've been blinded by their low beams. Should the... See more
MoB
Probably, drivers now have no idea about lights. A car was following me on a dark night with no lights at all, when we pulled up at the lights I let him know that he didn't have his lights on, he said I can see so why should I put my lights on. I tried to explain that the lights were not for him to see with but for other people to see him. I got the finger, very nice. Knowing about lights on your car should be imperative if you are driving, it might help to lessen the number of accidents we have.
Jul 19, 23

I mean cannibalism is covered in movies and pop culture but considering how many tribes still exist throughout the world today who eat human flesh, one would think it would be more topical See more
Missy Wyld
ru kiddin me...u not heard of the new world order....or adrenochrome...child kidnapping etc etc etc
May 02, 23

Misplay and others like it, JustPlay etc. ... I want to know your experience with these and others, Scams or Real? See more
Dennis M 546874
You can bet that any time you are risking your own real money, then the game will be configured to ensure the House will always come out ahead, usually with total disregard for the end condition of the individual players. Therefore; scam.
Sep 28, 22

Yes I have seen one in Melbourne when I as a teenager and the nest day the media reported sightings of an UFO See more
EILEEN W 310556
I have twice seen one and I am basically a skeptic about flying saucers and Aliens. However on both occasions neither the Coastguard, Airforce, Police or anyone else can explain the lights I saw, which were brilliant blue when hovering, then flashed green as the zig-zagged back and forth for about 10 minutes over the ancient extinct volcano on our property, before flashing back to brilliant blue and disappearing over the horizon at an incredible speed.. They lit up the sky which woke my daughter on a neighbouring property on the second occasion. On the first occasion I was with about 6 other adults and we all reported our sighting. Several other people reported them on both occasions but we never received any logical explanations. Definitely unidentified flying objects
Jan 23, 21

Is watching movies at your own home better than watching movies at the cinema? If so, why do you think is that? Do you believe that cinemas will stop operating within the next 10 years or so? See more
Claude H
Yes they will close. I watch everything at home on TV. I do not have to see the latest film and most of these are not worth watching anyhow.
Nov 18, 21

So my brother got invited to his friend birthday party I came with him because my mom and dad was going to because the adults was going to have some drinks. My brother is hanging out with his friends and the party is nearly done and they start... See more
Mooi
No they were offered to you so take them with the generosity they are given. Don't forget to say thank you.
Sep 15, 21

What training skills have you learn't & acquired after putting in a lot of effort & hard work into it. eg. Did you have to train to learn Music. What special Gifts or Talents that come to you naturally, to you. eg. a natural ability to play... See more
Judy CH
I learnt to use industrial sewing machines at the age of 14 but sadly now I am retired can't afford to buy one so I can continue making and repairing clothing. I also have a really good eye for colours and when we built our last home I knew exactly what I wanted, they told us to allow 3 hours to choose everything, had it all sorted in less than an hour, colour of bricks, roof windows, door plus everything inside. I also had to teach myself how to cook and after 50 plus years married husband still asks where did you get that recipe from.
Jun 09, 21

What is up with Hollywood today? Most of the "NEW" movies today are only rehashed old movies. Where is their imagination gone? The older ones were good in their day, so why rehash them and in the process ruining a good movie.... See more
Linda C
Years ago a movie was released into the cinemas and played for a few weeks or even months sometimes. Nowadays unfortunately, due to TV, cable TV, internet, netflix etc. they are barely even hitting the cinemas for a week and then hit the smaller screens. This means more and more movies have to be made and sadly many are rubbish. I agree, some are just noise and or trash and often the hype is just PR to get people to pay to watch them.
I rarely watch TV and never go to the movies these days. I do not have pay TV either.
Give me a good book any day.
Jun 10, 21

If you wanted to go on a Holiday what would be your ideal destination whether it's overseas or home country? Please share your thoughts - Mine is the beautiful islands of the Philippines - what would be yours. I'm keen to hear... See more
Emma B 461826
New Zealand would be my ideal holiday destination. I have been wanting to go back for ages to see all of my friends and family. Always lots of activities or events to explore.
May 08, 21

