Discussions of the day

Would you recognize a narcissist, if you either live beside them, work with them or actually live with them? I have experienced all the above, however, it took a while to realize what I was dealing with as I'm an easy going person who likes to give people the benefit of a doubt. How would you deal with a narcissist at work or a neighbor? I've added the definition: Narcissism refers to a personality trait characterized by an excessive focus on oneself, a need for...
Grommie
The lives that narcissists ruin.. Now we have many country leaders who fall into that category. Their ability to wreck millions of lives is tragic. Do I need to name them? Let's say Russia, USA, North Korea, Israel.
While the definition notes that there are more male narcissists than females, believe me, the female ones certainly exist. Often they are more difficult to spot.
Jun 11, 25

Experts suggest that nightmares reflect patterns of human behaviour and are linked to our personal experiences. They provide insight into our minds and emotions. Although interpreting bad dreams isn't an exact science, understanding common themes can shed light on why we experience these frightening scenarios. What would you say? What are nightmares trying to tell you?
Teri 1282723
My nightmares have been telling me that I was EXTREMELY traumatized by my ex-husband and with medication for PTSD I can usually just have bad dreams now where he's just yelling and threatening and not actually doing. I still have a nightmare now and then but not nearly as often. After 29 years it's frustrating that he still affects my life this way.
Jun 21, 25

Does anyone go thrift shopping, and what are your favourite stores to visit if you do? I have noticed a resurgence in popularity recently, and maybe it s the cost of living or just interest in older repurposed items, but curious on what others think.
Glenystas
I manage an op shop/thrift store, and have noticed we are getting more customers. Mainly because so many of the chain stores have closed in our area (Rivers, Millers etc.) Our shop is manned by volunteers so are prices are lower than some of the shops that pay coordinators and managers. We also go with standardised pricing across the shop with a sperate rack for higher cost items. Our proceeds after expenses are given back to the community via donations to a variety of local groups such as the local food hub, carers groups, youth groups etc. It also a great opportunity to stop items going to land fill, we sell bags of rags to mechanics etc to dispose of clothing which is badly stained or torn.
Jun 07, 25

People are very interesting and unique, and so are some of the things we do, so.....what about you? Have you got any strange or quirky habits? For example, my wife tells me I drive the most weird and indirect way of anyone she knows. LOL
Gypsy_Pirate_1
I find myself saying things like, "stay, don't move," to inanimate objects when I'm cleaning around them, lol, because I'm afraid they'll fall if I accidentally bump into them. Weird?! Yes, lmao
Jun 06, 25

I am in my early 40s with 2 children 11 and 12 years old, a couple of years ago I became ill and haven't been able to work since. I get a little bit of money every month for disability however it does not even come close to enough for our basic needs and believe me, we keep a very tight budget. My husband works, but it is still not enough each month for bills, gas, groceries and my extremely expensive medication. I want to take up a craft to sell for some extra money, but am not...
Smiley
Before you became ill, what did you do for work? Maybe you could use those skills to help you make some money? I haven't been able to hold down a PT or FT job since 2019 due to various health issues and I am a similar age to you (but have 4 kids). I would ask your family Dr or chemist where you get your medication for a Medicines Review, they will go over them with you, and if you let them know you're finding it hard to pay for your medication, they may be able to recommend a cheaper option. Your kids are still young, they will be fine with basics- buy no-name clothes (KMart, Big W, Best & Less if in Oz) and shop at op shops. You'll be fine without the brands and labels too- that will help to save a lot of money. Buy generic/store brand foods at the supermarkets and grow the more expensive fruit and veg if possible. When grocery shopping, don't pay more than $5/kg for fruit/veg and $15/kg or less for meats- these items are usually in season and affordable cuts that can be used in a variety of ways. As others have mentioned, join up to other survey sites, if you're in a metro area do focus groups- they often pay $40-$100/hr, but your often limited to doing 2-4 of these a year. Be honest as all market research places share a data base as well as a black list and they do know who is trying to do these on a regular basis to get more money or don't contribute honestly. Contact your utility providers and see if they can review your account/s, is there a different plan that would work better for your family. Cancel all TV subscriptions, only watch regular TV (ABC, 7, 9, 10 & SBS all have 3-6 channels offering different types of shows). Only buy new technology when what you currently have breaks or no longer works, you really do not need to update to a newer model just because it's new. Kids really do not need phones, the longer you can hold off getting them phones, the better (My kids get a basic phone for their 16th birthday, but i would have preferred to hold off until they turned 18). As for what else you can do to make extra money- sell those items around the house that you haven't used in a year or more. Sell on FB Marketplace, ebay, garage sales, gumtree, etc. Just make sure you're aware of your potential buyers as scammers are everywhere, meet in a well lit, CCTV monitored public place (in front of Police stations can daunt those dodgy buyers/scammers), especially for goods of a higher value.
May 29, 25

If you could invent a new English word, what would it be, and what would it mean?
Neo
I already have "craptcha" and I should submit it for approval. You all know what it means but if you can't figure it out:
" when an antibot puzzle (captcha) is difficult to see, hear or solve making it impossible to log into a site or an activity thereby defeating its purpose of proving you are human as the human doing it cannot solve it"
Apr 30, 25

I'm looking to start a family in the next few years, so I'll be balancing work and home life. What about you? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
lippy loo
I am 76 in a few months so hopefully healthy and still enjoying life.
I have read a lot of posts that seem to be doom and gloom. There are no guarantees in life but surely you can enjoy the time you have whether short or long instead of being so defeated.
We all have ups and downs, losses and gains. I just lost my 15 year old dog to cancer 2 weeks ago and she was the love of my life and I am still grieving. She was a fighter and it was only the final 2 days that I decided to call time. I have lost both parents and 2 of my sisters all to cancer but they never laid down or felt defeated. They kept going till the end. Enjoy the time you have whether it be long or short. Look forward not backwards. We all have regrets, hopes that were dashed, pain, sickness and loss. Try to have a laugh at least once a day.
May 23, 25

Air fryers have surged in popularity in recent years, with their uses expanding well beyond chips from cooking meats to baking desserts. Do you think the air fryer could ever replace the traditional oven?
LindaB
The biggest waste of money I have ever spent! I was told by friends that I needed to get one so I bent to the peer pressure and paid good money for a good brand. I have used it once! I can do more in the oven using the same amount of fats and oils. It took longer using the air fryer and there's only the two of us to cook for. How families make meals in them is beyond me! I do cook from scratch rather than use processed products so maybe that's the difference. Does anyone want a Brabantia air fryer?..... going cheap!
May 10, 25

Breaking news! They have found a plant hundreds and hundreds of light years away that MIGHT support life...it is so far away that we can only see it as it was millions of years ago. At that point it was massive, and the gravity there would have crushed us...and at that point it was revolving around a Red Dwarf sun which is the final stages of a sun's life...by now that sun would have exploded outwards destroying all planets in its orbit before becoming a black...
BLM
I don't know and I don't care 'if' there is a possibility life exist on other planets in a vast universe. We (humans) have enough ongoing environmental issues on this planet (over-population, lack of fresh water, climate-change, etc.) - that life might cease to exist on this PLANET - other words spending money on space exploration is a COMPLETE WASTE OF TAXPAYERS' MONEY. Furthermore, if E.T. decides to phone home - MAKE SURE - it is a COLLECT CALL. FYI: I think planet is spelt planet instead of plant (but English is not my first language - LOL)!
May 01, 25

First of all, there are the obvious things, such as your phone and wallet (and passport if necessary), chargers, a toiletry bag, pyjamas and warm weather and cool weather / waterproof clothing. What about you? What's the one thing you cannot leave home without?
NotFriedLikeMost
That many things? lol. I can't leave home without my apartment building key...cuz then I cannot get back into my building to be able to get into my apartment.
Apr 25, 25

