| Forum Menu | Sort |
Hot Discussions

It is amazing how many people put heir hand out for money when you have maybe sold a house or so. I trusted this ex friend and so much for promises ... See more
Sandy S 24335
Yes and two years later am still waiting to see any of it. They have since become non friends over a different incident and in the time since we have also found out they didn't use the money for the emergency medical treatment they said it was for but they did at least enjoy a night at the casino on us. NEVER again do we trust anyone when it comes to money. We don't normally lend anyway but these two were such good, long time friends so we thought this was an exception. Sadly, from now on, no matter how desperate anyone is, we will not be helping them in this way.
Jun 03, 21

I wake up during the night frequently. I seem to sleep for a few hours and then I am awake. I get on the computer and make myself a cup of tea and toast. After a few hours up I go back to sleep for a few more hours. This does not bother me as I... See more
lulu
I had sleep aponea at 80%, could not cope with that machine so i went on a weight loss programme and lost seven stone. Everyone i knew told me it wouldnt help but hey guess what it did and i no longer need the machine and sleep six to seven hours solid per night .
May 27, 21

What do you think will happen when the Robot's take over many of our current jobs? What will we do then? Are you worried about the next generations of worker's? Where will the next jobs come from, if many of those we currently... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Robots will make the perfect employees - do not have to pay robots or give robots benefits - the perfect setting for a capitalist planet. I would guess that future jobs will come in robot repair, the building of more sophisticated robots, computer programming, forensic detectives, and jobs that rely on the ability of humans to think and adapt (in the spur of the moment). However, if humans don't deal with climate change (global warning) on this planet - there will not be a future - for anyone?!
May 31, 21

After all the trauma, tragedy, restrictions and anxiety with Covid-19 affected everyone of us to a greater or lesser degree, do you think the world will be a better place? See more
Mike Pike
The Bible says that when you made Jesus Christ the Lord of your life you have no need to worry about anything for God said that he will take care of us.so what if china takes over the world. My God is in control. my God will never leave me nor forsake me. My future is in my God. and without him I have no future. if you want to know Jesus as your Lord and Saviour Prayer this simple prayer
Lord Jesus I ask that you be my Lord and Saviour come into my life and be my King.
Acknowledge: We have sinned - Romans 3.23, Luke 18.13
Repent: Repent of Perish - Luke 13.3, Acts 3.19
Confess: Jesus is Lord - 1 John 1.9, Romans 10.9
Forsake: Forsake your sins - Isaiah55.7
Believe: Believe and be saved - John 3.16, Mark16.16
Receive: All who receive Him are his children - John 1.11,12
Attend a Church: Find a Faith filled Church.
Mar 22, 21

Our existence is treated like a magic show....Covid 19 came just in time to delay anyone fixing Climate change...and everyone is VERY concerned about the huge quantities of plastics that are dumped and not recycled....NO-ONE is... See more
Aisha A 379399
Some governments don't even acknowledge climate change is happening so there's not going to be any action on their part. We as civilians can do things like not littering the oceans and using less plastic.
May 09, 21

So they gave up their royal titles in order to have more privacy and not living in the public eyes. But their recent second baby announcement is anything but private. And what about the much anticipated sit down interview with their neighbor,... See more
Therese M 73305
Sadly but true more so her she is a show pony and everyone has to look at her I'm gob smacked the family couldn't even have a funeral without her trying to but in the flowers and condolences could have been sent on the news of prince philip's death but no she had to try to be the big I am .Harry should stand up to her she is nothing but a money hungry woman that was looking for fame she is a schemer and mulipulater harry could have down better for himself .he needs to stay in the U.K as his marriage will fail and needs to be able to keep his kids the longer in USA territory she will have more chances of keeping custody disapointed he abandoned his nan at her sad time and not celebrating her birthday as meagan is not the only the woman to be pregnant 1day extra in the U.K would not make no difference .he needs to come to his senses where she is concerned diana would be disapointed he has fallen out with the family I only saw oprahs ads and knew she lied on that interview and as for Harry he had his mother's inheritance and still claims he's been cut off but hey your choice to walk away so don't cry wolf
Apr 20, 21

With so many latch key kids should one parent always be at home when they arrive home and leave for school. Also on school holidays. There are so many kids getting up to mischief now days, do you think having a parent at home would help? See more
Sheree T
Yes I think it is ideal that one parent be at home when they leave and arrive home from school. The reality is in some families it is not possible.
Apr 01, 21

I have problems trying to sleep & I can't sleep. Do you have any great ideas or suggestions of how to fall asleep? See more
Bill B 394870
try yoga breathing techniques they work for me. focus on the air going through your nostrils, breath ten breaths in and out then count ten breaths down to zero.
Mar 17, 21

For me it's very hard to forgive people who heart me. I always try but can't . See more
Smiley
If it is my friends or family/children eating my food?- easy to forgive.
The trusted relative who spread vicious lies about me and threatened to kill me?- they will NEVER be forgiven.
It depends on the circumstances and who is involved.
Mar 20, 21

Would you call your child Apple like Gwyneth Paltrow did? I think naming your child something weird is a form of child abuse See more
Joe B 288252
Parents have a responsibility to think of their children’s future and to give them a name that sounds funny or smart at the time without considering the affect it will have shows a deep lack of understanding or concern of another human being.
Nov 16, 20

I avoid self serve checkouts because I believe they are replacing people and jobs, what ever happened to service. Service stations don't serve you, banks want you lining up on the footpath. Yes, with technology we can do most things from the... See more
Glenys C
I avoid self service checkouts, firstly because they are taking away jobs, secondly because I am not paid to do it and thirdly since the coronavirus too many fingers are touching the control that could be spreading the virus.
Jan 19, 21

I think it's bad manners and it feels intrusive, what do you reckon? See more
Sandra C 12043
Depends on who they are. Most people are welcome in our house as long as they take us as we are. Most of our friends ring these days as I have just undergone a breast removal, chemotherapy and radiation and they are thoughful and ring in case I am asleep as I sleep at odd times.
Oct 10, 20

