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I understand the perspective that face recognition technologies could potentially help reduce crime rates through improved surveillance and identification of suspects. The use of these technologies is an ongoing topic of discussion, with proponents... See more
Woofers
Simply, YES! We need to do whatever is necessary. Criminals are rampant, out of control, and repeatedly given a slap on the wrist only.
WAKE UP AUSTRALIANS, we need to jail these people and stop living in fear in our own homes, communities.
Jan 22, 26

Just made my list out for food at the Christmas lunch table and beyond. Got much appreciated help this year, with our visitors, who will be staying with us over Christmas ... this year will be Extraordinarily simple catering for 6: All... See more
writerrochelle
What's happening? Nothing... Who's doing what? I'm relaxing with my puppy, Lacy... To whom? Just me and Lacy! Where? Home, sweet home! At my place, staying in, out of the weather, and out of the crowds? Good Day! ;-D
Dec 23, 25

How did the initial energy come into existence? The expansion began only after the universe already existed in a highly condensed state. So, what was the origin of that first energy before the expansion started? See more
NotFriedLikeMost
You can NEVER have "something" come from "nothing".
It is why it is called the big bang THEORY for a reason...not proven or truhful AT ALL.
Why do the elites push this lie? Simple...if we can be made to THINK we are so insignificant and RANDOMLY came from NOTHING...then it is easier FOR THEM to justify how they MUST HAVE "been chosen" to rule over us. When, in reality, NOBODY is insignificant and NOBODY should be ruling over ANYONE else.
Yet, here we are...lied to about this, lied to about our earth, lied to about EVERYTHING during 'satans little season', or, the age of deception from 1776 thru to 2026. The jig is up, folks!! The Millenium Reign already happened when Christ returned in 70 AD.
"Christ" returning for a THIRD TIME is ALLEGORY for TRUTH COMING BACK TO SOCIETY!!!!!! This is why these globalists are rushing to get us under their digital enslavement asap...because, as TRUTH comes back, their LIES GET EXPOSED. I have been at this since 1999...and yet most have been so asleep and unaware, but, thankfully, the truth is so strong and real that folk will NOT be able to deny it anymore. EVERYTHING WE KNOW HAS BEEN A LIE TO FIT THE GLOBAL ELITES NARRATIVE...so THEY can work to enslave US ALL.
Thse elites beLIEve to be "chosen ones"...but, remember, as per Revelation, these people SAY they are a certain group, BUT ARE NOT!!
It's BEEN proven they have deceived humanity for thousands of years, especially in this last 250 year period, aka satans little season. These deceivers are the evil behind EVERYTHING in our society today. Just remember...the BLACK CUBE of SATURN is what they worship. "Kabbalah" is what they practice. It's no COINCIDENCE they also created Islam...which has fools worshipping satan as well...as they worship at the KAABA of ALLAH. It's LITERALLY in the words, yet most CANNOT SEE. ANYTHING in this 3D realm that is "religious" IS against God. ALL OF IT...TO DECEIVE YOU!!!!!! You awake and aware yet? Get rid of them 'smart'phones and as MUCH tech as possible...a REGRESSION technologically is the answer...and STOP getting jabbed! They are LITERALLY changing your DNA and ANY AND ALL injectables post-Covid fraud ARE ALL THE SAME TECH DOING THIS. Homo borgensis is your new term if you get these transhumanist shots.
Stop complying to these LIARS and FRAUDS.
Oct 19, 25

Hey, so life's a bitch, and then you die! Is this your reality? Have you spent your life doing what s right? Giving to those less fortunate? Putting others needs before your own? Living a life of kindness and caring for others? And now... See more
Cher
Well Angie, I will give this a shot. Hopefully, this helps someone. There are waves of ups and downs in life. Some people have more of them and others less. That is the unfairness of life. We all do not arrive on this earth plane on the same playing field. However a good attitude towards one another and our self is critical if we want to evolve as better human beings. Hopefully there is enough time to learn this. Find your loving purpose and intention and spread it to others as much as you can. How do you want to be remembered by others? Best wishes!
Nov 23, 25

Christmas is coming, and once again I'm discussing gifts on the sibling group chat. Whenever a new message pings in, I'm already boiling. How can I deal with that? See more
writerrochelle
You should be asking, "What makes me so angry? Why do I feel this way?"
Are you envious of your sister's wealth and success? Why can't you be proud of her success? If this is something you want too, work toward it like I'm sure she did. I doubt if it was handed to her. I'm sorry you felt you had to ask this question. There are much more important things in life than wealth and success, Andrzej, trust me! ;-D
Nov 20, 25

How many actors turned singers or singers turned actors have made successes of both pathways, or overall do you think it's a line that shouldn't be crossed? See more
Sharon R Clovis CA
Many people have multiple talents, but few have the opportunity to use them the way famous people do. If the opportunity AND the talent are there, then why not?
Nov 13, 25

Have you ever done or said something you had regretted? Why did you do/say it? How did it lead to this? When will things change? Who caused this? What If I if they And so on and so forth of the endless questions that we ask... See more
Paul B 522937
no point in living in the past its gone and tommorrow is another day
Enjoy your life its the only one you will get
Nov 05, 25

Swearing may occur occasionally in informal or high-pressure environments, but it is generally unprofessional. Swearing at workplace - do you find it acceptable? See more
boy blunder
swearing is part of our culture today, its all over the little box we watch so often, our kids are often exposed to bad language wherever you go, do I find it offensive, no, do I swear, rarely ,depends if you talk to a swearer you tend to swear because they do, but tv allows all kind of profanities, I think it starts there, the gov have relaxed all kinds of morals that was once controlled , and as a result morals and standards have dropped, its amazing that kids first words are not profanities
Nov 06, 25

They say time heals everything. But it's been 8 years and the pain from betrayal still lingers. Family, friends, spouse. How does one cope with this? Any advice is appreciated ... See more
Vesta
It's all dependent on the person and science has shown that everytime you revisit a negative memory you actually reinforce its presence in your brain and make it stronger.
Humans are wired to look for negative patterns as it used to potentially save our life.
So there comes a point where you have to CHOOSE to move forward and force new better habits, memories and pathways in the brain. Yes this takes time but consider the alternative. You get older and the realization that you will die one day starts to hit. You look back at your life and what did you do with it...sulk, sit depressed over the past. That truly is a life wasted.
It always takes two to tango so when you say that you have been betrayed by your friends, family AND spouse then I'm sorry but you definitely contributed in some way. False memory is often instant especially for those who suffer trauma so no doubt the past you're remembering is not entirely accurate and more forcefully negative from your own presumptions. No person is ever so innocent that the world completely dominates them through no fault of their own.
Like attracts like so start by focusing on your OWN actions and be the change you want to see in the world. If someone has betrayed you it's because you let them. Learn to be your own champion and put yourself first but be kind to others along the way without compromising your truest values.
There are few true victims in society but by choosing to be one especially after so many years and not moving on you are not only actively creating a life of misery for yourself but you feed it to those around you making their lives harder and repeating the cycle.
Most of you will deem this harsh but if kind words were going to help then they would have worked by now...8 years already! You have so much more life to live... don't feel guilty at what's already passed just savour what's left. Move forward and refuse to let any actual betrayals continue to ruin your life or they win. It's your choice so make it.
Oct 03, 25