... mine are so spoilt it's ridiculous ....I have a mini horse that comes inside and watches horse racing on Saturday with me .. we sit on the rug with my dog and put our bets on .., I also have a dog that is bigger than she is ..... See more
The dog house
You sound like a loving caring human being. Animals bring us love and compassion. They help us to smile when we feel low. I have a senior dog that I talk to as I would a human. He looks at me to try to understand what I am trying to tell him. He understands in most areas. He will be 11 years this Thursday and I dread the day he passes. But I will adopt another even to give them a home away from the shelter. I would foster animals but I have a elderly mother that needs me also.
Animals have saved lives just by being there and all they want is love and food.
Mar 27, 21

I mean these supposed plus-size women aren't even fat. Most of them are just average or what would be considered normal compared to the rest of the population. I mean Marilyn Monroe would be considered plus-sized in today's era and she's the... See more
adrienne H 312549
this whole discussion is based on personal opinion - i am a size 8 and find it offensive when people say i starve myself - or thin shame me (yes it happens often) - i am naturally this size i eat a lot, i exercise too and stay same size and think as long as you are happy in yourself it shouldn't matter what size you are - whatever words used can be offensive if we let them - i choose to smile and let it go
Aug 14, 20

Sometimes we have so much to do and have only little time for it. Cleaning, washing, work, cooking, kids, shopping, walking the dog etc. Do you have any hints or advices for the people who struggle to find time to make everything done? See more
Judy CH
When we were scammed out of our life savings of $53,500 whilst building a new house we ended up with a mortgage and having to do all the landscaping ourselves so it is an ongoing thing, we just try and set out what needs doing the most and tackle it day by day.
Dec 20, 20

If I were to list all the weird jobs I've had in my lifetime, I'd be here until 2022. I've done anything and everything to earn cash. What weird employment have you undertaken to make money? See more
Sandra C 12043
Working in the Workers Compensation Department in an insurance company. Some weird stories told in there.
Dec 12, 20

Online shopping and express postage is great when it works, especially during lockdown. But with so many more parcels and packages being sent via post -- the care of fragile items by post office staff and couriers seems almost non-existent. I... See more
lordofthekitchen
Hi Elizabeth T, please tell me what the hell did we do before the internet, we went to the shops, we were fitter, and we just go on with things without whining, make that special trip, you might find that there is a world beyond your computer screen, everything does not have to be convenient, to many people are just using co-vid as an excuse to do nothing, yes it's serious, but Australians can fight anything, walk away from the screen, it will not jump off the desk or your lap to kill it self, and the walk will do you good
Nov 03, 20

My hairdresser told me the perm is making a comeback. Will you be rushing out to get one? Perms are so 80s. I wonder if the blue rinse will come back in vogue? See more
Lachelle B
I decided to get a spiral perm in 1991. The poor hairdresser took five hours to complete it. The sun had gone down and I was still in her chair lol. I booked over the phone and when I went in she was surprised. My hair was past my butt and it's thick (but I did prewarn her over the phone). She deserved her $250 and I went to work the next day and was called telephone cord and poodle, but I liked it.
Oct 15, 20

Apparently people who don't care what others think are happier and I'd agree with that. When you do what's best for you, things seem to run more smoothly. See more
Carmel C 103964
Caring about what others think makes me happy, because I enjoy caring.
I don't live as a hermit, I live in a community....so everything that other people do or think affects me either directly or indirectly.
If you are asking solely about whether my choices are based on what other people think about my choices..... then that is very different conversation. Do I care that someone I know hates it when I wear read. No I don't, because I enjoy wearing red. Do I care that my mother disapproves of me not visiting her more than I do...yes I do care...because I don't want her to feel sad or lonely.
Different situations result in different levels of 'do I care'. You can't lump them all under one heading and ask do you care or do you not....because it depends totally on what the situation or issue is. .
Oct 12, 20

Seriously in 2020, with the pandemic and all the other crazy crap that is going on, an alien invasion would be a welcome surprise. And to be honest, I don't think anyone would bat an eyelid. Perhaps we could vote the Aliens into... See more
Linda C
Not heard any news here. I don't believe in aliens per se but life on other planets is a possibility but in microbe form etc. Can't see some form of intelligent life as we have if you can call us that as we came about by circumstances that would not be repeated elsewhere. A spec of dust or a microbe started us off.
I think the Governments are doing OK although some not so much. We are having a pandemic and they are in a fine balancing act trying to save peoples lives and also their livelihoods.
This virus is so virulent and we have the idiots who just don't get it going about and spreading it more.
Everyone stay safe, follow the simple rules of social distancing, quarantining if necessary, get tested if sick or asked, do not shake hands or hug, do not gather in groups etc. If everyone did this together we would probably not have the situation in Victoria, NSW and now it seems in Queensland.
Aug 28, 20