We have to live and do the best with what we have. Sometimes I feel so frustrated with myself like a cat - chasing its tail going around and around, have so many bad habitats like all the bad habitats are stopping me from genuinely enjoying and... See more
Chris P Chikin
I only get frustrated when I knock my beer over and it spills onto my breakfast cereal. It makes them taste a tad odd.
Jan 30, 21

Golf..it is a pastime...not a sport...whatever they tell you.. and I've noticed that at least 2 golf courses....one of them a major venue...are being closed down in Brisbane, where I live, converted to recreational purposes (so golf isn't a... See more
Andy B 2142638
There is so much wrong with your post!
A sport is a contest or game in which people do certain physical activities according to a specific set of rules and compete against each other.
Golf fits that definition (Merriam-Webster). Golf is a sport, definitely, irrespective of your biases.
And if you play without competing, it then becomes a recreation.
And to suggest that grey haired, overweight, unfit and male is the standard required to play golf, is completely ageist and sexist - not to say ignorant as well...
And Trump doesn't play it all day, every day. An obvious exaggeration. (He was even reported this year of not playing for a couple of months) And obviously put forward by a Trump detractor. You could have easily put Obama or Clinton playing to the same effect.
Trump supporters will be enthused to take up the sport!
Australia has a huge amount of golf courses per capita compared to other nations. We have the space where many countries don't. I would suggest the venues near you that are closing down are
Dec 30, 20

I'm making dinner this year for 4 (so far), and looking forward to it. I'm planning to serve chicken breast (no carving, sorry Dad), with roast potatoes, (possibly with roasted parsnips), and either creamed spinach and carrots, or Asian slaw,... See more
Pamela V 115067
Chicken with roasted veggies, trifle and pavlova. No one likes Christmas pudding so ice cream as well. Snacks beforehand so all 4 of us will be on a diet in January. Sad note, my 27 year old granddaughter passed away in February so will be first Christmas without Amy. Miss her terribly but will remember the good times.
Dec 22, 20

I do. It's a disgrace. Whatever happened to the old adage "the customer is always right"? Seems manners have gone out the window! See more
Brandy Yining Z
Yes, I think the customer service definitely has declined when I tried to get hold of Vodafone to sort out some problems. I was put on hold every time when I called its call centre and I had to wait for 45 minutes on one stage. They seem to enjoy transferring me to different departments and promising the next department will help me. I ended up having to speak to 4 different people in one occasion and I was told different stories by those 4 people. There are no email addresses to contact Vodafone. I could only use the online virtual robot option and eventually it still requested me to call the same toll free phone number that I could never get help with. The problems were never solved and I have given up.
Dec 13, 20

Many, many years ago, I worked as a childcare worker and if you witnessed what I saw working in various centres, you WOULDN'T place your kid in childcare. But it's not only the safety aspect. Parents are missing out on their... See more
Angel
Having worked in a childcare centre, some kids are better off in one. We had children that had never sat at a table to eat.
Nov 02, 20

The only reason governments won't legalise cannabis is because big pharma will take a huge hit. It's all about money. Alcohol kills more people than weed ever will, that is a certainty. See more
roger b 167654
Tobacco and Alcohol do more damage but collect a lot of taxes - at least you'll get the tax going to the govt. instead of drug dealers. It is a complicated issue and deserves more than just a simple yes or no.
Aug 11, 20

I don't agree that every child in a sports team should get a trophy for having a go. Sport and athletics is about competition and there can only be one winner. Even the children's party game 'pass the parcel' has been changed by politically correct... See more
Lachelle B
Years ago an African swimmer qualified for the Olympics. He got his butt absolutely kicked by the other swimmers by lengths. But he kept going and completed the race. His training was in the river, not an indoor swimming pool, or the latest technology nor exercise equipment. When he touched the wall at the end he received a standing ovation by the crowd. Sometimes the losers end up being the winners!
Oct 02, 20
Watch the TV show "FRINGE" on Prime Video... Season 1 - Episode 1. . Fast forward till about 21 minutes where he is introduced to the show. (Peter Bishop - Walter's son (Joshua Jackson) is basically Major... See more
Liane H
I had this a fair few years back at the supermarket while I was checking out @ 40 yrs old ,,busy unloading stuff onto the conveyor,,I had been to the beach and my hair was down ,no makeup ,,the woman in front was chatting to the checkout girl about someone in a movie and they couldn't remember her name ,,ohh what's her name ? They said..but doesn't she look just like her ? It was then I looked up thinking one was showing another a photo ,,but no they were both looking straight at me ! In fact when I mentioned who I thought it was (as I had been stopped in the street another time by a spruiker for the same thing and also been told by a work colleague as well )and they said YES! ,,l was totally happy for the day !
Of course the best comes from family when my sister grounds me and said only in a distant photo you do !
Dec 21, 25

Carolyn K 714554
It is up to you to make your own luck. If you work hard and save, your luck increases. P.S. the horse shoe is upside down (according to fact if the horse shoe is pointing down, the luck falls out.)
Mar 24, 24

Beverley 1411982
The one without leaves.. loved to climb the mulberry tree and sit hidden in the middle eating mulberries but mum always knew as my purple mouth gave it away.. them the tree lost its leaves like this one.. such fun
20 hours ago

Do you have a secret you have never told anyone? You will go to your grave not speaking of it. Are you keeping it for someone else, or yourself? If you had a chance to unburden yourself in a safe place, would you? See more
Tina 1664116
I have a sister who knows my secrets, and I know hers. I have secrets that were told to me years ago, that I would never say; it's not my place to tell someone else's secret. I have two good ears, but my mouth stays closed.
Nov 11, 25

The largest users of electricity in a typical home are those that generate heat or cold, primarily hot water heating, space heating, and cooling systems (like air conditioners or heat pumps), which can account for over half of household energy use.... See more
Allan 1713395
the heated lights in the bathroom that people forget to turn off when they leave the bathroom. I've walked past the bathroom and had to turn the light off because the bathroom was empty
Sep 21, 25
Lilo (Daveigh Chase in Lilo and Stitch) release in 2002. "Ohana means Family. Family means Nobody gets left behind." See more
Angie
\u201cThree things to remember when you get older: never pass up a bathroom, never waste a hard-on, and never trust a fart\u201d.
Jul 09, 25

