Discussions of the day
For me, as long as you' and your partner communicate and are happy with what you two have together, it doesn't matter others are or aren't doing. What would you say? Is it normal to not see your partner every day?
JANN R
It depends on the job he has my husband was in the army and was away a lot but it made no difference to the way we felt and we were very happy to have each other
Aug 02, 25
We recently went to Darwin for a few days. We were paying a lot for the hotel we stayed in. Our bed wasn't made at all, the towels were changed, but the bins weren't emptied. On the second night there, Hubby ate something that hadn't agreed with him and had a bit of an accident. The sheets weren't changed, and I had to ask for sheets and a mattress protector and change the bed myself. The "clean Mattress protector" I got had blood on the underneath of it....
blunder boy
I knew a housekeeper that asked the lady of the house for a raise ,the lady said why should I do that,1 she said I'm a better cleaner than you, who told you that she said, your husband she said 2 I'm a better cook than you and who told you that, your husband she said,3 I'm better in bed than you, I suppose my husband told you that Aswell, no your gardener did
Jul 08, 25
I was raised to always use please and thank you, elders and children are first, always hold the door for the person behind you, is it just me or are people these days are just rude and disrespectful. I am going on 50 YRS old, and I still see young ones on the transit bus just sitting there while elders or pregnant or injured ppl standing up. Bring back those manners, nice words or gestures could make someone's day more pleasant. Thank you.
White hair
I am in my 70's and I see how the young people. Not only do they not give up there seats but push in a line to get on bus first. I called one girl out and told her to wait her turn. Entitlement is what the kids think.
Jun 25, 25
AI is all the buzz recently, but, I want to know what all of your thoughts are on its use in health care. In systems where lots of doctors seem to never know the root causes of things, how can A.I. actually be beneficial in this field? I know personally that I will never use A.I. myself for anything because if we do not comply, then it simply cannot be normalized. I wouldn't feel comfortable knowing an A.I. model...either learned FROM humans, or programmed BY...
APB
AI will have access to all current medical knowledge...ALL the time....robots are already doing better surgery in some cases....they won't get old or be arrogant..or think they are God......they will make far less terrible mistakes...and spot things in scans that humans cannot even see....I say bring it on...I don't want some doctor misdiagnosing me....not knowing what is currently available...or some surgeon making a mess of my operation...Humans are going to massively benefit....
Jun 03, 25
My neighbour is always complaining about leaves blowing into his yard. We have had the closest tree limbs lopped as far as the local council will allow. They have issued a full report on the preservation of historic turpentine trees. He turned up again today demanding $1200 for more limbs to be cut off. I referred him to the Council report, but he is adamant that the trees should be cut back. I see no end to this dispute. Have you had problems with your neighbours?
Dilee
I live in a unit block and what I hate is tenants slamming their doors. They dont need to. I even said something to a tenant and he only slams it more.
Feb 11, 25
If you could invent a new English word, what would it be, and what would it mean?
Neo
I already have "craptcha" and I should submit it for approval. You all know what it means but if you can't figure it out:
" when an antibot puzzle (captcha) is difficult to see, hear or solve making it impossible to log into a site or an activity thereby defeating its purpose of proving you are human as the human doing it cannot solve it"
Apr 30, 25
Are you sick of all the World Whatever days, weeks or months and find most of them are just ridiculous or just geared towards selling something/marketing? Let's make the world a better place by inventing a new BETTER World Whatever Day. What would be your idea?
Sha
Instead of World Donut Day or Chocolate Day etc, just name a day as World Food Day and have food festivals globally. Also, feed the poor and needy a special feast on that day.
May 07, 25
Breaking news! They have found a plant hundreds and hundreds of light years away that MIGHT support life...it is so far away that we can only see it as it was millions of years ago. At that point it was massive, and the gravity there would have crushed us...and at that point it was revolving around a Red Dwarf sun which is the final stages of a sun's life...by now that sun would have exploded outwards destroying all planets in its orbit before becoming a black...
BLM
I don't know and I don't care 'if' there is a possibility life exist on other planets in a vast universe. We (humans) have enough ongoing environmental issues on this planet (over-population, lack of fresh water, climate-change, etc.) - that life might cease to exist on this PLANET - other words spending money on space exploration is a COMPLETE WASTE OF TAXPAYERS' MONEY. Furthermore, if E.T. decides to phone home - MAKE SURE - it is a COLLECT CALL. FYI: I think planet is spelt planet instead of plant (but English is not my first language - LOL)!
May 01, 25
Do you think you would be a different person if you became wealthy? Personally I think it would change me a little but not much. Some people remain the same after getting lucky with money and still maintain that humility. How do you think it would change you?
Lachelle B
My father in law passed, followed by my partner a few months later. I inherited my partner's share of his fathers' estate as well as my partner's insurance. Did it change me? Yes, I've become a recluse, I was sick of people asking me for money. I purchased a cheap half an acre in the wop wops (remote) which I'm currently building on myself so future generations can make use of it. My sons' have received a decent sum each, I have helped out family and friends but I stopped helping people out months ago. I have not bought a new car, gone on holiday, or been on a shopping spree with my money.
Mar 10, 25
A happy life is one filled with contentment, positivity, and loved ones. It's a life where problems don't overwhelm you, where you rarely feel lonely, and where failures don't keep you down. You learn to rise again and achieve your goals. A happy life is consistently filled with positive energy. What do you think? How would you describe a happy life?
blunder boy
I think happiness is a lifelong journey, you will always have great moments to look back on but I never knew until I got to this period in my life what it truly means to be happy, to see my grandkids smiling/laughing and discovering new and different things highlights my life every day, being a part of that is truly a gift
Feb 26, 25
I need a vacation! Can anyone suggest their favourite place they have travelled to and why is it your top pick.
LOWLI
If you can take the time, try the Pearl Farm on Samal Island in Mindanao, Philippines. It is absolute heaven! Food is good, fresh, and very tasty.
Feb 28, 25
Can anybody quote some of Murphy's laws and rules. Such as, Never argument with an idiot as people may not be able to tell who is the idiot. The golden rule, he who has the gold make the rules. And there are many more that I can t think of right now.
Andrew C 287196
The most famous Murphy's Law is (as others have said below): "Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong" or similar wording.
But there are quite a few other "Murphy's Laws" as well, although whether or not they were all actually said by Edward A. Murphy Jr. or just other people making up their own, is unknown. There's a long list at https://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fgandon/miscellaneous/murphy/
Jan 02, 25
We just learned today of total lies being told about my husband, who is extremely ill. People having to do with our mail, said he was laying down in front of the mailbox, and they are making fun of him AFTER they took away our medical mail delivery to our home. They did this after the doctors filled out new medical papers saying we should still continue with our medical delivered mail. My husband has had three strokes. It is obvious the mail people here do not...
Susan KTC
This seems like a horrible dilemma, having been an aged care nurse and community co ordinator in NZ, their are health services available, ie age concern, district health services, be pro active yourself or reach out for support through your GP, all the best. You don\u2019t mention family!
Nov 23, 24
Becoming a caregiver to a family member is a big responsibility, and not a decision that should be taken lightly. While it can be immensely rewarding, it comes with significant challenges, and can often be detrimental to the health of adult children looking after elderly parents. What would you do?
HarryT
Depends upon your relationship, their level of physical activity, their cognitive ability and what your other responsibilities are.
Nov 13, 24
Have you ever played a practical joke on someone? If so, share what you did. What was the outcome? Or has anyone ever played a practical joke on you? What happened, and how did you react? When I first moved to my current state and family and friends from out of town came to visit, I'd tell them I was taking them to the most beautiful beach since I live in a tropical climate near the ocean. I'd take them to the nude beach! It gave us a good laugh and we enjoyed the...
