Discussions of the day
I recently got married, and we didn't have a big fancy wedding ... just got married in the backyard with our closest friends. I want to book a trip for me and the hubby that's somewhat inexpensive but romantic at the same time. I need ideas and input please and thank you
Darla T
Sample the options right in your area that you never thought of doing before. You can stay at home but each day plan to do something different and explore what has always been there but you were too busy to notice until now. You get to pick 3 things and so does he.
Oct 02, 22
Wanted to know if anyone still uses remedies or have remedies they don't mind sharing in the comment for colds & flus, with weather getting so much colder than usually this year? I like to go with good old pumpkin soup but with a few dashes of chilli just to give it a good hot kick :)
Carmel C 103964
Can't go by putting a few drops of eucalyptus oil in a bowl of hot water and putting your head over it, covering yourself with a towel and inhaling deeply for a while. Then off to bed with a hot lemon juice and honey drink. Stay hydrated. Rest up, eat a balanced diet, laugh lots and get some sunshine if you can.
Jun 28, 22
Easter seems to changed over the years with many more products on the market. Do you give Easter gifts other than chocolate s? If so, what do you give others at this time of year?
Lones
Growing up, we made an Easter basket at school and received small eggs from the Easter bunny, Easter is about other things than chocolate. These days children seem to get too much and don’t appreciate what they receive. Maybe the should learn the true meaning of Easter
Mar 15, 22
Do you plan on making any home improvements? If so what and do you plan on doing it yourself or hire someone to do it for you?
Roslyn A
I get too annoyed with tradies who don't seem to care much about how they do it - I do as much as possible myself and I have become very professional
Aug 03, 21
I love very much my son, but the love that I feel for his 3 years old twin girls (my grand-kids) is much much more that I can express. It's that OK?
lippy loo
How lovely for you. I do not have any contact with my grand children and have never met 2 of them. Family dynamics can be sad sometimes.
Jun 18, 21
How has distance learning been going for all the parents out there? Especially parents with special needs children? I have two autistic toddlers and it has been rough!
Imperia S '' PIER''
I am so lucky my kids are grown up with families of their own. I am so proud of all parents who had to fill this void, I would have never been able to cope,
Apr 12, 21
Hocking one's belongings is not ideal obviously. But it's an option if you're broke, struggling, an artist or living paycheck to paycheck. I certainly don't judge people who do it. What are your thoughts on pawn shops and the people who use them?
BLM
I don't get attached to things (I get attached to people)! At this point in my life - I never had to hocked ANYTHING (I never had to use a pawn shop) - hopeful, this trend will continue until the day I die! It goes without saying, I don't judge people who do use pawnshops, however - I judge pawn shop owners (since the the majority of pawnshops are located in the poorest section of a city)!
Nov 08, 20
I prefer to pack my own groceries at the supermarket, even though I have ample bags they always pack to overflow and pack all the cans in together so I can't even lift the bag. Bread laying down on top of one another instead of standing up so it won't squash. Yesterday the flour was in the cold bag, making the paper damp. Am I to picky or do other people have the same gripe?
Queenbee
It is quite often that they will overload your bag and it is dry heavy to put in and out of your trolley. Of course they want to serve and scan quickly and packing takes time. But the supermarkets need have more staff at checkouts and then we all win.
Feb 10, 21
How lovely is it, when we receive a gift where a lot of thought has gone into it? ie: something unconventional or homemade. You remember those kinds of gifts forever. It's easy to buy someone chocolates or flowers, as nice as they are. What is the most thoughtful gift you have ever given or received? And why was it so special?
Morton B
I am grateful for whatever I receive because it means that person thought of me. Its the thought that counts
Dec 27, 20
Futurists believe that human immortality will definitely be a certainty, what are your thoughts? Would you like to be immortal?
JoeB
Genetic modification will allow people to live longer but when your number is up, it’s up. Perfectly healthy people die for no reason....except maybe the Force wants your story back....lol
Oct 20, 20
I don't really care what's in fashion or what's considered cool. I have my own classic style. People that pay attention to fashion trends are sheep who don t know themselves.
Katzeye
I wear whatever makes me feel comfortable,happy,stylish and sometimes sexy lol basically whatever my mood is on the day,I wear something to match that unless I am just blobbing out at home on the couch,well then that's a PJ day..You won't find any designer labels in my wardrobe though,i'm not that rich.
Sep 01, 20
I know the company has gone global and gets good reviews But having ingredients delivered, then having to cook it myself -- doesn't whet my appetite.
RonT
No but I want to try it once only. After that I don't want any further emails, marketing etc, I want to see what it it like to satisfy my curiousity
Aug 12, 20
So much of our time is spent on the net, but I'm wondering if it is right that I might put up a birthday message to someone and then have another friend add a happy birthday sentiment even though they do not know them?
glory 1277945
You put message on the board so expect this. If you want privacy send a card. More time spend, but it's more personal
Dec 05, 23
I have 5 beautiful grandchildren ranging in age from 18 months to 9 years. They have so many toys, books & games. Each birthday & Christmas I try to think of something different for them. The 9 year old's last birthday I chose a membership to a Kids Conservation club. She gets invited to fun activities, plus receives relevant activity books & parcels every few months. There are activities they can do as a family. Like visiting the glow worms, studying crabs etc. Do most...
Jan H 753322
We have 6 grandchildren, aged 5- 18. We have given them blocks, books, dolls and truck as presents for them to take home. I have always made up a box of things to do when they are at our place . A new board game, craft , paints and an outside toy or basketball etc
Aug 22, 23
Is it inevitable. Companies are getting smarter and gathering more personal data with every click - what's your experience so far, do they get the 'suggested' products or services right and does it actually suggest things you would like?