Okay ,there's few steps but I've tried to simplify it for you all !! First soak your skewers in cold water to prevent them splintering. Marinate 1/2 kg ( 500gm) chicken thigh or breast slices in l Tbsp curry powder ( Ayam brand... See more
Chris P Chikin
Indonesian satay sticks using an Indian curry?
The staff who work in my Indonesian cooking school are shaking their heads.
May 09, 25
Just wondering if others feel the same way I do with the dishonesty in the survey invites. eg..survey invites 100 of Rewardias miserably cut back points for a 10 minute survey and when you get to the survey it states expected time of... See more
APB
A survey by a major financial institution...after pages and pages of questions about fraud.. final questions..."what else do you expect the bank to do in response to fraud"..."offer a full refund"......"it appears you have done this survey before"..and its bye bye and no points....so you don't want my opinions recorded??...Banks...what's not to love about them...eh?
Oct 02, 24

The Australian Government appears to be investigating whether they can introduce floor pricing to the sale of alcohol...at a minimum $1.50 per standard drink....they say that this will stop the sale of cheap drinks...which they argue cause... See more
KARL-HANS B
we have one of the most costly alcohol in the world and the add more cost on it the leave in a LaLa land
Oct 21, 24

My son bought a ticket to a concert ...they don't post out tickets...they don't even send you tickets by email that you have to print out yourself...that save them money...NO...they just give you an image on your phone that you show when you go... See more
PEN15
We have re-sold \u2018phone\u2019 tickets and have bought others tickets as well with no problems. You just pass on the bar code or pdf file to whoever you sell and they get it scanned when they enter. There is no way they should be checking your phone number or SIM card to see if it\u2019s the same phone they sold it to. My son just attended a concert with his ticket on his dads phone. They both entered the venue with both their tickets on the one phone. It\u2019s just a bar code they scan. Not the phone..
Oct 07, 24
How many are excited about voting this year? With all that is going on does everyone plan on voting???? See more
PT
I was asked, If you were running your own diner or any small business. Would you hire someone currently convicted and still have dozens of crimes to fight against? The person might be innocent as every criminal would claim for themselves. But would you trust that person to serve your customers? Guard your cashier?
Do you think when you hire this person, she/he would dedicate all their time to work for you or be distracted with their ongoing legal battles ?
There was a promise of the wall, repeal and replace the Obamacare as his key policies in 2016. The wall was only a fraction of what the other government built, and there\u2019s no repeal definitely no better plan as a replacement for years\u2026 I couldn\u2019t see anything apart from injecting bleach! Vote wisely, the entire world is amused.
Sep 22, 24

Women who have Caesarean births in Scotland go home on the second day of the birth. This is a financial decision, not a medical one. Surely, the care of the mother and child should be paramount. I was concerned when I heard this. Do you... See more
Liane H
Absolutely disgraceful. Higher risk of post natal depression and undiagnosed versions of it ...
Why put so much pressure on new mums ? Day 3 is the worst day after birth for the baby blues to set in and milk production to come in properly ,then complications can arise ... that is all just after a natural childbirth!
Aug 19, 24
Up until 3 days ago, I was getting 4 points (Australian points, just to be clear) for every Daily Poll and Picture Poll questions but now I am only getting 1 point for each. What is going on here? I have been a member for 4 years now... See more
Bugalugs
Have a look at "jewel Miner! US ,mambers score 10,000, 12000, 14,000 nd many 10s of 1000s more points than we do.
When the Covid19 pandemic began Rewardia told us that ther number of points for each game/survey/poll would be reduced which was fair enough but since then they have never increased the rewards for any members outside the USA. Why does the Murder capital of the Qorld deserve more than the rest of us?
Jul 14, 24

I am going to a wedding of a close relative soon, and I still have not decided on a suitable gift. Money or something tangible? I would appreciate any great ideas See more
Christine M 323842
Nothing.
I\u2019m sure they\u2019ve lived together and have all the household goods that they need already.
I don\u2019t believe in paying an admittance fee to someone else\u2019s events.
Jul 14, 24

Anyone else have any horrible online booking experience to share? Last year, I booked through a reputable booking website for a week s accommodation in Melbourne for our Christmas holiday in December. Did all my research about the place.... See more
boy blunder
when I book a room I always book under the name improvement, why because there is always room for improvement... sorry have a dad joke virus
Jul 11, 24

At a busy local mall a while back, I went to use the single room toilets. It faces out onto the main court with a sliding door on it where you simply push a button to enter... l did this to find a young Japanese girl already sitting in there!... See more
Holly Cat
Wow, embarrassing for you both! I still get a laugh when years ago when I was a child, I was outside with my mom and a bee flew up her pant leg. Worried she'd get stung, she took her pants off right there in the front yard. Then she ran in. There was just 1 neighbor out on their porch lol.
Jun 29, 24

Stamps, coins, dolls, action figures or maybe trading cards? Today's pervasive digital environment allows virtual collections to thrive, so people do collect various things. What do you collect? See more
Pato Lo Duck
Souls, I can\u2019t wait for the Orange one with the fake hair to pop on down here, we have a wonderful room for him, right beside Hitler and Stalin\u2019s room, and the one across the corridor is being kept vacant for Putin. They will have a great time trying to out yarn each other about how great they were at conning the masses into following their deluded plans to further their own greatness.
Jun 22, 24

We are seriously considering fostering a child. We need to consider many negative and positive aspects. Do you have any insights or advice based on your experience? See more
Teri 1282723
I've done it. And if you truly love people and want to help someone who isn't old enough to speak up for themselves, I recommend you do it as well. I grew up in a home where my parents nearly always had 1-3 foster children sharing our lives. We learned as children that fosters come and go, but we were able to adopt 2 of the boys. They are my brothers through and through. The girls that I fostered were being abused, both 16 years old. One was being beaten regularly by her mother and stabbed once, the other was being raped by her mother's live-in boyfriend. The time with them was only a few months each but it was enough to let them know there are good people in the world and both changed into good people themselves. One has a lovely family and the other is a veterinary technician. Both are happy:)
I very highly recommend fostering if you honestly feel your heart wanting to help. You don't get much financially, but you get loads in return emotionally. As much as you know they will most likely be leaving your home at some point, each and every one of them stay in your heart forever. You love with all purity of intentions and build them up and show them good in their world. You will make a positive difference for each child.
Jun 17, 24