Every time I look at the internet, there will be a story online shaming a couple because of their age difference. Are people really that shallow? If you have a problem with age-gap relationships, YOU are the problem. Lust and love don't... See more
The dog house
If they care for one another there is nothing wrong. If it is for money then it is wrong. Money does not bring happiness. Sometimes the opposite.
Aug 25, 20

I mean, isn't uploading photos of ultrasounds and small children exploitation? Not only do we exploit ourselves as adults, we also exploit our children before they are old enough to have a say See more
Christine M 323842
I don’t feel comfortable posting pictures of my children online, but I am the only parent I know who doesn’t do it.
Aug 18, 20

What is it about being stuck in traffic that irritates me so much? Well firstly, I can feel my cortisol levels rising. Secondly, I'm impatient. And finally, it makes me feel 'stuck'. Give me brussel sprouts (which I hate) any day! See more
Bea E
Nah, traffic is fine with me. I have experienced being stuck for 3-4hours in the middle of the road and I can’t even stop by for a pee. Hahaha.
Aug 02, 20

I have noticed over the years that people who play a lot of video games become aggressive in their day-to-day life. I try not to judge people but this personality change is pretty hard to miss. Anyone else experienced this? See more
Phyrephly
I think it also a desensitivity to violence in general with constantly seeing increasingly realistic imagery of people being raped or blown up or stabbed/gutted with knives. Then, the lights/bells/whistles that go off when you might kill another being (in a game) to win the round or whatever, makes violence a thing to be used to maybe get ahead of the game in real life. Sadly, I think many of these ultra violent/realistic type games were/are designed to do this. When you stab someone to death, they don't really die- they just come back at you in the next round. If you do this countless times then you very well may in some small way expect the same to occur in real life, especially if you haven't yet fully developed a brain that can tell the difference (fully) between RL and a game situation or scene. Bully or brutish behaviour, towards women say, if very often associated with heroism. The 'hero' of the round got to be the hero because he just shot 25 "bad guys" up with an AK47. 7 and 8 year olds may hav
Jul 21, 20

I'm a xennial and didn't grow up with social media. And I am so glad about that. Kids today spend too much time looking at a screen, when they should be outside being present and exploring the natural world around them See more
Edith v
In an ideal world yes, but In our day we didn't have as many perverts & weirdo's .A balance like reading & supervised outdoor fun excursions & some computer etc is great .Parents must make more time for their children
Jul 08, 20

I used to save but in recent years I've adapted a more easygoing perspective. Money comes and money goes. I might as well enjoy it. See more
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Definitely a saver and have an annoying habit of generally talking myself out of buying something I could use (until the next time).
Aug 09, 20

I'm happy to pay money to purchase a rental on YouTube, so I can watch exactly what I want. I find I spend more time on Netflix browsing, It's problematic! I'm thinking about giving up my Netflix subscription and purchasing from YouTube... See more
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Have not rented movies or any TV series on YouTube and why would you?? There are free movie channels around, some of which show TV content so why pay for something when there is no need?
Aug 05, 20

I used to know a delivery driver for a weight loss franchise and he told me they put laxatives in the food. I always wondered after that if it could be true. Nothing would surprise me in this day and age. But surely it would have to be... See more
Margaret C 77490
Also if that was the case then something like meals on wheels would do that if it was legal and same as our nursing homes but they don't as you can get in trouble plus with the technology today nothing goes undected they can even test our sewerage .but years ago before we had all this technology it might have happened like maybe 25 to 30 yrs ago as things were not very strict then either.
Sep 16, 20

Whether it be your older siblings "mix" CD's, which were compiled from illegally downloaded soundtracks, or a beat up old CD from the local library, as a child, what was your first ever album you listened to? See more
Bill B 394870
An LP, long playing vinyl record, of the Seekers with Judith Duram, " I'll Never find another you "....thought bit was a sheperd singing about his lost sheep....
Aug 12, 22

Deceased or alive, which actor/actress/entertainer would you prefer play the role of you? See more
Edith v
Helen Mirren She doesn't do plastic surgery or Botox .She is down to earth dresses well & is interesting & interested
Dec 30, 21

