Discussions of the day

Worried about whether the person you are chatting with online is a Chatbot?...well worry NO MORE!!...you can get an app now that is guaranteed artificial...she is gorgeous...she is crazy about you and neatly fits in your pocket...she pouts and teases...she gets jealous (what of wasn't explained...other chatbots?...real people?...the toaster?)...and is very popular with "lonely men in Asia"...you had better make sure your phone is charged up or you will be in BIG...
Meggie
Sick world we live in, God gave Adam Eve, not a robot or a phone...this technology is bad, getting out of hand
Jun 18, 25

Most mornings, when I go out for a walk with my dog, I like to say good morning to people I pass. Sometimes people will stop to talk to me as a result. Would you say 'Good morning' when you are out walking?
BLM
I do not say good morning when out for a walk (saying good morning will trigger and bring repress, painful memories into my conscious)!
Jun 12, 25

Common sense requires social interaction. Common sense is usually connected to universal truths. If you don't have regular social interaction, you might not learn what constitutes common sense and how to use it. This is why very smart people who spend a lot of time by themselves might seem to lack common sense. What would you say? Why has common sense disappeared?
NotFriedLikeMost
Common sense is not that common anymore because it pairs well with CRITICAL THINKING.
Nowadays, most are completely brainwashed by all things mainstream and they don't even realize this. They have SLOWLY had their ability TO critically think eroded to the point that most ONLY REACT, instead of stepping out of their indoctrination to actually think critically. Technology has played a massive part in this because everyone is a so-called expert when they can "google it" on their personal GPS tracking device, that has internet, that is invisibly chained to their wrist all day.
But, and this is the kicker, those who CEASE to critically think will rely on those "google" results as 100% TRUTH....and we know, or we SHOULD know, that most of the actual truths have been suppressed on purpose, search results purposely skewed to fit a certain narrative and so on. So now we have a plague of people so far brainwashed...without knowing it, but, also, these same people are SO SURE of themselves as well.
And, to counter the statement in the question posed by Natalia...if you think "Very smart people who spend a lot of time by themselves might seem to lack common sense"...then your perception of WHOM is "very smart" is way off because those who SEEM "very smart" to the general populace, are just the ones who are best at memorizing their brainwashing and regurgitating it on command.
As for myself, I am highly intellectual and DO NOT CARE to be around most people in society BECAUSE I use common sense and possess keen critical thinking ability and discernment. This comes with years of experience, observation and the one thing most lack....PATIENCE.
May 06, 25

For me, the refusal to share your location, at any stage of the relationship, is not a "red flag". What about you? Is not sharing location a red flag?
Bex
For me, it's the other way around. Asking your partner to share their location is the red flag. It shows either mistrust, or jealousy. It's borderline stalking to have to know where your significant other is at all times.
Jun 01, 25

Social media can be a double-edged sword. Sometimes it's used to create lasting connections, inspire new ideas and share accomplishments. However, social media can erode relationships, create distrust, cause miscommunication issues and act as a breeding ground for envy. What would you say? Is social media killing romance?
Ek M
Our definition of romance, is quite removed from the younger generations definition, perhaps the question should be: is social media killing personal connections?
May 27, 25

The price of cigarettes in New Zealand has now hit $50 a packet., of which 80% is tax. Successive governments have pushed the tax up to try to reduce the incidence of smoking in the NZ population. It has spawned a black market, some of which is illegal importation, others have come onto the market as a result of corner shop burglaries. What is the experience of other countries? Are your smoking stats reducing? Why?
Sandra H 2204 NSW
It is mad that people are willing to pay that much for cigarettes. Paying through the nose for something that is just going to kill you (slowly and painfully) is just stupid. Sorry smokers but you must know that it is true!
Apr 04, 25

If I want to protest, complain or even compliment I put pen to paper and send it either by snail mail or email, but others glue themselves to roadways, make a racket at a function, block waterways or interrupt speeches etc. which inconveniences others. When I write they have my name and contact details, someone reads it and in 99% of cases I get a reply. This does have advantages because I am then on their list of contacts, so I get newsletters as well as information as to...
blunder boy
If the pen is mightier than the sword why do actions speak louder than words, personally, I take action if I feel wronged by never using the service or company again, I have walked out of jobs for wrongful accusations,i have stopped shopping at certain shops because of management changes, would I ever stoop to violence no, I've written letters before never had a reply, i once wrote a letter to the minister of housing here in sa because they were paying me to clean house that they were demolishing, that cost me my job ,
Mar 27, 25

I love jewelry don't take me wrong who doesn't, but jewelry is meant to be worn in the right way & a certain amount of it on you. I find the many people go overboard with it in all the wrong places. It makes it look ugly & also makes the person unattractive wearing it in the wrong places. Earrings are for ears, rings are for fingers etc. why do people go overboard & wear so much on their face or other places where it doesn't belong. Here you have as example an attractive...
Norman PSBHRJ
To each it's own. Stop judging others because they like jewelry. You might think it makes a person ugly, but did you ever consider they like and love the way they look. The problem here you call these people ugly and judging them. Theres enough hate in the world and thats because some people judge other and forbid that they might be diferrent.
Mar 13, 25

I recently went to Dr Sunil in Bangkok with my husband. I had 7 filling at $970 for them and very happy. My husband had all teeth removed with implants 4 on top and 6 on bottom implants, $32500. This included all dental work, X-rays, medication, false teeth, accommodation for 14 days, pick up from airport and drop off with daily pick-up and drop off to dentist. To return in 6 months for the teeth to be put in. People amazing with everyone with...
Peter H (ACT) www.valleyfm.com
I have found that here in ACT nothing is free BUT I had dental work done at 'pensioner' rates and it was NOT expensive...I was able to afford the work and due to being on a govt pension I was able to get top and bottom dentures for $350:00
Feb 04, 25

You may feel lonely because many of your friends are at work. You may be bored. The activities you try may not challenge or engage you. Many retirees feel they have lost their sense of purpose. What are your thoughts? Why is it so hard to retire?
Claude H
It was not hard to retire. I have been retired 34 years so I have had a lot of experience. I may not be rich but I enjoy the ability to do what I want to and when I want to
Feb 02, 25

Has anyone noticed that the weather outside is colder than usual for this time of year, especially here in California where I live? It feels like I m living in Wisconsin, where it s not sunny most of the time. Even when the sun comes out, it s not hot. Winters in Wisconsin often reach 50 below zero, and the weather can change dramatically it might rain, then shine, and then snow, which is quite strange. Also, I really dislike group homes and their regulations....
Nel
Hello Lisa thank you for the Californian weather perspective. In Melbourne the weather is similar, it's colder and hotter during this time of the year, than the past few years. Climate change and its effects are quite obvious. Regarding your plight of living with house mates is a bit daunting, but what can you do? When you cannot afford a home by yourself, some sacrifices have to be made. I pass a positive compliment to you. If you are the one who is appearing in the photo, you look quite young and smart, why not try a career advancement to buy your own place? Just a suggestion! This is what I did when I was young: work harder to climb the ladder to achieve career development. It was hard but, it solved a lot of life problems. Good Luck! \ud83d\ude00
Dec 03, 24