Pennye R
I really don\u2019t like the fact that my phone is listening to my conversations and Facebook is tracking my likes. I prefer to look up products that I need myself.
Aug 07, 23
Just wondering if anyone has told a lie no matter if it is big or small to make sure that your partner stay with you
AMUSICALTONY
My wife is 5 years older than me. When we had been together for a year and it came to asking her to marry me she found out then. I don't think that's a lie but she just assumed I was older. She still married me though and we've been married for 46 years.
Aug 17, 22
Boardgames were very popular when I was growing up, and I really enjoyed playing them. These days people play more on computers, smartphones and gaming consoles. Do you still play boardgames? What are some of your favourites?
IdentifyAs
I don't have anyone to play with, so if I play any games it's usually on the ipad like rewardia. I loved monopoly, cluedo, trivial pursuit and trouble
Jul 13, 22
Who has had the greatest influence in your life? Someone who has really made a difference
Jania S
Jesus, and family and friends, I have been truly blessed through thick and thin,,, I have always had the best influence.
Jun 23, 22
Would you move countries at the drop of the hat? Only having less than a month to decide I've done it. It was a blast. I left NZ to go and live in Dallas, Texas (San Antonio, Arlington, and Grand Prairie) back in 2000. I lived there for the next 8 1/2 years and had a blast. Unfortunate circumstances meant that I had to move back to NZ, and it's where I had stayed since. Given the opportunity. I would so do it again in a heartbeat, but somewhere different...
Elizabeth J 447888
I am rather taken with Finland. It is known as the happiest country on earth. Their language is hard to learn I believe. I think I could live there for a few years. It is a year and a half since making a move in my own state and still haven't finished unpacking. No, don't think I could go through it again.
May 25, 22
Can you give an unbiased opinion? Sometimes, in the least? Or, too difficult when it involves your close relationships?
Dimitri T 100433
in my humble opinion, we all have biased since it is our opinion based on our perceptions,which are also biased
Apr 27, 22
You may find the following tips helpful. Use a bowl in the sink when washing fruit, vegetables or dishes. You can then use the waste water to water your plants. Fill a jug with water and put it in the fridge for when you want a cool drink. Turn off the tap when you clean your teeth. A running tap uses up to nine litres of water a minute. If possible, take a shower instead of a bath. A five-minute shower uses about 40 litres of water. This is about...
TERRIE K
I do most of these now but I'm just wondering what a Water Butt is. We have 3 rainwater tanks and use that to give fresh water to my birds and to water the garden.
Apr 14, 22
Lots of people are on their phones but for how long? I see people that act like they can't stand being away from their phones but other can, so I want your opinion on this. Are you a phone freak or not? How many hours do you spend on your phone?
Edienz
I use it most of the time instead of a computer. I download and read books, do banking, play games, do surveys, take and edit photos, send texts and emails, research products, order products, watch videos, listen to music, read the news, find recipes and craft patterns, learn French and Chinese, book tickets and accommodation and ask questions about anything I want to know. That takes up most of my day! I very rarely use it to ring people.
Feb 12, 22
Many may think: Well, that's what a first date is, but what I mean is, if you were sitting alone and another was sitting alone at a restaurant, would you accept the offer (or make the offer) to eat with them? Or, would you even dine alone in the first place?
Crazy Chef
I enjoy my own company, but if a friendly person wanted to eat with me and it felt right I'd be okay with that.
Feb 08, 22
What do u do if u don't want to invite certain family members to celebrate holidays activities? Do u forget their invite on purpose or invite them and out up with their nonsense anyway?
Colinpop
Live is too short to bear grudges and families are so important so just put on a brave face and enjoy
Dec 25, 21
So what are you actually supposed to do with old Electronic, Electrical & other "Non-Organic" things in this Brave New "Green" World"? Just had a message from a supplier of vacuum cleaner parts, I was looking for a charger to go with the handheld bit of one. Common make (Electrolux), 6 years old, still holds a charge, all that techie stuff! Supplier hadn't heard of it, gave up & it'll go in the bin, battery & all. Landfill. I'll buy a new one I've been...
Roses
Recycle as much as possible Office Works accepts a lot of tech things, batteries, ink cartridges etc and our council has a free tech and electronic product drop off once a year
Dec 08, 21
Do you still have long lasting friendships? A year ago my best friend from Primary School in the UK died. Almost 65 years ago she arrived from India and I was the only one who made her welcome. We lost contact when she married an American and I an Australian. 20 years ago, through a friends' reunion site, we found each other and it was as if we had never been parted. I visited her in Texas and our husbands never got a word in as we laughed. reminisced and...
Sambo
My mum was such a good friend when i was older, she collapsed and died in my arms of a brain embolism on xmas eve 1999. The pain eases but the hurt is still there. Always take the time to tell your freinds and family how much you love them.
Sep 28, 21
It's been 2 years since I've seen my mother who lives in Europe. We were supposed to meet in March 2020 but I guess you know how it turned out. It's the longest we haven't seen each other and I don't even dare to make plans or dreams. I find it harder and more difficult month after month, especially that Europe seems to live and travel as they wish (at least during summer). Do you have any relatives you wish to see but can't?
Amensch1
Have not seen my family in QLD for 2 years. And maybe at Xmas time,but the premier of QLD has changed her mind so many times -- often over very silly events --
Sep 22, 21
Progress continues to be made on developing toilets that undertake fecal and urine analysis when you use it. This can detect disease and warning signs of poor health, and even send the results to your doctor over the internet. Would you use this toilet or is it too invasive? How would you feel if your toilet told you you've overinduldged in greasy foods, etc.? How would this work if a visitor used it? Is Artificial Intelligence development getting out of control?