We all have childhood. There were always some items that we used, played or collected during that time. Some of them are still with us, which could be a toy, certificate from school/club, trophy or even just a towel you found comfort. What are the items you still keep from childhood?
BLM
I survive a notorious, street gang CONTROLLED neighborhood during my childhood days. Other words some of NEVER had a CHILDHOOD. My childhood memories consist of gun(s), ski mask(s), and Playtex glove(s).
Mar 18, 25

In today's world life on the roads have changed so much, it used to be too much drinking over the wheel, not any more. Drugs have taken over so much that it is so alarming. People not knowing to take them & drive & not realizing what it does to their brain in the meantime. When the damage is done, it is too late that an accident & a life could have been prevented. I wish that now how our lives have changed so much due to other reckless people's behavior, that every driving...
Sheree T Princess
Perhaps if you are caught or cause an accident and found to be under the influence of alcohol or drugs then your licence should be removed permanently.
Mar 09, 25

The Commonwealth Bank of Australia, want to charge its customers, $3 to withdraw their own money from an ATM. They already charge $4 a month to people who don t have $2000 a month deposited into their account, robbing the poor, or low income people. They already charge CEO is on approximately $7.3 million a year, bank profits are $9.48 Billion a year. Do you think this is a move to remove cash as currency, as other banks will surely follow...
writerrochelle
I'm Blessed because my bank doesn't charge for ATM withdrawals, or their checking or savings accounts ($50 saving minimum), so I never have any fees to pay! They even give nice gifts on our birthdays if we come into the bank. I've received an umbrella (with their name on it, of course), coffee mugs, and others. I love my bank, and will never change! ;-D
Dec 05, 24

In Australia, they used to advertise for Secret Agents in the Papers...how wild is that?... I applied twice but didn't even get an interview I also applied twice to go out and work on the ice stations at the South Pole ...you do a six month "tour"....but no joy there either...how about you? I would have had a go at the oil rigs too when I was younger!....but they didn't advertise....
Liane H
Ok brace yourself .. l was actually at one time delivering leaflets and trying to sell herbalife products as a side hustle . Young and gullible myself and two girlfriends even took the damn pills ,,we all broke out in a rash .and got told by the team manager that was our bodies detoxing ..
I did manage to lose a few kgs ( probably all the walking I did doing letterbox drops ! )
I even lost money as we had to pay for our initial kits .. absolute rort. Needless to say none of us made a single sale and we all went back to our unhealthy ways and loving life soon after . \ud83e\udd23
Jan 22, 25

I'm a female, but as a child I always loved teddy bears more than dolls. What about you, did you have a preference? and do you know why u preferred them over the others? Curious to know.... (I now have bears all over the house lol as an older adult) Oldest ones I have are 2 from my childhood, they would be about 60 years old!! I gave them to my kids at one stage, as they were growing up, but took them back from them, as they started...
Perry 1310449
I do not remember having either. I grew up with playing with sticks, then cars/trucks, then Zorro mask and cap guns.
Jan 10, 25

It'll be interesting and fun to see what your answers are. For me, it is the mobile phone. At home or out and about, look around you. I rest my case ...
writerrochelle
Everything that does our thinking for us, including calculators, and that's quite a long list. When we quit using our God given brains, and let machines do our thinking and creating for us, we're dehumanizing ourselves. You may agree to disagree, but please be kind. I was born in 1947, before technology. I love living simply, and using my own brain! ;-D
Dec 06, 24

As Christmas nears, it is a time to reflect on your life over the past year. Good & bad decisions made & your hopes and dreams for 2025. I enjoy reading my new year horoscope, do you? What are your dreams for 2025? Good health, wealth & happiness would be ideal.
BLM
What is my dream (no need to be greedy) - for 2025 - to be ABOVE ground (let the 'good times' continue to roll) - ROFL!
Dec 24, 24

During the Great Depression, the American government commissioned large-scale artworks to support both artists and construction workers. These artworks enhanced the value of public buildings and beautified cities. Do you think this is still a worthwhile use of taxpayer funds?
BLM
NO! It was a bad idea during the GREAT DEPRESSION, and it is a worst idea during these ongoing tough economic times - because the money should be spent on feeding kids!!
Nov 24, 24

The report reveal that Gen Z (aged 15-24) are unhappy. Young people these days are the most discontent, with many experiencing 'midlife crises'. What is your experience? What is the most unhappiest generation?
writerrochelle
This one, for sure! They don't know what 'play' is anymore, just iPhone games! They are probably the least happy and healthy generation we've ever had in history! They went through COVID-19, and isolation, they are bullied and body shamed on Social Media! My God, please save them from themselves! \ud83d\ude2d
Nov 21, 24

We mostly look back at the past as somewhere better ... "Ah if I could only go back and live in those times again"... but your mind plays tricks. When I was six, every day was warm and sunny, we had two days of snow a year, but it never rained at all....if you remember the 1970s...do you remember going into a pub or onto a bus and the cigarette smoke being so thick it stung your eyes...and you couldn't see much? I bet you don't....and we all change too...you would...
Marietta M
I prefer to think of a time where all the good stuff from the past combines with all the good stuff from the present, and there's reincarnation so I'll get a chance to live there. As corny as it sounds, I'd love for a time where all the nonsense stops and everyone has a chance to really be happy.
Nov 22, 24

I can vividly remember being about 5 or 6 years old and my dad calling and giving me a present. It wasn't my birthday or Christmas, so I was totally surprised. Mum did all the household admin in our house, including organising presents, so it was doubly surprising that dad was the one to give the surprise. It was my very first Barbie doll. I loved that doll with a passion. It did not compare with the glamorous ones that are available today, but It was the prettiest,...
BLM
My family doesn't believe in giving physical gifts. Have ever I still have a lot of very fond memories of my step-grandmother (I do not have any fond memories of my birth mom, biological father, stepfather, stepmom, stepsiblings, siblings, DNA relatives or non-DNA relatives except one) - when I think of my step-grandmother - she STILL brings a smile to my face and an ache in my heart - EVEN in the year 2024 - she was the only person in-my-so-called-family - HAHA - who ever care about me when I was a kid! My step-grandmother explained to me more than once - lol - YOU DO NOT GET TO PICK YOUR FAMILY, THEREFORE BE VERY PICKY WHEN IT COMES TO PICKING YOUR FRIENDS!
Oct 30, 24

With Halloween just around the corner, I started thinking about ghosts. Do you believe in ghosts or paranormal activity? There are millions of people that testify to seeing things with their own two eyes that cannot be refuted. Do you have any personal experiences you'd like to share? With so many believers, how could ghosts and ghostly experiences not be real? Ghost hunting and paranormal investigating is a huge business these days.
Liberti_Jones
I do not believe in "ghosts" but I do know there are evil demonic spirits that impersonate loved ones. We need to be very careful about such things. Scriptures says to not engage them and command them to depart in The name of Jesus Christ.
Oct 31, 24

I have always disliked my name, Sierra, and I would love to change it. But my family would be upset, so I never pursued the legal name change. How about you? Would you like to change your name, and if so, what name would you prefer to use?
blunder boy
my trans son/ daughter has gone from Brian to Brynn it did upset me quietly as he was named after my father but it is his life, as a parent I have honored that but I do find it hard to address his /her name and tend to use terms of endearment,it has been 10 years since his change, I still miss my son although I love what he/she has done with her/his life since the change, it has been a really tough thing to deal with its like going to a funeral but no one died
Oct 20, 24