I don't know what happened to manners and being well-behaved in public. When I hear young people throwing around the f-word, I am annoyed and insulted. I was taught to respect people around me and not just talk like I was raised in a ghetto. Shouldn't people be more respectful of those around them in public?
BLM
How someone verbally express themselves doesn't imply that 'they' were raised in a ghetto (GHETTO is Jewish word, and you are DELIBERATELY misinterpreting the use of the word GHETTO). Furthermore, I have heard the f-word used most often by WASP (White Anglo Saxon Protestant) on my federal government job as a secretary for over fifth teen years before I retired! WHAT IS YOUR POINT....are you advocating for the elimination of FREE SPEECH...
Nov 28, 24

As I have got older, I have sometimes felt that I haven't been "successful" at anything throughout my life. I am not a lawyer, or a doctor, I don't have a University Degree, I am not rich, I have no specific "talents," have won no awards for anything, don't own property or flash cars. I am just an ordinary human being, who tries to live a "good" life (whatever that is!) as I move along this journey between birth and death. How do you define "success?" Do you measure...
Saara F
I guess we all think that way at some stage in life. We have not moved mountains so we think we have not achieved success however success is not based on what we have not done. Success is being happy. Success is confidence. Success is raising healthy kids. Success is much more than being top of the class. Success is getting through life in one piece and so much more.
Nov 18, 24

Debt can be a double-edged sword for many young adults starting their careers. With lower wages, fewer savings, and limited access to safety net supports, young people often struggle to achieve financial stability. What do you think are the main reasons why young people are struggling with debt?
Tippy
Because their money is paid into an account it is only a number. They never actually see the cash as in the old days when your pay was in an envelope and you could see it!!
Nov 08, 24

Life is very different now than it was in the past, when leaving your children an inheritance was common practice. I still see many adult children who seem to consider an inheritance an "entitlement" whether or not their parents can realistically afford to leave them one. People are living much longer these days, and many find themselves needing to move into residential care of some kind, in their latter years. Some choose a retirement village setting, others need a higher level of...
Dee Jay QLD Oz
Neither of our children communicate with us, so they won\u2019t be inheriting what they think they are \u201centitled\u201d to inherit.
Nov 02, 24

Christmas is coming... Soon enough. Only 2 months away and the final countdown will be on. There are certain Christmas items that are a must-have for the stocking every year, for some it may be a certain candy treat or a favorite chocolate bar, perhaps socks and underwear the possibilities are endless. My thing is a 3 pack red package lidor chocolates, they are delicious. I have already picked them up, 1 pack for each stocking. What are your favorite stocking stuffers that...
Jania S
It is amazing how money wasting the western people are. Christmas is not about stockings or wasting money. BUT to each his own.
Oct 29, 24

It is something that Brands REALLY want to know...you know brands, right? They used to make things and were responsible for them...now they outsource the manufacturing process to someone else ... make MASSES of money ... sell you T-Shirts with their name on them (in the 1970s these were given away) and try desperately to make themselves cool and trendy by spending millions of dollars on sponsorship and advertising. Vacuous...like the Emperor's...
BLM
It is called 'a fool and his money syndrome' only available in capitalistic countries at premium prices aka Pourquoi folie persiste-t-elle - Je ne sais pas pourquoi.........
Oct 24, 24

I just finished Lucinda Riley's series of books called "The Seven Sisters" and enjoyed it very much. I am looking for a new series of books to read. Furthermore, I am not interested in science fiction or books with too much violence. Do you have any suggestions?
Nan
I recommend The Clan of the Cave Bear. It is about early man and the struggle to survive. Written by Jean Auel. There is about 5 books in the series. Not to be missed.
Oct 13, 24

When my kids came home one day from School, they were both REALLY worried...the teacher had told them the icecaps were melting, and sea levels were already rising..." Are we going to be OK, Dad?"... I said that the people on the seafront would have to move...but we lived at the top of a massive hill...so we would be able to go fishing in the back garden, and I'd buy a boat to go shopping...the look of relief on their little faces...and them falling about...
Ghostly
The school system and newly trained teachers have a lot to answer for. Teach your own kids the truth and have discussions.
Sep 27, 24

My question is: Should seniors choose large dogs vs 20lb and under? I was walking my dog and I often see seniors walking their dog. What I am surprised to see are seniors walking huge dogs - like German shepherds. Great Danes, boxers, golden retrievers- and others. I often see elderly unable to manage their large dog - due to strength - mobility, etc. should seniors stick with small dogs that are more manageable?
writerrochelle
Meet my newly adopted dog, Panda! I'm going to pick him up after I log out. We think he's dachshund and terrier mix. He is a tiny little guy, but way overweight, so I'll be working on getting it down. Panda is 7, and will be a great companion for both Sadie, my toy poodle who is 12 1/2, and myself! ;-D
Oct 05, 24

Are there any games you'd like to see added to Rewardia? If so, which ones? Are there any games that frustrates you or you'd be all too glad to see removed? Tell us, below! Thank you!
bw
oh rewardia, why does the scramble puzzle not recognise words that are in the dictionary but give us stupid slang words that do not make sense half the time.
Jul 09, 21

People always talk about the BEST advice they've gotten - I want to hear the BAD ones so we can all laugh together!
matthew f 520557
cannabis is bad for you and you should not use it as it is an evil drug, you will go mad and loose your mind and destroy your health...now i get it from the doctor as medicine...the times they are a changing
Aug 11, 24

I am a ten-year survivor of stage three bowel cancer. It seems every second person has some type of cancer, or someone has just died from cancer. One day doctors will have answers for this the water, soil, plastics
Katya
Believe me, they have a cure. They just don't want us to have it. It is a multi billion dollar cash fall for pharmaceutical companies. They would lose it all, if it was cured
Sep 02, 24

Things happen, and you may never receive a valid explanation why. However, the sooner you quit dwelling on it, the sooner you can bounce back. What about you? What is the hardest truth you had to accept that made you stronger?
Anna K 32662
I had to except the fact that I had a Stroke. At age 39 I Stroked as my daughters and I were getting ready for the day. My daughers were only 12yrs and 7yrs old at the time. It did not happen right away, I was very angry, I spent 2 months in the Rehab Hospital. Every1 I knew except for 1 person avoided me like the plaque. After many years I finally gave in and excepted that I had Stroked, Im now a totally different person, but it took quite a few years for me to be where I am now. They do not know why I stroked, but I truly beleive that it saved my life. Without getting to much in to it, I was drinking all the time, getting into fights etc. I am now though a much happier person. I am now 62yrs old, and I do not think I would of made it this long if I was the same person I was right after I got out of rehab.
Aug 31, 24

My husband decided to tell me on my way back from a work trip that I was not welcome back into our home. I don't have any family, as I had just lost my mum over a year ago. We share a daughter, and he has restricted my visits with her. This breaks my heart as they were the only people I have in this world. He comes from a family with money, and he has said that they will fight me until I'm broke and leave me with nothing if I dare challenge him with custody of our...
Sheree T
Speak to a lawyer you have rights also and are entitled to see your daughter and also a share of assets.
Aug 29, 24

Vandalism is an act of violence, does the political situation warrant a violent response? Or is it just silly humans being silly humans and love the act of violence? What is your opinion on the use of vandalism as a form of a protest?
Brick
Make them clean up the mess and pay for all costs no slaps on the wrists and bail or 'public service duties' - then jail them for a year. They need to learn respect.
Jun 26, 24

We used to buy records (that we owned) and cassettes and videotapes we used to buy software that we owned too...the software got way too expensive...and people were making copies of tapes... videos and software so they just very gently removed the equipment AND technology. You used to have a DVD/CD burner/player in your computer, everyone did, where did that go? Cannot afford $2,500 for Photoshop or AutoCAD? Don't worry you can now rent...
Daffodil
I remember living in a wonderful world where everything was just perfect the way it was..NOW it's all gone down the shoot! I'm not saying change is not good but it'd just become ridiculous and sad..
Jun 25, 24