Frank N
In my experience doctors have not been too good at detecting health issues, including some major ones. Given that, a toilet that provides health data could be an advantage.
Jun 15, 21
Do you believe that the internet is a possible risk for starting WW3? We hear of occasionally, or read of situations of spying that goes on by some countries, esp by Nations of ... influence, Such as China, Russia, North Korea. There is only so much our Government Internet security teams.. can do to keep us safe. Some of these corrupt nations have a lot to gain by spying, and Westernized ..Nations .... like our own are worried! Spying on on other nations...
Catalina
There is no such a thing as corrupt nation. And no, the internet cannot start WW3. People can. People can prevent it as well. That’s what I think. Think about it.
May 04, 21
What do you think of all of the recent remakes, past and present? Are new ideas becoming scarce? Have you actually found a production (remake) of an old film or TV series, that was enjoyable?? Well, regardless of how we feel, the film 'King Kong' has another remake.
Pauline T 68358
Many of the old movies are better than some of the rubbish and stories made today. The ne movies could not be classed as entertainment.
Apr 21, 21
I read recently that purchasing these products in public makes some people feel awkward. I kinda felt that was weird. I mean it's not the 1800s. There is nothing to feel ashamed about. Most people out shopping are only focused on themselves anyway.
Phyrephly
Not really for these products (part of life, as has been said here), but I was in line behind someone who was looking - it turned out - for some anti-nit shampoo. When she (or he ;}), got to the counter, the lass behind asked "the person" to speak up then ... practically yelled, "oh, you mean nit-shampoo!"...
Sep 09, 20
Would you leave a note if you left a scratch or dent on a parked car in a car park?
Craig P 469035
oh man all day do people have a sook about a scratch or paint mark, if ya gonna get paranoid over it dont take car soft ass cry baby car out.
Jan 31, 21
The word "woke" has crept into our vocabulary and found a permanent home. But do people understand what it actually means? I see it used in the wrong context all the time. What does "woke" mean to you?
Lachelle B
It hasn't crept into our vocabulary. If you use it in the wrong context you need to improve your English. What I do hate is when people say tooken instead of taken! We will eventually degenerate into neanderthals again with the horrid grammar, speech and antisocial behaviour around nowadays. Grunt grunt!
Nov 26, 20
It seems like imprisonment to me. I mean with DNA testing, the pill and women being financially independent. I'm not really sure what the drawcard is. Does anyone know? As one of my friends says: "Why get engaged when there is call waiting?"
Travel
If you truly believe in God, you will realise why people get married. Marriage is a type of Christ and his bride, and when Christ returns he will take those who believe in him to be his bride, and they will live with him in bliss and everlasting joy for eternity. You see, the Bible teaches that the kingdom of God will be on earth. In the meantime by being married we are glorifying God who wants us to be faithful to our partner in this life, just as we must be faithful to God. Marriage is a big commitment but it is very worthwhile from a scriptural point of view.
Nov 09, 20
How often do you get your car serviced each year? Sometimes I have to go two or three times. Does this sound like a large amount to you? Maybe I'm being conned.
Taffy
If you don't look after it ,it won't look after you. Its generally the second biggest purchase for most people, look after it!!
Oct 19, 20
If so, what was the item? And was assembling it as easy as IKEA makes out? I am curious if they live up to their legend.
Avatar Queen
Have only ever purchased 1 item (as far as I can remember) - got someone else to put it together for me as it was so complicated and takes so long to put it together. The process of finally finding it in the store, selection of the wanted item, collection from the assembly store down the bottom and then getting it paid for, let alone getting it home again is a mission in itself - who has the expertise or energy left to put the item together. Only impetus is saving the $70+ dollars they want for getting someone from their store to assemble it for you. Much prefer to go somewhere else & pay a bit more but get the item in one piece at home. I'm too old to try doing the gymnastics required to assemble the IKEA items.
Oct 05, 20
I don't. I think it should be at the discretion of the cyclist. I mean The Netherlands is full of cyclists and helmets are not mandatory there. If it works for the Dutch, it can work for the rest of the world.
Charlie 6
You cannot use the Netherlands as a comparison, their cities are designed for bicycles not vehicles, wear a helmet, stop being vein!!
Sep 28, 20
I could never live in a home without a bath, I honestly don't know how people do it. My nightly bath is a ritual, a tradition. It s my much needed me-time. If I never had a shower again, it wouldn t bother me. But my daily bubble bath will be with me until the end of time.
Chele
Depending on how dirty you are, bathing in your own filth is gross...but clean body in nice hot bath with candles and music is great relaxing therapy!! Showers are good for removing all the dirt period?!??
Sep 20, 20
I deactivate my social media accounts regularly. It's nice to be present and live without distraction. I find I'm more focused when my social media is deactivated. Life's too short to be checking social media all of the time.
Katzeye
No I have never needed to, just block weirdos lol.I have friends that have done though for their own reasons.I don't actually spend much time on them like I use to,it get's a bit too much the same old same old ya know what I mean.I really only use it for staying in touch with family and friends that don't live in my city/country.
Sep 11, 20
In driving at night I've been blinded by headlights on 4-wheel drives. I flash my lights to let the other driver know they are on high beam. Then the other driver flicks up to high beam. So I've been blinded by their low beams. Should the 4WD vehicles have their lights lowered so they are not so blinding as they are a higher vehicle than the ordinary car?
MoB
Probably, drivers now have no idea about lights. A car was following me on a dark night with no lights at all, when we pulled up at the lights I let him know that he didn't have his lights on, he said I can see so why should I put my lights on. I tried to explain that the lights were not for him to see with but for other people to see him. I got the finger, very nice. Knowing about lights on your car should be imperative if you are driving, it might help to lessen the number of accidents we have.