What does it mean? I hear lots of talk about open marriage. To my mind, you might as well not get married, or just get divorced. Would you really endure the pain, knowing your partner is having a relationship with someone else? What do you... See more
boy blunder
39 years in a few days , marriage is a commitment , if you cant honour the commitment don't make the deal
Oct 09, 25

Recently, a child was discussing different ideas for a family pet with his mother. The child rattled off, "bird, fish, cat and dog". All ideas were met with a resounding no. Finally, the child could be heard saying 'axolotl'. The mother's... See more
P F
Actually an Axolotl is an amphibian that looks like half a lizard and half a fish. 10 out of 10 points for him asking for that!. Kids are amazing, they soak up facts and information like a sponge. They must have seen it somewhere on TV or in a book. The response of "That not even a word" is 0 out of 10. Don't put the ideas of children down. They missed a wonderful opportunity for an interesting conversation. NEVER put children's ideas down. We are adults/so what? Nurture a child's growth and never stunt their imagination or ideas.
Sep 30, 25

This invites reflection on friendships, family, or relationships, and allows people to share personal experiences or thoughts about loss, change, or distance in life. See more
Michelle S 553303
There\u2019s a miriad of answers for this question. I think, personally, that we often don\u2019t appreciate what we have until it\u2019s gone and relationships break down when you don\u2019t take the time to nurture them. People don\u2019t like feeling that they are being taken for granted and we can do this without realising the effect it has on those we genuinely care about until the time comes when they feel so undervalued that the relationship falls apart. I would love to be able to go back in time and spend more time with the people that I loved who are now gone out of my life but I can\u2019t. I just try not to make the same mistake again and every time I talk to my adult children I tell them that I love them as this might be the last time I get to say it. I still care deeply for people whom I have had no contact with in years yet it is too late to repair the damage. Be kind every day! Thanks for reading.
Aug 30, 25

The Government is talking about a cat curfew again. A lot of people are saying it won't work. Why not? Cats are responsible for killing a lot of wildlife. I have quite a few friends who have cats, and we had one when we were... See more
Bugalugs
Just how are they going to police this? Are Councils going to employ people to stay up all night - which is when cats are out and about, entereing people's properties without warning? If they do are they prepared, and take Full Responsibility if some of them get killed by Property Owners? It should be remembered that in some countries they have almost non-existent Gun Laws (the USA springs to mind), where mass killings are now the norm, people are allowed to have virtually any type of Military Weapons they fancy which they claim they need to protect their homes and families - its all nonsense but then that is what we expect from Trumpland! The death of these unannounced invaders of people's property will be inevitable, people will shoot first and ask questions later. In Australia where we are not supposed to have any firearms , but many do, if someone started poking around my property in the middle of the night I would turn a high-powered hose on them. The whole idea is based on sheer stupidity, is unworkable.
Sep 13, 25

Fall is near in Canada, and the signs are already beginning to show. The air is getting cooler, the days are shorter, and the leaves are slowly starting to change into beautiful shades of red, orange, and yellow. It s a magical season filled... See more
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
Spring now in OZ.....cant we tell the difference
We have a saying here in Oz........Spring has sprung and the grass is riz,we wonder where all the birdies is!!!!!!
Sep 07, 25

In recent weeks I have heard of a lot of people I know, either directly or indirectly, having lost a lot of weight with the help of these drugs. I am finding it hard to believe just how common they are. They do seem to work. I have refused... See more
Shawn B 1061185
I used Ozempic until it threatened my life. I lost almost 100 pounds in a few short months. I suffered through almost all of the listed side effects.
I started randomly passing out and I finally just quit using it. It's been a couple of months now since I stopped using it. My weight is coming back (I don't need to weigh 125 lbs. I should be about 140 or 145.) My breathing is stabalizing and I'm starting to eat regularly.
The drug certainly helped me lose weight. If you're going to use it be very very vigilant about any feelings of ill health.
Sep 05, 25

"Overspending" or a "spending crisis" might be a contributing factor for some, the broader issue is a widespread increase in the cost of essential goods and services, making it difficult for individuals and families to afford basic necessities.... See more
Jania S
SORRY, I sometimes wonder why so many seem to have problems. Do they have extra commitments or credit, debts or what that are not mentioned? MAYBE it is a combination of living on credit, no money to live beyond means. makes price rise hard to adjust to.
I am on a fixed income around double what pension is, I own my own home, no debts whatsoever. No credit cards for decades. YES I notice prices have gone up. BUT I mainly buy fresh fruit, veg and meat, fish. I never buy anything in packet. I find money doesn't go as far as before, but we are not struggling YET. Those day a mose likely ahead of us, with all the lunacy in government world wide
Jul 30, 25

Attitudes will never change so long as entertainment writers keep doing the same old things. Why is it that if a man kisses a woman who is in a relationship it is considered that the woman cheated and the man has every right to dump her... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Does AGEISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! Does RACISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! Does SEXISM exist in the 'real' world (not just in movies or tv shows)? Yes! However, you gave outdated examples (not valid for the twenty-first century) when you were trying to make your point on sexism. FYI: Humans (all of us) are incapable of making changes - which is why history KEEPS repeating itself (ageism, racism, and sexism still exist in the twenty-first century)!
Jul 31, 25

Social media has been accused of being a cause of what's wrong today, with all the self-centered, narcissistic videos, dating apps making relationships trivial and shallow, and one too many people yelling, crying, complaining, and giving "expert"... See more
Brian L 387567
I was there in the 50s. We would have taken it up and we would have missed the best of all times. Rock and Roll was King and we lived with joy and hope for the future. Now look at the world.
Jul 23, 25