You know...the one where they ask you what is the most important issue for Australia....but there is no box for "climate change"?...or they ask you want you drink, buy or eat...but only give you a limited choice...and you have to pick one anyway?...these are the ones that never have a box at the end to explain what is wrong...because they already know...what do you think?
Uncle Peep (Robert F)
I tend to give them what they want. I've successfully completed surveys in languages that I don't even speak.
Apr 12, 23

Some people have a few big dreams, and others are actively working on checking life goals off a long list. What's on your bucket list? And what may have you recently completed?
JoJo
Currently travelling round Aus in a camper can. Was a bucket list item for years. Another is to live in Japan for at least 6 months. Maybe next year?
May 08, 24

Do you think being left-handed has more advantages than being right-handed? Think about Nadal being a left-handed world champion tennis player and how his dad and uncle forced him to play left-handed when he was a young boy. Do you think a child should be forced to be left-handed and then end up being ambidexterous?
Zebra
I am ambidextrous.
I was forced while in school to choose either one not both.
This was hard for me growing up, yet through the years, I grew up I would practice with both hands, while not in school.
So glad I never let these teachers stumble me into only using one hand.
\ud83d\ude01
Apr 27, 24

Has anyone experienced children, being so rude around you & their parents/carers can see what they are doing & they don't make the child to stop? In my opinion, what are as a parent/carer to allow this in the 1st place? If you're sitting in any public transport for example, the child kicks the back seat behind you or throw you their rubbish, just enough to the stage you had enough. You as a person turn your head to speak to the parent/carer & they don't care. This isn't right,...
Skiwi
That why our generation behave themselves (baby boomers)because we knew we would get a clip behind the ear. But in this PC world you can do this know so I blame the younger generation for this.
If they kick the back of my seat I would turn around and say if you keep this up I will brake your legs. If they are front with a reclining seat I would tip reclining seat saying I was getting up accidents happen Nd with rubbish I would throw my rubbish on them.
You may get it I am not PC and I will call a spade a spade and don't care who I may offend. Not one should have to put up with that kind behaviour.
Feb 29, 24

I am just wondering how people in this situation of when are children too young to be taking medication for ADHD, autism etc. my granddaughter is 7 and her mum wants her on medication. Plus now she's talking about putting her 4-year-old and 2-year-old as well. When is it too soon?
NZSCORPION
Personally I wouldn't give kids man made chemicals to sort out a natural chemical imbalance they already have thats been diagnosed. I think it would lead to problems later down the track being on drugs from an early age.
40 or 50 years ago you didn't here about adhd or autism until someone unleashed it on the world, now everything a kid does that we used to do as kids is labeled.
Maybe they should look at the food that is consumed by the kids as to the causes of their labeled diagnosis.
Mar 10, 24

Who has everything ready for Christmas? Got presents, shopping done. I'm all ready, and even got my children's gifts wrapped this time, haha. I have a feeling this Christmas is going to be a good one. Hope all of you have a good one too
beauty pa rin
A Joyful Christmas and a Blessed New Year to all Rewardia Members & Staff...Let usnot forget amidst the gaeity that Jesus is the Center of it all
Dec 21, 23

I was in a serious relationship 2 years ago (we literally paid off an engagement ring etc) and it was all going great, but then he couldn't put up with his mother demanding he marry a Punjabi Hindu girl anymore. We broke up. I'm not mad at him - it's unfortunately still a cultural thing in India. I found myself in a situationship with a Sri Lankan Muslim guy. My problem is that my mum is getting excited thinking I might end up with this guy simply because I'm almost...
Brick
Wouldn't you rather be 40 single with no unwanted obligations because you haven't met the right person? or 40 and single after having to get out of a relationship with the wrong person and responsibilities that need to be sorted out? When and if you are ready - until then take your time and enjoy your life.
Nov 04, 23

Whether we like it or not, change is coming and appears to be influencing all aspects of our life. Whether it be technology, ways of thinking or beliefs, education and even living situations. How are you adapting to change, and what are some things you have found helpful and ways to be more receptive to new things? Or are you happy to stay with what you know and what works?
Andrew C 287196
"Change" is too wide a category. Some changes are good, some changes are bad, and some are just ridiculously silly.
Oct 30, 23

The Kardashian Family is a very controversial topic. Most people just skim over the facts and assume that everything they see on social media is true and factual. However, they are just people, and everyone chooses to depict them as these horrible, spoilt, no-talent, plastic filled monsters. However, this is so far from the truth. Do not judge someone before you get to know them. Do you agree?
peteqbn
They may or may not be nice people, but let's face it, they're famous for being famous. None of them has achieved very much apart from looking good on camera & attracting a social media following. I don't wish them ill, but my disinterest in them is total.
Oct 24, 22

Some places around the world have Army on the streets. We have that here in Australia (Sydney). What is your opinion about that, is it OK to have it in Australia but not OK in North Korea and why?
Grandma
If all people obeyed the lockdown rules there wouldn't be need of extra law enforcement. So sad for NSW friends who are doing the right thing but are subject to more and more lockdown.
Aug 21, 21

Tipping in the United States is on the rise, and experts are calling it tipflation. In the fourth quarter of 2022, the number of tips provided at full-service restaurants grew by 17% from the fourth quarter of 2021. Meanwhile, the tip frequency at quick-service restaurants rose 16% during the same time period. The pressure to tip well in front of the tip receiver, before a service is completed, or in front of other customers makes a difference for many. After...
Christine M 323842
Tipping at Starbucks? You\u2019ve got to be kidding. You are standing in a line to get a coffee. You are not receiving any service. Why would you leave a tip.
My tip is for employees in the USA to stand up for their rights and fight for proper employee conditions and adequate remuneration.
Apr 08, 23

I have this issue with doing washing every single day for our now 11 and a half year old. The GP says it's a phase that he will overcome. My girlfriend wants to keep on using these night pant products called dry nights.... I told her that we would be better off taking him to a pediatrician or something alike... Being our first, my question is does make a near 12-year-old wear these products to bed do more harm than good? He also has camp coming up in late August......
Liane H
It's quite common in boys, My son was the same. Except we didn't have those in that sizing back then so it was bed liners and washing each day . There is a nasal spray that can help to slow things down, but basically in most cases it's simply hormonal,( the hormone responsible for concentrating the urine overnight is less present than it should be) and you will find once the 12yr mark kicks in or soon after ,. It will just stop. It's very frustrating I do remember ,but it's important not to let your child feel like it's an issue, They can't help it, It's not from trauma and it's not going to help restricting drinks before bed either. There are plenty of tips online . Don't bother with the bell and pad system either,, all it does is wake the child up when they wet with an alarm and interrupts their sleep often twice a night, more! .. not worth it . As I say it will just miraculously stop once his hormones kick in . Hope that helps some :)
Aug 08, 23