Jul 19, 23
I mean cannibalism is covered in movies and pop culture but considering how many tribes still exist throughout the world today who eat human flesh, one would think it would be more topical
Missy Wyld
ru kiddin me...u not heard of the new world order....or adrenochrome...child kidnapping etc etc etc
May 02, 23
Misplay and others like it, JustPlay etc. ... I want to know your experience with these and others, Scams or Real?
Gramps
You can bet that any time you are risking your own real money, then the game will be configured to ensure the House will always come out ahead, usually with total disregard for the end condition of the individual players. Therefore; scam.
Sep 28, 22
My children do jobs at home to earn pocket money, but are slowly approaching that all important she where they can work outside the home in part-time jobs. Currently, they have a few after school activities and homework etc each week. My question is, do you have them give up the interests they have been cultivating for years, so they get the job early, or do you make them wait for the job? We are leaning towards them keeping the interests and keeping up the good grades at...
Ek M
Perhaps there's a way to do it all, but guess the sacrifice will come from the parents who taxi them to and fro. Once they earn their own money, charge them board, (and maybe bank the money for them to use later) this is a good grounding for going flatting. I had a friend who provided it all and when the child chose to go flatting, the wake up call was nearly more than the child could cope with
Jun 10, 22
Yes I have seen one in Melbourne when I as a teenager and the nest day the media reported sightings of an UFO
Warrior Woman
I have twice seen one and I am basically a skeptic about flying saucers and Aliens. However on both occasions neither the Coastguard, Airforce, Police or anyone else can explain the lights I saw, which were brilliant blue when hovering, then flashed green as the zig-zagged back and forth for about 10 minutes over the ancient extinct volcano on our property, before flashing back to brilliant blue and disappearing over the horizon at an incredible speed.. They lit up the sky which woke my daughter on a neighbouring property on the second occasion. On the first occasion I was with about 6 other adults and we all reported our sighting. Several other people reported them on both occasions but we never received any logical explanations. Definitely unidentified flying objects
Jan 23, 21
What is your preferred destination for a holiday and has this changed since COVID? I used to go to the snow every year, this wasn't possible for the last two years due to lockdowns in Australia, but since COVID, I'd rather spend time holidaying with family and friends.
Rockchi
I'm going to go for something a little different. I would love to holiday in Ireland and spend some time on their wild, windy and cold moors and glens. Who wants to join me? Heehehe
Jan 30, 22
As a precautionary measure - Are you a person who would video record your interaction with law enforcement and what do you think of cop-watchers in your country.
Michelle S 553303
Absolutely these days I would in an instant. You never know what you're going to see happening or happening to you. I'd record an interaction with a law enforcement officer in a heartbeat.
Jan 19, 22
Is watching movies at your own home better than watching movies at the cinema? If so, why do you think is that? Do you believe that cinemas will stop operating within the next 10 years or so?
Claude H
Yes they will close. I watch everything at home on TV. I do not have to see the latest film and most of these are not worth watching anyhow.
Nov 18, 21
So my brother got invited to his friend birthday party I came with him because my mom and dad was going to because the adults was going to have some drinks. My brother is hanging out with his friends and the party is nearly done and they start to give out the goody bags some people didn't go so there is a extra and they ask me do you want the goody bag and I say yes is that rude of me?
Mooi
No they were offered to you so take them with the generosity they are given. Don't forget to say thank you.
Sep 15, 21
I think they should record people doing 10 kilometers or more under the speed limit as well. These people are just as likely to cause accidents as speeders.
JoeB
The road is for sharing and you should always be aware of other users and drive to the conditions. Be kind, be careful and if the traffic is slow then be slow or stick to the speed limit. It’s only going to take a few minutes longer….it’s really not that hard….lol
Sep 02, 21
What training skills have you learn't & acquired after putting in a lot of effort & hard work into it. eg. Did you have to train to learn Music. What special Gifts or Talents that come to you naturally, to you. eg. a natural ability to play Music.
Judy CH
I learnt to use industrial sewing machines at the age of 14 but sadly now I am retired can't afford to buy one so I can continue making and repairing clothing. I also have a really good eye for colours and when we built our last home I knew exactly what I wanted, they told us to allow 3 hours to choose everything, had it all sorted in less than an hour, colour of bricks, roof windows, door plus everything inside. I also had to teach myself how to cook and after 50 plus years married husband still asks where did you get that recipe from.
Jun 09, 21
What is up with Hollywood today? Most of the "NEW" movies today are only rehashed old movies. Where is their imagination gone? The older ones were good in their day, so why rehash them and in the process ruining a good movie. Wake up scriptwriters and use some imagination and this doesn t mean special effects with imaginary characters. What do other people think?
lippy loo
Years ago a movie was released into the cinemas and played for a few weeks or even months sometimes. Nowadays unfortunately, due to TV, cable TV, internet, netflix etc. they are barely even hitting the cinemas for a week and then hit the smaller screens. This means more and more movies have to be made and sadly many are rubbish. I agree, some are just noise and or trash and often the hype is just PR to get people to pay to watch them.
I rarely watch TV and never go to the movies these days. I do not have pay TV either.
Give me a good book any day.
Jun 10, 21
If you wanted to go on a Holiday what would be your ideal destination whether it's overseas or home country? Please share your thoughts - Mine is the beautiful islands of the Philippines - what would be yours. I'm keen to hear different people and get their thoughts on this.
Emma B 461826
New Zealand would be my ideal holiday destination. I have been wanting to go back for ages to see all of my friends and family. Always lots of activities or events to explore.