Tell me your favourite movie? Let s give each other an idea of good movies ?? Maybe we could each leave a brief description and an idea or two ... of what your favourite movie is all about What do you like watching on your own... See more
Anna Rogers
There are so many but I\u2019d have to say \u2018The Green Mile.\u2019 It\u2019s a powerful, spiritual experience and Tom Hanks leads a stellar cast.
Jul 06, 25

I am a full-time mama to 2 busy boys, and we decided to homeschool. A lot of my concerns that most people raised have really become non-relevant when I look at the actual research and statistics. Let s discuss the pros and cons of... See more
writerrochelle
Homeschooling eliminates bullying and diseases, but it may also eliminate socialization skills and playing with other children. But, I know families that home-school, and the children are just fine! They have closer family relationships. ;-D
Jul 10, 25

To us, McDonalds is a treat, but we were taken aback recently to see how prices have increased & the size of the buns, for all meals have shrunk considerably! Anyone else notice this? Is it happening in other fast food outlets? See more
Sharon 1447185
I buy a pack of ground beef and a loaf of bread and make my own burgers at home....with all the fixin's!
Jun 28, 25

Worried about whether the person you are chatting with online is a Chatbot?...well worry NO MORE!!...you can get an app now that is guaranteed artificial...she is gorgeous...she is crazy about you and neatly fits in your pocket...she... See more
Meggie
Sick world we live in, God gave Adam Eve, not a robot or a phone...this technology is bad, getting out of hand
Jun 18, 25

Most mornings, when I go out for a walk with my dog, I like to say good morning to people I pass. Sometimes people will stop to talk to me as a result. Would you say 'Good morning' when you are out walking? See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I do not say good morning when out for a walk (saying good morning will trigger and bring repress, painful memories into my conscious)!
Jun 12, 25

Common sense requires social interaction. Common sense is usually connected to universal truths. If you don't have regular social interaction, you might not learn what constitutes common sense and how to use it. This is why very smart people... See more
NotFriedLikeMost
Common sense is not that common anymore because it pairs well with CRITICAL THINKING.
Nowadays, most are completely brainwashed by all things mainstream and they don't even realize this. They have SLOWLY had their ability TO critically think eroded to the point that most ONLY REACT, instead of stepping out of their indoctrination to actually think critically. Technology has played a massive part in this because everyone is a so-called expert when they can "google it" on their personal GPS tracking device, that has internet, that is invisibly chained to their wrist all day.
But, and this is the kicker, those who CEASE to critically think will rely on those "google" results as 100% TRUTH....and we know, or we SHOULD know, that most of the actual truths have been suppressed on purpose, search results purposely skewed to fit a certain narrative and so on. So now we have a plague of people so far brainwashed...without knowing it, but, also, these same people are SO SURE of themselves as well.
And, to counter the statement in the question posed by Natalia...if you think "Very smart people who spend a lot of time by themselves might seem to lack common sense"...then your perception of WHOM is "very smart" is way off because those who SEEM "very smart" to the general populace, are just the ones who are best at memorizing their brainwashing and regurgitating it on command.
As for myself, I am highly intellectual and DO NOT CARE to be around most people in society BECAUSE I use common sense and possess keen critical thinking ability and discernment. This comes with years of experience, observation and the one thing most lack....PATIENCE.
May 06, 25

For me, the refusal to share your location, at any stage of the relationship, is not a "red flag". What about you? Is not sharing location a red flag? See more
Bex
For me, it's the other way around. Asking your partner to share their location is the red flag. It shows either mistrust, or jealousy. It's borderline stalking to have to know where your significant other is at all times.
Jun 01, 25

Whether you believe in climate change or not, most folk think that there is pollution. Common ground. Let's start out with basics: don't flush your coffee grounds put them in your garden, or somebody else's. Recycle plastic bags at the very... See more
Denise C (Qld)
I get a little furious the way some family members use the incorrect bins provided. I'm sure it's just laziness or couldn't careless attitude. Also a recycling/materials site would come in handy for rubbish your not sure about.
Jun 02, 25

Social media can be a double-edged sword. Sometimes it's used to create lasting connections, inspire new ideas and share accomplishments. However, social media can erode relationships, create distrust, cause miscommunication issues and act as a... See more
Ek M
Our definition of romance, is quite removed from the younger generations definition, perhaps the question should be: is social media killing personal connections?
May 27, 25

Are you sick of all the World Whatever days, weeks or months and find most of them are just ridiculous or just geared towards selling something/marketing? Let's make the world a better place by inventing a new BETTER World... See more
Larry S 382961
Easy TRUMP FREE DAY. everyday he opens his mouth all we get is garbage. What next. Now he wants to change the name of the Persian Gulf. Now he wants to change names what about New Mexico seeing he wants the Gulf of Mexico changed.
May 07, 25

Do you feel that self-protection courses would be beneficial for women at no cost, paid for by the Government to encourage more women to protect themselves against harm? See more
Raelz
I got my black belt in TKD, with Palado TaeKwonDo Academy in a small town, it took me 15yrs (as I had two kids during that time so a few breaks), but I kept returning (with my kids who are also Blue belts atm. I paid for it myself. I dealt with the petrol, the time, whilst working, and eventually (as the boys got older); the whinging!! IT WAS ALL WORTH IT AND STILL IS!
Pay for it yourself, it teaches you/your kids self-confidence, patience, perseverance/ persistence! Govt should do their job; Roads, Rates, schools etc.
Mar 24, 25

I love jewelry don't take me wrong who doesn't, but jewelry is meant to be worn in the right way & a certain amount of it on you. I find the many people go overboard with it in all the wrong places. It makes it look ugly & also makes the... See more
Norman PSBHRJ
To each it's own. Stop judging others because they like jewelry. You might think it makes a person ugly, but did you ever consider they like and love the way they look. The problem here you call these people ugly and judging them. Theres enough hate in the world and thats because some people judge other and forbid that they might be diferrent.
Mar 13, 25

While we are used to electric scooters blowing up and killing people (no-one seems worried about these)...electric cars bursting into flames....we have just had our first commercial airplane destroyed because of Lithium-ion batteries stored in... See more
writerrochelle
I refuse to own any so called 'Smart' anything in my home. If it talks, moves, or thinks on it's own, there's no way it will ever be owned by me. I have a 'Smart' brain, 2 arms and 2 legs, and I choose to use them and do everything myself! ;-D
Mar 03, 25

With all the discussions about carbon footprints lately in the media, I have tried to reduce mine. I buy secondhand if I can, have reduced car trips by carpooling and walking. But for me, the biggest hassle is food packaging, mainly plastics on... See more
Hello Kitty
You know that China is building two Coal Power Factories every week, so I hate to tell you but ALL of your efforts to "save" the planet are Futile!
Feb 22, 25