Liane H
My parents bought me a present from duty free once and wrapped it up for Christmas. I opened it thinking what the hell is this ..a can of Pal? ( Dog food!) Actually they had just wrapped the label around the tin of the Jean Paul Gautier perfume \ud83d\ude00
Nov 03, 24
With Halloween just around the corner, I started thinking about ghosts. Do you believe in ghosts or paranormal activity? There are millions of people that testify to seeing things with their own two eyes that cannot be refuted. Do you have any personal experiences you'd like to share? With so many believers, how could ghosts and ghostly experiences not be real? Ghost hunting and paranormal investigating is a huge business these days.
keimanzero
I believe in ghosts because I have seen several in my 75 years. You see many decades ago, My Mama and I belonged to a Parastudy Group founded by the publishers of Fate Magazine. I believe, though, that one has to be psychically attuned to the nether world and no, Ouija boards and planchettes are simply unconscious movement of someone's hand. But ghosts exist in every culture around the globe, albeit under various titles. Japan calls them yuyu for example and ghosts are part of their Shintoism religion to which I am a convert from Catholicism and Christianity. Have you seen any spooks or hope to see some tomorrow night? Boo! Have a safe and happy Halloween.
Oct 31, 24
Artificial intelligence and robotics technology would likely improve efficiencies in the day to day management and operations, so what does that mean for us? Will roles then be less physical and more creative, and do we need to re-skill and relearn
APB
Just train for future jobs...there is a long list...just sit back and think for a while..that's what I told my sons...if you are bright and/or organised you will be fine.....same as it everwas...
same as it everwas
...don't be a truck driver...train or tram driver...cab drivers...even specialised medical staff are in real danger...JUST THINK ..and you will all be fine.....
we can all have a fantastic future...its coming anyway...fingers crossed!
Oct 06, 24
The EU has decided to place a 47% tax on all Chinese electric cars (that is just not true) Crude oil prices are rocketing/crude oil prices are at the lowest they have been in 2 years... Iran fired 100/180/200 missiles...same news from different countries...and these are fairly normal I watch 3 foreign news channels and then sometimes cross-check with SBS...just to try and work out what is happening on the planet...so many half-truths and unchecked...
writerrochelle
I don't live in Australia, but I totally agree with you about the news, and it's only going to get worse from here! In Matthew chapter 24 you'll read much more about what is REALLY going to be happening, not just what Satan, the Devil, Wants us to believe! Do Not Be Deceived! At 1 Peter 5:8 we read, "Keep your senses, be watchful! Your adversary, the Devil, walks about like a roaring lion, seeking to devour someone." And at 2 Corinthians 11:14 we read, "And no wonder, for Satan himself keeps disguising himself as an angel of light." Beware, and Believe! ;-D
Oct 12, 24
Car software patches are over 20% of ALL recalls, study finds...expensive sensors that need replacing ... even though the car works fine without them ... automatic doors that lock during an accident and burn the passenger to death inside (Tesla) ... remote software updates that lock passengers inside in hot car parks for an hour in many cases your car can now be hacked and stolen. Who asked for this? Nobody. Overly complicated and overly expensive to buy AND run...
Bex
I'll be driving my Holden ute until the day it dies. The only technology I need is a reversing camera, for the safety of those passing behind my car. The more features, the more that can go wrong!
Oct 04, 24
Our bedroom, was becoming quite cluttered on my husband's side of the bed on his dresser and beside the dresser. Today, I coaxed him back there and told him I had cleaned out a total large shelf in his walk in closet to put his things. He is back there cleaning out what he wants to keep and what to throw away. Hopefully, he will not junk it back up, but we shall see. Are all husbands like this?
Bugalugs
Hwew we g o again! men are being blamed for everything. They Must do exactly as they are told to by some female. It is his dresser, his side of the bed, you have invaded his space - something you women constantly tell us we are doin to you - and have interfered in his Walk-in Closet by going in and clearing out his things and then ordering him to put his things there.
Hopefully he will find he has nothing to throw away.
Just how full are is Youir Walk-in Closet and other containers around the house? When are You going to clear out Your junk?
The revolution is coming.
Aug 27, 24
Society in the West seems to be generally the majority ganging up on some smaller groups and targeting them...making them feel outcasts...dirty...people who need help...from the "Experts"...who can then save them from their terrible lives...a bit like the Witch hunts really...... The Spanish Inquisition....my doctor described me as a miracle (while laughing) I was the only patient she had met...at 68... who did not take any prescribed medication on a regular basis...and...
Pearlz
I agree that you are living a clean healthy life but you are wrong when you say the majority picks on the minority as it's quite the reverse. The people demonstrating for Palestine are a minority, the people pushing man-made climate change are a minority, the people who claim a man can be a woman are certainly a minority and the LGB and whatever other letters they have are a minority. They all scream and shout while the silent majority keeps their heads down and gets on with it.
Aug 23, 24
I watched the News one evening and many are surrendering their pets because they claim they cannot afford to feed them. Yet these same people are purchasing their lunches every day, going out for drinks with friends or workmates, travelling, they buy take-a-way etc. These are false words to me. What do you say True or false?
travel4ever
i would give up a family member before i relinquished an animal. Any person who gives up an animal for this bullshit reason is irresponsible garbage. Change your budget & make cutbacks.....your furry family member is relying on you
Jul 16, 24
Is there an age that seniors should stop having dogs as pets? Cats work to find with seniors because they are easy to keep. But, dogs require more physical requirements - many seniors have problems with walking dogs. I am 68and have just gotten a puppy. Some people have questioned me about it, asking me if I were to become unable to walk, how would I manage my dog ... my solution would be - I would use a walker if needed. What do you think?
Imperia S '' PIER''
Why should there be an age limit on dogs V seniors, pets of any sort or name, pets give the elderly a reason to keep them happy, fit, and in their right minds, if they can't walk their dog, there are volunteer's companies like here in my area " Poops" and dog care that comes to the home. I can not understand people that come up with these ideas, It should be up to the individual if they want a dog or not
Jul 04, 24
I see too many students/young professionals working all day from a cafe. Keeping a space occupied and using the free Wi-Fi and electricity. I recently learned that the vast majority of these young people will just buy one cup of coffee while keeping a place occupied for 4 8 hours. A local coffee shop is not a public library! The owner needs you to consume drinks to keep the lights on. For me, if you are working in a cafe, you should order a minimum of 2 drinks per hour....
APB
If it was my cafe they wouldn't be doing that...unless they would like to discuss leasing a table...I could be open to that...make the place look busy?...I could maybe live with that....otherwise I'd look forward to seeing them next time...(that would require them leaving now)
Jun 02, 24
The real, number one killer of any marriage or relationship is often a lack of communication or communication breakdown between husband and wife or partners. What's your experience? What is the number one killer of marriages?
Gypsy
I would say, selfishness. Only being concerned about what they want and what makes them happy. Couldn't care less about what the other partner wants or needs, doesn't care about the children. Some how I found myself married to such a person, the marriage officially lasted 12 years.
Apr 26, 24
Donation to charity organisations, should it be solely left for government, or should individuals be encouraged to donate to charity organisations?
hiasprdude
I frequently donate but I dislike being guilted into giving at the cash register or Drive-thru window.