May 08, 21
Apart from money, what have you been saving during COVID. For me it has been recipes. I now have so many I will be cooking a new main or dessert every day for the rest of my life!
BLM
My sanity - unfortunate - I reside in the land of idiots (USA) - the overwhelming majority of the population - still thinks COVID-19 is a government cover up - the good old days (before the pandemic) are not coming back - not anytime soon!!
Apr 06, 21
I mean these supposed plus-size women aren't even fat. Most of them are just average or what would be considered normal compared to the rest of the population. I mean Marilyn Monroe would be considered plus-sized in today's era and she's the most lusted after woman that ever lived. I think they should change the term to "buxom" or "sexy". Keep it positive!
andieharrie
this whole discussion is based on personal opinion - i am a size 8 and find it offensive when people say i starve myself - or thin shame me (yes it happens often) - i am naturally this size i eat a lot, i exercise too and stay same size and think as long as you are happy in yourself it shouldn't matter what size you are - whatever words used can be offensive if we let them - i choose to smile and let it go
Aug 14, 20
Sometimes we have so much to do and have only little time for it. Cleaning, washing, work, cooking, kids, shopping, walking the dog etc. Do you have any hints or advices for the people who struggle to find time to make everything done?
Judy CH
When we were scammed out of our life savings of $53,500 whilst building a new house we ended up with a mortgage and having to do all the landscaping ourselves so it is an ongoing thing, we just try and set out what needs doing the most and tackle it day by day.
Dec 20, 20
If I were to list all the weird jobs I've had in my lifetime, I'd be here until 2022. I've done anything and everything to earn cash. What weird employment have you undertaken to make money?
Sandra C 12043
Working in the Workers Compensation Department in an insurance company. Some weird stories told in there.
Dec 12, 20
Online shopping and express postage is great when it works, especially during lockdown. But with so many more parcels and packages being sent via post -- the care of fragile items by post office staff and couriers seems almost non-existent. I decided to order some bone china, they arrived smashed. I requested a replacement, the replacement also arrived smashed. Moral of the story: Don't order china or glass during Covid19 or do so at your own risk!
lordofthekitchen
Hi Elizabeth T, please tell me what the hell did we do before the internet, we went to the shops, we were fitter, and we just go on with things without whining, make that special trip, you might find that there is a world beyond your computer screen, everything does not have to be convenient, to many people are just using co-vid as an excuse to do nothing, yes it's serious, but Australians can fight anything, walk away from the screen, it will not jump off the desk or your lap to kill it self, and the walk will do you good
Nov 03, 20
The World Medical Association has said that boxing should be a banned sport because it causes fatalities and brain injuries. But life causes fatalities and brain injuries. Sport causes fatalities and brain injuries. Car accidents cause fatalities and brain injuries. Should we aim to ban everything? Boxing should not be banned. It's the risk the individual chooses to take when they play the sport.
Katzeye
I don't think it should be banned,if it is going to be banned then all contact sport should be banned.They just need to be wearing the right protection like helmets and mouth guards.
Oct 27, 20
My hairdresser told me the perm is making a comeback. Will you be rushing out to get one? Perms are so 80s. I wonder if the blue rinse will come back in vogue?
Lachelle B
I decided to get a spiral perm in 1991. The poor hairdresser took five hours to complete it. The sun had gone down and I was still in her chair lol. I booked over the phone and when I went in she was surprised. My hair was past my butt and it's thick (but I did prewarn her over the phone). She deserved her $250 and I went to work the next day and was called telephone cord and poodle, but I liked it.
Oct 15, 20
Apparently people who don't care what others think are happier and I'd agree with that. When you do what's best for you, things seem to run more smoothly.
Carmel C 103964
Caring about what others think makes me happy, because I enjoy caring.
I don't live as a hermit, I live in a community....so everything that other people do or think affects me either directly or indirectly.
If you are asking solely about whether my choices are based on what other people think about my choices..... then that is very different conversation. Do I care that someone I know hates it when I wear read. No I don't, because I enjoy wearing red. Do I care that my mother disapproves of me not visiting her more than I do...yes I do care...because I don't want her to feel sad or lonely.
Different situations result in different levels of 'do I care'. You can't lump them all under one heading and ask do you care or do you not....because it depends totally on what the situation or issue is. .
Oct 12, 20
Seriously in 2020, with the pandemic and all the other crazy crap that is going on, an alien invasion would be a welcome surprise. And to be honest, I don't think anyone would bat an eyelid. Perhaps we could vote the Aliens into government. They would do a better job than our politicians are doing
lippy loo
Not heard any news here. I don't believe in aliens per se but life on other planets is a possibility but in microbe form etc. Can't see some form of intelligent life as we have if you can call us that as we came about by circumstances that would not be repeated elsewhere. A spec of dust or a microbe started us off.
I think the Governments are doing OK although some not so much. We are having a pandemic and they are in a fine balancing act trying to save peoples lives and also their livelihoods.
This virus is so virulent and we have the idiots who just don't get it going about and spreading it more.
Everyone stay safe, follow the simple rules of social distancing, quarantining if necessary, get tested if sick or asked, do not shake hands or hug, do not gather in groups etc. If everyone did this together we would probably not have the situation in Victoria, NSW and now it seems in Queensland.
Aug 28, 20
Every time I look at the internet, there will be a story online shaming a couple because of their age difference. Are people really that shallow? If you have a problem with age-gap relationships, YOU are the problem. Lust and love don't discriminate
The dog house
If they care for one another there is nothing wrong. If it is for money then it is wrong. Money does not bring happiness. Sometimes the opposite.