Most people start experiencing a decline in their energy levels by the time they reach their mid-thirties. And this decline in energy levels can be attributed to various factors, including changes in metabolism, hormonal changes, and lifestyle factors... See more
John 1631376
I have a birthday tomorrow, I will turn 86.\ud83d\ude01\ud83d\ude01 I refuse to feel old and tired. I take no medication, I do 50 pushups, 30 situps and ride a stationary bike every morning when I wake-up and just before going to bed. Here's to old age.
Feb 14, 25

I recently went to Dr Sunil in Bangkok with my husband. I had 7 filling at $970 for them and very happy. My husband had all teeth removed with implants 4 on top and 6 on bottom implants, $32500. This included all dental... See more
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
I have found that here in ACT nothing is free BUT I had dental work done at 'pensioner' rates and it was NOT expensive...I was able to afford the work and due to being on a govt pension I was able to get top and bottom dentures for $350:00
Feb 04, 25

Whether we like it or not, change is coming and appears to be influencing all aspects of our life. Whether it be technology, ways of thinking or beliefs, education and even living situations. How are you adapting to change, and what are some... See more
Andrew C 287196
"Change" is too wide a category. Some changes are good, some changes are bad, and some are just ridiculously silly.
Oct 30, 23

Have you ever been scammed online? Did you know what to do? Did you successfully get your money or goods back? Do you have any advice from your experience/s to give to others here? The only way to stay safe online, is to... See more
writerrochelle
1. Yes; 2. Yes; 3. Yes; 4. Yes! Password protect your bank accounts, freeze you credit accounts, put fraud alerts on your credit reports, and ignore unknown phone calls! ;-D
Jan 08, 25

What are your plans for 2025? I try not to make resolutions as they never stick... 2025 for us is going to be all about getting back to basics, decluttering and minimising how much "stuff" we have around us and what comes into the... See more
Danielle R 478487
I suppose I got a bit of a head start on everybody else. Earlier this month I moved interstate back to sunny Victoria( well sometimes it is). I left a d.v relationship with basically my clothes and my youngest son and his things to be with family. So decluttering DONE. Now just focusing on my health mental and physical as well as slowly saving to replace all I left behind. Pretty proud of myself at this point as I thought previously the only way I would get out was in a wooden box. I look forward to a better year than many more previous ones.i know for sure it can't possibly be worse. For the first time in quite I while I love my life. Hope everyone else out there has a reason to smile this coming New Year and sees us all better off than the last.
Dec 30, 24

Parental/carer mental ill health can, in some circumstances, lead to an inability to look after the child's physical and emotional wellbeing. This is often for a short temporary period, however for some individuals it can be more prolonged. What... See more
Bugalugs
Of course it does. it can lead to neglect, wsexual, physical and mental abuse. Of course things like alcohol and drugs don't help do they? We have an increasing problem in which children, some as young as 9 years old, are roaming the streets late at night committing crimes, being arrested and then the bleeding hearts come out and accuse the Police and all but those responsible for the problem!
The Police and othes are so scared of being accused of racism that they dare not ask the Most Important Question of All.
Where are the Parents whilst their children are running amok?
I'll tell you where they are. They are at home blind drunk or drugged, both are mental health issues.
Dec 16, 24

The subject of shells was raised on this site, with some people feeling all shells should be left at the beach. I returned from overseas once and had to go through immigration and customs in Darwin, where the customs officers walked along the... See more
allinB4UFLY
the shells could be naturally contaminated, or even still have a live invasive species in it is probably the reason
Nov 17, 24

As I have got older, I have sometimes felt that I haven't been "successful" at anything throughout my life. I am not a lawyer, or a doctor, I don't have a University Degree, I am not rich, I have no specific "talents," have won no awards for... See more
Saara F
I guess we all think that way at some stage in life. We have not moved mountains so we think we have not achieved success however success is not based on what we have not done. Success is being happy. Success is confidence. Success is raising healthy kids. Success is much more than being top of the class. Success is getting through life in one piece and so much more.
Nov 18, 24

Debt can be a double-edged sword for many young adults starting their careers. With lower wages, fewer savings, and limited access to safety net supports, young people often struggle to achieve financial stability. What do you think are the... See more
Lynette W 328802
Because their money is paid into an account it is only a number. They never actually see the cash as in the old days when your pay was in an envelope and you could see it!!
Nov 08, 24

Life is very different now than it was in the past, when leaving your children an inheritance was common practice. I still see many adult children who seem to consider an inheritance an "entitlement" whether or not their parents can... See more
Debra Jay 1237276
Neither of our children communicate with us, so they won\u2019t be inheriting what they think they are \u201centitled\u201d to inherit.
Nov 02, 24

With the way things are so different today, would you push your children to go to University or College versus guiding them on becoming their own boss? If they choose to go to post secondary, they accumulate a large debt and are not guaranteed... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I think college, trades, and university will become a thing of the past - when AI reaches its full potential. I think going into the military for twenty years and getting a livable pension will become the norm - as their will be more wars over dwindling natural resources and ever-increasing population. Also, becoming a police officer will become your second mandatory option for twenty years which will give you another livable pension - crowd control will become an issue as the fight for dwindling natural resources will become more intensified with an ever-increasing population. The not-so-distant future will be a dark and ugly place for the overwhelming majority of people - not because of AI - but because humans are incapable of learning from our past mistakes and our luck as a specie will finally RUN OUT!
Oct 19, 24

I just finished Lucinda Riley's series of books called "The Seven Sisters" and enjoyed it very much. I am looking for a new series of books to read. Furthermore, I am not interested in science fiction or books with too much violence. Do you... See more
Carolyn K 714554
I recommend The Clan of the Cave Bear. It is about early man and the struggle to survive. Written by Jean Auel. There is about 5 books in the series. Not to be missed.
Oct 13, 24

When my kids came home one day from School, they were both REALLY worried...the teacher had told them the icecaps were melting, and sea levels were already rising..." Are we going to be OK, Dad?"... I said that the people on... See more
IdentifyAs
The school system and newly trained teachers have a lot to answer for. Teach your own kids the truth and have discussions.
Sep 27, 24

My question is: Should seniors choose large dogs vs 20lb and under? I was walking my dog and I often see seniors walking their dog. What I am surprised to see are seniors walking huge dogs - like German shepherds. Great Danes,... See more
writerrochelle
Meet my newly adopted dog, Panda! I'm going to pick him up after I log out. We think he's dachshund and terrier mix. He is a tiny little guy, but way overweight, so I'll be working on getting it down. Panda is 7, and will be a great companion for both Sadie, my toy poodle who is 12 1/2, and myself! ;-D
Oct 05, 24