I've been seeing many videos with vacant, abandoned or neglected buildings across North America and just can't accept the levels of homelessness/under-housed in statistics either. While some governments (local, state or federal) may try to do a... See more
Jenny L 591463
It's the same here in Australia too. There is a closed down school near us with a house all boarded up. Yet there are people screaming out for some where to live, homelessness has gone through the roof. It's just a waste and because no one is using the school it is going down hill at a great rate of knots. There's even a tennis court, why couldn't some government department turn the old school into some accommodation for the needy even if it is only a temporary fix. At least it would be being used again instead of rotting away before our eyes. The owners of any run down building or premises should be made to clean them up. My parents had a vacant block in Brisbane and Dad used to get letters from the council to clean it up and people used to dump stuff on it. I remember helping them clean it up and I fell over some tyres that some body had dumped there. They ended up selling the land because they received a good offer on it and it then saved them from having to maintain it too. So where is the fairness letting other people get away with not maintaining their properties? I guess letters don't get passed on to the owners but after a certain amount of time has lapsed surely there is more they can do.
Jun 15, 24

I've had a lot of bosses, both male & female. Which do you prefer? See more
Dolan 1467056
Don't really care as long as they desirved the job, are compitant with the duties and treat everyone fair. Respect your people and you will get respect!
Jun 12, 24

If you invited a friend over for dinner, and you suddenly became ill just an hour before they were to show up, do call them to tell them you suddenly fell ill thinking they may feel you're cancelling because you really don't want them to come, or do... See more
Linda C
I would not hesitate in calling. During Covid and I might add I am in my 70's I had people come right up to me talking then tell me they had Covid. I keep away from people with colds, etc. as I am not a healthy person. So why would I not ring and tell a friend I am unwell and to make it another day when I am better. It's a common courtesy.
May 25, 24

What is your opinion on which martial arts class is best for a 13-year-old? My son wants to sign up for one, but there's so many to choose from. Which is worth to sign up to? See more
Andrew C 287196
There was a discussion on the radio the other day about kids "wanting" to do various activities, the parents paying for it, and then the kid quickly pulling out again ... sports, dancing, scouts / girl guides, horse riding, etc.
Before paying any full term / year fees (often non-refundable because you're taking up a spot and the classes cannot start again to catch-up a later fill-in), you should find somewhere that either offers pay-per-lesson prices or even gives a free trial. That way you can find out if the kids *really* wants to do it or not before paying out huge piles of money.
Apr 20, 24

How often have we said that someone is "just jealous" when they have offended us in some way. I was a bit shocked one day when one friend told me that another had said this about me after I'd said I didn't think a certain outfit would... See more
IdentifyAs
The person who is telling you this crap is trying to put a wedge between you and your friend with the outfit. It may not even be true! If you value your friend with the suit, speak to her personally (don't mention who told you) and say I hope I didn't offend you when I said the suit didn't suit you. It was just your opinion and if she likes that suit she should wear it in all good health!!! And the "friend" who gossiped..give her a wide berth!
Apr 04, 24
I am continually (daily) receiving Rewardia surveys (usually Pink) which are from OTHER survey companies asking myself to join THEM. I raised this issue with Rewardia in that I found it strange they would allow such... See more
Thomas (Rewardia Support)
When you click on a survey in the survey centre, it opens in a new tab of your browser. From that point onward, we don't know, and we do not control what this survey is about or its contents. This type of survey, where the provider asks users to join them, is called 'recruiting,' and it goes against the rules. We constantly fight against such practices, but unfortunately, providers still engage in them. We are trying to stop it. Our apologies for the inconvenience, Chosen
Feb 05, 24
Back by popular demand . seen some great dance on the tube ? . . . . . . . . Post the best you find right here . . . . . . . . See more
Von
"Hey we gonna Loop de Loop".....
The Blues Brothers and Ray Charles:
Shake A Tail Feather
https://youtu.be/qdbrIrFxas0?si=_n3F_bQoMofD7S8e
Dec 17, 23

Do you believe that your dreams have a specific meaning in your life? Do you sometimes look up the meaning and try to make sense of it? See more
APB
I have only ever had one dream about a future event...that was David Bowie's death...aside from that it has always been a fantastic floor show of great experiences all laced together...
even the Bowie dream was good...he and I were talking and laughing together in a pub...as he got up to go I said "wait a minute...aren't you david bowie?"..he said "no mate...he's dead"..and then he laughed...
that was three weeks before his death was reported...
Jan 12, 24

When the hairdresser is shown a picture and still fails to complete the hair cut, should you just smile and go, or should you be able to refuse to pay, as it is not what you had requested? See more
Roy R 1009866
The hair dresser was trying a style that he/she had not done before but they were still using their time so they must be paid. The hair style probably could be repaired, that is cut a little more for aa different style. Anyway, in a few short weeks the hair is back and the "new" cut can be tried again. Only Karen's refuse to pay, if you were the hair dresser would you want and expect to be paid? Yes, very likely, so pay up.
Dec 03, 23

My answer would be no, just because you don t have kids doesn t mean you don t have friends or family that is looking forward to spending the holidays with you. I don t think parents should always be first in line, but I also don t think the... See more
Claude H
No. There are too many laws now giving preference to everyone. We are all equal & should have equal rights.
Nov 27, 23

Personally, I've been in a rather rough position. After a couple of years at one job, I'm working at my 4th different job this year (part-time position) and currently looking for a 5th different job, because my current occupation is not giving... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
It will depend on your RATIONALE: WHY you did not finish the other two 'programs (academic community)' you took while you were in college - previously? Or are you a professional student (and not aware of the fact (?)). Whether it is worth going to academia for the 'third time' - is STRICTLY your decision (your life) and maybe 'involving' a conversation with your WALLET!
Nov 24, 23