Aug 25, 20
Having children is a lifestyle choice and not everyone wants to hear children screaming or misbehaving on international flights, in restaurants and so forth. I think we all deserve choices. I think we all deserve to have a peaceful coffee at a cafe without children running around. Not only would this provide an option for childless individuals but also parents who need some time-out
Patman Newcastle
No. Children are a part of every day life whether they belong to a family and are grandchildren or great grand children. They bring joy to the family.
Jul 13, 20
I mean, isn't uploading photos of ultrasounds and small children exploitation? Not only do we exploit ourselves as adults, we also exploit our children before they are old enough to have a say
Christine M 323842
I don’t feel comfortable posting pictures of my children online, but I am the only parent I know who doesn’t do it.
Aug 18, 20
What is it about being stuck in traffic that irritates me so much? Well firstly, I can feel my cortisol levels rising. Secondly, I'm impatient. And finally, it makes me feel 'stuck'. Give me brussel sprouts (which I hate) any day!
Bea E
Nah, traffic is fine with me. I have experienced being stuck for 3-4hours in the middle of the road and I can’t even stop by for a pee. Hahaha.
Aug 02, 20
I have noticed over the years that people who play a lot of video games become aggressive in their day-to-day life. I try not to judge people but this personality change is pretty hard to miss. Anyone else experienced this?
Phyrephly
I think it also a desensitivity to violence in general with constantly seeing increasingly realistic imagery of people being raped or blown up or stabbed/gutted with knives. Then, the lights/bells/whistles that go off when you might kill another being (in a game) to win the round or whatever, makes violence a thing to be used to maybe get ahead of the game in real life. Sadly, I think many of these ultra violent/realistic type games were/are designed to do this. When you stab someone to death, they don't really die- they just come back at you in the next round. If you do this countless times then you very well may in some small way expect the same to occur in real life, especially if you haven't yet fully developed a brain that can tell the difference (fully) between RL and a game situation or scene. Bully or brutish behaviour, towards women say, if very often associated with heroism. The 'hero' of the round got to be the hero because he just shot 25 "bad guys" up with an AK47. 7 and 8 year olds may hav
Jul 21, 20
I'm a xennial and didn't grow up with social media. And I am so glad about that. Kids today spend too much time looking at a screen, when they should be outside being present and exploring the natural world around them
Edith v
In an ideal world yes, but In our day we didn't have as many perverts & weirdo's .A balance like reading & supervised outdoor fun excursions & some computer etc is great .Parents must make more time for their children
Jul 08, 20
I'm happy to pay money to purchase a rental on YouTube, so I can watch exactly what I want. I find I spend more time on Netflix browsing, It's problematic! I'm thinking about giving up my Netflix subscription and purchasing from YouTube every time.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Have not rented movies or any TV series on YouTube and why would you?? There are free movie channels around, some of which show TV content so why pay for something when there is no need?
Aug 05, 20
I used to know a delivery driver for a weight loss franchise and he told me they put laxatives in the food. I always wondered after that if it could be true. Nothing would surprise me in this day and age. But surely it would have to be listed as an ingredient?
Catania
Also if that was the case then something like meals on wheels would do that if it was legal and same as our nursing homes but they don't as you can get in trouble plus with the technology today nothing goes undected they can even test our sewerage .but years ago before we had all this technology it might have happened like maybe 25 to 30 yrs ago as things were not very strict then either.
Sep 16, 20
Have you kept in touch with workmates from previous jobs? I have from the last two jobs I had, and it is really great to have a catch up now and again and talk about "old times" I wish I had stayed in touch with more of my workmates - I often used to think about them, but never followed up on it. What about you?
BLM
I do not keep up with workmates from my one previous job (which I retired from). Only one shift (8:00 AM to 5:00 PM - got two 15-minute breaks and a half-hour for lunch (I worked a total of eight hours on each workday). In addition, I was the only minority in a huge office - were I worked for thirty years. We did not have one thing in common with each other - we did not socialize with each other on the job, and we did not socialize with each other on weekends (we did not work weekends) or on holidays (we got holidays off - with pay). Only four things I actually liked about my federal civil service job - the pay, job advancement opportunities, I got sick leave and annual (vacation) leave, and I got to wear jeans too work every day. I do not miss my workmates - but I DEFINITELY miss not getting paid every two weeks (on a Tuesday) :-))! I now get paid - on a monthly basis (bummer).
Jul 05, 22
Deceased or alive, which actor/actress/entertainer would you prefer play the role of you?
Edith v
Helen Mirren She doesn't do plastic surgery or Botox .She is down to earth dresses well & is interesting & interested
Dec 30, 21
... mine are so spoilt it's ridiculous ....I have a mini horse that comes inside and watches horse racing on Saturday with me .. we sit on the rug with my dog and put our bets on .., I also have a dog that is bigger than she is .....
StaceSteele
2 RSPCA recuse dogs who are now elderly as they have been living with us 8 and 9 years as they were adopted a year apart.
Mar 27, 21
What is the weirdest choice you made for a school lunch? Back in the 50 s & 60 s the favourite choices included, sugar on bread and butter, tomato sauce sandwich, banana sandwich, baked beans or spaghetti sandwich, chocolate spread sandwich, cream cheese, peanut butter or Vegemite sandwiches. I preferred a sugar sandwich any day.
misfortune8
I was never into salads, but a lot of kids used to take salads with beetroot. The beetroot juice would turn the whole salad purple - even the cheese! It always grossed me out, but the kids who brought it always said it was good. I've got a friend who packs this for her work lunch.
Jan 05, 21
Unless you want to be an architect, astronaut or engineer, you will never use it in your adult life. One size doesn t fit all when it comes to education. Have you ever used trigonometry since leaving school?