Are there any games you'd like to see added to Rewardia? If so, which ones? Are there any games that frustrates you or you'd be all too glad to see removed? Tell us, below! Thank you! See more
beverly w 540992
oh rewardia, why does the scramble puzzle not recognise words that are in the dictionary but give us stupid slang words that do not make sense half the time.
Jul 09, 21

People always talk about the BEST advice they've gotten - I want to hear the BAD ones so we can all laugh together! See more
matthew f 520557
cannabis is bad for you and you should not use it as it is an evil drug, you will go mad and loose your mind and destroy your health...now i get it from the doctor as medicine...the times they are a changing
Aug 11, 24

Things happen, and you may never receive a valid explanation why. However, the sooner you quit dwelling on it, the sooner you can bounce back. What about you? What is the hardest truth you had to accept that made you stronger? See more
Anna K 32662
I had to except the fact that I had a Stroke. At age 39 I Stroked as my daughters and I were getting ready for the day. My daughers were only 12yrs and 7yrs old at the time. It did not happen right away, I was very angry, I spent 2 months in the Rehab Hospital. Every1 I knew except for 1 person avoided me like the plaque. After many years I finally gave in and excepted that I had Stroked, Im now a totally different person, but it took quite a few years for me to be where I am now. They do not know why I stroked, but I truly beleive that it saved my life. Without getting to much in to it, I was drinking all the time, getting into fights etc. I am now though a much happier person. I am now 62yrs old, and I do not think I would of made it this long if I was the same person I was right after I got out of rehab.
Aug 31, 24

My husband decided to tell me on my way back from a work trip that I was not welcome back into our home. I don't have any family, as I had just lost my mum over a year ago. We share a daughter, and he has restricted my visits with... See more
Sheree T
Speak to a lawyer you have rights also and are entitled to see your daughter and also a share of assets.
Aug 29, 24

A lot of people these days are suffering from bad mental health, and people don't even realise. People with bad mental health will usually isolate themselves from others, and just want to be alone, even though what they need is to talk to... See more
JANET R 328390
Well I am probably going to stir some feathers here ... but I honestly think a lot of the problem is our current lifestyle. So many people are controlled by either their mobile phone or social media. People used to get out more. People used to have gardens that they could enjoy and these days a lot of people are living in either apartments or pokey little places or houses all up against one another...I have even read articles from Experts that this type of living can cause depression and mental health issues. Don't worry I am expecting some negative response ....... it is just what I believe. I fully understand that the days of big gardens are out - but I feel they have gone to the other extreme.
Mar 06, 21

My best friend of 28yrs committed suicide on June 6, 2024. I ve been feeling like this life is all a dream. My heart aches and I ve lost my appetite. I miss her, and she never mentioned she was hurting or had so many problems that she had... See more
Shawn B 1061185
I don't think the loss of your friend should be any different than losing a family member. My daughter died in the hospital while going through a routine operation. I too felt empty, couldn't eat, found no pleasure in any activity and I miss her tremendously.
From what I understand suicide comes when the person has lost all hope.People who do it don't try. They just decide when and then do it. It may sound cruel, but deep down I don't feel that you were serious when you "tried." It seems that you were just looking to confirm that somebody loved you.
I came close to doing it once. I had lost all hope about everything. I got professional help, and some pretty good medications from a liscensed physician and I hardly ever go there again. Yes, occasionally I get feeling very low, but that's pretty much because I suffer from profound depression, PTSD, and I'm Bi-polar. Nothing is perfect and I'm not sure if I can ever be 'cured' but I just keep on carrying on and greet each day as an opportunity in stead of a challenge. Good Luck!
Jun 30, 24

Vandalism is an act of violence, does the political situation warrant a violent response? Or is it just silly humans being silly humans and love the act of violence? What is your opinion on the use of vandalism as a form of a protest? See more
Michael B 384408
Make them clean up the mess and pay for all costs no slaps on the wrists and bail or 'public service duties' - then jail them for a year. They need to learn respect.
Jun 26, 24

You know...the one where they ask you what is the most important issue for Australia....but there is no box for "climate change"?...or they ask you want you drink, buy or eat...but only give you a limited choice...and you have to pick one... See more
Robert F 1161011
I tend to give them what they want. I've successfully completed surveys in languages that I don't even speak.
Apr 12, 23

My husband and I have disagreed, he thinks the lint is actually growing all the time, I am not sure how it could be growing Does anyone else have to fight lint every day all day long in the home where they live. Just using a vacuum every day... See more
Shawn B 1061185
While I don't have a lint problem at home, I used to work at a university that did have a real problem. The lint bunnies grew so large that they hissed at the students passing by. I also heard that a student was actually attacked by one, but there is no proof.
Jun 13, 24

Are you an immigrant? Have you ever immigrated? Well, let me tell you it's not easy! Maybe immigrate can look very romantic, but it's not. As a young immigrant who is loving to stay in New Zealand. I just realise that it's really... See more
Gaza
Australia seems to be importing the people nobody wants, even their own country. They come here for a better life but want to change Australia to the shit-hole they came from.
Jun 07, 24

Some people have a few big dreams, and others are actively working on checking life goals off a long list. What's on your bucket list? And what may have you recently completed? See more
JoJo
Currently travelling round Aus in a camper can. Was a bucket list item for years. Another is to live in Japan for at least 6 months. Maybe next year?
May 08, 24

So I've given up smoking gone to vaping to help my urge to have a cigarette, yet I still get judged for vaping. Like I need to quit etc yet why do so many people like to tell others how to live their life's? Can't people just let others do their... See more
Rebecca B 614374
It is of course your right to smoke or vape, but do bear in mind that others don't like the smell, so it's best to do it where it won't bother others.
Aug 06, 23

I would personally like to thank everyone I have ever played BINGO with on here, as I have made some amazing friends on there. No, I am not leaving or going anywhere, but I am doing an appreciation post. If I feel down, you guys and girls... See more
Pat C 618241
Haven't felt the need to play as yet. Can remember accompanying my grandma as a teenager quite a few years ago. Boy those old girls would kill to win! All for the prize of a tin of peaches or a packet of biscuits.
Apr 24, 24

Do you think being left-handed has more advantages than being right-handed? Think about Nadal being a left-handed world champion tennis player and how his dad and uncle forced him to play left-handed when he was a young boy. Do you think a... See more
Zebra
I am ambidextrous.
I was forced while in school to choose either one not both.
This was hard for me growing up, yet through the years, I grew up I would practice with both hands, while not in school.
So glad I never let these teachers stumble me into only using one hand.
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Apr 27, 24