Apr 03, 24
Making sacrifices in a relationship can have many benefits. Firstly, it can strengthen the bond between you and your partner. It shows that you care about their happiness and well-being and are willing to do what it takes to make them happy. Secondly, making sacrifices can lead to a more fulfilling relationship. What do you reckon? Why does showing love require making sacrifices?
writerrochelle
The Bible reads at John 15:13, "No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul (life) in behalf of his friends." At 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 the Bible tells us what love is, and what it is not. If we all followed Bible principles, there would be no hatred, no wars. At Colossians 3:14 the Bible reads, "But, besides all these things, clothe yourselves with love, for it is a perfect bond of union." Jesus Christ loved mankind so much, he died for us! And, in relationships, if everything the man does if for her, and everything the woman does is for him, they will have a happy, peaceful relationship filled with love! Compromise! ;-D
Mar 31, 24
A long time ago a bakery in the UK advertised that bread provided something like 70% (or more) of the daily protein for an average person these adverts were withdrawn because not all protein is good for you and many act as carbohydrates...then we had vegetarians saying there was easily enough protein in vegetables...we did not need meat or fish....and most recently we have chefs on TV referring to "protein" as somehow meaning only meat and fish any vegetable, bean or pulse...
Missy Wyld
chef on tv? why wud anyone beleive ANYthing they are saying, they are trying to make a living. they r not the real source of truth.
almost all foods have an amt of protein, so are just more easily digested than others.
Animal proteins are very hard to digest, and can't be used by the body until they are broken down to amino acids. (this takes alot of energry away from other thigns the body has to do) ...its why we feeel like we are going into a food coma, after a huge (usually protein meal), all energy is diverted from all but essential body organs.
Most plant proteins don't take nearly as much to digest, except for beans. Not only are they hard to digest, they are also hard on the kidneys (like animal proteins are).
Bottom line is, if you still want to eat meat, cut down substantially. We do not need the amt of animal products we eat these days. U will save ur kidneys and be much healthier.
Kidney disease is fast becoming No. 1 killer.
This protein business is largely a myth, promoted and driven by, give you 1 guess by who? Dairy and cattle industries. *who'd of thought*
I ALWAYS ask who benefits from the information you are reading? - if someone benefits financially...then chances are the information is BS. anyways my two cents worth....
Mar 16, 24
MedsCheck is a government program. For reviewing customer's medication to ensure individuals are informed about their prescription and taking the right combination of medicine. This service is performed by the pharmacies to the public and it's free. But the Canadian health Ministry reimburses pharmacies up to $75 per call. Canadian province Ontario's Ministry of health said, it already paid out $60 million for MedChecks in the 2022 2023 fiscal year but...
CILLY0
Hope this doesn't happen here in Australia. The big Pharma companies would have an even greater field day.
Mar 03, 24
I don't know how people could afford to pay their insurance and a co-pay. The insurance is so high and plus paying out of pocket is not helping people with different types of medical history. You can pay over your deductible and still has to pay out of pocket. A concern for everyone that is trying to make ends meet with prices high in every area of lifestyle.
peg h
Peg H over here were i am our PM has decided he is the savoy so he has been sending millions to other country's to make himself look good,mean while people here our being drain because we can't keep up whit all of this and his B carbon tax which will be going up again and believe me it is really really hard .But election is coming and hope to God he doesn't get back in not with my vote
Feb 22, 24
Who actually does love holidays with family. They seam to be more than a headache then they are actually worth. In today's world, people have changed so much, it is not like the olden days, where they gather around a huge table eat, drink, talk & share. Everyone seams to want & want, but never give anymore. A simple card to acknowledge has also gone out of the door & has been replaced by texting or sending a GIF through messenger. Where is the love of actually buying...
YIKKY
I love Christmas and miss when I was young and would get together with most of my aunt and uncles. We would all get together at grandmas home. I miss those days,
Jan 01, 24
Should older people over 80 be driving on the road and hold a license?
Stephan S
They are often more careful drivers than many young people who speed and play with their phone or do other things but pay no attention to the road
Dec 17, 20
A friend went to visit his GP for tests regarding possible prostate cancer. Not satisfied with the tests, he decided to seek a second opinion. The second GP made further tests and found he had the beginning of Prostate cancer. Would you get a second or third opinion till you feel sufficient tests are made to your satisfaction and peace of mind?
Craig S 1050522
Doctors are only human - When I was 60-62yrs I had been feeling less than 100% and had been to my doctors multiple times, with a ton of tests - Blood test just about every visit. After more than 12mths of this I ended up in A & E Hospital with very low body temp and was having "Rigors attacks". After many hours the Hospital staff confirmed I had UTI. Doctors NIL - Hospital 1. Doctors DONT GET IT REAL all the time (Just sometimes)
Nov 23, 23
I think it's real sad the government is trying to get rid of cash payments. What about children who get pocket money for little chores etc. I remember getting coins from my parents, to go grab a treat from the dairy. Controlling human beings with technology these days.
Sheree T
One would think the government would have a lot more important things to concentrate on. Everything seems to be out of control such as the cost of living in general it is absolutely ridiculous what you pay in groceries now not to mention everything else.
If I have cash in my purse and a store did not want to except it, I would never shop there again.
Aug 17, 23
I'm curious to see what people have to say about that. I personally talk to my cat and dog all the time! They are good listeners, and they don't judge me, and they're always happy to see me, lol
lys
Yep, my cat hears me but only does what he wants, when he wants. LOL I do get the odd cuddle until he decides he's had enough. My wild crows do what I say more than the cat but they yell at me a bit if their food is late LOL
Oct 01, 23
Do you think there'll be an end to seniors receiving government pensions by the year 2073 or in 50-yrs? It's been a century's long stable way of living while enabling seniors to enjoy their later years. And do you think it's a good idea to put off retirement until after the age of 70 instead f taking an earlier retirement? Where I live, a senior can be qualified as a person 55+ albeit even though they are still working & haven't yet retired from the work force.
Mazz
I think that people who have worked all their life should be able to have some retirement life before they become too frail. Retirement age should be 65 yrs and if people want to work longer they can and have tax benefits. Everyone has a different lifestyle and health. Some people already end up unable to work at 65 due to ill health, just look at the aging population that end up in Nursing Homes who are in their early 70s. Let there be a small time in life to enjoy some retirement
Sep 22, 23
If kid's education is so important to these New Zealand teachers, then why do they keep striking. We came from a time when there were 50 students in once class and the teachers were getting paid min wage. And today teachers are wanting smaller classes and more pay and our kids are suffering in all this, along with their parents !
CILLY0
These days people want the highest wages they can get and are no longer interested in what they are doing. Politicians are in there for what they can earn not to look after constituents and teachers are no longer interested in teaching their pupils a love of mathematics or English or science. Just want a high payment
Jul 05, 23
The day the earth stood still, the moment you absolutely knew you found your true, everlasting love? It's one of those life-changing experiences that are hard to forget. For some people though, it's more than that. They can't let go, and are determined to rekindle the old flames. People are using the internet to track former sweethearts. Some even get back together and live happily ever after. But the path of long lost love doesn't run smoothly. Do you remember your first childhood...
TERRIE K
Definitely. I was sitting at the back of the bus with my best friend when these 2 guys got on and one sat next to me. I was reading a comic and as I turned the page he said "I haven't finished reading that page" so I let him finish reading it. He asked what I was doing the following Saturday and I told him my baby brother was having a Birthday party. Apparently he looked for me on the day and couldn't find me. The following week my friend and I were walking in town when a bus stopped, where they aren't meant to, and he got off the bus with his mate. We started going out that day. I was 13 and he was 15. When he actually saw where I lived he told me he used to live at the bottom of our street and saw a young girl collecting the newspaper from the front lawn one morning and couldn't believe it was actually me. We got married when he turned 21 and we were together until he passed away from cancer just before his 63rd Birthday. It's been almost 5 years now and I still miss him. Especially his big warm hugs.
Jul 06, 23
Men, in our society, are told when they are little boys that they are not to cry and hold it in. When these boys become teenagers, they are told to man up and be a man. These same boys are learning how to date and treat girls in a particular way. If they are lucky enough, these boys see their father treat their mother right and learn life skills about marriage and the interaction of a good married couple. However, some boys, by the time they are teenagers, have seen that It's...