All throughout our lives, we are always getting advice given to us by others, whether we ask for it or not. Though some advice given to us is not very good, there are a few pieces that someone passes along to you that are actually really good, but we still decide to not follow it and end up regretting not following the advice later down the line ...
LindaB
When I first joined the Navy, my mother told me to save a deposit and buy a house in Devonport on the north shore of Auckland and get flatmates in to help pay the mortgage. At 19, the last thing I wanted was a $200,000 mortgage!!! Those $200,000 houses are now worth in excess of $3mil.
Oct 23, 24

Kids are way too young to understand the pressure and expectations that come with being judged on their looks. You think toddlers should be strutting around in sequins and fake smiles? You re teaching them that their worth is tied to appearance self-esteem issues. Not ignoring the toxic environment of the absurdity, can a toddler understand the concept of beauty and competition? They can t even tie their shoes yet! You re setting them up for failure by putting them in a situation...
lippy loo
Beauty pageants have been around for many years especially in the USA and mothers are really competitive to the detriment of their children. I have to agree with Christina, competition with kids, their birthday parties, etc. is all to do with the parent/s whereas children generally just want to have fun with their friends. We used to call it keeping up with the Jonses, now it is way out of control.
Putting little children in full makeup, hair, expensive outfits is just sickening.
Aug 16, 24

Have you ever been told to act or dress your age? How would you respond if someone made a comment about the way you act or even the way you dress? I recently bought a t-shirt that I thought really sums up my feeling: Don't know how to act my age, I have never been this old before ...
Timtam
I wear whatever I am comfortable wearing and care nothing for anybody else's opinion of what I wear or don't wear. I have no idea what 'acting your age' is supposed to look like & quite frankly wouldn't give a rats. I'd probably tell them to go take a long walk off a short plank, but in much more colourful language.
May 26, 24

When my daughter turned 1 year old, July 20, 1969, men landed on the moon. I have been against the space program from the beginning, and I'd love to know how others feel. My thinking is, if the Billions of dollars spent on the space program over the past 55 years would have been spent on this earth, not one person would be without anything! We would all have everything we need including a place to live, plenty to eat, clothes on our backs and medical care. Also,...
Julie K 348980
At first glance it seems like a lot of money has been spent on the space program. However, when you look at it in total, many amazing scientific discoveries have been made.
Camera phones. Scratch resistant lenses. CAT scans. LEDs. Athletic shoes. Water purification systems. Dust busters. Home insulation. Jaws of Life. Wireless headsets. Memory foam. Baby formula. Artificial limbs. Computer mouse. Portable computers.
May 20, 24

Employees of both sexes bring different qualities to the work place...there are clearly places where female staff are better equipped to cope...and the same with males. I think an important difference between a large male workforce and a large female workforce is that all the males work together without any major friction, while largely female workforces (like nursing) have lots of problems hopefully when we have a better mix these problems will be better...what do you...
writerrochelle
Amen to that! I've never worked a job where the women didn't have some kind of problems. Jealousy, envy, prejudice, gossip, who knows. I just know I worked better with men than with women. ;-D
May 17, 24

The real, number one killer of any marriage or relationship is often a lack of communication or communication breakdown between husband and wife or partners. What's your experience? What is the number one killer of marriages?
Gypsy
I would say, selfishness. Only being concerned about what they want and what makes them happy. Couldn't care less about what the other partner wants or needs, doesn't care about the children. Some how I found myself married to such a person, the marriage officially lasted 12 years.
Apr 26, 24

A simple pleasure is anything that brings you a sense of joy, no matter how ordinary. It can be absolutely anything the beauty of taking the long walk home to enjoy the sights, or brewing your favourite coffee. What's wonderful about life's simple pleasures is that they are everywhere around us. What would be yours?
Gigi
Watching a child be amazed at something they are experiencing or seeing for the first time. That look of wonder and giddiness is so fulfilling
Mar 13, 24

What is your funniest Instant Karma story. Mine is a flash new sports car came flying past me on a rural road and cut me off. I said a few words but kept going. A couple of kilometers down the road, there he was on the side of the road trying to clean cow poo off his windscreen. There was a cattle truck on the road ahead, and one of the cows had lifted their tail and got him in the middle of the windscreen.
Tipps
Last week at 8pm, driving home from Wellington airport, it was raining and windy, just came out of the Terrace tunnel, saw a car on the road shoulder with a man bending over the engine trying to get it going {middle couple with grandson}.His wife and a child were in the car, I pulled out infront of them, I could not start their car. so I tow them all the way to Plimerton. They were so happy, the man say, he will have his son look at it in the morning.They thank me so many times I left, I drove through the red light , I didi not see a cop car, he pulled me over. Just as he was about to write me a ticket his private phone rung. He went back to the patrol car. He came back and ask me where i just came from. I explained.what i did , I mention a certain address. and he say thank you for helping them. so please don't drive through a red light again. I would have faced a huge fine
Mar 11, 24

In the 21st century, do we really need fireworks to be purchased and used individually anymore? Isn't it time we woke up to the fact that these toys are very expensive, very fleeting, very dangerous and are best handled by experts who know very well how to put on a magnificent fireworks display in a safe and controlled environment?
Tina1
No, they are fun and good entertainment. If you are responsible with them its fine. Its part of being in a free country.
Nov 08, 23

I've been planning to put my son in kindergarten at 3 years of age. He's 1 now, and it's been so hard lately with him. He's always unsettled, and I try everything to spend time with me and the cousins. Yet He's always unsettled and whiny. Does anyone have experience with day care, and can say if it's worth it or not?
Morenita
I say no to daycare if you don\u2019t have to. I watch my grandsons while mommy goes to work. I definitely did not want anyone else raising my grand babies.
Feb 17, 24

I am 47 years old and have been dyeing my hair for years, as I didn t think I was old enough to age gracefully. Now I am wondering if I should let the grey show on top or not my hair is long and the grey is not all through I don t want to look like an old lady, but I don t feel like a silver fox
Pilgrim 70
I always thought a Silver Fox referred to a good-looking older man. I have never heard it used about a woman before. We live and learn.
Jan 18, 24

Why is it so hard to find a decent fun-loving honest man, to grow old with? I'm not that hot girl, but I know I'm not bad looking. What's y'all think?
Glen O 298805
I will sum up this problem I see repeated again and again in just one statement.
Modern woman seeks traditional man.
Mar 03, 23

In our current Western societies we are multicultural, all inclusive and embrace all races and religions, no matter what your religion, you are allowed to practice it somewhere, all together, with those who believe the same things. When we hit Christmas, we have a problem - everyone seems to be expected to celebrate it and a lot of people have celebrations of their own at this time. It was a holiday before we had Christ ... or mass ... how about "Happy...
lys
For Christ sake enough of the political correctness already..if you don't like Australia find another country to put up with your bullshit
Dec 01, 20

One of my top favorite hobbies is going out and playing 18 holes of golf :) once a week. Now I usually play alone as my mates laugh and say it's such an old man's game. I'm 24 years old and enjoy a good game of golf. Is it really looked as "an old man's game"?
Dang Ling-bits.
Men start off playing football, they move to cricket or tennis and finally to golf. This shows that as we get older our balls get smaller.
Nov 11, 23

I think it's real sad the government is trying to get rid of cash payments. What about children who get pocket money for little chores etc. I remember getting coins from my parents, to go grab a treat from the dairy. Controlling human beings with technology these days.
Sheree T Princess
One would think the government would have a lot more important things to concentrate on. Everything seems to be out of control such as the cost of living in general it is absolutely ridiculous what you pay in groceries now not to mention everything else.
If I have cash in my purse and a store did not want to except it, I would never shop there again.
Aug 17, 23