Margarret F
Yes I have used it and wish i had done more and understood it better.
Nothing one learns is ever wasted. Understanding such concepts comes up in unexpected ways.
Nov 05, 20
Are you a high vibe person? Or a low vibe person? Or perhaps somewhere in between? Low vibe activities include negative thinking, eating unhealthy foods and scrolling social media for hours on end. High vibe activities involve fitness, self care and productivity. I try to remain in a high vibe. But I'm human, sometimes I fall flat on my face!
Wazzahen
Since COVID -19 restrictions I’m definitely high vibe,I’ve been riding my bike for one hour each day & loving it, as I ride I say good morning to dozens of people who are walking their dogs it is a great feeling to be alive.
Nov 12, 20
For me I absolutely love the Christmas season as the whole family comes together to get into the spirit. This is one season that we dec the house with Christmas decorations. I always remember my Grand parents house inside was like a mini Santa house. The one present I remembered the most was when I was little was the limited edition of the Teletubbies. My Parents told me they waited for a very long time to buy.
Neo
This one as it will be the first in decades where I will not be working during this period at all and can spend time with my family instead of working 50 hours a week.
Dec 25, 20
Some people just create a discussion page, stand away, light the blue touch paper ... and then just stand back and watch the reaction. Like an artist who has created something. Other folk (guilty) stand around "hosting" the questions ... discussing things that come up and try to develop the page. Which sort is best?...
IdentifyAs
As with any debate, you need to be respectful of the opinion of others. In order to form an opinion, be informed. If the topic bothers you too much and you feel threatened or angry, just scroll on.
Nov 09, 21
What do you believe is better, summer or winter holidays? What are the pros and cons of each. Which do you enjoy more?
Warrior Woman
Summer every time for me. I left England because I was severely sick almost every winter with colds, flu, bronchitis and allergies. I then found I could not tolerate Melbourne winters as I was so miserable and sick. After moving to Queensland I was diagnosed with SADS (Seasonal Adjustment Disorder Syndrome) meaning my body cannot cope with changing climate extremes. I also have a lung disease which is now able to be treated and responds so well to warm/hot weather. I can cope, although not happily, with the few weeks of winter we have here.
Dec 27, 20
When people talk about the best bands of all time. The Beatles and The Stones always get a mention. Which band is the best as far as you're concerned? It's a tough call!
freddie
Stones. Used to go to a gig they played in London when I was a teen remember Mick on the door collecting half-crowns entry fees.
Oct 28, 20
There are all these memes going around that say pineapple doesn t belong on pizza. But it does! I love pineapple on pizza, it s my favourite! I think these memes are wrong. What do you think?
CHERRY BLOSSOM
Yes i love pineapple on my pizza, as i can dream that i am on a deserted island eating my pineapple on my pizza.
Oct 08, 20
TikTok seems to be getting more popular as a platform by the day. I am thinking of making TikTok videos. Has anyone used them to increase their platform and outreach?
Disie
Some are good, most are Teens preening. This thing about China, : "leaked" from Trump. Do you really believe him?
Jul 19, 20
I honestly cannot imagine buying a man a kettle or a vacuum as a gift. I mean what person on earth enjoys cleaning? I think gifts should be about pleasure not household chores.
Phyrephly
....is it um, let's see...I know...racist to buy a white kettle? Get a grip people. Aren't we better than this?
Jul 09, 20
Whether it be your older siblings "mix" CD's, which were compiled from illegally downloaded soundtracks, or a beat up old CD from the local library, as a child, what was your first ever album you listened to?
Pearlz
No such thing as CD's when I was a child. My father worked for Lee Gordon, if anyone else is old enough to remember him. Lee Gordon was a promoter who brought artists out to Australia and would hand out photo's and 78RPMH records which my father would bring home for me. So I got to hear Jimmy Rogers, The Kaylen Twins and The Everley Brothers to name a few. When I was older I was much in demand as a babysitter and one couple I babysat for had a large collection of records and I got to hear Johnny Matthis, The Platters and other artists from the '50's but by the time I wanted to buy records such as The Beatles, Searchers and Bilyl Thorpe and The Aztecs there were 45's and 331/3 or LP's. I think the first CD I bought was Michael Jackson. I did start replacing my LP's with CD's but when it came time to toss Tommy by The Who and the Beatles white album I couldn't do it and decided to keep them all. Every now and then I'll give one or 2 a spin, some date back to the sixties and I still love them but I also have many of them in CD form as well.
Aug 12, 22
If I see Santa, I will hug him straight away, and thank him for his generosity to all people especially to kids. I would tour him around my house, and I would give him some cookies. I will touch his face and his long white beard and ask him to have a selfie with me and my family. I will ask him this question that's stuck in my mind when I was a kid and up till now What it feels like, to be Santa Claus?"
Neo
Are you serious with this topic of the day? Santa does not exist, he was invented by the Coke company hence the red and white colours and the black belt is the Coke.
Dec 24, 20
Will it change the way you use social media? I am so grateful the documentary was made, it can be the beginning of accountability and change. It s incredible that none of the computer scientists who created social media allow their children to use it. They understand how damaging it is, I guess.
lippy loo
Not on social media and have no children on it either. The little I know of it though it sounds scary and dangerous.
Oct 30, 20
Does loud chewing irritate you? It drives me crazy. I mean were these people brought up in a cave? Where are their manners?
Imperia S '' PIER''
I personally have no problems with the way people eat their food, so long as they enjoy the meal and thank the person that cooked it. And does anyone realize that in some Countries it is considered OK to burp at the table or if they lick the plate after a meal, It shows the provider that the person appreciated and enjoyed the meal. In Australia, we are so "Would Bes" that we frown at everything
Sep 07, 20
I would rather be eaten by a crocodile than die in a plane crash. The thought is truly terrifying. But because I travel a lot, I've had to learn how to cope. I find copious amounts of wine helps calm my fear.