Has anyone experienced children, being so rude around you & their parents/carers can see what they are doing & they don't make the child to stop? In my opinion, what are as a parent/carer to allow this in the 1st place? If you're sitting in any... See more
Andrew T 123623
That why our generation behave themselves (baby boomers)because we knew we would get a clip behind the ear. But in this PC world you can do this know so I blame the younger generation for this.
If they kick the back of my seat I would turn around and say if you keep this up I will brake your legs. If they are front with a reclining seat I would tip reclining seat saying I was getting up accidents happen Nd with rubbish I would throw my rubbish on them.
You may get it I am not PC and I will call a spade a spade and don't care who I may offend. Not one should have to put up with that kind behaviour.
Feb 29, 24

I am just wondering how people in this situation of when are children too young to be taking medication for ADHD, autism etc. my granddaughter is 7 and her mum wants her on medication. Plus now she's talking about putting her 4-year-old... See more
doug p 631197
Personally I wouldn't give kids man made chemicals to sort out a natural chemical imbalance they already have thats been diagnosed. I think it would lead to problems later down the track being on drugs from an early age.
40 or 50 years ago you didn't here about adhd or autism until someone unleashed it on the world, now everything a kid does that we used to do as kids is labeled.
Maybe they should look at the food that is consumed by the kids as to the causes of their labeled diagnosis.
Mar 10, 24

I have recently heard of something like debt recycling. If you then borrow the same amount and invest it, you're essentially replacing the inefficient debt with a debt that is tax-deductible and could potentially generate wealth. What are your... See more
DruidsTree76
First thing , to become rich is to put some of one's own income away ( save it) also known as the long way.
Second thing , borrowing someone else's money is a quick way of becoming in debt, once you are in debt , in is near impossible to become rich.
Borrowing more money, and investing it, is no guarantee of getting out of the original debt , and becoming rich. It may end up worse off and owing more debt.
Remember this simple philosophy : If one can keep a roof over one's head ( rent/ mortgage), pay one's utilities ( electricity/ gas/ phone/ water etc) ,if one can feed and clothe one's self, then one is rich!
Thankyou for listening to my Ted talk.
Have a wonderful day.
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Mar 04, 24

Should all long term unemployed people be made to do at least 10 hours a week of community work? See more
Maria B 89860
No. Why punish them even more? If there is a job available in any such area then for goodness sake give them a job and enhance their dignity!
Mar 01, 24

Being in love with two people may be more common than some think. Studies show that many individuals worldwide identify as polyamorous, meaning they partake in a romantic relationship with or feel attracted to more than one individual at a... See more
Elizabeth A 807208
I believe you can be "in love" with one person and still love another but there is a difference between being "in love" and loving!!
Feb 18, 24

I know many of you cannot stand the commercialism of VD, but that aside, is it really that bad? I am a big romantic, and so is my man..... I always get flowers sent to me at work, & I feel so honoured that he loves and cares for my feelings... See more
Greg B 520364
Yes I have been told you can get VD from being romantic. But I never thought you felt special about it.
Jan 27, 24

If someone hurts or abuse animals I think they should be charged the same as if they hurt a person, pets are family too See more
Lee b 979050
Firstly hefty fine some jail time and never be allowed to own a pet again. Should be put on a register for cruelty to animals and attached to the persons social media profiles for a minimum of 5 years pending a review by an independent reviewer.
Jan 10, 24

How does everyone feel that TikTok might be banned? The app that got most of threw Covid-19 might be gone for ever because the government is too scared of TikTok's impact on people. See more
Raelz
"The app that got most of US THOUGH Covid-19" ?
Perhaps more reading and less TikTok might improve your grammar and spelling ;)
We also played board games and I do not want the Chinese Govt. spying on me, thank you very much!
Ban it, and Facebook and Twitter while you are at it!
Apr 02, 23

I'm sure there are plenty of wise words of wisdom out there - if you're over 65 please offer them. Here's some to start the ball rolling: You don't need anger management. You need people to stop pissing you off. Your people skills... See more
Bugalugs
We have the experience,, lots of knowledge and valid opinions and many of us lots of time to visit Rewardia. Problem is that those who engage Rewardia to run the surveys for them seem to have forgotten those simple facts. I have lost count of the number of times I have been Screened Out as soon as I enter my AGE! Age Discrimination is a live and flourishing.
Jan 14, 24

Who has everything ready for Christmas? Got presents, shopping done. I'm all ready, and even got my children's gifts wrapped this time, haha. I have a feeling this Christmas is going to be a good one. Hope all of you have a good one too See more
Carolina Z
A Joyful Christmas and a Blessed New Year to all Rewardia Members & Staff...Let usnot forget amidst the gaeity that Jesus is the Center of it all
Dec 21, 23

Do you think it is the responsibility of all tax owners to support these youth offenders? Why I ask is that, why aren't the parents of these youths own their responsibilities to their child or children's? They created them, if I owned a... See more
The dog house
Instead of putting these offenders in jail I would place them in the Army. Then maybe they might get the right discipline that their parents were not able to give them.
Sep 17, 22

The Kardashian Family is a very controversial topic. Most people just skim over the facts and assume that everything they see on social media is true and factual. However, they are just people, and everyone chooses to depict them as these... See more
Peter O 164296
They may or may not be nice people, but let's face it, they're famous for being famous. None of them has achieved very much apart from looking good on camera & attracting a social media following. I don't wish them ill, but my disinterest in them is total.
Oct 24, 22

Tipping in the United States is on the rise, and experts are calling it tipflation. In the fourth quarter of 2022, the number of tips provided at full-service restaurants grew by 17% from the fourth quarter of 2021. Meanwhile, the... See more
Christine M 323842
Tipping at Starbucks? You\u2019ve got to be kidding. You are standing in a line to get a coffee. You are not receiving any service. Why would you leave a tip.
My tip is for employees in the USA to stand up for their rights and fight for proper employee conditions and adequate remuneration.
Apr 08, 23

Recently separated from my husband almost 2 months now. We ve been married for almost 15yrs. I d like to discuss or hear some opinions in your case. We separated because he drank to much and he didn t like me going to the gym. He s still... See more
Christine M 323842
You\u2019ve already moved on if you\u2019re rooting the neighbour Morenita !!!
You\u2019re just feeling a bit guilty because you are accepting money from the ex.
No one knows all the details of what has really gone on so only you can decide the right course of action to take.
Aug 29, 23