Hi, has anyone noticed that once you re past the age of sixty, that you become invisible? Whether it s other members of the general public, or shop assistants, or even survey writers - they just don t see if you re elderly. How do you make yourself noticed?
PatCat
That's OK. By the time you are in your 80s not only are you not noticed, you become invisible. They send you little notes of how good their retirement villages are, I'm still here still gardening, still cooking and hey I can still vote, still laugh with friends and silly me, I'm still here in Rewardia. So there.
Oct 29, 23

Maybe it's me, or do you enjoy being on your own as you get older? I don't have enough hours, in each day. So much to see and learn, and I'm 66.
Maria B 89860
A bit the same only a bit older, would like to say and wiser but th at is open to debate. One can be alone and at the same time never lonely.
Oct 11, 23

We are all eventually going to live in a cashless society. I really don't like this idea at look, because so many little things we do will be scrapped out, as cash will not be around. Jobs will be lost & more banks will close their doors. We need banks, banks keep our society to communicate. It is hard on many people to do everything via online & ATM machines. Neither service is 100% safe. Take the elderly people, they were not brought up on neither technology. They...
Martin D
The Maquarie bank in Australia is going cashless by 2024. This means that you won't be able to draw cash from your account through the ATM.
This is all about control of the people. The shops & business' are charged by the banks when you use your card to pay for goods & services. These charges are being passed onto the consumer by business' because of the crippling costs.
I'll leave you with these thoughts..... The Commonwealth Bank in Australia made something like $10 billion profit for the first half of this year. What interest rate do you get on your savings in the bank ?
BTW negative interest rates will be introduced very soon, like they have in some European countries. That means the banks will be charging you to keep your money there, money that you can't withdraw in cash.
The banks operate illegally, the governments know they do, the banks put money aside to pay the fines & everyone goes on their merry way !
Sep 19, 23

You love cats. You have decided when your last two are gone, never to get another one because of all the damage they do to your home. Someone dumps off two strays, and they are hungry, you feed them, and they begin to lay near your home, you know soon you will be able to catch them. What do you do with them??? You know your first mistake was feeding them, however, you could not stand to watch them starve because one reminded you of one you gave away, and it left...
Christine M 323842
They need to be desexed whether you decide to keep them or not, or else you will have many, many homeless kitties to worry about.
Sep 06, 23

Being chronically late isn t just rude or inconvenient it s now considered a medical condition. A person recently went viral on TikTok for saying in a tearful video that she was reprimanded for asking for accommodation for "time blindness," a condition she said makes it harder to show up for work on time. People with time blindness struggle to keep track of and estimate time. So, is being late a real medical condition?
Andrew C 287196
*Everything* is a "medical condition" and has to be labelled these days, because nobody can take responsibility for their own decisions and actions. \ud83d\ude44
Jul 30, 23

I've read on a few news sites that the younger generation of teens, twenty something's , are blaming the older generation of Baby-boomers for the higher property prices that we have in some countries, like Australia, New Zealand Do you think they are right or wrong?
Kylene B 113680
Property has ALWAYS been beyond the reach of working Australians, They were lucky to have a car per household, not one per person, Now we have credit cards, tech and everyone wants everything now,
Dec 17, 21

I have a colleague who 'aks' (instead of asks) for an 'expresso' when we go get coffee. I cringe. I let it go twice, then when I realized she wasn't doing it to be silly, I did mention to her so she wasn't embarrassed in front of other people. She laughed it off and was fine, and thankful for the heads up. I also went to school with a girl who cant say 'woolworths' and uni with a girl who couldn't say 'rigor mortis'. Cheer me up with some more funny stories
Amaya B
for some reason, no one seems to be able to say pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis except me... A lot of people I know with the same last name say things like 'fravourite' instead of favourite. I have no idea why, it just seems to be what comes out. At least three kids I know from the same family also say 'free' instead of three and other things like that. There was even an old lady I heard of that said 'coinkedink' (pronounced co-in-key-dink) instead of coincidence.
Jan 04, 22

Some believe aliens are getting ready to invade, others think they've been here among us for millions of years. What is your belief?
BLM
Do I believe in Alien Life Form (aka ALF)? DEFINITELY! FYI: ALF can also be spelt as: D O N A L D J O H N T R U M P.
Jul 26, 23

From what I have seen and heard, they do a good job for animals that are neglected. One local resident informed me that they would not help a dog, possibly being prepared for food. They had informed her there is nothing they can do. Can this really happen in Australia?
Jellypony
Well I really hope not but a long time ago my parents would eat Chinese at a shop some where in Brisbane any way the shop was caught enticing the local street cats and they served them up as chicken. Yuk so my parents do believe they have eaten cat, not by choice of course. The shop was closed down obviously. A woman I knew was really upset by some people that lived near her as they were trying to catch ducks in the local park. Setting traps for them and yes using them as food. I am pleased we don't have wet markets here in Australia but I am sure if you knew where to look there could be a black market and you could get what ever you wanted at a cost. We use and abuse animals for a lot of things and food is only a part of the whole situation unfortunately. I do eat meat don't get me wrong but I do feel for the animals especially if we treat them so badly. Big problem we have now is eggs, a dozen is now going to cost us $15 because we aren't allowing caged hens. All hens have to be free ranged or barn laying. I was a little put off as I will refuse to pay that much for eggs. An alternative to using an egg/eggs in a cake is 1. Apple Sauce 2. Banana and 3. 1 teaspoon of baking soda and 1 tablespoon of vinegar (per egg) 4. plain or vanilla yoghurt. Maybe when they realise some people will refuse paying that price the price will drop but only time will tell. We do have alternative solutions for this problem and we are not reliant to them for our needs. We will adapt and find other ways. I like eggs but I will slowly learn to live without them.
Jul 17, 23

Yes I have but struggling at the same time, it's just going tuff. Expensive too much.
Norman M
Absolutely. Someone came knocking on the door, said he was collecting for the orphanage, so I gave him my 2 kids!
Feb 16, 22

Having siblings or no siblings has a major impact on how we turn out. There are pro's and con's for both scenarios, for example scarce resources but large social network in big families or loneliness for single child families but better resources. How do you think your family situation has shaped you?
allin7/4
on my own until 17, no siblings, joined the army, 8 year infantry,, raised 2 boys, life is good most of the time,,, when you have to learn life on your own, the hard way, you appreciate life more, you try to help when help is needed, as i got help when i needed it, so i pass it on, i have no use for narcissistic people, people that start unfounded conspiracy theories, i reckon that includes those that like their own posts as nobody else will, lol,, folks that constantly complain,, they should just be happy to have a roof over their head, a lot of folks in this world do not,, people dividing the USA with their far right conspiracy crap, but i reckon they have that right to be buttholes, as someone's son/brother/father/mother, gave their all so y'all can
Jun 17, 23

I just found out...that some major department stores in Australia are using Facial Recognition Technology. Apparently not many people are aware of this happening. Privacy groups are concerned that the general public are not being informed. What is your view on this?
Sandra H 2204 NSW
Not a bother to me. Surely it could only be a worry to people who are not doing the right thing or who want to be hiding from the authorities or whatever.
Jul 04, 22

I just saw a new article about the US Surgeon General saying loneliness was a major problem in society and leads to higher health risks like heart disease and strokes, as well as mental health issues. A lot of people's social interactions these days are online, and therefore usually of lower quality of friendship as in person socialising. So what are good ways for people, both teens and adults, to meet and make friends and social groups in person? Humans are, by nature,...
APB
I think to a certain degree..Americans are more into worrying about and agonising over their relationships...mental health...and my pet hate mindfullness (whatever that means)..and some like talking about themselves a lot, because they maybe find themselves interesting....I have never ever been lonely and very very rarely been anything less than enthusiastic about life...I have a very limited group of friends that I trust..maybe 8...and two who would take a bullet for me or give me anything I asked for if it would help without question...two great sons...a wider social group that I see sometimes but do not worry about too much...and a network here on Rewardia that I value ..I'm happy with that...and don't need anything else...and I'd probably be fine with far less...I do not need or want any medication...my head is in a good place...and always has been...
I'm just happy and grateful to be here....I don't understand why so many people ... living in a fortunate country with no serious problems..can have so many problems...and make themselves sick...
you don't have to look very far to see people living in horrific conditions...they would love to have your lifestyle..or even clean water...
that Surgeon General...is he concerned with the number of dead people...hundreds of children.... due to gun ownership in his country?..or maybe that is an area that he is not allowed to talk about.....
I would not want his job....
leaving a loaded gun lying around is bad for a lot of people's health...
May 16, 23