You can't tell the difference....it is saving the planet...it stops animal cruelty.....and this runs against... you can taste the difference...it is made of vegetables, so why does it cost twice the price of meat...if you are going to stop animal cruelty there are better ways...........surely being a vegetarian means eating no meat, so why do you need a meat substitute? Are you missing your dead animals? What do we think?
WonkyandProud
I see no point in humans becoming vegetarians. What do we do with the animals that we have on the planet? Cows have to be milked, and there's nothing better than beef in my opinion. People are not herbivores. Why do we think we are so civiilized that we are too good to eat meat? God put them here for us to use, but not to abuse! There are humane ways to slaughter animals. I think it's more important to focus on people slaughtering other people! What the hell is going on there? We need to figure that out ASAP! Get rid of the drugs, cults and mental illness and automatic weapons. The founders of this country did not mean for us to be armed like the armed forces. The US is the worst country for murder, why? Are we too spoiled that we are bored and are looking for love instead of drugs or material things? I think it's a combination of drugs and working and divorced parents. Homes are broken!
Jul 01, 22

A new advert I've just seen...the FIRST bottle to use 100% rHDPE plastic!!! (rHDPE is recycled High Density Polyethlene)...sounds great right?....what these creeps are ACTUALLY doing is making bottles that are 50% rHDPE...and half VIRGIN plastic...but the recycled component is rHDPE....with people like this "helping" it's going to be a long hard battle to recycle our plastic waste just cowboys making a quick buck out of lying...
Tim @miAimTIL
All current plastic produces can be made from Hemp that grows in 3-5 months and 100% degrades to nothing in 75 days
Jul 01, 23

When eulogized or spoken of by family and real friends that know you best, what could they say that would be important for others to know about you first and foremost that was unique about you or something important you strived for or to be in your earthly life?
merci nz
When I die please do not weep, for it's not me there, I do not sleep
I am the thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sun on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain,
when you awake in morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in morning light, I am the starshine, soft at night.
Please don't be sad and do not cry, for it's not me there, I will not die
May 12, 23

It was announced this morning that the NSW Premier is expecting his seventh child. I think good on him. The country will need lots of well educated, high earning tax payers in the years to come. If you can afford them, as well he can, I think it is a wonderful thing. I always found the more the merrier. Children just love having other children around all the time. With no nappy washing and all the modern conveniences it would be an absolutely delightful family to...
APB
While I am very grateful that Gladys has gone....and even more grateful to have left NSW for good...I'm not sure Elizabeth...my impression of "Whats his name" is that he is a slightly camp, right wing stick insect...with an ego so massive even Scott Morrison has been surprised...someone else pointed out that he holds out his "mass of children"... "like a human shield" to prove that he is straight...I don't know...but if that has any credence at all..I find that very sad...and he shouldn't be trying hide his true feelings....I personally find him just so very deeply creepy and strange...Yuk!....is that just me?...I wouldn't like to be one of his children or any part of his family...but I think its fine if he wants to adopt you....
Oct 28, 21

There are some clothing fashions around that I find really ugly, and I always find myself wondering who on earth would buy them. It's not only the style, but the colours are mostly dull and uninspiring as well. At the end of each season, I have a bit of a laugh because I often see these ugly clothes in the clearance bin. Are there any fashions, if any, that make you cringe?
Cat Claw
Men who wear suits, business shoes and NO socks. What's that about? Apart from having putrid feet at the end of the day.
Feb 11, 23

I recently spoke to a friend. She has decided to go into a nursing home as she dislikes living on her own. While her children see to her needs, she rarely sees her grandchildren. People go about their lives while working and going out etc. Could they spare half an hour a week or even a fortnight to visit their grandmother that is lonely? It is sad to see and hear how people act towards someone who once also had a full life.
Kerry Z
I liked the show on the ABC where they took the schoolchildren to visit the nursing homes. The people living there got so much out of it & the children also benefited from the intertactions.
Dec 27, 22

My mother once gave me a pack of ladies' panties for Christmas. Although they were wrapped beautifully and under the tree with all the gifts for other family members I was shocked - especially as they weren't even my size. What is the worst gift you have received?
Royale Q
For Christmas this year, my family all had covid and for thanksgiving, I had shingles. Thankfully we all recovered.
Jan 29, 22

Recently I found something in my corn chips from Coles. It was large, thick and dark brown. I kept thinking, please do not let it be that. I have to return it to Coles and get a refund. Four weeks ago, I found metal in my mouth after eating Asian noodles. I still could not believe that might have been in it. I have not reported the noodles. Have you ever had something like this happen to you?
Paul J
I once had a bottle of bourbon that was subject to a recall because of glass fragments...I carefully strained 3/4s of it then took the remainder and exchanged it for a full bottle...I was very happy...
Oct 27, 22

Tens of millions or even hundreds of millions of people were unemployed in the Great Depression. When the stock market crashed, failure of government policies, bank failures, the collapse of money supply, and the collapse of world trade due to the Smoot-Hawley Tariff in 1929 and the 1930s, many people in the world in the Great Depression are unemployed and/or losing their jobs. When the Great Depression ended in 1939 probably because of the world war,...
Hilly
HEAPS of jobs going age care crying out for help even supermarkets can't get staff there are heaps of jobs and the work force is tired of carrying the load for those that just don't want to work.
Aug 24, 22

My Mother said when she met my Grandmother for the first time, she noticed 2 of their plates were chipped. Instead of helping to wash them up she deliberately dropped them, smashing them to pieces. She said now you will have to get new ones! What do you think about eating/drinking from chipped or cracked kitchenware? Do you think it s offensive to serve up your guests on such decor?
BLM
It is NOT the quality (chipped or cracked) of the kitchenware that counts, it is the quality of the food being served to you in a personal (or family) setting THAT counts! I appreciate the time it took to serve a well-cooked meal - not the appearance of the kitchenware - as long as the kitchenware is clean and safe to eat from - Bon Appetit :-))!
May 22, 22

What can we do to reduce the changes and impacts that climate change had on our daily lives? In the pacific islands, low-lying islands are eventually covered with seawater and maybe in about 10 years time, lots of the islands will now be disappearing.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
What a load of codswallop! ...... no such thing ...... Mother Nature will control the climate, not some 'nervous Nellies' who do not have a clue!
Sep 05, 21

Hello everyone! I have had this discussion with many people and everyone seems to give me a different answer, so I'm bringing it here for you guys to answer. I was curious where everyone stands on expiration dates. Do you throw food away as soon as it passes the date on the package, or are you okay with eating expired foods if they still seem fine? Looking forward to hearing your thoughts. For me personally I don't have a problem eating Foods past expiration dates...
Squirrelsmo
Okay, to the folks keeping your food past the expired date, in most instances(except for canned goods with no dents, rust etc.), I don't advise keeping things past 2 weeks, sometimes a month past the best if used by date. There is such a thing as catching an E. Coli germ that can go to your bladder and cause you some very serious health problems.
I cleaned out my moms fridge before she had died and she had stuff in there from 8 years expired, and tells me that it's still good and I told her no, she got mad and we never saw each other again, she is dead now, but 2 months after I had cleaned out her fridge and had told her about the E. Coli bacteria in the bladder deal, and do you know she had that very issue. It had her in the hospital for about a month, my Uncle telling me that I needed to come deal with her, which I knew she had my brother around to help her and she didn't want my assistance...but after she had that happen to her, she stayed sick basically, and was dead in a years time. There is a reason for those dates, these companies know this, and you with common sense know there are reasons alsp, so, word to the wise, use your products up around the expiry date. I had rather have you here and healthy than sick from that stuff...and she wasn't the only one that this has happened to.
Aug 18, 26

We have had protests in some towns because Data Banks (data centers that driven by the AI and cloud computing boom) are being built in their area. What are your thoughts about these types of infrastructure? Would you protest against one being built in your neighbourhood?
BLM
Research shows data centers create significant environment and public health impacts - including high electricity use, heavy water consumption, air pollution from diesel generators, noise, and land use disruptions.
Aug 22, 26