I have this issue with doing washing every single day for our now 11 and a half year old. The GP says it's a phase that he will overcome. My girlfriend wants to keep on using these night pant products called dry nights.... I told her that... See more
Liane H
It's quite common in boys, My son was the same. Except we didn't have those in that sizing back then so it was bed liners and washing each day . There is a nasal spray that can help to slow things down, but basically in most cases it's simply hormonal,( the hormone responsible for concentrating the urine overnight is less present than it should be) and you will find once the 12yr mark kicks in or soon after ,. It will just stop. It's very frustrating I do remember ,but it's important not to let your child feel like it's an issue, They can't help it, It's not from trauma and it's not going to help restricting drinks before bed either. There are plenty of tips online . Don't bother with the bell and pad system either,, all it does is wake the child up when they wet with an alarm and interrupts their sleep often twice a night, more! .. not worth it . As I say it will just miraculously stop once his hormones kick in . Hope that helps some :)
Aug 08, 23

Education is rightly seen as one of the best ways to develop a country s economy, as more productive workers can create better living standards for everyone. But is there a limit to the benefits of education, and should countries be wary of this... See more
Pato Lo Duck
It is being un-educated that is allowing the likes of Trump and Putin to take control of the fate of the world..
Jul 02, 23

If kid's education is so important to these New Zealand teachers, then why do they keep striking. We came from a time when there were 50 students in once class and the teachers were getting paid min wage. And today teachers are... See more
Jenny L 591463
They fear for their lives every day as they can't touch the little darlings that get away with a hell of a lot more than we did when we went to school. There is no discipline at all any where, kids these day aren't even scared of the police. They go to court, they are out on bail and commit the same crime over and over again. Unfortunately they are not killing themselves but innocent hard working people that deserve so much more out of life than what has been dished out. Clearly wrong time, wrong place. Then you ask why are the teachers protesting? Give me strength come on the answer is so simple. I would not be a teacher these days and the ones I do know have had a gut full. They are constantly being told to `F' off on a daily basis, told they are ugly and then they swing off their arms causing the teacher pain. Grabbing their arms and then using all their weight to pull them over. Not getting any better that is for sure and so they should want smaller classes and more money. At least they can't bring guns into the schools but other weapons like swords, machetes, knives, flick blades, knuckle busters are found on a daily basis. And again you want to know why the teachers are striking? You try teaching them, you try home schooling your little darling and I see how long you last.
Jul 05, 23

A new advert I've just seen...the FIRST bottle to use 100% rHDPE plastic!!! (rHDPE is recycled High Density Polyethlene)...sounds great right?....what these creeps are ACTUALLY doing is making bottles that are... See more
Timothy N 929266
All current plastic produces can be made from Hemp that grows in 3-5 months and 100% degrades to nothing in 75 days
Jul 01, 23

Some economists argue that raising the minimum wage artificially creates imbalances in the labour market and leads to inflation. Other economists note that when minimum wages have been raised historically, inflation did not follow. It s getting... See more
Jeneral
The Victorian government (Australia) have just provided themselves a huge pay rise yet they are telling all Victorians we are now going to need to tighten our belts and pay for the pandemic (which they enforced). Where is the fairness in that?
Jun 21, 23

Yes, for a very long time now, on and off. I was very young when it first started after my father was killed. The loss so great to me, I called it my hole. A space inside me left behind that was his place. Over the years I fell into that... See more
Bill B 394870
Exhilleration and depression are polar opposites, i think,all humans experience both in life. Neither lasts forever unless we let it, which means we control how we experience life.
I have empathy for people who are experiencing depression ,but i believe we can control it and not be overwhelmed by it.
Aug 04, 22

I was once a beneficiary of a will where 4 of us were to get equal shares until the testator became ill. My sister and I stayed in her home on alternate weeks, giving care for almost 3 years. I had to leave my husband every second week...he... See more
Poppy
I intend to give one gold star each time my relatives visit, each star will be worth $100, so they can please themselves. Don't come don't get
Jan 22, 23

When eulogized or spoken of by family and real friends that know you best, what could they say that would be important for others to know about you first and foremost that was unique about you or something important you strived for or to be in... See more
888
When I die please do not weep, for it's not me there, I do not sleep
I am the thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sun on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain,
when you awake in morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in morning light, I am the starshine, soft at night.
Please don't be sad and do not cry, for it's not me there, I will not die
May 12, 23

What holistic approach have you tried instead of modern medicine that you swear by. You might have even gone so far as to share with friends or family what you do that helps you with your ailment. It doesn't have to be an edible/drinkable... See more
sarah 1277944
I don't have any ailments but have always been a 'walker', miles and miles. Tried the gym but much prefer the open air.
May 06, 23

The 'in' thing at school was a mince pie & packet of chips/crisps trend: Peel back pie top & scoop out the mince with a chip (eating mince like dip) Then put the chips in pie, top back on - chip pie - done & yum Seems weird now - did you... See more
Cely
I rarely bought lunch at school. But I have a yummy sanga that have been told its weird. It's a jam, cheese and vegemite sanga. It is so yummy. The sweetness of the jam takes away the saltiness of vegemite and visa versa.
May 02, 23

What does everyone think of these people claiming that they re a sovereign citizen or similar and trying to use it as an excuse to not pay taxes, registration, and have licenses etc? See more
Linda C
They are anti government extremists. In Australia all of a sudden they seem to be voicing this and going to court but so far the courts have not agreed with any of their so called legal spiel. They believe they are not under the laws of the government, do not pay taxes, car registration, etc. however, they use the health system, roads, and everything the tax payer pays for. The police in this country are really getting fed up with them and the fact they use up our legal systems time. Some use it I think to get 15 minutes of fame, some use it to be recognised and get TV interviews so they can sprout more nonsense, and some I fear really believe this rubbish, and some just follow USA movements. I am so over all these conspiracy theorists, activists, etc. They are not helping the world at all.
Feb 08, 23

There are some clothing fashions around that I find really ugly, and I always find myself wondering who on earth would buy them. It's not only the style, but the colours are mostly dull and uninspiring as well. At the end of each season, I have... See more
Simone S 316632
Men who wear suits, business shoes and NO socks. What's that about? Apart from having putrid feet at the end of the day.
Feb 11, 23