It is your assistant, it buzzes vibrates and bleeps telling you how much you need it. It now may have your credit card, loyalty cards and any number of other things like your driver's licence ... vaccination records ... references from past landlords and employers ... every phone number that you may need ever ... and it wants more and more because that way it is irreplaceable ... BUT ... what happens when you lose your best buddy? For anyone reliant, this can be a major life...
Daniel A 2
In no way. I don't use Smart phones. Though I did loose my little 15 dollar mobile I bought at big W, that is annoying to loose all the contacts, though I still keep a lot of Em written on a peice of paper not all of them but, and I know it a hassell putting it all on again. Found it again.
Don't use smart phones they are part of a sceem to take over the world for the eleite. waste of money.
May 05, 23

The 'in' thing at school was a mince pie & packet of chips/crisps trend: Peel back pie top & scoop out the mince with a chip (eating mince like dip) Then put the chips in pie, top back on - chip pie - done & yum Seems weird now - did you have any 'weird' food combos?
oh boy
I once made a baked potato with ham and cheese on top for dinner, My son even liked it, I love real baked potatoes, I also have learned to drink hot decaf tea. YUM
May 02, 23

Has anyone found any groceries that have NOT increased in price? I have found two products - those frozen blocks of spinach and the 100 packs of home brand serviettes. Both still cost about $1 each.
Sylvia Y
Trouble is Woolworths and Coles have the monopoly and keep giving excuses for prices increasing whilst their profits are soaring . We need more players, when you look at how many grocery chains the UK has in a much smaller country it is ridiculous
Apr 29, 23

Would you rather have a job that you enjoy going to and get paid less? Or would you rather have a higher paying position and just deal with the problems and issues that make you dread getting up every day to go?
JANN R
I worked in aged care and the pay was not high but be able to help the elderly when they needed it the most was more important to me there were some carers that only wanted to collect they pay check and didnt give the older people the care they needed that made it hard for me working with them
Apr 11, 23

Have you ever seen in person or run into an actual celebrity? How about being an extra or having a role (big or small) in a movie or production of some sort? That's what your claim to fame would be. When I was in acting in high school, our class got invited to be "the audience" in a huge gym room being used as a set to film an Olympic scene with the actor, Mitch Gaylord. Funny how I can't remember the name of the movie now, but it was a fun experience. We each got a...
Norman PSBHRJ
No. I don't get star struck. Actors, singers, etc. are people just like everybody else. Yes I have favorite actors and singers but I don't go all crazy to meet them. I just enjoy what they do. They are not better than anybody else.
Mar 16, 23

How come Europe have reverted back to coal power after spending 500 billion dollars on renewable energy? Is it the continued costs, or have they finally realised that renewable energy is unsustainable?
Toni A 861237
We have solar and our power bill in summer is $7 instead of the $90 we were paying before having it installed
Jul 12, 22

America's trade war with China seriously damaged major American companies whose products were made in China ....In Australia, when we speak up for people's rights and freedoms in China or question the actions of the Chinese mainland government...we are met with offensive language and tarrifs on some exported goods...a sensible way for everyone to show their dissatisfaction with China's current behavior would be for all of us to just not buy anything that is made...
Royboy Qld
We could all start by not supporting the 100% Chinese owned energy suppliers in Alinta and Energy Australia. It was the Whitlam Labor government who sold out Australian workers in 1975 with the Lima declaration
Jan 14, 21

There have a couple examples on Rewardia recently about people talking about hanging themselves, or taking a drug overdose, and when I have shown concern or distress the response is that they are just joking ... or teasing ... I lost one of my best mates to a drug overdose. I wasn't there, I didn't know, and I could not help him. I know two people that I used to chat to and have a laugh with ... who both threw a rope over a pipe in the ceiling and hanged themselves at work ...
ShawneeBaby
I hope that the people that you mentioned are just plain frightened by the prospect of suicide. I'm sure they don't understand just how hopeless life can seem for some. Many people that I knew thought I was doing just fine. I had almost everything that I wanted, like so many people, but I came a couple of doctors visits from taking my own life. Circumstances, being what they were at the time, left me feeling so lost and hopeless that I couldn't see any way out.
A good doctor and some very good drugs no have me living again with some hope for the future. No, these feelings are no joke and need to be diagnosed and treated as soon as possible. You have no idea just how many lives would be adversely affected if you go all the way.
Jan 17, 23

I'm the mother of a bride to be, so I'm a little put out that I spend money, and yet I'm invited to the wedding? Would have thought that could be taken for granted. Am I being silly?
Micheal M (WPASSR-US)
Yes. Give me their number. I'll call n have them uninvited you. You're old enough and smart enough to get over it.
Jan 08, 23

Are we, though? I've read the labels and Terms and Conditions on smartphones, electronics, among other things and I wonder sometimes. It sure looks like we are being experimented with or the manufacturers just don't care about us (No surprise there). Radiation warnings, Cancer warnings and Reproductive Harm warnings are popping up. I was going to buy a pair of shoes! Shoes! And, they had a warning label of possible Reproductive Harm. Seriously? That's so sick.
APB
Many years ago now...a prominent scientist in the area of radiation was employed by the mobile phone industry to finally and totally debunk the harmful effects of using a mobile phone...his final report was never used and he concluded that use of a mobile may result in some damage to the users brain...and in fact damage the user's DNA....that report is still available on line...and this was just for earlier mobiles ...not the smart phones that we cannot live without
Aug 09, 21

It's that time of the year again when we say goodbye to another year and welcome in a new one. So how has 2022 been, and how will you remember it? I was glad to see the end of restrictions and mask wearing and to be able to catch the shows that had been put off the year before. My daughter moved from the country to the city, so I see her more now. Her husband had to give up his license, but is able to catch public transport while he tries to get a job. My...
Lilangel61
Am praying for a better year in 2023 as the last 3 years have taken its toll on everyone in one form or another
Dec 29, 22

Have you ever gotten that one present that rocked your world? A phone, a game system, even just a book? Write in the comments below, what your current champion best gift is! Can t wait to see what some of you got!
Lynn
Best present, although I didn't know it then, was when our entire family were together. We have lost quite a few of these lovely people and I wish I could have appreciated it at the time and indeed have them back again. Merry Christmas everyone.
Dec 24, 22

The Autopilot feature sounds like a dream come true. Drivers keeping their hands off the wheel and letting the car steer, accelerate, and brake for them is certainly futuristic, though in a report by the New York Times, there have been several red flags. Apparently, crashes have occurred when both the driver and the system itself failed to brake. While there's no doubt Tesla is working to improve the Autopilot feature, it's something of a gamble to give this flawed...
RODNEY S 668931
Why would you buy a car where the battery takes 75 years to dispose of....Only an idiot would support this type of BS being pushed by an agenda fueled government...Oh wait that is ALL governments today!
Dec 15, 22