What is the weirdest choice you made for a school lunch? Back in the 50 s & 60 s the favourite choices included, sugar on bread and butter, tomato sauce sandwich, banana sandwich, baked beans or spaghetti sandwich, chocolate spread... See more
misfortune8
I was never into salads, but a lot of kids used to take salads with beetroot. The beetroot juice would turn the whole salad purple - even the cheese! It always grossed me out, but the kids who brought it always said it was good. I've got a friend who packs this for her work lunch.
Jan 05, 21

Unless you want to be an architect, astronaut or engineer, you will never use it in your adult life. One size doesn t fit all when it comes to education. Have you ever used trigonometry since leaving school? See more
Margarret F
Yes I have used it and wish i had done more and understood it better.
Nothing one learns is ever wasted. Understanding such concepts comes up in unexpected ways.
Nov 05, 20

Are you a high vibe person? Or a low vibe person? Or perhaps somewhere in between? Low vibe activities include negative thinking, eating unhealthy foods and scrolling social media for hours on end. High vibe activities involve fitness,... See more
Henry W 362692
Since COVID -19 restrictions I’m definitely high vibe,I’ve been riding my bike for one hour each day & loving it, as I ride I say good morning to dozens of people who are walking their dogs it is a great feeling to be alive.
Nov 12, 20

Some people just create a discussion page, stand away, light the blue touch paper ... and then just stand back and watch the reaction. Like an artist who has created something. Other folk (guilty) stand around "hosting" the questions ...... See more
IdentifyAs
As with any debate, you need to be respectful of the opinion of others. In order to form an opinion, be informed. If the topic bothers you too much and you feel threatened or angry, just scroll on.
Nov 09, 21

What do you believe is better, summer or winter holidays? What are the pros and cons of each. Which do you enjoy more? See more
EILEEN W 310556
Summer every time for me. I left England because I was severely sick almost every winter with colds, flu, bronchitis and allergies. I then found I could not tolerate Melbourne winters as I was so miserable and sick. After moving to Queensland I was diagnosed with SADS (Seasonal Adjustment Disorder Syndrome) meaning my body cannot cope with changing climate extremes. I also have a lung disease which is now able to be treated and responds so well to warm/hot weather. I can cope, although not happily, with the few weeks of winter we have here.
Dec 27, 20

When people talk about the best bands of all time. The Beatles and The Stones always get a mention. Which band is the best as far as you're concerned? It's a tough call! See more
john w 87680
Stones. Used to go to a gig they played in London when I was a teen remember Mick on the door collecting half-crowns entry fees.
Oct 28, 20

There are all these memes going around that say pineapple doesn t belong on pizza. But it does! I love pineapple on pizza, it s my favourite! I think these memes are wrong. What do you think? See more
CHERRY BLOSSOM
Yes i love pineapple on my pizza, as i can dream that i am on a deserted island eating my pineapple on my pizza.
Oct 08, 20

I suffer from Endometriosis and was recently told by my doctor that CBD may help. I've read heaps of articles on the internet, that say the oil has changed their life. I am thinking about trying it. What are other people's experiences with... See more
Bugalugs
The problem really is that it is called Hemp and some silly people immediately associate this product with Illicit Drug Use when in fact it contains none of the drug associated with smoking pot/weed etc.. I would certainly try it if I had an issue with severe, on-going pain.
Jul 28, 20

Actually, in all honesty, I find it offensive. A day for conglomerates to make money out of the contrivance of romance. If I love someone, I don t need a special day, set out by society for me. Love is far too evolved for a day where people... See more
Henrietta
When Valentine's Day first started (in America, of course!!) it was just a small gesture to the person you loved but now it has lost it's meaning & come too commercialised & something we now don't need.
Jul 27, 20

I honestly cannot imagine buying a man a kettle or a vacuum as a gift. I mean what person on earth enjoys cleaning? I think gifts should be about pleasure not household chores. See more
Phyrephly
....is it um, let's see...I know...racist to buy a white kettle? Get a grip people. Aren't we better than this?
Jul 09, 20

Is anyone else a huge fan of coconut oil? I promise you, once you discover it's versatility, you'll never go back. You can use it for cooking, as a hair treatment. Seriously, I could not live without it! See more
Wombatwagon
My granddaughter had very bad cradle cap when she was younger and nothing got rid of it until her mother used coconut oil. It was very easy to use just put it through her hair and leave on and worked well.
Nov 01, 20