Christine M 323842
This is a bit of a mixed up discussion topic.
Mental health issues and domestic violence are two different things.
Mental health issues do not lead to domestic violence. Domestic violence is about power and control, and can be exhibited in many ways, not just physically, and not just by men towards their partners. It does however frequently lead to mental health issues for those who have experienced it or been exposed to it.
Getting adequate and timely support for mental health issues, for men, women, and children is not as easy as people seem to think it is. There are long waiting lists to get the appropriate help, and sometimes it can be difficult to even understand, yet explain to another person what the problem is.
I agree that boys are a bit confused as to what their roles in society are meant to be at the moment. The rules keep changing, and people keep telling them that they are \u201cbad\u201d, because they were born make. Especially if they are white.
May 08, 23
It is your assistant, it buzzes vibrates and bleeps telling you how much you need it. It now may have your credit card, loyalty cards and any number of other things like your driver's licence ... vaccination records ... references from past landlords and employers ... every phone number that you may need ever ... and it wants more and more because that way it is irreplaceable ... BUT ... what happens when you lose your best buddy? For anyone reliant, this can be a major life...
Daniel A 2
In no way. I don't use Smart phones. Though I did loose my little 15 dollar mobile I bought at big W, that is annoying to loose all the contacts, though I still keep a lot of Em written on a peice of paper not all of them but, and I know it a hassell putting it all on again. Found it again.
Don't use smart phones they are part of a sceem to take over the world for the eleite. waste of money.
May 05, 23
When you put so much effort in to stay in contact with someone you care about and constantly get ignored, how far would you go, and when do you just give up?
blunder boy
honesty is a big deal with me if people ignore you more than likely they have a reason for it but if they don't have enough respect for you to fill you in maybe you should wait for them to come to you
Apr 20, 23
Would you rather have a job that you enjoy going to and get paid less? Or would you rather have a higher paying position and just deal with the problems and issues that make you dread getting up every day to go?
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I am still working at age 74. Started this job in 2007 - am happy to stay - just been extended for another 2 years. Don't think I will stay that long but the security is nice. I am not interested in climbing the ladder for more money - just happy to be earning what I do while I am appreciated for what I do.
Apr 11, 23
Why are truck drivers so inconsiderate and reckless driving how they swerve from Lane to Lane cut cars off, run cars onto the shoulder why do they do this can you tell me why?
Avatar Queen
Excuse me!? I think you will find most long distance truckies are the most considerate and consistently safest drivers on the road. It is the impatient arrogance and rudeness of other road users that cause the accidents and other issues on the road! These giant machines weigh an awful lot (tons) and they require both room and space to stop their vehicles and/or turn corners, especially suburban intersections. They also have large areas of 'blind spots' where they simply cannot see cars & other vehicles - just like blind spots in a ar, on.y bigger. If you have any concerns re truck drivers and their driving, might I suggest you do a little research and take a bit more caution on the road to ensure your own safety and that of the truck drivers, too ??
May 15, 22
There are a lot of people out there who know the answer...come on please help!!!
Nanone
Stop anyone that is not an Australian Citizen from buying property in our country. The cost of property has sky rocketed over the last few years making it hard for people to buy their own home. Lots of other countries won't let non citizens purchase homes and it is about time the Government stepped in.
Nov 21, 21
America's trade war with China seriously damaged major American companies whose products were made in China ....In Australia, when we speak up for people's rights and freedoms in China or question the actions of the Chinese mainland government...we are met with offensive language and tarrifs on some exported goods...a sensible way for everyone to show their dissatisfaction with China's current behavior would be for all of us to just not buy anything that is made...
Royboy Qld 47
We could all start by not supporting the 100% Chinese owned energy suppliers in Alinta and Energy Australia. It was the Whitlam Labor government who sold out Australian workers in 1975 with the Lima declaration
Jan 14, 21
There have a couple examples on Rewardia recently about people talking about hanging themselves, or taking a drug overdose, and when I have shown concern or distress the response is that they are just joking ... or teasing ... I lost one of my best mates to a drug overdose. I wasn't there, I didn't know, and I could not help him. I know two people that I used to chat to and have a laugh with ... who both threw a rope over a pipe in the ceiling and hanged themselves at work ...
ShawneeBaby
I hope that the people that you mentioned are just plain frightened by the prospect of suicide. I'm sure they don't understand just how hopeless life can seem for some. Many people that I knew thought I was doing just fine. I had almost everything that I wanted, like so many people, but I came a couple of doctors visits from taking my own life. Circumstances, being what they were at the time, left me feeling so lost and hopeless that I couldn't see any way out.
A good doctor and some very good drugs no have me living again with some hope for the future. No, these feelings are no joke and need to be diagnosed and treated as soon as possible. You have no idea just how many lives would be adversely affected if you go all the way.
Jan 17, 23
I'm the mother of a bride to be, so I'm a little put out that I spend money, and yet I'm invited to the wedding? Would have thought that could be taken for granted. Am I being silly?
Norman PSBHRJ
I think people spend way too much money on a wedding to begin with. To send invitation is a waste of money, I think. Just get together with the closest family member and friend, have it in the back yard and save your money. Weddings are a big show and you spend so much money on one day. You don't need an elaborate wedding to show your spouse you love them.
Jan 08, 23
I'm finding quite frequently that people are way too serious. Almost every time I view a forum on Rewardia, it is serious, and free of fun. Let's try something different today. Tell us your best joke.
Gaza
I think political correctness is trying to spoil Australians sense of humor. You can't seem to tell a joke without upsetting someone.
Sep 03, 21
The Autopilot feature sounds like a dream come true. Drivers keeping their hands off the wheel and letting the car steer, accelerate, and brake for them is certainly futuristic, though in a report by the New York Times, there have been several red flags. Apparently, crashes have occurred when both the driver and the system itself failed to brake. While there's no doubt Tesla is working to improve the Autopilot feature, it's something of a gamble to give this flawed...
RODNEY S 668931
Why would you buy a car where the battery takes 75 years to dispose of....Only an idiot would support this type of BS being pushed by an agenda fueled government...Oh wait that is ALL governments today!
Dec 15, 22
Do you think this should be bought back? I think that if a school-leaver has not found a job within 6 - 12 months, then joining the defence forces would not be a bad thing. It would get these people off the dole, could train them in specific areas and as well as this, you can never have enough trained forces people to protect our country. I know many people would say that this takes people's freedom away, but in the long run I can see the benefits.
Warrior
Isn't it interesting that some narrow minded people think that solving the unemployed youth issue is as easy as throwing these kids into the armed forces.
Endemic societal issues cannot simply be solved by handing a kid a gun. The root cause needs to be addressed. That cause starts in the home the school the social group and the online barrage of garbage children face every day from the likes of online forums such as face book.
Do not use the armed forces who do a fantastic job of protecting our democratic freedoms as the channel to fix issues that need to be addressed by all.
The ADF does a great job encouraging people from all walks of life to serve and protect.
And to Bob F...below you say use diplomacy? Tell that to Putin and his mates in Iran North Korea and China.
We enjoys freedoms that so many others do not.
Our military forces need to be the best there is. They are there to protect and serve. God bless these people.
Oct 23, 22
I was looking at one of our wonderful retirement "resorts" (they are not called villages anymore...perhaps, so they can charge more...a resort sounds good too doesn't it?...oh I'm just retiring to a RESORT)...the entire place was coloured in shades of beige...EVERYTHING was beige...is this so that residents look around themselves and see everything in Sepia...and it looks like the old photos in their photo albums?...so they feel at home?....or is it that any hint...