Amensch1
Have flow alot, but the only time was when the plane attempted to land the weather was wet & the plane slid over the tarmat so scary
Sep 03, 20
Has it got to the point in our evolution where we can't string a bunch of sentences together coherently? The other day, I received a text from the opposite sex that basically spoke in full emoji and I had no idea what they were talking about. Perhaps we should give up speaking all together and start grunting.
lippy loo
I have seen people sitting next to each other speaking via their phone text messages. Utterly ridiculous. Still see them texting whilst driving. Can't put the things down for 5 seconds. I agree, these emoji's confuse me also. Maybe English should be taught in schools again like it was 50 years ago.
Aug 22, 20
Have you become more creative and resourceful during lockdown? What have you learnt most about yourself? I have found different ways to express myself and connect with people through the digital world, what about you?
BeeUnikay
Definitely more creative and resourceful during lockdown, in a lot of ways it has put things in perspective for me and has changed the way I view the world...I'm more outspoken and has reminded me of just how precious each day can be, it's the little things that matter most
Jul 29, 20
When I overuse social media I really feel a lull in my mood. Sometimes it can lead to a major depression. Other times I just feel really anxious. I have given up social media many times throughout the years and always feel my life force come back. Perhaps it's time to deactivate or delete again?
Autumn
I'm not on Facebook or Instagram. I don't know the names of the other ones. Rewardia is the closest thing to social media that I'm involved in. I don't feel the need for the approval of people who feel they have the right to abuse me because I don't know them. The whole idea seems ridiculous to me, but I know that children can be harmed by things that they see on social media.
Jul 23, 20
I suffer from Endometriosis and was recently told by my doctor that CBD may help. I've read heaps of articles on the internet, that say the oil has changed their life. I am thinking about trying it. What are other people's experiences with it?
Bugalugs
The problem really is that it is called Hemp and some silly people immediately associate this product with Illicit Drug Use when in fact it contains none of the drug associated with smoking pot/weed etc.. I would certainly try it if I had an issue with severe, on-going pain.
Jul 28, 20
Apart from the fact one mostly sees overweight people drinking it. If you're going to drink Coke at all, why not drink the real thing? I've read that artificial sweeteners are really unhealthy for your body. Diet coke? No thanks!
Sand
Diet coke is very unhealthy and actually makes people gain weight. The original Coke Formula "7X" was manufactured outside in a 44 gallon drum by a pharmacist. So from crap Coke to Diet coke I don't touch the stuff.
Jul 15, 20
Once upon a time, to be considered beautiful, meant you had won the genetic lottery. Now any ordinary person who's had plastic surgery makes the grade. As far as I'm concerned, if it's artificial, it doesn't count!
Katzeye
Not a chance and there is no way I would ever get botox or any enhancing surgery on my face or my body for that matter.If you live a balanced healthy lifestyle and look after your skin there is no need for work to be done.The best thing you can do for your skin,use sunscreen daily even in winter.
Jul 10, 20
In the 80s I used to go to Bingo with my grandpa, the numbers were called out slow and the game was nice and relaxed. In 2019, I went as a joke with a friend after a bottle of wine. And we couldn t believe how fast bingo had gotten. It was like an Olympic Sport. It seems life sped up and so did the bingo halls.
JoeB
It used to be fun but now it’s like a chore and all about the money. The fun is gone, the social side is gone...bah!!!
Nov 21, 20
YouTube is a wonderful resource for DIY activities. So quirky and inventive. Creators making acrylic nails from toilet paper or designing lookalike celebrity fashions from thrift shop bargains. Do you watch DIY videos on youtube? If so, what are your favourite channels?
JoeB
Some things are ok but You Tube has a penchant to shunt you to a porn tube after about 5 clicks....annoying
Oct 31, 20
So many people hate individual sports such as tennis, they find it boring. I m the opposite, I think it's more exciting than team sports. It's about tactics and the individual. Are you a tennis fan? Do you prefer individual sports to team sports?
CILLY0
Think it is great to watch and to play. My 86 year old neighbour still plays twice a week - not a Federer game these days, but she still gets round the court very well.
Oct 23, 20
I recently purchased a swisse ball for crunches. Great buy! My abs are finally starting to get some definition.
Wazzahen
My last fitness equipment was buying a bike which I use everyday weather permitting don’t need any other gear
Sep 25, 20
I did once and I still feel guilty about it. But I couldn't find a parking spot and I was majorly stressed out. Sometimes it's nice to play the rebel.
lippy loo
Yes I have a permit but it does really annoy me to see people with no sticker do it. Self important morons
Aug 15, 20
I love reading, so the thought of an author of a book reading to me via an audio book makes me want to vomit. Podcasts are the same, I haven't given them a proper go yet and maybe I should. In the 90s, audio books were more targeted to the elderly audience. So the fact that millennials buy them on Audible is a shock to this Xennial
JoeB
Different strokes for different folks. If you don’t like something then just don’t do it, no need to get your lingerie into a gordion knot
Jul 31, 20
Actually, in all honesty, I find it offensive. A day for conglomerates to make money out of the contrivance of romance. If I love someone, I don t need a special day, set out by society for me. Love is far too evolved for a day where people exchange red roses and cheesy greeting cards. Yuck!
Henrietta
When Valentine's Day first started (in America, of course!!) it was just a small gesture to the person you loved but now it has lost it's meaning & come too commercialised & something we now don't need.
Jul 27, 20
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