Will it change the way you use social media? I am so grateful the documentary was made, it can be the beginning of accountability and change. It s incredible that none of the computer scientists who created social media allow their children to... See more
Linda C
Not on social media and have no children on it either. The little I know of it though it sounds scary and dangerous.
Oct 30, 20

I still do. I love writing out Christmas cards and sending them. I think it's a nice touch in this digital world we are living in. I don t care if it s traditional and old-fashioned. It brings me joy. See more
LESLEY S 385154
Every year I make my cards and send them to family and friends for Christmas and birthdays. They really enjoy receiving them.
Sep 08, 20

Does loud chewing irritate you? It drives me crazy. I mean were these people brought up in a cave? Where are their manners? See more
Imperia S
I personally have no problems with the way people eat their food, so long as they enjoy the meal and thank the person that cooked it. And does anyone realize that in some Countries it is considered OK to burp at the table or if they lick the plate after a meal, It shows the provider that the person appreciated and enjoyed the meal. In Australia, we are so "Would Bes" that we frown at everything
Sep 07, 20

I would rather be eaten by a crocodile than die in a plane crash. The thought is truly terrifying. But because I travel a lot, I've had to learn how to cope. I find copious amounts of wine helps calm my fear. See more
Stephen F 84899
Have flow alot, but the only time was when the plane attempted to land the weather was wet & the plane slid over the tarmat so scary
Sep 03, 20

Has it got to the point in our evolution where we can't string a bunch of sentences together coherently? The other day, I received a text from the opposite sex that basically spoke in full emoji and I had no idea what they were talking about. ... See more
Linda C
I have seen people sitting next to each other speaking via their phone text messages. Utterly ridiculous. Still see them texting whilst driving. Can't put the things down for 5 seconds. I agree, these emoji's confuse me also. Maybe English should be taught in schools again like it was 50 years ago.
Aug 22, 20

Have you become more creative and resourceful during lockdown? What have you learnt most about yourself? I have found different ways to express myself and connect with people through the digital world, what about you? See more
Rebecca P 97055
Definitely more creative and resourceful during lockdown, in a lot of ways it has put things in perspective for me and has changed the way I view the world...I'm more outspoken and has reminded me of just how precious each day can be, it's the little things that matter most
Jul 29, 20

When I overuse social media I really feel a lull in my mood. Sometimes it can lead to a major depression. Other times I just feel really anxious. I have given up social media many times throughout the years and always feel my life force come... See more
Heather M 241632
I'm not on Facebook or Instagram. I don't know the names of the other ones. Rewardia is the closest thing to social media that I'm involved in. I don't feel the need for the approval of people who feel they have the right to abuse me because I don't know them. The whole idea seems ridiculous to me, but I know that children can be harmed by things that they see on social media.
Jul 23, 20

Apart from the fact one mostly sees overweight people drinking it. If you're going to drink Coke at all, why not drink the real thing? I've read that artificial sweeteners are really unhealthy for your body. Diet coke? No thanks! See more
Helen A 395807
Diet coke is very unhealthy and actually makes people gain weight. The original Coke Formula "7X" was manufactured outside in a 44 gallon drum by a pharmacist. So from crap Coke to Diet coke I don't touch the stuff.
Jul 15, 20

Once upon a time, to be considered beautiful, meant you had won the genetic lottery. Now any ordinary person who's had plastic surgery makes the grade. As far as I'm concerned, if it's artificial, it doesn't count! See more
Katzeye
Not a chance and there is no way I would ever get botox or any enhancing surgery on my face or my body for that matter.If you live a balanced healthy lifestyle and look after your skin there is no need for work to be done.The best thing you can do for your skin,use sunscreen daily even in winter.
Jul 10, 20

In the 80s I used to go to Bingo with my grandpa, the numbers were called out slow and the game was nice and relaxed. In 2019, I went as a joke with a friend after a bottle of wine. And we couldn t believe how fast bingo had... See more
Joe B 288252
It used to be fun but now it’s like a chore and all about the money. The fun is gone, the social side is gone...bah!!!
Nov 21, 20

YouTube is a wonderful resource for DIY activities. So quirky and inventive. Creators making acrylic nails from toilet paper or designing lookalike celebrity fashions from thrift shop bargains. Do you watch DIY videos on youtube? If... See more
Joe B 288252
Some things are ok but You Tube has a penchant to shunt you to a porn tube after about 5 clicks....annoying
Oct 31, 20
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