Robert L NZ
Hi APB I live in a Ryman Retirement Village called Keith Park in Hobsonville in Auckland. We have a 3 bed apartment, two bathrooms, and a patio, total 112sq meters and we have two car parks. Our village will not be finished for at least another 12 months, We are ground floor for our two cats who also enjoy living here. There is nothing beige here, the building look bright and modern. Google us to see. We have so many activites Ryman have employed a full time person to organize them. We play bingo on Monday nights. Nothing depressing here it is all go go go. Nothing is too much bother for the staff they even water our patio garden when we are away. It is way better than some hotels we have stayed in. With their security there is little chance of a break in or your car being stolen. That gives you cheaper insurance, all in all its a WINWIN situation.
Oct 10, 22
For me, it's getting into my cosy bed at night and hitting the laptop - YouTube and more so of late Rewardia!! E-book reading has taken a bit of a downturn
Pearlz
The best part of my day is after I have fed my cats, made the bed, had breakfast, done the dishes, swept the floor, dusted, done a couple of loads of washing and hung it out, ironed, either walked or used the treadmill, had lunch and cleaned up, pulled a few weeds, gone shopping if I need anything, fed the cats, prepared dinner, checked my emails, done the dishes, checked the bills, had supper then lights out. Then I may be able to go to bed without any cats, in which case I am able to sleep in any position I want. Tomorrow is another day.
Oct 01, 22
What is your opinion on women playing rugby league?
Bugalugs
I don't care what they play. That being said my grandfather was a Professor of Medicine, specialising in Pathology and Anatomy. In his day he was one of the UK's leading experts in those fields. He did not approve of women/girls playing Contact Sports such as Football (AFL was unheard of) Rugby, Wrestling etc., his belief was that physiologically the female body was not suited to these sports - it had nothing to do with gender as such.
If the reports in the media around the world are true that SINCE THE ADVENT OF Women playing NRLW/ AFLW, FFW etc, the number of Women who have been badly injured as a result of taking part far exceeds, on average, those suffered by men over many years longer.If those reports are true then maybe my Grandfather was right. Of course he was a man and therefore, with today's attitude that Men are Always Wrong he would be disregarded and condemned as being a misogynist, a male supremacist or somesuch nonsense!
May 01, 22
Since joining Rewardia I have managed to redeem many $$ worth of vouchers which have helped us in so many ways. Some have even bought Christmas Lights and decorations for the front of our home which is on the Christmas Lights Trail of Townsville in North Queensland. Only yesterday I discovered that my CD player had died and I needed it today so I cashed in 30,000 points for a $30 JB HiFi voucher and went and bought myself a new one much cheaper...
Lynn
I will do this again as many responded and I deleted it trying to correct something. Sorry Beverly. Well done to you for this topic. Indeed a very Merry Christmas to Rewardia and all the other people on this site. Rewardia deserves this because of all the complaints that they get and quite honestly deserve a medal for it. Their surveys are good but if you get bored there are the games to take your mind off of things. Cheers everyone. Merry Christmas. Take care. PS Mopos you have no need to respond again. lol.
Dec 16, 21
Why do so many elderly men feel the need to have a younger woman as their partner, to the extent that they will pay large amount of money to travel overseas to find one. On the other hand older single women seem much more self reliant and don't seem feel the need to replace there partner with a younger model.
Asesh S
I really cannot answer this question as iam not on the lookout for a younger woman also my wife is sitting next to me and if I were to write anything else iam pretty sure I might not be able to do anything for a while.
Nov 29, 21
Every few years or so, we get to Vote! Have you changed your Views about the Political Party ... that you normally Vote for? Has Covid made a difference? Do you ever Notice the Smaller parties? Maybe you prefer not to Vote! Your Views?
COOL
Been a lot of lies been told by the government about the current situation with covid i have never voted for this government and i am disgusted with the direction in which our once lovely country is heading.
Aug 10, 21
Do you believe in Karma? Do you think your bad and good deeds come back to you?
lippy loo
No. Look at the evil in the world perpetrated by horrible humans and nothing happens to them but the good people seem to cop it left right and centre. The old saying only the good die young seems to be too true. I have never wished bad on anyone and I do not believe in Karma but sometimes you have to wonder why nothing seems to touch them in so many cases.
Aug 18, 21
I am an omnivore and amongst the environmentalists, food scientists, economists and dietitians there has been plenty of discussions around how the planet desperately needs our help how our bodies will feel better for it and how plant-based foods can reverse the risk of cancers and diseases. Is it time we change our diet?
Mopos
No,I wont be influenced by a government with what I eat, it's my choice. Everything in moderation........
May 26, 21
Why does appearance (looks) trumps smarts? Why does physique (male) or a body (female) trumps character? Why does political conspiracy theories trumps facts? Why is racism still alive in the 21st Century? Why is sexism still alive in the 21st Century? What do they all in common? What is your opinion?
JoeB
Life is neither fair nor unfair, it just is. Bad and good things happen, just focus on the good and life will be good. Be kind to others, animals, people and plants and kindness will come to you ....lol be happy
Mar 03, 21
I've done the math and calculated that 40% of my wardrobe has never been worn, with another 20% that has been worn only once. How is it with you? How much of your wardrobe is untouched/unworn?
Survivor
Since being on hormone therapy for breast cancer I put on quite a bit of weight so only about 10% of my clothes I feel comfortable wearing now.
End of every season I go thru what I have and what I didn't wear all season and out it goes. (Gets donated)
Suffice to say my closet is pretty sparse looking now but that's OK. I'm here and alive.
Sep 08, 26
I was walking past a play park today and noticed a young woman shrieking and making weird noises... while running around in circles and sometimes jumping with her arms in the air... then I realised there was a very little person... running behind her... laughing and trying to copy her... a parent actually playing with her child!... how fantastic! Normally the parents I see dump their child on a swing or climbing frame and then just stare at their phones... and I imagine they...
BLM
The past (the past is based on good memories - we all don't have good memories of the past when it comes to our families). Furthermore, what you are actually remembering is PROPANGANDA (aka 'once upon a time...' LOL)!
Aug 03, 26
One thing that is quite prevalent and common in the world is drug use and homelessness. Government always talk about having program to help for rehabilitation and housing, but it seldom ever really works. What would be a smarter, more efficient, and realistic way to help deal with these growing issues?
PatCat
There are many empty industrial buildings which could be modified to make "low cost housing" but many of the homeless feel they do not wish to live with their fellow man due to mental illness. Our charities do their best to provide food and short term housing for as many as they can but the provision of mental health assistance has become even harder in Australia since Psychiatric hospitals were closed.
Jan 23, 23
What gadgets have you bought that get the big stamp FAIL?
BLM
Hi blunder boy. What gadgets have I bought that get the big stamp FAILURE? NONE (but I do not buy gadgets manufactured in the USA (home of infamous 'planned obsolescence' innovations).
Jun 28, 26
"I never want to go into a rest home". If you have a parent over 70, there's a reasonable chance you ve heard this, maybe over Christmas dinner or after a friend s parent was moved into care. How to respond to that?
Linda 1473555
I'm in that age group and I built my home so it would be suitable for living in as I age. Downstairs has wider doors for wheelchair if needed and no steps. Dont need to go upstairs. Hopefully I will be able to get home help. My sister and I cared for our parents up until the end. They brought us up, so we should care for parents. If its not possible then so be it. I have seen friends go into some very caring nursing homes but there are some that I definitely would not go to. I have had discussions regarding that stage of life, death and funeral as well. Communication is so important.
Jun 22, 26
Do you think inflation is changing people s long-term life goals? Rising costs of housing, food, education, and daily living seem to be affecting major decisions like buying a home, starting a family, or saving for the future. On the other hand, some people believe it encourages smarter financial planning and adaptability. What s your view?