Do you think people genuinely change, or do they just become better at hiding who they really are? Life, experiences and consequences can completely change a person but other times, maybe they simply learn how to hide certain sides of themselves better?
Teman
Yes! Yes! Yes! Emphatically Yes! No less a being than God Himself knows that people change. The caveat is that we must wish to change, and become more like Him. He not only helps us see that we need to change, but He is there every step of the way as we change. Everyone human has sinned, but if we confess our sins to Him, turn away from our sins, and turn to Him, He will accept us...immediately. We humans cannot tell if a persons change is genuine, but that's not our role or business anyway. Only God will be able to judge, and He will do so when He comes to earth again. I know from my own experience as a great sinner, that God never stopped pursuing me, and I finally accepted His invitation to make Him first in my life. I am now a changed person, saved by His grace, and if God can assist in helping me change, He can help anybody. So, make the decision you want to change, and He'll be right with you every step of the way---I promise, and so does He.
Aug 30, 26

I have a deck garden, everything grown in pots on our decks. So far, this year I have canned 3 quarts of beets, 16 1/2 quarts of green beans, 37 quarts of tomato juice and new beans just starting to come on now, as well as new tomatoes getting ripe every day so hoping to double the yields. There is no work involved all you do is plant and harvest and can. You do have to water and give a little fertalizer. While I am unable to get down to plant in a row on the...
Pearlz
I don't know where you live but you have more successes growing produce than I do. I had tomatoes on my back step but just before they were ripe birds pecked them. Birds and snails eat my strawberries, birds and possums eat the plums, possums also eat the lemons, birds eat the grapefruits and cockies eat the Macadamia's while something eats the figs. However, I do get a god crop of rhubarb and cape gooseberries when they pop up. We have tried netting but a Kookburra got caught in one and something managed to get underneath others. It gets depressing but we battle on but this year we have a problem with a lack of bees. No bees no anything.
Aug 26, 26

I've been divorced for many years; Lately, I've been contemplating dating again, but I feel at almost 65, it's too late to start that process. I have friends my age who have tried dating and said it's really tough out there. At what age do you think it is too late to date? Should I give it a try, and where do I go to meet someone?
Razz
If you want to meet someone it's never too late as long as your careful. Try community clubs in your area and just be happy to meet new friends. You never know\ud83d\ude00
Aug 21, 26

Have you experienced a gender pay gap in your working life where if you were born a man, you got more money for the same job than your female colleagues? Did it bother you, or did you accept it without much thought? Also, I would be interested in your opinion on what should be done about it, regardless of your gender.
Marcus
A total myth. Everywhere I ever worked, pay scales wete determined by the job requirements. Not gender.
Aug 25, 26

In my family, we don't know how to talk politics effectively to prevent arguments. They take deep offence and defence over the smallest things. What is your experience? How to talk politics without arguing?
Stephen Q
have you seen question time in politics the snard remarks, the disrespect, lies and interruptions that's the example we get for our kids to talk politics televised for the world
Aug 08, 26

How many of you have any robot items in your own home? This can be from window cleaner, lawn mower, floor cleaner, mop cleaner, pool cleaner etc. I will never have any of these items, because I don't believe in them. The way you clean is the best way. They can also be planted with a spying object that can record your activities. This new technology, AI, is into everything. What are your thoughts on using robot items?
Teri
I have a 'smart' TV but that's it. I don't like the feeling of being watched or listened to by it. I don't like my cell phone listening, but there's not anything I'm hiding so that's ok. Oh, my car. I'm sure my car can also listen to me trying to sing, but if they ARE listening they deserve to hear my crackling and airy voice attempt to hit the notes:)
Jul 26, 26

I always reheat our leftovers from last night diner and have it for breakfast and then still some leftovers. I always put in the fridge to eat later, but my other half finds it and throws them away. My issue is those are still good food all it needs is good reheating. What do you think?
Razz
I prefer to make a batch of something and then freeze it in portions. I couldn't eat the same thing 3 nights in a row.
Jul 25, 26

Normally this is a host country event...if you go there you can see every event...this year tickets are at least three times more expensive...(2 small ice creams cost one little British girl $18)...Spain is being investigated for match fixing...as is one referee I believe...the VAR is wrong...fouls are being ignored....it looks like one massive ripoff by FIFA...they need to be stopped...what do you think?
NotFriedLikeMost
Been a footy fan since 1990. $18 for TWO ice creams...convert that to POUNDS...and you know that is on par with prices in the UK. Second, Spain is not being investigated for match fixing, LMAO...they do NOT need to fix any matches. Next, the VAR is ACTUALLY very correct. The issue in football PRE-VAR was people wanting a replay for correct calls....so they got that and now they say its NOT right, lol. NO, it is 100% correct and people get butthurt. Fouls are NOT being ignored...you need to know the game to know what is a foul or not. If players make an attempt AT THE BALL...and get the ball FIRST, any contact after is NOT a foul. This is common knowledge. Anything BLATANT...like the US player Balogun getting a red yesterday...IS called because there was ZERO attempt at the ball and he stepped on the guys ankle which COULD have been dangerous. Red card, blatant foul. The refs have done quite well in every match. There has been NOTHING suspicious whatsoever, and I am always critical of refs. I WILL agree with the ripoff part...THIS IS ALL ON FIFA, not the venues themselves. FIFA themselves are corrupt as they come. Everyone knows that. People pay still cuz this won't happen again, most likely, in their lifetime. The OVERALL rhetoric from ALL 3 host countries has been overwhelmingly positive, no matter HOW the media tries to say otherwise. Also, this is more of a US world cup, with Mexico and Canada having a few games as ANYTHING quarterfinals and forwrd is ALL in the U.S. This has been one of the best world cups...play wise, reffing wise, and atmosphere wise...in my lifetime. Kudos to the U.S....they have done it proper. As a Canadian, the ONLY two places we CAN host games happen to be in the MOST leftist and expensive cities...Toronto and Vancouver...which sucks, but, that's all we can offer. So it is what it is...TSN here in Canada has done an excellent job at broadcasting the pre-games, post games, the Canadian matches, and showing all other matches. The fan fests in each city are always packed for every match. All in all...the only gripe is the ticket prices. But, that's always a gripe because inflation is insane. At least in Atlanta, people can get food for the cheapest because the Falcons owner says HE WILL NOT raise concession prices just because FIFA requests it...so, kudos to them.
Jul 03, 26

If someone was rude to you in public how would you react? Would you keep the peace, or would you report it, or would you insult them back? I ask this because my brother told me how someone was rude to him at a restaurant he went to last week, and he ignored him. But later regretted that he didn't report it. As he may insult other people just minding their own business. What do you guys think?
Lachelle B
Both sons' work in hospitality, both deal(t) with rude and/or aggressive customers daily. Customers vent, they calmly respond. Due to the high activity of violent behaviour from druggies and drunks there is now a sign at my youngest Liam's work. 'Our employee Liam is also security. He is a MMA fighter, are you? Please be respectful to our staff, thank you.' No incidents for three months and counting.
May 08, 26