So I am being harassed by some woman who's not happy I married the man she wanted. I have 3 children with him, and we are so happy together. Yet this lady who I've blocked btw continues to harass me via fake social media accounts. What... See more
Lynna-Boom @ Brisvegas
you need to report her to the police what she is doing is illegal maybe you can get your husband to talk to her with you there and he can tell her that he is not interested in her anymore and is happily married
Nov 16, 23

Does it annoy you when people leave rubbish in the shopping trolley? Like the shopping trolley is the garbage. I found drink containers from a take-away and a paper in a shopping trolley, when the supermarket was busy and not many... See more
Jeneral
There are far more serious issues that concern me in this world than someone leaving rubbish in a trolley.
Oct 12, 23

Do you feel that there is a significantly higher no. of people who are abusing drugs such as cocaine, amphetamines, oxycontin, etc. in this decade? Or that it's always been pretty much the same since the 1960s or even before but less visual as... See more
Andrew O 826798
i think there is more drugs than ever and the way things are going we will have a lot of Zombies in the future
Sep 27, 23

Having looked at my friends' marriages, and my own marriage first time around versus my second marriage, it seems second marriages seem to be so more more successful and fulfilling. I think people get married too young, before they know who they... See more
Greg B 520364
I do not know I'm only 57 years into my first marriage. She still gives me a kind smile and a cuddle.
Sep 30, 23

How to deal with bullying and harassment in the work place? I've been at a job for 2 years with constant bullying from a couple coworkers.. Management doesn't do anything I just don't know what to do. Need this job yet being pushed to... See more
Elizabeth T 396096
It is sad to say that though companies love to say how inclusive they are and how much they don't tolerate bullying that they do nothing when things are reported and even going higher up the chain of command does nothing. Your options are then:
1/ Report the matter to the government authority for action
2/ Tolerate it
3/ Resign
Not fair but this is life and it is sad to say nothing changes.
Sep 17, 23

When I was younger, I was able to make a few dollars during the summer to be able to go spend at the store how I pleased (candy and ice cream, of course) I was hit with a sad realization the other day when my 11 year old son and his friend... See more
Shawn B 1061185
It's a petty sad state of affairs when one has to start working at any age. Once 'work' is started in never ends (even in retirement.) We should try and let kids be kids as long as possible because like time itself, once it passes it never comes back.
Sep 05, 23

Was having a conversation with my partner a little while ago about the latest person who won a big amount in the lottery. He grumbled that they probably didn't deserve it. I said anyone who buys a ticket deserves to win. So he asked... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Everyone deserves luck or good fortune - PERIOD!
Aug 31, 23

Growing your own food can be cheaper and healthier. With the rising cost of produce, many of my family and friends started growing more produce. I myself grow a few things which I find taste better as there is no need for insecticides... See more
Linda B 907610
We moved to a rural property - a year ago tomorrow, actually - and since then I have grown potatoes, kumara (sweet potatoes for those outside NZ), NZ yams, carrots, cauli, broccoli, capsicums, corn, onions (red and brown), spring onions, pumpkins, beans, snowpeas (mange tout), leeks, cabbages (red and savoy), spinach, silverbeet, swede, daikon radish, beetroot, garlic, rhubarb, courgettes (zucchini), several varieties of tomatoes and herbs and attempted eggplant (aubergine) but was unsuccessful with those as I planted them too late in the season. We have also harvested feijoas, lemons, limes, mandarins and peaches from trees that were already established on the property. We also have chickens for eggs. I have made several batches of pasta sauce, tomato relish, peach jam, onion marmalade and feijoa chutney. I also make my own Irish soda bread, naan bread and focaccia. We are loving the flavours of fruit and veges fresh from the garden and are looking to add more gardens so we can grow more produce.
Jul 14, 23

Hello everyone, question: Is it too risky to get an investment with no experience whatsoever in this industry ? See more
Andrew C 287196
Just stick to normal local bank term deposits. They're much safer - let the bank take the risk of the ups and downs of the stock market. Stay well away from stupidities like cryptocurrency and transferring money to overseas "companies" that are more likely just scams!!
Jul 22, 23

Everyone has different tastes and needs, so we all have different food combinations in our pantry. What do you consider to be your main pantry staples that you strive to always have in your pantry or fridge? See more
Michelle S 553303
If you strive to always have SOMETHING in your pantry then I would strongly suggest that you get multiples of everything starting now! As much as MSM won't talk about it, there IS going to be a global famine and even now it has begun in African and some poorer Middle Eastern countries too. There is simply NOT going to be enough food to feed everyone and with a deficit in supply only one thing is certain and that is that prices will continue to rise in ways that we who have grown up over the last 50 years have never conceived of! Farmers are being told NOT to grow food or they have seen prices for fertilisers go up so high, if available at all, that it isn't worth planting crops but taking the insurance money for a lost crop instead. The "environment" has become the reason for the slaughter of millions of additional animals which would not have ended up on our plates this year or next because the "Nitrogen Minister" of a country has stated that the animals have to go so that "Mother Earth" is saved from the ravages of sheep and cows! Crops are failing due to inclement weather either drowning the plants or drought drying them out. Water is and will continue to be restricted for farming and even the growing of rice, a stable food item on the menu of billions of people all around our planet isn't forgotten by the architects of this intentional disaster. There IS a war on food and if you and your loved ones WANT to eat in the years to come you MUST make ready now before supply slows and rationing becomes widespread. It sounds science fiction or like a novel but we are ALL going to go through times we simply can't begin now to imagine in our near future! Fill up that pantry now, buy as many Mason jars as you can find and fill them, get kilos of salt as it's a valuable commodity and plant a garden with non GMO seeds! All the best to you all.
Jul 23, 23
Beware if you are 65 or more, don't bother with Coral Survey CO-9DASXS. I just attempted it, and the next question after I told them I was aged 71 was to to ask " what job did you do before you retired", or words to that... See more
allinB4UFLY
maybe you should retire, you might not be so sensitive, i'm 77, i don't give a crap who knows it,, it's part of taking surveys,, but i see you have learned that if you start a poll, you get 1000 points, you should of posted how happy you are for the 1000, that other crap you complaining about is just part of survey taking,, have a super day \ud83d\ude01
Jun 21, 23