Someone in Victoria said that she missed the last lockdown...the peace and quiet..the pollution...my wife was going to take me all over the world..to see all the things she missed in her youth...thats not happening now...I've had a chance to look around me...address what matters..take care of myself...pre-covid I was run down and aging...now I'm exercising..weights...stretching bending...I will extend my life by a great deal...I missed out on drinking a pint in...
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I have been working from home and loving it. Will continue to do this mostly when things get back to 'normal'. I actually like my own company and apart from buying food and essentials have not been too concerned about having to stay home. Definitely don't miss the 2 + hours of time on the train that was pre covid.
Oct 08, 21

Do you think this should be bought back? I think that if a school-leaver has not found a job within 6 - 12 months, then joining the defence forces would not be a bad thing. It would get these people off the dole, could train them in specific areas and as well as this, you can never have enough trained forces people to protect our country. I know many people would say that this takes people's freedom away, but in the long run I can see the benefits.
Warrior
Isn't it interesting that some narrow minded people think that solving the unemployed youth issue is as easy as throwing these kids into the armed forces.
Endemic societal issues cannot simply be solved by handing a kid a gun. The root cause needs to be addressed. That cause starts in the home the school the social group and the online barrage of garbage children face every day from the likes of online forums such as face book.
Do not use the armed forces who do a fantastic job of protecting our democratic freedoms as the channel to fix issues that need to be addressed by all.
The ADF does a great job encouraging people from all walks of life to serve and protect.
And to Bob F...below you say use diplomacy? Tell that to Putin and his mates in Iran North Korea and China.
We enjoys freedoms that so many others do not.
Our military forces need to be the best there is. They are there to protect and serve. God bless these people.
Oct 23, 22

For me, it's getting into my cosy bed at night and hitting the laptop - YouTube and more so of late Rewardia!! E-book reading has taken a bit of a downturn
Pearlz
The best part of my day is after I have fed my cats, made the bed, had breakfast, done the dishes, swept the floor, dusted, done a couple of loads of washing and hung it out, ironed, either walked or used the treadmill, had lunch and cleaned up, pulled a few weeds, gone shopping if I need anything, fed the cats, prepared dinner, checked my emails, done the dishes, checked the bills, had supper then lights out. Then I may be able to go to bed without any cats, in which case I am able to sleep in any position I want. Tomorrow is another day.
Oct 01, 22

Has modern society destroyed relationships between men and women irreparably? The growth of radical men's groups encouraging men to give women a wide berth are gaining popularity in this time of political correctness while in Japan, men and women are choosing the single life in growing numbers. What do you think is the solution?
Pearlz
It's all about selfishness. It's all about me, me, me and not us. I have watched as people care far more about themselves now and their feelings. How else do you explain so many relationship breakdowns? People have no respect for one another, or integrity, honesty, manners or loyalty. I met my husband when I was 16 and at 18 needed my parents permission to marry him. When we tell people we have been married for almost 55 years instead of congratulating us people make jokes such as you don't get that long for murder. Shouldn't a marriage that has lasted that long be valued or even admired instead of denigration?
Sep 14, 21

Work? Stress? Fun? Why do you think are women over 40 drinking more? And what could be the health implications?
Lachelle B
According to who? It's ok for 20-30 year olds getting blotto every weekend and contribute to populating the world unintentionally, but once a 40+ gets on it it's an issue? I'm stoked when I see a 40+ get absolutely annihilated at Melbourne Cup in their heels, fascinators and a lovely set of designer gear with a camera on them:) I'm 48 and the only person I know who goes overboard is my sister. So where's the rest of them?
Sep 14, 22

I have a very unpopular hobby that is not appreciated. I like to take pictures, but I'm not even a photographer. I just like to take pictures. My original interest is to like to draw, but then I like to take pictures. It can also express fine arts. But when I tell others that I can take pictures, but others will laugh, who can't take pictures? Everyone takes pictures, right? But I'll go and study the composition of the photo, etc. I feel relaxed when I take pictures, I...
DocR
I build stone walls as a hobby - all over my property - some are structural, retaining walls and such, some are purely decorative, fantasies… my whole family thinks I’m crazy.
Sep 02, 22

I may be 70 years old, but I'm still very much alive and kicking (and still a working man), and I still have an interest in, and an opinion on, most subjects. I've been doing surveys on Rewardia (and a number of other sites) for a long while now, but I am getting extremely sick and tired of being asked at the start for gender and age, then immediately being screened out. OK I accept there are some topics that might be specifically for younger people, but it appears that at...
Firefly
Derek T,
I agree with Trevor M, I am 67,still working in mining,still going strong,still in reasonable shape, lot of surveys will ask age, then screen you out,that is fine,some are looking for younger views,etc, but I still have an opinion on most thinks and consider myself reasonably intelligent,( I only said reasonably)
Feb 02, 22

I think i must be daft.. Nothing annoys me more than some stranger on the phone looking for business but using my christian name instead of my title.. Mrs shows much more respect and it would be easier to get me to listen.. Growing up i was always taught to show respect for my elders, even as a grown woman i called aunts and uncles just by that so is it just me?
Michelle S 553303
I STILL feel, while there are people in our community who have fought for our respective countries and who would have given their lives for it, that the RESPECT dang well better be there!. I ALWAYS refer to someone over the age of 40, I'm 57, with "Sir or Mam". I use the age of 40 as a baseline as all of my children are under this age. I truly believe that it is their, our elders, DUE to be treated with a title showing that we respect their age as an identifier of a history and life experience that, we hope, we shall not endure! However, if they state, as the gentleman I spoke with yesterday did in giving his name and permission for me to use it, THEN and ONLY then, will we be on a more familiar first name basis. Years ago when I was doing a stint in the Geriatrics Department of a hospitaI I had called an older lady "Dear" and was quickly admonished for it. I was told that I was NEVER to call someone that due to it being disrespectful and to refer to them as Mr or Mrs Smith or whatever their name on the wall behind them indicated and if there wasn't a visible name then Sir or Mam would do. I UNDERSTAND that times change but some things need preserving, at least for a few more decades! I don't hold out hope though for the general public what with "pregnant mother" being relegated to the annals of history and "birthing parent" being used instead. Or, even worse as I see it, "breast feeding mother" now known as "chest feeding parent". The word "mother" is forbidden in places and I don't just mean in the movie "A Brave New World"! The use of language identifies us as individuals and changing this, as is intentionally occurring now through the Big Tech monopolies, strip's us of that identifier. I want to be known as a mother and grandmother. I BREASTFED my SONS and my DAUGHTERS. Taking this away without my consent is violating my unique identity. It's fine to agree and disagree and such disagreements ARE important, but DON'T cut me out of the dialogue or worse cut the dialogue at all! Thanks for reading this!
Jan 21, 22

Do you believe in Karma? Do you think your bad and good deeds come back to you?
lippy loo
No. Look at the evil in the world perpetrated by horrible humans and nothing happens to them but the good people seem to cop it left right and centre. The old saying only the good die young seems to be too true. I have never wished bad on anyone and I do not believe in Karma but sometimes you have to wonder why nothing seems to touch them in so many cases.
Aug 18, 21

Why does appearance (looks) trumps smarts? Why does physique (male) or a body (female) trumps character? Why does political conspiracy theories trumps facts? Why is racism still alive in the 21st Century? Why is sexism still alive in the 21st Century? What do they all in common? What is your opinion?
JoeB
Life is neither fair nor unfair, it just is. Bad and good things happen, just focus on the good and life will be good. Be kind to others, animals, people and plants and kindness will come to you ....lol be happy
Mar 03, 21

Would you be happy to try going a year without social media? Apparently, it can be as bad for you as smoking.
writerrochelle
\ud83e\udd23 I do not smoke, and I do not use social media, \ud83d\ude02 so all is good. \ud83d\ude05
Mar 04, 26