Well now that budget has been handed down and basically the Government are trying to squeeze that last drop of blood out of the taxpayer what are the chances that Employers are going to looking more favourable at Working From Home (WFH). What are some of the benefits: (depending on type of work): Employer: - Reduction in office cost e.g. electricity, parking, stationary etc. Employee: - Less fuel, travel costs, child care, stress. To me, it just makes...
CILLY0
That is hardly fair for nurses, doctors, and other hospital staff or ambulance workers or police or those in the military forces and those who work in our prisons and those who feed us in restaurants or cafes. We are making it hard for small businesses to add to the new taxes imposed upon them. The only people who can WFH are clerical workers and government staff and the government staff take so long to do anything anyway that WFH will make the situation worse. It is a division of society that will make it harder to get staff in all those cases I cited before - and I believe we need them even more than the clerical workers.
May 25, 26

Is it my imagination or do people talk more than they actually listen? As a security guard I find people over talk and talk over every one. Instead of listening and helping to resolve issues very quickly with little drama. I listen and I propose simple solutions based on the principle of compromise. When you talk you repeat what you know, when you listen you learn what you don't know.
writerrochelle
"When you talk you repeat what you know, when you listen you learn what you don't know." I LOVE THIS, Brocky! I have to admit, I, too, tend to talk over my friends sometimes, mostly because if I don't reply to what they're saying right then, I may forget what I needed to say! No excuse. I need to listen more, and talk less, but some people don't give me a chance to reply! God gave us 2 ears to Listen, and 1 mouth to Speak! \ud83e\udd2d
Jun 09, 26

What's food from childhood that you loved then but would never eat now? Or alternatively which food did you loathe in childhood, but enjoy as an adult? My hated childhood foods were meatloaf, lamb's fry, pretty much any vegetable except potatoes & carrots. I still won't eat meatloaf or any offal, but I love my veggies as an adult. How about you?
Razz
As a child I hated cabbage as my Mum over cooked it and it was waterlogged, you could smell it from streets away. Now I love it, cooked quickly with butter and cracked pepper.
Jun 06, 26

My father taught me not to lie when I was 6. It wasn't the speech about how "it's always better to tell the truth" that did it. It was the look of disappointment on his face. I never wanted to see that look again, from anyone. I find being lied to very hard to take, but being lied about is even worse, because if you can't prove otherwise, human nature being what it is, people will always believe the lie. They won't believe you. There's no fun in that. No drama. So...
Cindy
I can't stand liars or thieves. There is just no good reason for dishonesty And if you are going to lie, you need a really good memory to keep up the bs. Liars always get caught out and then their reputation is shot.
My worst is keeping the magic of Santa, Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy alive.
sometimes I may embellish the truth a little if I'm playing with grandkids,
May 20, 26

Making Appliances "sense" stuff is expensive and mostly pointless....my fridge/freezer has a large sensor panel in the middle of the door...so I check the temperatures inside (Why?)...if anyone accidently touches it opening and closing the door...whatever part of the fridge was selected is immediately turned down to its lowest setting...and your food gets ruined...nice my last car had an engine warning light that was permanently on...and nobody could fix it...it wasn't the...
Pongo
I\u2019m glad I lived in a simple life time when every thing was done manually and writing a letter was an art
May 07, 26

I like to see what I buy, but packaging often hides the contents, either the quality or the quantity. I often get potatoes that are already sprouting I purchased 2 boxes of breakfast cereal today, and I was surprised at the amount of cereal compared to the size of the boxes which showed 435gr. I weighed the contents and one box contained 365gr of cereal and the other 411gr. Feeling cheated.
Lachelle B
My issues (in NZ) are: Why is pork from Poland? And beef from Australia? Am I paying for the air in chippie packets because there seems to be more of that than chippies? When I used to dunk my gingernuts (get your smutty minds out of the gutter) they were wholesome dunks in my cups of tea. Now it's a petite holding of the biscuit. And expect prices to rise...again. Trucks will pay more for fuel to supply goods thanks to a certain person..... and once again the consumer pays.
Mar 28, 26

When boredom strikes, what is your go-to activity? Does it cure your boredom? How do you power through boredom when you are working? What do you think is the best way to utilise our excess energy or creativity when we are bored?
Uncle Peep (Robert F)
I don't see answering surveys as a cure for boredom. It's just about the most boring thing I can think of.
Mar 27, 26

How many of you have a "Bad Habit" you would like to get rid of. I used to be a smoker & after many attempts, finally succeeded in stopping. How would you go about breaking a habit? I tried it all. Books, hypnosis, cold turkey! I think, for one, you need to be ready. Do you think people are born with "addictive habits?" Why do some of us smoke, drink etc & to others it is irrelevant? Have you tried & succeeded in breaking a bad habit?
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
In my household growing up, the worse swear words were either "bloody" or "bastard" and I never swore back then. Since this useless Government came into power, my swearing started and has escalated and is now quite blue...... not going to give that up!
Mar 17, 26

Even if your finances are in great shape, many retirees find themselves restless, unmotivated, or unsure how to fill their days with meaning and momentum. What is your experience? Is life boring after retirement?
writerrochelle
Absolutely Not! I get up when I want, go to bed when I want, eat what I want whenever I want, go where I want with whomever I want, and stay as long as I want. I do what I want with no time frame! What's boring about that? \ud83e\udd14 Yes, it is all about me, finally! \ud83d\ude02
Mar 16, 26

Lessons often learned too late include that time passes rapidly, making it crucial to prioritize health, relationships, and experiences over material pursuits. Key realizations involve overcoming the fear of failure, acknowledging that you cannot please everyone, and understanding that self-care is essential for long-term happiness. How is it with you? What did you learn too late in life?
Darla T
That you can accomplish more than you originally thought possible when you commit to it and try your best.
Mar 15, 26

I gave no permission for a Car Insurance renewal policy, but to my horror, the very popular Insurance company renewed it anyway using an expired credit card they had on file. They simply changed the expiry date on the credit card. Of course, I cancelled it right away. My question is, should I report this company to the Government watchdog?
Pearlz
We have found a few insurance companies renew policy's without instructions to do so. My concern is that they used an expired credit card and I have no idea how they managed that because not only would the expiry date have changed but another number of 3 digits would have changed also so your bank should have declined it. If it were me my first call would be to my bank to ask why they had approved the transaction, my second call would be to the Ombudsman because it isn't on. All the best.
Mar 07, 26

Ditching the phone on holiday allows for deeper immersion in surroundings, reduced anxiety, and better connection with travel companions. Key strategies include notifying others of your break, using physical cameras/maps, setting strict, limited hours for checking, or opting for a "flip phone summer" to avoid distractions. Would you agree to such an idea?
Woodster
As Karen said, on holidays my phone is for emergencies only - like the time we were in Darwin and we got the call saying our alarm had gone off at home in South Australia - security guard found a very large Huntsman spider sitting on one of the alarm sensors!
Feb 27, 26

People often do not think about their habits, rituals, and routines at all because those are so ingrained into our personalities. But when you discover those little things that you happen to do similarly, it can bring you together, because they make you feel alike in some way Do you do something that one of your family does, and you find it funny and then realise you do it too? Do you read every night before going to bed? Do you talk to your plants?
Hi Lo
I talk to myself. I have been on some jobs in construction where talking to myself was the only way I could carry on an intelligent conversation.
Feb 15, 26

We know about growing herbs and not wasting food... the single most important piece of equipment you need is a large chest freezer... (even two) THAT is your best friend... you will be surprised at just how much you can freeze... and just how much supermarkets can discount food... they will almost give chicken and pork away... my dog is eating VIP food that costs $8 a kilo, and it costs me $3... my mushrooms usually cost $5 or $6 a kilo rather than $13 you can...
Chrissie
Hi APB, we have a vacuum sealer & frozen food lasts so much longer when sealed this way. We have a great vege garden & we are fisherman, so have lots on hand in the freezer. It is also a good idea to have an infirmary of what is in the freezer. Our frozen food is also dated so we know to use the older food first.
Feb 09, 26