Tell us what you think about the subject? Will it drive efficiencies in society, or could it cause more harm than good? See more
Mary B 999062
I think that we/ the scientific community needs to slow down on the AI field, everything these days has gone far too fast and the young people need to realize that they are missing out on a lot of the "old ways"
Jun 05, 23

With the recent quake in Melbourne, I am curious to know people's experience. Are you like me and only experienced small quakes, or have you been somewhere where there are big quakes? What were you doing when you experienced a quake, and... See more
DooDoo
Experienced all the big quakes in Christchurch 2010/2011. The 7.1M/depth 10km in 2010 was at 430am. I woke instantly and knew - I genuinely thought the house was collapsing so ran outside although that was hard to do. I thought my heart would explode it was beating so fast. I left the doors open overnight for a month after that.
The 6.3M and 6.1M /depth 5km earthquakes that killed nearly 200 people in 2011 was mind-blowing in its violence- you were glued to the spot by the gravitational forces. I was in the kitchen at work and clung desperately to a doorway. The noise was totally deafening. It was just random luck if you happened to be in a structurally safe building or not, whether you were safe, injured or killed, how damaged or liveable your home was. The shallower the earthquake, the worse the effects. After months of aftershocks (had about 10000), I naturally only took direct Drop-Cover-Hold action for quakes longer than 5 seconds and over about M4.5. I started hyperventilating at the occasional bigger ones only several years later. I only ever had nightmares about tsunamis and not earthquakes- go figure.
It took five years for workers to turn up and re-level my house floor. Mother Nature rules\u2026we are just fleas on a dog\u2019s back along for the ride.
Jun 01, 23

Do you have a motto that you live by and practice on a daily basis? Feel free to share. It will be interesting to see what everyone has to say. See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Live every day like it is going to be your last day above ground, because at some unknown point - it is going to be your last day above ground!
May 27, 23

Nowadays being free means being unemployed or lazy, but what is true is that every day is a list of thousands of things to do, but once you finish them and there is nothing else to do, all you have is free time, but then people will call you lazy.... See more
Dada WA
Do you really care what other people think? I know I don't. Live your life how you want it to be not what others want. I'm retired and have lots of "free" time. But always busy doing something, surveys included and answering forums like this one.
May 11, 23

How much does it cost where you are? I find GPS charges to be quite shocking. So shocking, I miss out on checkups. Do you struggle with affording a checkup? See more
Casey J 829907
What's the point of Medicare these days.. it's ridiculous how expensive the doctor has become. We are slowly becoming americanised and no one will be able to afford to even go to hospital eventually. It's pretty pathetic to be honest.
Mar 13, 23
Dear Rewardians! Let me introduce the new Private Groups here, on Forum Boards. Private Group is a place where you can share your personal stuff to other members. In a Private Group, only members can see who's in the group and... See more
Christina C 466456
I have a feeling there are going to be a couple of hookups. I think that's really cute if there are a couple of Rewardia babies crawling around in the next couple of years \ud83d\ude0f
May 03, 23

What are your experiences on pre-teen behaviours? Is it normal for them to develop a hate towards parents and start being naughty and develop foul language. Are there any tricks or advice anyone has? See more
Paula J 395266
When my children were pre-teens my husband was very often away, often for months at a time with the RAN so I ruled my home with an iron rod. If I hadn't my life would have been hell. They were children and had rules and rarely needed to be punished. There was no acting up or swearing, they were allowed out to play but had a time that they had to be home. I really didn't ever have a problem with any of them and they were church goers. They are all married now with children of their own, they were never in any trouble, didn't do drugs and were not drinkers. They also stayed at home until they married which was late in their 20"s. My mother always said I had turned my sons into sooks but their wives tell me a did a brilliant job with them. Because dad was usually not here my boys were quite close to me and were always very helpful to their mum. One rings 2 or 3 times a week for a chat.
May 04, 23

In winter, I usually have homemade chicken soup in the freezer & think it works wonders when I have a cold. Excluding the std 'fluids & rest' what is your go-to remedy to help fight a cold? See more
HOT PANTS HARRY
KIRSTY IF YOU WISH TO GET RID OF THE FLU YOU HAVE TO GO TO BED WITH 3 MEN,CAPTAIN MORGAN, JIM BEAN AND JOHNNY WALKER
Apr 17, 23

City planning and quality of life are believed to go hand in hand. If you were to think about public transport infrastructure, road layouts or accessible leisure spots, what in your day-to-day life is affected by poor city planning, and how does it... See more
Sandra C 12043
Too many apartment buildings going up in our area. We are close to the city and now the lovely old houses that are on larger blocks being torn down to replace with ugly apartment buildings. They will never last as long as these houses have and what is even harder to take is that all the lovely old trees are being cut down. It will soon be a concrete jungle. These buildings de-humanise the area and within a short time look dirty and shabby.
Apr 04, 23
I am just curious how many points people get in a month? Is it enough to cash out? See more
APB
Started out getting 50,000 points in six weeks....easily....and over 4 years it has just got worse and worse...my current 50,000 will take 4 months at least
I don't get surveys anymore...they now seem to have cut back on using my Trivia, Polls and Discussions pages...so the next one might take the best part of a year...I think I need a new site......read the technical issues...its quite an eye opener.....its a good job I like the people on here...and they give me a laugh....
Mar 29, 23

What is something you have purchased & regretted? I'll start - 'leather look' trousers I bought on holiday that def got looks in my small town & I never wore them again See more
Linda C
I do not regret but at times realise that they are just not me so I give them to Lifeline. All my good clothes I no longer wear I give to the charity shop. I actually have 2 bags in my boot ready to go there but I still have a bit of my robe to go through.
Mar 22, 23
Alot of us Rewardian's have or have had pets in our lives- i have always been privileged to have precious creatures in my life. Just wondered if anyone felt like sharing a funny story or something memorable one of their animals- past or... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I do not have any type of pets and I never had any inclination to own a pet. However, I saw a movie called "The Daring Dobermans (1975)" - clever Doberman pinschers (dogs) that were being trained to become bank robbers (once upon a time - a goal of mines) - my type of "pet" - since I have a ton of untapped latent criminal behavior in me - (aka capitalism and aka white-collar crime) - lol!
Sep 28, 22