If you and your partner are travelling on a long-distance flight (10+ hours) and one of you is offered an upgrade to business class, would you take it? Who would take it, or would you both stay in economy together? This happened to us last year, and we chose to stay together.
Pete in Oz
I was flying from AL to Sydney when I was in an incident. The guy next to me started jiggling. At first I though he was listening to music, then realised he was sick. I called the stewardess and told her. The next thing was the classic announcement "is there a doctor on the plane". They found one, and he and the stewardess started trying to help the guy. The stewardess turned to me and said "the doctor needs more space, and the only spare seat is in first class, would you mind moving?" So in the spirit of helping out I made the sacrifice and moved to first class for the rest of the trip.
Feb 10, 26

I understand the perspective that face recognition technologies could potentially help reduce crime rates through improved surveillance and identification of suspects. The use of these technologies is an ongoing topic of discussion, with proponents highlighting potential public safety benefits. Are you comfortable with face recognition technologies to lower crime?
Woofers
Simply, YES! We need to do whatever is necessary. Criminals are rampant, out of control, and repeatedly given a slap on the wrist only.
WAKE UP AUSTRALIANS, we need to jail these people and stop living in fear in our own homes, communities.
Jan 22, 26

A friend recently took her 2 cats to the Vets for a routine health check as they were 10 years old, she felt it time to have them assessed. A 20-minute consultation for both cats together, a lab test & submission & 1 lot of medication. $645! This sounds outrageous. No wonder, people cannot afford to take their animals to the vet. Has anyone else found this with pricing?
Norman M
A woman brought a very limp duck into a veterinary surgeon. As she laid her pet on the table, the vet pulled out his stethoscope and listened to the bird's chest.
After a moment or two, the vet shook his head and sadly said, "I'm sorry, your duck, Cuddles, has passed away."
The distressed woman wailed, "Are you sure?"
"Yes, I am sure. Your duck is dead," replied the vet..
"How can you be so sure?" she protested. "I mean you haven't done any testing on him or anything. He might just be in a coma or something."
The vet rolled his eyes, turned around and left the room. He returned a few minutes later with a black Labrador Retriever. As the duck's owner looked on in amazement, the dog stood on his hind legs, put his front paws on the examination table and sniffed the duck from top to bottom. He then looked up at the vet with sad eyes and shook his head.
The vet patted the dog on the head and took it out of the room. A few minutes later he returned with a cat. The cat jumped on the table and also delicately sniffed the bird from head to foot. The cat sat back on its haunches, shook its head, meowed softly and strolled out of the room. The vet looked at the woman and said, "I'm sorry, but as I said, this is most definitely, 100% certifiably, a dead duck."
The vet turned to his computer terminal, hit a few keys and produced a bill, which he handed to the woman..
The duck's owner, still in shock, took the bill. "$150!" she cried, "$150 just to tell me my duck is dead!"
The vet shrugged, "I'm sorry. If you had just taken my word for it, the bill would have been $20, but with the Lab Report and the Cat Scan, it's now $150."
Dec 16, 25

First we had toothbrushes... cheap and effective... then we got expensive little power tools that did the same thing... but NOW we have AI! So you can buy a smart toothbrush! And these can cost up to $300... what does it do? Well, it still cleans your teeth... it has multiple speeds/vibrations, etc... and also warns you when you re not cleaning your teeth properly... and sends a report on your performance to an app on your phone... (this is all true)... Next up,...
Catalina
Next and finally, the real smart invention would be tooth that grows back, fills itself, repairs itself\u2026wouldn\u2019t it?
Jun 15, 25

What is your best advice to give your children? For me, my parents NEVER taught me about retirement and how to plan for it. Because of that, I never planned and am now suffering financially What is the best advice to give Is it: - get good grades - teach them about financing - teach them about planning for their retirement
Michelle S 553303
Treat others as you would like to be treated, don't be prideful, live within your means and love the family you have being grateful for them. As for me I would add for them to love the Saviour Jesus Christ and put Him first in everything!
Jan 07, 26

Sometimes I feel lost about my career, and it scares me. Everyone around seems so sure about their path, while I m still figuring things out. But maybe growth isn t about having all the answers, it s about learning, trying, and trusting the process.
JANN R
I am not sure I have done a lot of different jobs its up to you what you want to do and how much you like your work
Jan 04, 26

Aside from the News where at least one major medical breakthrough happens every week before covid America was going to ban vapes...because of the lubricants used were a major health hazard and at least 13 kids dying from vape use... The UK was going to pass new laws to make burning scented candles in homes illegal because of the chances of getting lung cancer...and we have solved the methane problem with cows...just feed them seaweed...we had new wave generators...
Teri 1282723
Waiting on a miracle? I see them around me every day! I will just mention one because I have the first beautiful flower on a new Christmas Cactus plant. I notice the intricate and perfect details in flowers. No matter where they're from in the world flowers are perfectly made with identically sized petals and intricately dotted or .... I can't even describe them. They're just SO miraculously detailed. And scented beautifully as a bonus:)
Dec 12, 25

Many companies are offering now vast record collections, tree builders, and DNA matching. What do you think of such services? Would you give it a go?
Jania S
When you trust someone/thing for information you think is important you need to be able to check, I personally think they are rorters...and make a lot of money without ever proving to anyone what they say is factual. I would never use the services. I know what I need to know about my family and ancestors dont need to know anything else. and frankly hate the way the american companies promoted this decades ago.
Dec 27, 25

Today, I found a very scary-looking arrow on our property. Our property is posted. I notified the DNR, but they did not return my call. Someone had obviously used this arrow to try to harm a deer and missed, and it came onto our property. This is the first time in my lifetime (age 70) that I have ever seen an arrow used to shoot deer. It really upset me seeing it. It had what looked like razors on both sides. I wondered if anyone else has ever found an arrow on their...
P F
That is called a broad head arrow or "Bear" head. Very expensive and very lethal. Judging from the size it comes from a crossbow which is totally illegal where I come from. I have archery equipment. I don't hunt but I do go out bush to practice for the sport of it. If you miss a target with the types of powerful bows that are on the market today, the arrow could end up anywhere.
Dec 29, 25

Looking back at the first half of your life, do you feel you've achieved everything you could've, or do you feel you let some things go unfinished that you want to tie up the loose ends of before it's too late?
Henrietta
Some things I would like to have changed but on the whole, I am content with my life. My husband & I have been married 65 years, have 2 daughters, one is happily married for 35 years, produced 3 wonderful sons & we have 1 great grandson & 2 great granddaughters, so to achieve & to live & see 4 steps of the family, is terrific these days & I am proud of each & every one
Dec 28, 25

Now that you have children (of any age) what do you do differently than your parents did with you growing up? What do you do that s the same?
Liane H
We don't eat at a dinner table . Unless it's out at family 's for an event .
My son was one of the worst fussiest non eaters as a child so to avoid all the stresses and the direct eye contact of sitting across from eachother ... we ended up with the t.v on for distraction and he had his little stool pulled up to the edge of the coffee table while I relaxed on the couch. Scandalous yes I know ,but it was the only way mealtimes wouldn't end up with a plate of food thrown at the wall in frustration. :/
Sep 09, 25

We all have that one dream destination whether it s a peaceful beach, a famous city, or a hidden gem. If you had a free ticket today, where would you travel and why? Let your imagination fly and share your dream spot with us!
Henrietta
I read of a couple who spent the whole year cruising from one boat to another, according to where the boat was cruising too. Now that sounds lovely, meals all cooked & prepare for you. I would do a cruise that would take in Samoa (not the AMERICAN side) as it is where my husband & I renewed our Wedding Vows & we had a marvelous time. We started off at Fiji for a week then we went to Samoa. I even had a Puletasi (traditional wedding dress) made for me who was the lady working in the souvenir shop. She also happened to be a seamstress in her "spare" time. It was lovely & my husband wore the traditional dress code for a man. We still have them, can't say that they still fit but we still have the photo's & memories of that wonderful holiday. We did that trip back in about 1995 & next month we celebrate our 65th year of being married.
Aug 08, 25