I wish kids would realize their parents were once their age, and there is no manual on doing the right or wrong thing, because when it comes down to it, we are all learning how to deal with and take care of things. So kids, stop blaming your parents for what is wrong with your life. We are just trying to help in the best way we can, even if it turns out to be right or wrong
blunder boy
my dad taught me be the reason someone smiles, and everything will look after itself, I believe that to be true I've had plenty of ups and downs[ who hasn't ] I live day by day week by week but I am extremely happy, I teach my grandkids the same create a smile where ever you can and be the best person you can be no matter the situation so far that is working out ok
Feb 05, 26

I have recently gotten into researching on if different types of aliens are currently watching or amongst us on Earth. I would love to know your opinions on if this is true and if so are there any key particular locations or countries of which they are targeting more to others?
Cher
In 1994, 62 children ages 6 to 12 outside their school yard in Ruwa, Zimbabwe. Some of the children saw one or more silver craft land on a nearby field and some of the children claim one or more creatures dressed in black approached and communicated telepathically an environment message to them. The children who saw them drew the same drawings of the creatures. This is a true story. Believe it or not.
Jan 17, 26

As people age, their world can often more focused on their own immediate needs, health and daily well-being. Being a parent assuming my daughter as an adult, she is capable and managing her life just fine. She does not have children or husband. Just taking care of me as much as possible. Am I selfish?
Mooi
It\u2019s strange this discussion coming up. My mum died last Sunday. I\u2019m not after sympathy, but I know people care. It was a blessing for her as she was very poorly and it was a huge relief to see her suffering end. About nine years ago I answered my mum back for the first time in my life. She would not recognise my first grandchild as family because she was fostered and in her words not mine \u201c she isn\u2019t blood\u201d. This hurt very much, this beautiful little girl was my first grandchild and I love all my grandchildren equally. I kept my distance for a while but got abusive phone calls from my brother and nearly had to take out a restraining order. My mum changed her will, and I had no say over her health as she got older and deteriorated. She was put in a nursing home, which was very comfortable but she kept asking me what had happened to all her belongings. I didn\u2019t know. I visited her and we spoke and I love her. My psychologist said I would never get an apology for the hurt she caused me but I forgave her. Sorry for the ramble but thank you for letting me write.
Jan 13, 26

How do you feel when you go shopping at grocery stores or dept stores, and you are asked to round up a few dollars to support a charity in that area. I find that if I am in the same store multiple times a week, it feels uncomfortable saying no over and over again, especially if I have already donated the first time they asked. I hate having to explain that I have already donated.
darsol
i always say no and that maybe your company can put some of their megaprofits in instead of making it look like they have donated when its the shoppers have
Dec 22, 25

There was a time in professional sports when the umpire/referee made a decision, it was accepted as final without question. Errors were made, but were acknowledged as part of the game. Today, almost every decision is referred to an authority away from the playing field. This not only interrupts the play of the game but calls into question the integrity of the field official.
JANN R
I think it is needed as some are hard to see and it makes the decision easyer to make and is a more fair way
Jan 02, 26

Coming from a very large family, it becomes a big question when Christmas rolls around as to who to invite for Christmas dinner. I usually decide on it based on who gets along with whom. Then I don't hear the end of it when I don't invite certain members. I decided not to put on the Christmas dinner for the past two years; it didn't feel like Christmas without family around on Christmas day. Do you experience any of this? What would you do?
P F
My family is large as well. What we do is meet at the local park, lake or nearby beach. Everyone that wants to come brings a main and a dessert to share at a communal table. The children are catered for by water activities and a playground. Adults mingle with whomever they want. At the end (most of it is paper plates\plastic cups) cleaning up takes seconds. The burden of catering is not left to a single person. And our rule is no presents. Having fun, bringing food, participating in activities...that's the present.
Nov 28, 25

Recently our cat was mauled by a savage dog even though it was on a leash outside our house. Its owners had no control. I have never witnessed such torture and was devastated, `The cat was so injured, it has to be out down. We had no success on insisting that the dog should be put down to prevent other incidents. Next time it might be a child. Surely, there should be more restrictions on such animals, \What do you think?
PeacefulKaz
Yes, I agree, dogs with those killer tendencies towards cats often go onto to attack people, have seen this many times when working with council dog pound. Often they can not be rehabilitated and have to be euthanised, sad for all concerned. More restrictions, visits are needed for dogs such as these and this savage dog that mauled your cat on a lead is a public safety issue. More than often it is the owner at the cause of the problem with encouraging aggression and non socialisation of dog at fault. There are alot of people involved in dog fighting now and these people couldn't be trusted to look after there dogs and need these animals taken off them
Oct 29, 25

For me, it is completely normal for someone to choose to stay single forever. People have different life goals, values, and preferences, and for some, being single may provide the freedom and independence they desire. What would you say? Is it normal to want to be single for the rest of your life?
P F
I am single and have been all my life. I enjoy it. It's given me time for self growth. Most of my friends got married within 2 years of leaving high school and took any low paying job they could to pay the bills. I became a teacher and travelled all over the country I live in. I play several instruments, write songs and have a band that we preform at local events. I own my own house, 2 investment properties, a government and a private super, shares and a good size chunk of cash in the bank. Being single DOESN'T mean being lonely. I have great friends and have had relationships along the way. The freedom I have to do anything I want whenever I like is amazing. I don't need to ask anyone's permission to do anything I feel like doing at the drop of a hat, and money is never a problem. When I look at my friends and how deeply they are in debt to the almighty credit card I thank God I'm single. And as far as never having children...well I'm a teacher that is surrounded by children and I have 6 nephews that think I'm the greatest uncle ever due to the gifts and adventures we have had in the past. And still having adventures today with their children. Life is good.
May 30, 25

I feel that if done safely there should be no issue but a mandatory licence and helmets would be needed along with an age requirement to make it safe
Vicki
Hi David thanks for this discussion topic. Hospital emergency departments and aquired brain injury wards are testament to people either not using them safely and responsibly, or being injured through no fault of their own.
Road users with licenses see first hand people flouting rules including those riding e scooters or e bikes. These machines can travel up to speeds in excess of 40km per hour on footpaths and roads. Not in favour of them.
Oct 16, 25

What are some of the things you do to save money in your household? Examples of what we do: - Use clothes line - Minimal usage of 1 time use items (paper towel, plastic wrap, tin foil, sandwich bags etc.) - Bake own snacks instead of store bought (cookies, muffins, cakes, pies etc) - Make own bread, tortilla shells, crackers etc - Home cooked meals instead of pre cooked/prepared or take out - Grow and preserve own food - Compost to create own soil - Shop...
Animeaddict
- pay cash for groceries; withdraw your budget so can't go over it by paying card. You also don't get surcharges doing this.
- 10c refund on drink cans etc, save it. I'm at $400 in just over a year doing this
- buy 2nd hand
Oct 06, 25

Sometimes people wonder whether it is always best to tell the truth, or if small white lies are acceptable in certain situations. For example, telling someone you like their cooking even if you don t, or saying you are busy when you just want time for yourself. The discussion is: Is it better to always tell the truth, or are white lies sometimes okay? Why do you think so?
LA
White lies are basically social bubble wrap\u2014sure, the truth is inside there somewhere, but nobody needs to get hurt in the process.
Oct 04, 25