Who face this thing while speaking in front of public? How to manage public speaking anxiety? See more
Larry S 382961
I had to give a speech at my sisters wedding. I froze so to not make the same mistake at my own day I wrote it down and stuck to it nearly all the time. I hate speaking in public the same as I don’t like photos unless in a group
Jan 29, 23

We've all heard stories where winners of huge amounts of money say it changed their lives for the worse, or they managed their newfound wealth poorly and now have nothing left. If you were to win a huge sum, what would you do with it... See more
Amaya B
I would give some to my family and keep a bit for myself, but what I would really love to do with the money would be book tickets for Brisbane and visit Australia Zoo :D Also I would donate lots of the remaining money to their Wildlife Hospital and conservation work
Jan 16, 23

Lots of people in the age 20-30 bracket are choosing to have an engagement ring that does not include a diamond, what could be the reason behind this trend? Cost? Straying from tradition? See more
merricat
Judging from the number of ads and commercials featuring diamonds, I would have to say that diamonds are still the preferred choice for engagement rings.
Jan 14, 23

Should people have to pay to have their animal checked if they are just worried about a weird behaviour of their animal, if the animal isn t treated. See more
Linda C
Being checked over is a service and yes you should pay. They have studied for years, have all sorts of equipment to buy, rent to pay, insurance for buildings, workers, etc. Utilities and so much more let alone all the stock both medical and other. They have to know about all sorts of animals not just dogs and cats. Payment is for this expertise and if they found nothing wrong with the animal that is a great result and would put your mind to rest.
Jan 05, 23

You meet online. Everything seems fine, all the boxes are checked, and yet you are not getting your needs met. How do you have this awkward conversation. You can tell that the collateral damage to a long marriage that lacked real into me, you... See more
Jania S
What in the world is the second question.
Answer DONT go online to people, if you are forward enough to do this, you can say bye just as simply.
Dec 16, 22
We know that plastic is bad for the environment and that is why we pay council rates for recycling, now councils introduced cash for recycled items (instead of having the bin chicken we now have bums looking for recyclable items in our bins)... See more
APB
Not sure what a chicken bin is...The "bums" will probably sort out plastic waste and make some money out of it...I hope that you never become one (but you might be)....I'm not sure about what the last bit is about entirely
Nov 16, 22

If you could go back to when you were just starting out, what would you do differently, knowing now what you didn't know then. Would you marry the same person, buy your house somewhere different, have kids, go for more holidays or train... See more
APB
Its a tricky one...you don't just know more now...you are probably quite a different person too...I don't know how I would get on with myself when I was 23....radically different to now....your life experiences have contributed a lot to who you are at the moment...if you tinker in the past you will be different in the present...its all connected and hopefully a learning experience
Nov 25, 22

I think the pros are you not going to waste money on something that other person don't like/need/want, but on the other hand there is not any personal input to it anymore. I know some people from my family would get really mad if I give them gift... See more
mary c
Yep- got one for my daughter at her fave Beauty Salon where she gets all her nails, hair, lashes things done. So different from her mummy at same age.
Nov 23, 22
Hey there fine Rewardian Geniuses..this is a dilemma for a close family member of mine who is very important to me. Their spouse has retired a year or so ago- made Redundant. They have continued to catchup and stay in touch with a... See more
Lachelle B
Hi Mary, I have a good male mate, I spend nights over there, he comes over here occasionally (he lives in the wop wops). 90% of my mates are male (less hassle lol). I don't hide my phone, say where I'm going and who with, etc. There needs to be proof, acting on suspicion can break a relationship with no substance to back it. Get your family member to meet the colleague, if the spouse has nothing to hide then no worries. My partner is fine with my friendship with my mate. It's called trust (insert happy emoji smiley face).
Oct 25, 22

Recently as I scrolled through Instagram looking at my friend s holiday activities, it struck me that we all have different interests and hobbies. One family I know makes time to plan a family backpacking adventure every summer. Another one... See more
Gigi
Being together without contention and not having to be doing something special to have good, quality time with your family. It's the little things that matter most. Sure doing activities is great. But it isn't a prerequisite to quality time with family. Just be....and appreciate each other.
Oct 15, 22

In this technological world, where machines are replacing by human power in each corner of life. We are surrounded by machines, and now restaurant owners want to replace staff to robot servers. See more
Christina C 466456
Yeah why not. A robot wont cough/breathe covid onto my food, pass on hepatitis or be rude.
In Japan they have these robot waiters which are remotely connected to customer service people - some of which have disabilities, so it gives them a job plus merges the human aspect of customer service into the android. I thought that was quite neat.
Oct 11, 22

If you had a choice to remodel any room in your home with no expense spared, which room or area would you remodel? Even if you rent and can't just change a room, forget about that and choose anyhow. See more
APB
This is a question...not a discussion.... because there is nothing to discuss...is there?..all I can discuss is your question...so I am trying....
Aug 26, 22

Do you find living in a country area makes you a second class citizen, but a happier and healthier one? See more
Joe B 288252
Rubbish, no way country living will make you a second class citizen. It will give you a far better understanding of the basic things in life…..lol
Aug 19, 22
Do you find the grammar used in public statements is atrocious these days? I cringe nearly every day at the obvious errors made in newspaper, television and radio reports. Today an instruction to a group I am associated with stated that for a... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Grammer is important in a formal setting (Example: Law office). Grammer is not important in an informal setting (Example: Rewardia.com).
Aug 12, 22
Since I have all kinds of latent criminal behavior in me (HAHA) - the movie where the ending completely surprises me is "Thief" starring James Caan (1981). See more
OKIE K
How about a book instead, it's just the one where the ending literally made me do a double take and really really stuck with me. It's Rebecca by Daphne DuMaurier - they did make a movie of it though,I think with big name actors even, but I haven't seen it. I do a lot more reading!
Jul 20, 22
Hello dear fellow Rewardian grafters..anyone got some good tv shows/movies etc they are watching at moment? We haven't gone anywhere since march coz of covid version 201 having fun in the community and ruining ours. So lots of... See more
boy blunder
yep we watched Yellowstone 3 seasons, I think it's on stan a great show, and bosch is also on stan I think 6 seasons, I also got into watching concerts on youtube
Jul 13, 22