Are there many fathers that have a new girlfriend after his wife died?
writerrochelle
Sorry, I can't help you. I had a stepchild. I met him when he was 10 years old. He loved me, and he was a wonderful child. When he was 19, his dad moved me to WA state and abandoned me here. Within a year, Stephen had committed suicide...I blame his dad...I don't know what to tell you... ;-{ Sorry. I didn't mean to make it about me. It just made me remember... ;-[
https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/search?firstName=Stephen&lastName=Rojas&dateRange=allTime
Sep 03, 25

With road user charges (a tax or fee that drivers pay for using public roads) possibly being implemented by 2027 to all car owners, would you consider switching to a smaller, more economical & efficient vehicle?
Rusty .. (vic)
we pay a tax through the petrol pump, in the way of a surcharge. Not to mention the charge for using the toll ways - that to me is highway robbery...owned by private companies, paid for by the users over many many years, and still they want more. The toll should be ceased, as I bet the revenue raised does not go back into maintenance of roads.
Aug 18, 25

When you are having coffee with a group of friends or acquaintances, there is always one person who does want to have control of the conversation. How do you react to them?
Ketyad
That is not always a bad thing. Sometimes the dominate person keeps the conversations going. When there are two of these types in the group it can be entertaining, for others in the group, to watch their 'dance'.
Jul 27, 25

For me, as long as you' and your partner communicate and are happy with what you two have together, it doesn't matter others are or aren't doing. What would you say? Is it normal to not see your partner every day?
JANN R
It depends on the job he has my husband was in the army and was away a lot but it made no difference to the way we felt and we were very happy to have each other
Aug 02, 25

Okay, let's be honest, society's kinda obsessed with the "hustle," pushing us to work all the time. But is that really the key to happiness? Or are we missing out on life while chasing that paycheck? Some folks are all about that grind, sacrificing everything for career success. They believe hard work equals happiness. Others are like, "nah, life's too short," prioritizing fun, friends, and experiences. They think happiness comes from living life to the fullest, not just...
SizeOne7
I live by "Treat others how I wish to be treated." There are definitely more important things in life as money, or career success. If I could effect just one person's life for the better in any way, and impact them enough that they strive to do the same for someone else, then i think I could feel content with my life. For me the true highlights of life are found in the small things, the things most people don't even acknowledge exist or have no appreciation for at all. To be more specific, for me, Music has brought the greatest aspects in my life, as a drummer I had a really good teacher that enabled me to be able to teach others in the same or similar ways. I found value in the pets ive had growing up, in particular a Burmese cat, Oscar, when I was age 14, he picked me as his favourite out of my whole family and made me a cat person, I now have my own cat named Oscar and he means the world to me. I thrive on helping others and have always lived to learn lessons each and every day so that all the rare lessons ive learned can be taught or passed on to someone else.
Jul 11, 25

We recently went to Darwin for a few days. We were paying a lot for the hotel we stayed in. Our bed wasn't made at all, the towels were changed, but the bins weren't emptied. On the second night there, Hubby ate something that hadn't agreed with him and had a bit of an accident. The sheets weren't changed, and I had to ask for sheets and a mattress protector and change the bed myself. The "clean Mattress protector" I got had blood on the underneath of it....
blunder boy
I knew a housekeeper that asked the lady of the house for a raise ,the lady said why should I do that,1 she said I'm a better cleaner than you, who told you that she said, your husband she said 2 I'm a better cook than you and who told you that, your husband she said,3 I'm better in bed than you, I suppose my husband told you that Aswell, no your gardener did
Jul 08, 25

There is a new theory from astrophysicists that there was no Big Bang and that our universe is actually residing in the interior of a black hole. These runs counter to the conventional belief that nothing survives in a black hole and all matter is destroyed. What do you think? Are we living in a black hole?
Teri 1282723
I think the scientists of all lines should just accept the fact that God created us and stop trying to discover/explain otherwise.
Jun 24, 25

AI is all the buzz recently, but, I want to know what all of your thoughts are on its use in health care. In systems where lots of doctors seem to never know the root causes of things, how can A.I. actually be beneficial in this field? I know personally that I will never use A.I. myself for anything because if we do not comply, then it simply cannot be normalized. I wouldn't feel comfortable knowing an A.I. model...either learned FROM humans, or programmed BY...
APB
AI will have access to all current medical knowledge...ALL the time....robots are already doing better surgery in some cases....they won't get old or be arrogant..or think they are God......they will make far less terrible mistakes...and spot things in scans that humans cannot even see....I say bring it on...I don't want some doctor misdiagnosing me....not knowing what is currently available...or some surgeon making a mess of my operation...Humans are going to massively benefit....
Jun 03, 25

My neighbour is always complaining about leaves blowing into his yard. We have had the closest tree limbs lopped as far as the local council will allow. They have issued a full report on the preservation of historic turpentine trees. He turned up again today demanding $1200 for more limbs to be cut off. I referred him to the Council report, but he is adamant that the trees should be cut back. I see no end to this dispute. Have you had problems with your neighbours?
Dilee
I live in a unit block and what I hate is tenants slamming their doors. They dont need to. I even said something to a tenant and he only slams it more.
Feb 11, 25

Most of us have old friends, and we may sometimes have different recollections...but as you get older loads of memories also come pouring back in again...details places people's names... I had a long term school friend, who had an older brother called Robert...he lived with his parents and my mate in their house...he was a lot older than us and fairly serious... I had forgotten about Robert and I realised that at some point he just vanished...and nobody EVER talked about him...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Everyone knows that I am a music maniac, but there is an amazing therapy to bring back memories called Synocheer . . It is not well known. ..The process is... try to get as close to the date , month,year of your required memory. ..Then find songs/music from all styles, genres, current at that time. ..select some that you remember and some that you would not have listened to back then. So, it should be country,jazz,pop,rock, soul,classical and so on. ..You need at least 50 songs/music in that time space. ..Randomise them, select a time in the day when you will not be interrupted. .. Headphones are good too. ..and listen to all of them.
You will be amazed at the outcome. .. It happens during, after and even weeks after. .. .....And, an added bonus, you can actually feel a euphoric high for the rest of the day.
May 19, 25

The 10-acre site in Albany, Auckland, features graves nestled among beautifully manicured gardens and unique art pieces, offering a serene space where visitors can pay their respects in their own way. Is a local pet cemetery something you think you would use? Share your thoughts ...
Neo
No. I won't even use a human cemetery so why would I use one for pets? Cemeteries are a waste of space that could be better utilised for the living (humans, animals and trees and plants etc).
May 13, 25

Just found out that Airbnb... And Facebook Marketplace...have moved into the Real Estate Market...while I understand about vertical integration and efficiencies in supply chains... I don't want a rental company or Facebook selling property...or the local supermarket to be insuring my home or car for that matter...what is going on?...this is total madness....isn't it?...
Dada WA
Same as fast food companies. They start out as maybe a chicken outlets then expand and sell everything and the quality drops. Also Chemist Warehouse now do spectacles. Specsavers now do hearing aids. They all just chasing money!. Supermarkets dont do insurance - they are just a broker and get a cut from the multinational underwriter.
May 11, 25

How would you go about talking with a narcissistic person? Someone who is always right, someone who judges others while they themselves do what they judge others for. Someone who thinks the world revolves around them and like draining the energy out of people.
Ek M
considering there seems to be a lot of these people in the world today it is hard to avoid or ignore them, so I Ignore their conversation and continue to do what I know is right and safe for me
Apr 19, 25
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