Mom and Dad passed away. Eventually, the property had to be divided. We did everything honestly and above board. Everything was great until, my Sister in the middle decided to sell her piece of property for a quarter of a million dollars. Then she put part of the property that was mine, that I made to my Son, as my Dad wanted to be done in the sale with hers. Now, we have a problem. Has this happened to anyone else, she had even lied to the realty company and...
Robyroo
do not understand how someone can sell part of a property, unless it is a group of apartments, what country are you from.?
Oct 01, 25

If you were to die tomorrow, would you have enough funds to cover the cost of your funeral? At the moment I am putting away money weekly in a funeral fund and hopefully by the time of my death there should be enough to cover my funeral, so my son doesn't have that expense. I am interested to hear of other people's plans about what/or not they are doing to be prepared for that time
nobody
after paying funeral insurance for 58 years, my mum died in Tasmania whilst visiting my sister. No funds released for her funeral as she didn't die in NSW where she lived. READ THE FINE-PRINT PEOPLE!
Sep 25, 25

One of the things I miss most about school days is the sense of routine and shared experiences. Every morning started with familiar faces, hurried greetings, and the rush to beat the bell. Between classes, we shared jokes, snacks, and secrets that felt like the center of the world. Even the most ordinary days standing in line for lunch, group projects that turned into laughter sessions, or the quiet moments before an exam now feel golden in memory. School was more than just...
BLM
I attended segregated public schools (kinder garden to the 12th grade) in the USA. My segregated public schools' years are not pleasant. Hence, I 'rarely' reminiscent about my segregated public schools past because I do not have one positive memory! Also, during my public-school years I resided in segregated neighborhoods. Yet, I did learn one cold, hard, ugly fact (from segregation): THE UNITED STATES HAS NEVER BEEN A DEMOCRACY.
Sep 11, 25

The cost of living in Australia is among the highest in the world, mainly because of expensive housing, services, and everyday essentials. Housing is the biggest factor, with rents and property prices in cities like Sydney and Melbourne ranking among the most costly globally, often reaching $600 $750 or more per week. Utilities such as electricity, gas, internet, and phone bills also add significantly to household expenses. Groceries are expensive too, with a family s...
Grommie
Cripes. You could have written that about New Zealand. It beats me why New Zealanders leave here to go to Australia. Hey NZers on Rewardia, I hope you carefully read this discussion of the day....
Aug 22, 25

The biggest reason why getting back together with an ex doesn't work is if your relationship patterns don't change. If you and your ex are getting back together in the same relationship, with the same mindset, the same insecurities and the same issues; then reconciliation will probably not work. What is your experience? Why does getting back with an ex never work?
Lachelle B
Never get jealous of an ex with a new partner....I was brought up being told that you always give away your used toys to the needy.
Aug 21, 25

Choosing between being born in 1975 or 2025 depends on personal preferences for societal conditions, technological advancements, and life experiences. Would you rather be born in 1975 or 2025?
Azz
1975 because today 2025 is too confusing right is wrong, left is right, we don\u2019t see eye to eye about anything that\u2019s happening in the crazy world.
Sep 02, 25

I'm a good person who likes to help others. However, it seems to me that humans have changed in the past 5 years as I've been used, and then I'm kicked to the curb once they've gotten what they wanted from me. I've helped someone learn how to use technology as she was leaving her partner of 30 years and did not understand technology at all. I give up my time twice a week from hiking (which I thoroughly enjoyed) to assist her. I helped her with her move. She moved and never...
Lachelle B
But as a 'good' person you should never expect anything in return. Sure it might irk you to not receive thanks but you continue to help because it's what you do without expectations.
Jul 28, 25

We are elderly and ill, and need to pay people to work for us. It seems no one wants to work anymore. We pay cash money. I don't know what is so difficult about stacking wood up for someone for winter. Every time the guy says he will show up, he is a no show. I fired him once, then giving him one more chance, we will know tomorrow if he will show up this time.
Rob G 106430
The irony is that this current generation never stops to think about who is going to do the work for them. I mean, they don't want to work becasue they just deserve to be given everything, so why would anyone else want to?!? We're all now paying for a welfare system that has created generations of slubberdegullions.
Aug 14, 25

Sometimes the smallest things can brighten our whole day, a kind word, a funny moment, or even just a good cup of tea. Take a moment to think: What made you smile today? Share it below and let s spread a little joy together!
Woodster
Looking out of the window and seeing two Black Ducks fast asleep in our garden. We believe egg laying is going on in our hedge which happens twice every year when the same pair visits us. Last year we escorted about 18 ducklings and mother off the premises and down to the river.
Aug 06, 25

A fella I've been listening to lately- Keb' Mo' sings a song called It's Good to Be. It's good to be young, it's good to be old, it's good to be here, it's good to be there, it's good to be home, it's good to be you, it's good to be me. It's a nice tune... But I ask you where is your "good to be" place? Where are you your happiest? We all say after the holidays, it's good to be home. I can tell you I m at my pinnacle when I m talking with my grandkids, when they re...
Peter - SE Coast Aust
Resting in the garden on a sunny day, watching the industrious bees and butterflies as they hover above and meander through the foliage to discover the colourful blossoms that burst from within or lizards scurrying across the pavers and lazing on rocks or a glitter of spinebills flitting from branch to branch in search of sweet nectar; that is my favourite place.
Jul 21, 25

To us, McDonalds is a treat, but we were taken aback recently to see how prices have increased & the size of the buns, for all meals have shrunk considerably! Anyone else notice this? Is it happening in other fast food outlets?
Honey
Don't know why you would even consider eating their food, it is so unhealthy, full of sugar and hardly a green thing anywhere. There are other better options if you choose to eat fast food which I don't. Just the smell coming from their eateries is enough to make me heave.
Jun 28, 25

I am the wife, daughter-in-law, niece and mother of a trucker and I can say it isn t the same as it once was. Maybe it is just me, but it used to be an art form. Took a special breed to be a trucker. Drinking coffee, smoking cigarettes and jamming gears. Now a days with all the automatics out there, seems like everyone thinks they can be a trucker. It is a privilege to hold that title, not a right. More people need to prove they deserve the title. They deserve the respect....
Caravan
I used to drive a western star constellation with a 18 speed road ranger and have 3 trailers on it toke alot of skill and construction to keep it on the road but i am now got a bigger battle as i am fighty cancer
Jun 08, 25

Whether you believe in climate change or not, most folk think that there is pollution. Common ground. Let's start out with basics: don't flush your coffee grounds put them in your garden, or somebody else's. Recycle plastic bags at the very least once, like your life depended on it. This is the really easy stuff. If we all try, even a little bit harder, we will make a massive difference ... Hey, I like living on this planet ...
Denise C (Qld)
I get a little furious the way some family members use the incorrect bins provided. I'm sure it's just laziness or couldn't careless attitude. Also a recycling/materials site would come in handy for rubbish your not sure about.
Jun 02, 25

I see and ask couple this? Wife pay one-week groceries other week husband. More and more people are having own bank account, is it normal in a relationship? Husband and wife have different bank account. Each pay a bill each water, gas/etc.
Pongo
Yes I had a joint account with my wife and when she went off with my best friend she left me $7 in the account
Took all the furniture and left me with btw o young boys and two mortgages but I got through ok
May 21, 25
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