Have you ever have the symptoms of a panic attack or severe anxiety to the point where you thought maybe it was more a heart attack than a physiological reaction to extreme stress? For many of the millions of sufferers of panic and anxiety attacks... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I have had severe physiological reaction to extreme stress - but I grow up - in 'rough neighborhoods' in the USA. I was able to identify the 'stimulus' - as I got older - (alcohol abuse, criminal justice, systemic racism, street drugs, police, etc.). It is everyday life for a minority in the USA (coping with racial discrimination) - 'dealing' with severe anxiety - Blacks have the second lowest life expectancy in the USA! I (personally) never let it 'get' to the point (panic attack) - were I thought it was a heart attack or I would already be DOA at a hospital!
Jan 07, 23

I recently spoke to a friend. She has decided to go into a nursing home as she dislikes living on her own. While her children see to her needs, she rarely sees her grandchildren. People go about their lives while working and going out etc.... See more
Kerry Z
I liked the show on the ABC where they took the schoolchildren to visit the nursing homes. The people living there got so much out of it & the children also benefited from the intertactions.
Dec 27, 22

Recently I found something in my corn chips from Coles. It was large, thick and dark brown. I kept thinking, please do not let it be that. I have to return it to Coles and get a refund. Four weeks ago, I found metal in my mouth after eating... See more
Paul J 94868
I once had a bottle of bourbon that was subject to a recall because of glass fragments...I carefully strained 3/4s of it then took the remainder and exchanged it for a full bottle...I was very happy...
Oct 27, 22

Tens of millions or even hundreds of millions of people were unemployed in the Great Depression. When the stock market crashed, failure of government policies, bank failures, the collapse of money supply, and the collapse of world trade due to... See more
lynda e 390007
HEAPS of jobs going age care crying out for help even supermarkets can't get staff there are heaps of jobs and the work force is tired of carrying the load for those that just don't want to work.
Aug 24, 22

What can we do to reduce the changes and impacts that climate change had on our daily lives? In the pacific islands, low-lying islands are eventually covered with seawater and maybe in about 10 years time, lots of the islands will now be... See more
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
What a load of codswallop! ...... no such thing ...... Mother Nature will control the climate, not some 'nervous Nellies' who do not have a clue!
Sep 05, 21

What does it mean to you - Buying from sellers that care about the environment. Buying from sellers that source their products locally & ethically. Making do with items that I have, rather than buying new ones. Buying only what I need... See more
Rosemary E 383382
I have been frowned upon for buying Lego because it is plastic. I have lost count how much Lego has been passed from family to family, generation to generation and still is showing no signs of wear. Some of it has been walked over, the dog has carried Duplo around no teeth marks. It's outlasted "green" toys
Dec 29, 21

We all know that obesity has becoma a worldwide problem. Now doctors are calling it a disease. But is it really? Or is it just a personal failling? See more
Carolyn H 146141
Try a healthy diet and plenty of exercise. It's not a disease for most people and they should stop wasting doctors' time and medical resources that are needed by people who genuinely need them.
Oct 16, 21

Do you think it would be a good idea to build all new houses with solar panels on the roof, so we could run our own energy, or do you think it would be a good idea to have turbines everywhere getting energy from the wind and the sun etc and... See more
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Renewables do not work if there is no wind or sun so definitely no to these wind turbines; they are a blight on the countryside. Panels yes on new builds IF they included a large battery. Coal should be in the mix as well as Nuclear.
Feb 04, 26

On TV adverts diners have a wide variety of gastric pain after eating....(I wouldn't eat there again) and need to take medication all the time....while suffering parents have to take painkillers before they go out to the park to play with their... See more
Dusan 1329983
Not including psychological issues, many people don't eat intelligently, meaning with understanding of what combinations of food to take or when. This often makes a difference.
Jan 28, 26

I really want to start a business, but I'm struggling to figure out what kind of business to do, and I don't have a lot of money to invest right now. I know many of you have great ideas or experiences, so I'd really appreciate any suggestions,... See more
Anton A 1225344
It's difficult to give you any advice, as I don't know your skills, experience or any training you may have had or what industry you are looking to build your business in.
As for me, I have been self-employed since the mid 1980's and started every business I had without any capital to draw from. One of my most successful businesses is one I started during a recession when people were losing their jobs and companies where closing down. My advice is to start small and simple, then build on that as opportunities arise. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty, be honest, be reliable and give your customers the quality work that they will be happy to pay for. And don't waste money on a fancy office, a flash car or the latest hi-tech phone. Remember always that you work for profit and not to pay off debts.
Jan 21, 26

As people age, their world can often more focused on their own immediate needs, health and daily well-being. Being a parent assuming my daughter as an adult, she is capable and managing her life just fine. She does not have children or husband.... See more
Mooi
It\u2019s strange this discussion coming up. My mum died last Sunday. I\u2019m not after sympathy, but I know people care. It was a blessing for her as she was very poorly and it was a huge relief to see her suffering end. About nine years ago I answered my mum back for the first time in my life. She would not recognise my first grandchild as family because she was fostered and in her words not mine \u201c she isn\u2019t blood\u201d. This hurt very much, this beautiful little girl was my first grandchild and I love all my grandchildren equally. I kept my distance for a while but got abusive phone calls from my brother and nearly had to take out a restraining order. My mum changed her will, and I had no say over her health as she got older and deteriorated. She was put in a nursing home, which was very comfortable but she kept asking me what had happened to all her belongings. I didn\u2019t know. I visited her and we spoke and I love her. My psychologist said I would never get an apology for the hurt she caused me but I forgave her. Sorry for the ramble but thank you for letting me write.
Jan 13, 26

How do you feel when you go shopping at grocery stores or dept stores, and you are asked to round up a few dollars to support a charity in that area. I find that if I am in the same store multiple times a week, it feels uncomfortable saying no... See more
Darren S 116121
i always say no and that maybe your company can put some of their megaprofits in instead of making it look like they have donated when its the shoppers have
Dec 22, 25

There was a time in professional sports when the umpire/referee made a decision, it was accepted as final without question. Errors were made, but were acknowledged as part of the game. Today, almost every decision is referred to an... See more
JANN R
I think it is needed as some are hard to see and it makes the decision easyer to make and is a more fair way
Jan 02, 26

Coming from a very large family, it becomes a big question when Christmas rolls around as to who to invite for Christmas dinner. I usually decide on it based on who gets along with whom. Then I don't hear the end of it when I don't invite... See more
P F
My family is large as well. What we do is meet at the local park, lake or nearby beach. Everyone that wants to come brings a main and a dessert to share at a communal table. The children are catered for by water activities and a playground. Adults mingle with whomever they want. At the end (most of it is paper plates\plastic cups) cleaning up takes seconds. The burden of catering is not left to a single person. And our rule is no presents. Having fun, bringing food, participating in activities...that's the present.
Nov 28, 25
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