Recently, I read a report stating that the production of making an Electric vehicle was more damaging to the environment than the production of petrol driven cars. And a well maintained small petrol car in its lifetime was just as clean to the... See more
Linda C
I'm not impressed by them. You still have to make the cars and that involves the usual stuff. You have to generate more electricity to accommodate the increase in electric cars and of course outlets all over the place. I guess we need the cons and negatives to really understand if there are any actual benefits. Of course, the world is probably running out of oil so this could be the impetus to change the fuel. My car is 20 years old and I just had it serviced and checked and it is in good nick. Mind you I have not even reached 70000ks yet so I do not drive much and most of those k's were in the first 10 years. lol
Jun 30, 22

Reputation matters. As social beings we re hardwired to care what others think. A good reputation takes time to build, but can be destroyed by just one misstep or allegation. For many, the online world turns reputation damage into inescapable... See more
APB
Reputation in the real world (remember that) is hard won and defended...online variants are laughable...so much can be twisted and distorted..or just open and unsupported lies
Jun 24, 22

Falling prey to a con artist can be a humiliating and often expensive exercise. Many cons end in costly court cases, even imprisonment, and that's just for the victims. The perpetrators often appear to be charismatic and charming, but they re far... See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
My ex-wife is charismatic and charming (still CUTE and still has a BODY (not a good foundation for a marriage) - which is still amazing since my ex-wife is eleven years older than me - still a SCAM ARTIST (Does a tiger lose its' stripes as it gets older?) - I guess we all play the FOOL (I know I did) at some point in our Lifes (and your money is going to part from you under suspicious circumstances while you are playing the FOOL). I guess the TRICK is not to make the same mistake twice in your lifetime (easily said - harder to accomplish)!
Jun 20, 22

Without our memories, is it possible to know who we really are and our place in the world? How do you think our memories define us, and what happens when we lose them? See more
Claude H
I am 88 & on the way to not remembering everything but I am making the most of what I have while I can
Jun 18, 22

I have constantly been on diets, I lose my weight, and it slowly creeps back on - what is the secret is there any diet out there that actually makes you happy and keeps your weight off and motivated? See more
Dada WA
I'm not slim and don't try to be. Overweight but at my age why worry. I can get around, play bowls and am mobile. Better than many 80 year olds.
May 10, 22

I started out with steak and burgers....then increasingly more Indian Food as a mainstay ... then suddenly didn't enjoy it much and live now mostly on Italian food...someone else did a similar thing but now lives on Chinese food...how about you? See more
CHERRY BLOSSOM
Yes i think your eating habits change when you get older as i now have a lot of heart burn than when i was younger,so i have to watch what i eat.
May 04, 22

I started to gamble a little this year. Nothing major but playing lotto once a week. I treat it as fun and sometimes win, but not much. So far, I was able to invite my partner for lunch using the win money. Do you guys play Lotto as well? See more
BLACK LIVES MATTER
NOT into any form of gambling - I worked too damn hard for my money (before I retired over 23 years ago and counting) :-))!
Apr 21, 22

So they are talking about having 4 rubbish bins now. A new one for glass only. Most people have 3 bins already. Where are we going to store this one? Council doesn't like you leaving they on the footpath, they look ugly. I sort all my... See more
Gaza
The council expects you to wash recyclables, then the waterboard wants you to save water, ??????????????????
Apr 11, 22

When we think about rising the property market, we should think of our demand in our future generations. There s no point of increasing the prices of our rentals when we know it takes time to find people who want to move in the house, but... See more
Robert L NZ
When we came to Auckland in 1979 we had one wage and our first mortgage with the ASB was 21% , but we survived. Always make the most of what you have got.
Apr 12, 22

Just for our health's sake, we need regular check-ups at the doctors. With women needing mammograms after 50 or so, I once told my GP that checking for breast lumps would be easier if there could be a dummy that women could feel that... See more
Michelle S 553303
As its 19 years to the day since my own dear mother died from breast cancer at the young age of 62, I would agree that existing products such as the one referred to SHOULD be made available. There's a lot of government money spent on utter nonsense that surely funding should be made available to save many, many women just like my own mum. Thanks for reading.
Apr 06, 22

AA is in place for alcoholics! GA is in place for gamblers. Both are big social issues which not only effects the individual but also the entire family. It s like a ripple in a pond. Everybody is effected. Also friends and neighbours as they... See more
Bugalugs
All gambling - yes, including Lotto, Keno and Scratchies, advertising should be banned. Of course no government will ever do so because our politicians are every bit as addicted to the Revenue raised as those addicted to gambling! The advertising is so unbelievably hypocritical, At the end of all those endless advertisements there is always tacked on what are little more than asides, a throwaway few words rattled off at such speed no-one can actually hear what is being said "Gamble Responsibly", Don't spend more than you can afford" and other nonsense. The advertisers simply tack those words on because they are required to do so. I am not sure which TV channels "Shirly H" is writing about but we have not seen any of these ads during Children's programmes,
Mar 08, 22

Recently, one of our local rural roads was reduced in speed to 80kph - this was because it was cheaper than fixing the road in the first place. The road is still terrible to drive on, but it appears the city has first preference when it... See more
The dog house
I travelled through rural area's on a holiday and saw a lot of dead animals such as wombats and kangaroo's. There are signs asking people to reduce their speed for the sake of the poor animal.
Feb 19, 22

I understand that owning a dog should mean walking it...even when you don't want to...but does owning a cat...or a rodent.... or bird keep happier, healthier and more sane? a fair bit of research suggests it might ... what do you think? See more
Nola B 392757
I have accepted many stray cats over the years. They keep me sane, make me laugh and have different personalities. They have different mannerisms and like a variety of music.One I have at the moment loves Mick Jagger singing the blues lol The other one I have to sing his favourite song as HE tucks the sheet under MY chin. Only then he will roll over and go to sleep (bossy bum Maine Coon) LOL I also feed the local crows that have learnt to yell out to me at the front door when they are ready to eat lol I have had to bury many animals which is heart breaking but I wouldn't have missed a day being with any of them. They have given me far more than I gave them.
Mar 03, 22
| Forum Menu |