NotFriedLikeMost
15 years ago I changed my entire life to be minimalistic because I knew inflation was coming since we are NOT on a gold standard anymore (which is FRAUD) and I got way out ahead of it. I now pay rent, internet and buy groceries. NOTHING ELSE...unless I absolutely need something. Every single person I hear complain has WAY TOO MANY payments, credit cards, etc. and they spend money multiple times every single day on shit they do not need...oh, but they "deserve" things...lol. They look at costs BACKWARDS. My advice to all is GET RID OF as much as possible and pare right down...sit with that for a month or two...then you'll realize, DAMN...I really do have everything I need. Then you can deal with costs far better. When you comprehend the fractional reserve banking FRAUD going on...then you stop bitching and realizing the games BEEN rigged from the jump...ON PURPOSE...by the elites in control. Enjoy your bread and circuses, they say...and, KEEP CONSUMING NON STOP!!!! It's like this AI bs...why complain? STOP USING IT. STOP FEEDING IT. IT IS A FRAUD AND A MASSIVE SCAM ON SOCIETY AND THESE PEOPLE OF A CERTAIN ILK WILL GASLIGHT YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE MASTER DECEPTION ARTISTS...LIARS, THIEVES, SCAMMERS, etc. STOP FUNDING THESE PEOPLE. STOP USING THEIR TECH...it is ALL spying devices that they want INSIDE OF YOU...to FULLY enslave your consciousness and energy IN THEIR CLOUD....FOREVER!!! Revert BACK to LESS tech...STOP ALLOWING them to move forward...THEY need OUR compliance! Just STOP!!
May 26, 26
There is a store in NZ called "Once Loved, Twice Hugged." They collect used soft toys & bring them back to life through care & creativity ensuring they find new homes. Their motto is, rescue with love, rehome with joy. Each toy is cleaned, repaired & refreshed to look & feel new, then given a name & an adoption certificate with a story about the toy. They believe that cuddly companions deserve more than landfill, promoting sustainability. Do you know of any one-off...
Dada WA
Theres a few community groups around that refurbish computers for the elderly and make sure they understand how to use them.
Jun 07, 26
We used have curtains hanging over windows...then we got blinds which were very cool and modern...but they collected dust...so we got vertical blinds...but they were ugly...had weird weights on the bottom that fell out and they decomposed in the sunlight and fell to pieces I've just finished reinstalling curtains...what stage are you at?
allinkarma4maria
paint your windows black,no need for curtains, no need to thank me, i'm here for all your household needs\ud83d\ude01
Jun 16, 26
I heard someone has just called their son Rowdy...he better be tough at school...in Europe I thought Charlotte would be good name...they pronounce it "Shah-lot"...whereas in Australia the poor girl would be called "Sharrlitt"...when I was at school...this boy's parents thought hard about his name and decided that Ralph would be a could strong name..couldn't be messed with at school...on day one he was Ralph Wares....the kids said "Ralph ralph ralph!!"...by day...
Lachelle B
Real names with real jobs to match: Dr Ashley Seawright (eye specialist), Margaret Bacon (deli assistant), Les McBurney (firefighter), Sue Yoo (lawyer), Ka Ching (cashier), Alan Toogood (Samaritans volunteer), Amy Freeze (weather reporter), Thomas Grieve & Son (funeral directors), Dr Pam Graves (Archaeologist), Rachel B. Pullin (Dentist).
May 21, 26
I am turning 28 this year, and I have no savings. I am currently earning $200 a week from my retail job. Is it possible for me to save for a house? If not, what advice you would suggest?
Woodster
Get yourself a copy of "The Barefoot Investor" by Scott Pape (who is a financial counsellor In Australia). He has some shrewd and simple savings tips which have helped a lot of people apparently. It's not going to be easy though on your current wage, any chance of getting an additional job?
May 06, 26
Cutting off family can be emotionally painful. It might bring on grief - not just for the relationship, but for the idea of the family you never had. You may experience judgment from others who don't understand your decision. What's it really like to cut off a toxic family member?
andieharrie
Not cut off, but I make no effort to see them anymore. I\u2019m still \u2018nice\u2019 to my MIL, but I no longer let her manipulate me after 16 years of letting things slide and just sucking it up. The final straw was when she screamed at me in a restaurant because I suggested, after three bottles of wine, that she might want to slow down a bit. She told me I was a terrible wife to her son and definitely not her \u2018cup of tea.\u2019 He sided with her, so the next day when she sobered up and admitted, \u201cI think I might have overreacted last night,\u201d I told her I\u2019d no longer do anything extra but would still be polite\u2014because that\u2019s who I am. I stopped doing all the little things, like buying birthday and Christmas gifts or reminding her son to call her for special occasions. Now she\u2019s realising her \u2018little prince\u2019 doesn\u2019t remember anything on his own. He got put on notice, too, but that\u2019s another story.
Apr 15, 26
Men hang out with their mates...they are pleased to see each other...but it is all fairly normal...if someone likes your T-shirt it is a big deal....whereas women hang out with their "Girlfriends"...(they aren't your girlfriends...they are just your friends unless you are gay)...and when they get together somewhere they can shriek and laugh loudly...but they all cuddle and kiss each other (men tend to hold back on both of those) and a fair bit of time is spent on them telling each...
NotFriedLikeMost
And this is the difference between men and women. Men...simple. Women...complex. Why? Women NEED to create drama to do ANYTHING but be a traditional woman who wants a husband, kids, etc. and NOT have a high body count in their mid 30s, be lonely, used up and own 10 cats.
Men just want peace, a family, and reciprocated love.
Apr 14, 26
Success is a deeply personal, subjective, and evolving concept defined by fulfilment, balance, and alignment with one s own values rather than external expectations. It often combines inner peace, strong relationships, good health, and professional growth, moving beyond just financial wealth to embrace happiness and purpose. What is success according to you?
Susan KTC
A pretty good explanation Natka!
S - soulful
U - unification
C - Caring
C - community
E - Excitement
S - Solitude
S - Sincerity
Most importantly live each day in the present \ud83d\ude0d
Apr 11, 26
Have you ever experienced being scammed? Back in 2019, when my dear mom was still here, we got scammed out of a great deal of funds by some fraudsters claiming to be employees of our bank. We were told that someone had fraudulently used my credit card to send money by Western Union; & that our local branch had staff members who were running a scamming ring. To summarize a lengthy story, although we definitely did NOT give out any account numbers; PINS; or...
BLM
Once upon a time I got scammed by my ex-wife. It led to a brutal courtroom fight which lasted for months. Justice prevailed (in the end), and I got alimony (and still get alimony) from my ex-wife! However, an ironical thing happened along the way - we became each other best friend, after the divorce - it took decades for it to happen. Ony in America (LOL)!
Mar 24, 26
I have always been fascinated by how different our internal clocks can be! I personally find that my best energy hits much later in the evening, while I know others who are up and productive at the crack of dawn. I m curious to hear from the community: Do you find it easy to jump out of bed early, or do you do your best work when the rest of the world is asleep? Also, if you ve ever tried to change your natural rhythm (like a night owl trying to become an early bird), did it...
Teman
This is an easy one. Because I seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, after I awaken and freshen up, the first activity of every day for me is to read the Bible. That makes me a morning person.
Apr 01, 26
How much of your decisions are governed by your ego? Do you make more decisions that are based on the approval of others or do you make more decisions that are truly meaningful and purposeful to you? Do you have a good balance of both perhaps? Our ego helps to establish our identity and inspire us though having an over-inflated ego can hold us back. Sometimes a slice of humble pie, though feeling harsh, can teach a good lesson or help us realise how much our ego drives us and...
Virgogirl
I don' think ego involves making decisions to seek the approval of others. Quite the opposite actually.
Feb 19, 26
Do you think it would be a good idea to build all new houses with solar panels on the roof, so we could run our own energy, or do you think it would be a good idea to have turbines everywhere getting energy from the wind and the sun etc and let everyone have free power connected to their houses? I know it's not going to suit everybody, but I do think we need to start looking at other forms of power that are good for the environment. What do you think? It will be...
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Renewables do not work if there is no wind or sun so definitely no to these wind turbines; they are a blight on the countryside. Panels yes on new builds IF they included a large battery. Coal should be in the mix as well as Nuclear.
Feb 04, 26
On TV adverts diners have a wide variety of gastric pain after eating....(I wouldn't eat there again) and need to take medication all the time....while suffering parents have to take painkillers before they go out to the park to play with their kids is that normal?...is everybody self-medicating?...if this pain is terrible there is probably a reason...why not go see a doctor?..... I have never had severe stomach burning... I cannot remember the last time I took an aspirin...let...
Patzer
Not including psychological issues, many people don't eat intelligently, meaning with understanding of what combinations of food to take or when. This often makes a difference.
Jan 28, 26
I recently heard of a country shutting down their internet. Suddenly I wondered what would happen in the US. In my mind, I pictured people jumping out of third floor windows, like when the stock market crashed! How difficult would that be for you? I would miss it for sure, but my world certainly wouldn't come to an end. I still use a landline, and I was born long before the internet, so I know I can live without it and possibly better in some ways. No...
Itchy Qld.
I wouldn't have to adapt, as I do not rely on the internet, yes I use it on occasion, but I still have the ability to use a land line to contact friends and also to hop in the car and visit and I love reading and playing games with the grand kids and great grand kids, and life would be more relaxing when you didn't have to worry about scams and AI, also I very rarely shop on line, love going into department stores, trying on clothes and getting the correct size without having to pack up and return and wait weeks for hopefully the correct size.
Jan 14, 26
I really want to start a business, but I'm struggling to figure out what kind of business to do, and I don't have a lot of money to invest right now. I know many of you have great ideas or experiences, so I'd really appreciate any suggestions, low-budget business ideas, or lessons you've learned along the way. Just looking for some inspiration and guidance. Thanks
Spaceant1
It's difficult to give you any advice, as I don't know your skills, experience or any training you may have had or what industry you are looking to build your business in.
As for me, I have been self-employed since the mid 1980's and started every business I had without any capital to draw from. One of my most successful businesses is one I started during a recession when people were losing their jobs and companies where closing down. My advice is to start small and simple, then build on that as opportunities arise. Don't be afraid to get your hands dirty, be honest, be reliable and give your customers the quality work that they will be happy to pay for. And don't waste money on a fancy office, a flash car or the latest hi-tech phone. Remember always that you work for profit and not to pay off debts.
Jan 21, 26
First we had toothbrushes... cheap and effective... then we got expensive little power tools that did the same thing... but NOW we have AI! So you can buy a smart toothbrush! And these can cost up to $300... what does it do? Well, it still cleans your teeth... it has multiple speeds/vibrations, etc... and also warns you when you re not cleaning your teeth properly... and sends a report on your performance to an app on your phone... (this is all true)... Next up,...
Catalina
Next and finally, the real smart invention would be tooth that grows back, fills itself, repairs itself\u2026wouldn\u2019t it?
Jun 15, 25
Being healthy is the single, most important part of our existence - without good health, our lives can be cut short. That said, it's important not to take good health for granted, and to instead feed our bodies the nutrients they deserve by eating a balanced diet and engaging in regular physical activity. What would you say? Which one is most important in life?
ALE
Health isn't just one thing! You have to take care of your physical, mental and spiritual health to be truly healthy and have a good balance in life.
Jan 11, 26
I have seen an add lately for a big muscle suite for males to wear so they look like the hulk. Do you need plastic parts to make you feel good? Would a big muscle suite make you feel like a man? How about a latex mask to make you look handsome? How long will you keep a partner when you remove all of your spare parts? Are you that insecure that you have to hide your true self from others? You will still be the same person underneath your plastic, do they have personality...
Strongman
There was a joke my father used to tell. A guy fell in love with a really beautiful woman. Finally proposed to her. On their wedding night the bride takes off her wig, her false eyelashes, her contact lenses her false bra, the gridle and everything went into a drawer. The confused groom stood there and looked at the drawer and then at the bed where what used to look like the girl he fell in love with. The bride asked why was standing there and not getting in bed. The confused grooms said I don't know if I should get bed or the drawer!
Seems false advertising has been around for a very long time.
Dec 18, 25
You may have heard about a car owner being locked inside his car in a hot car park while the vehicle performed a software update...which was triggered remotely by the car manufacturer...who can also trace your cars whereabouts at any time and where it is has been...you can be watched and listened to...be hacked and lose all control of the vehicle...and that Governments are at last showing concern over whether cars manufactured in potentially hostile countries could be used as...
Woodster
Big Brother is definitely watching! My car has just turned 35 years young, she'll probably outlive me. Good old Australian Holden, built to last.
Dec 06, 25
I try to set realistic goals, establish clear boundaries, and plan ahead to avoid feeling overwhelmed. How do you deal with managing expectations around Christmas?
Claude H
No expectations. I have done all my shopping and most of my whanau will arrive over Xmas, but not all at once, I hope, as I have 6 children, 8 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren & 2 great-great-grandchildren with another due any day
Nov 21, 25
In the forums, I notice a lot of readers type "Karen" as a derogatory stereotype. I am a Karen, and I am getting fed up with society using my name to describe a stereotype. How many readers use it to describe someone? When I meet new people and tell them my name, I often get the response, "you're one of those Karen's". I don't get upset anymore because I've become use to it being used as an insult. My saying now is Keep calm and Karen on.
Lachelle B
Your name is just a new addition to a long list of stereotypical names: Debbie Downer, Average Joe, Doubting Thomas, Mary Sue, Peeping Tom, Simple Simon, Smart Alec(k) ........
Feb 21, 23
Insulating central heating and hot water pipes might reduce the amount of lost heat, which helps you save energy and money on your heating bills. Did you take any steps last winter to use less energy at home?
Maria B 89860
Don't use heating and cooling just dress cooler or warmer according to whatever the weather dictates.
Oct 12, 25
We all have that one dream destination whether it s a peaceful beach, a famous city, or a hidden gem. If you had a free ticket today, where would you travel and why? Let your imagination fly and share your dream spot with us!
Henrietta
I read of a couple who spent the whole year cruising from one boat to another, according to where the boat was cruising too. Now that sounds lovely, meals all cooked & prepare for you. I would do a cruise that would take in Samoa (not the AMERICAN side) as it is where my husband & I renewed our Wedding Vows & we had a marvelous time. We started off at Fiji for a week then we went to Samoa. I even had a Puletasi (traditional wedding dress) made for me who was the lady working in the souvenir shop. She also happened to be a seamstress in her "spare" time. It was lovely & my husband wore the traditional dress code for a man. We still have them, can't say that they still fit but we still have the photo's & memories of that wonderful holiday. We did that trip back in about 1995 & next month we celebrate our 65th year of being married.
Aug 08, 25
Have you been irked by some "Great deal" advertised that was utter garbage? I was shopping at BWS, and they had two prices on display, one being "normal price" and the other ONLY if you downloaded their app. What a ridiculous way to qualify for a discount. I love Liquorland, they make shopping easy. You just show them the competitor's price, and they match it, and you leave so you know you will always get the best price without jumping through a million...
Holly Cat
It seems everyone wants you to install their app to get deals. I was at a pet food store and the cashier told me about their deal, but I need to install the app and scan the QR code. I said no thank you lol. I don't want a bunch of apps on my phone, plus, it drains the battery.
Jul 25, 25
Okay, let's be honest, society's kinda obsessed with the "hustle," pushing us to work all the time. But is that really the key to happiness? Or are we missing out on life while chasing that paycheck? Some folks are all about that grind, sacrificing everything for career success. They believe hard work equals happiness. Others are like, "nah, life's too short," prioritizing fun, friends, and experiences. They think happiness comes from living life to the fullest, not just...
OscarSize47
I live by "Treat others how I wish to be treated." There are definitely more important things in life as money, or career success. If I could effect just one person's life for the better in any way, and impact them enough that they strive to do the same for someone else, then i think I could feel content with my life. For me the true highlights of life are found in the small things, the things most people don't even acknowledge exist or have no appreciation for at all. To be more specific, for me, Music has brought the greatest aspects in my life, as a drummer I had a really good teacher that enabled me to be able to teach others in the same or similar ways. I found value in the pets ive had growing up, in particular a Burmese cat, Oscar, when I was age 14, he picked me as his favourite out of my whole family and made me a cat person, I now have my own cat named Oscar and he means the world to me. I thrive on helping others and have always lived to learn lessons each and every day so that all the rare lessons ive learned can be taught or passed on to someone else.
Jul 11, 25
There is a new theory from astrophysicists that there was no Big Bang and that our universe is actually residing in the interior of a black hole. These runs counter to the conventional belief that nothing survives in a black hole and all matter is destroyed. What do you think? Are we living in a black hole?
Teri
I think the scientists of all lines should just accept the fact that God created us and stop trying to discover/explain otherwise.
Jun 24, 25
Most of us have old friends, and we may sometimes have different recollections...but as you get older loads of memories also come pouring back in again...details places people's names... I had a long term school friend, who had an older brother called Robert...he lived with his parents and my mate in their house...he was a lot older than us and fairly serious... I had forgotten about Robert and I realised that at some point he just vanished...and nobody EVER talked about him...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Everyone knows that I am a music maniac, but there is an amazing therapy to bring back memories called Synocheer . . It is not well known. ..The process is... try to get as close to the date , month,year of your required memory. ..Then find songs/music from all styles, genres, current at that time. ..select some that you remember and some that you would not have listened to back then. So, it should be country,jazz,pop,rock, soul,classical and so on. ..You need at least 50 songs/music in that time space. ..Randomise them, select a time in the day when you will not be interrupted. .. Headphones are good too. ..and listen to all of them.
You will be amazed at the outcome. .. It happens during, after and even weeks after. .. .....And, an added bonus, you can actually feel a euphoric high for the rest of the day.
May 19, 25
The 10-acre site in Albany, Auckland, features graves nestled among beautifully manicured gardens and unique art pieces, offering a serene space where visitors can pay their respects in their own way. Is a local pet cemetery something you think you would use? Share your thoughts ...
Neo
No. I won't even use a human cemetery so why would I use one for pets? Cemeteries are a waste of space that could be better utilised for the living (humans, animals and trees and plants etc).
May 13, 25
Just found out that Airbnb... And Facebook Marketplace...have moved into the Real Estate Market...while I understand about vertical integration and efficiencies in supply chains... I don't want a rental company or Facebook selling property...or the local supermarket to be insuring my home or car for that matter...what is going on?...this is total madness....isn't it?...
Dada WA
Same as fast food companies. They start out as maybe a chicken outlets then expand and sell everything and the quality drops. Also Chemist Warehouse now do spectacles. Specsavers now do hearing aids. They all just chasing money!. Supermarkets dont do insurance - they are just a broker and get a cut from the multinational underwriter.
May 11, 25
Overspending. The interest-free installments and smaller payment amounts can make larger purchases seem more affordable than they really are. This can lead to a temptation to buy more stuff than needed, increasing the risk of debt, defaulted payments, and lower credit scores. What else? Is there any downside to buy now, pay later?
Glenystas
if you cannot afford it don't buy it is our mantra, too easy to over commit yourself and go into debt. have to remember Wants not Needs.
May 08, 25
How would you go about talking with a narcissistic person? Someone who is always right, someone who judges others while they themselves do what they judge others for. Someone who thinks the world revolves around them and like draining the energy out of people.
Ek M
considering there seems to be a lot of these people in the world today it is hard to avoid or ignore them, so I Ignore their conversation and continue to do what I know is right and safe for me
Apr 19, 25
Struggle teaches you prioritisation and helps you realise. What Is Really Important. Prioritisation means choosing what matters most. When you face multiple tasks and responsibilities in life, they will compete for both your time and resources. What would you say? What struggle teaches you?
Gaza
Life in general keeps coming up with problems that have to be solved. The day I stop learning is the day I die.
Mar 29, 25
My husband and I have slowly been downsizing (way before the minimal living movement became trendy). We went from an acreage and a huge federation home to living in a school bus. We love it. We now wonder why we ever spent so much money on conforming to the mortgaged white house picket fence idea. We now live debt free and travel nomadically (and we aren't grey haired yet). What do you think of the tiny house living movement?
otten m
I up-sized eighteen years ago when I stopped full time work. I went from a nice two bedroom unit in Sydney to a spacious, open living space with an upstairs (master bedroom and ensuite, living area and deck) and downstairs (two bedrooms, bathroom, laundry, kitchen and large dining and living area. Deck at front of house, side of house wrapping around to back of house all with panoramic views of the Pacific Ocean. (3 min walk to beach ion central Qld coast). Whenever I walk into a "normal" house now it always seems pokey and small. I would not like living in a small space again.
Feb 10, 25
The Commonwealth Bank of Australia, want to charge its customers, $3 to withdraw their own money from an ATM. They already charge $4 a month to people who don t have $2000 a month deposited into their account, robbing the poor, or low income people. They already charge CEO is on approximately $7.3 million a year, bank profits are $9.48 Billion a year. Do you think this is a move to remove cash as currency, as other banks will surely follow...
writerrochelle
I'm Blessed because my bank doesn't charge for ATM withdrawals, or their checking or savings accounts ($50 saving minimum), so I never have any fees to pay! They even give nice gifts on our birthdays if we come into the bank. I've received an umbrella (with their name on it, of course), coffee mugs, and others. I love my bank, and will never change! ;-D
Dec 05, 24
I was looking at getting more solar panels for the house, but the rebate keeps getting lower, and off-peak gets higher! I heard power companies are thinking to charge us soon for taking what we put into the grid! Do you think it's worth the cost $3500 or so to get more panels now?
Andrew C 287196
Solar panels are somewhat of a con trick. It costs a fortune to get them installed, then you need an expensive battery to store the power for when there is no sun. You need to keep the panels clean for best efficiency (difficult since they're usually on the roof), even then the panels and the battery *will* wear out and need replacing. Even worse, they claim it is "green" energy, yet making and disposing of the panels and batteries is hideously polluting.
Best not to bother and just stick with regular mains supply. If you can (not possible in New Zealand any longer \ud83d\ude41), use a government owned supplier so you aren't being charged excessive amounts simply to fill the greedy pockets of the electricity company's management and shareholders.
Jan 24, 25
Lately when we go shopping to our local Large Store (not sure if I can say which company it is) we have noticed there are a large number of food items that are being pushed that are not made or produced in Australia. For example Bacon, on the back of the packet it states 8% made/produced in Australia some go up to 18%, there was 1 company that was 98% Australian they are no longer on display ? We now buy our Bacon from the local butcher (much cheaper too...
Pete in Oz
I used to really enjoy tinned smoked oysters. But then I noticed that the only brands stocked come from china. So I've stopped buying them. I also have noticed that some products imply by sneaky wording that they're australian, but you can tell by their australian product number, the barcode with 13 digits under it on the package somewhere. if it starts with 93 it's australian and 95 for nz.
Jan 20, 25
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