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I have problems trying to sleep & I can't sleep. Do you have any great ideas or suggestions of how to fall asleep?
Sha
No eating or drinking before bedtime, it makes me feel bloated. Listen to some soothing music or watch something on TV that can make you nod off. Lol!!!!
Mar 17, 21

I find so many young ones nowadays are always on sick leave or just ring in sick. I have over 100hrs owing to me. I'm hardly ever sick but when I do I feel guilty ringing in. I know I must get over that feeling guilty. Oh well, at least I'm reliable.
Edith v
Self pitying too.If you are genuinely sick there is no reason to feel guilty taking sick leave.However as such a reliable worker your boss could look at paying you for some of the days owing to you .I always did as an employer .
Feb 22, 21

Should the government make COVID-19 vaccination compulsory as many business are?
Margarret F
Absolutely NOT compulsory. The flu vaccination system works without being compulsory - why should anything else change this procedure. Malaria kills millions of children per year too and measles is much more contagious. There is much to consider.
Feb 05, 21

Here in Australia most of the population is in major cities. Australia is known as a wide brown land. Is there a willingness to move to more rural areas if fast rail ever goes ahead or jobs created in large rural towns. Could people in other countries reflect on their situation if it reflects this situation.
Carolyn 395035
I live in a rural area and absolutely love it. Rail - hmmm - what rail??? - We used to have one in Cowra, NSW, but the government decided to close it because it was not making enough money. Same thing happened with the airport. Now the only way people can get here is by train to Bathurst and bus the rest of the way, or you can drive the four hour drive. With due respect to Council, they need to try and get our train lines open again.
Feb 01, 21

We have to live and do the best with what we have. Sometimes I feel so frustrated with myself like a cat - chasing its tail going around and around, have so many bad habitats like all the bad habitats are stopping me from genuinely enjoying and getting the best out of my life. I do have some good habitats like listening to music, god please help me and my family and friends, I know life can be better and more enjoyable god bless you all.
Herb Gardiner.
I only get frustrated when I knock my beer over and it spills onto my breakfast cereal. It makes them taste a tad odd.
Jan 30, 21

Well it's been a roller coaster of a ride this year globally. I have met some great people on Rewardia and hope next year will be positive for everyone. I thought I would go out with a poem that sums up a typical Christmas for our family. Aunty May has come to stay with Uncle Bob close by her side, I let out a groan, the kids all moan and my partner's gone to hide! The pavlova's gone flat, I can't find my cat and the turkey is horrid and dry. The pool's sprung a...
Wazzahen
Although this year was terrible for many who have lost their lives but we will cheer those who have overcome their adversity & are here to celebrate the New Year with some trepidation but also hope that we will become stronger & more caring for our family,friends and neighbours
Dec 31, 20

I love self-checkout. It's quick, easy and I don't have to deal with other human beings. Perfection. I know some people detest self-checkout though. I am not one of them.
Phyrephly
I'm afraid I don't have very much luck with the machines, they don't seem to even what to take my money! You can hear the machines moaning when I walk up to them! And yeah, agree with David S, jobs being eroded.
Aug 16, 20
Why do so many survey companies need to know if there are any children under 17 in your house?...I find that really creepy..particularly when they find out there are none..and then throw you out of the survey...come on...that is at best strange....
Cindy N 315785
I feel like that when they ask about all your assets too. Do you have a dishwasher, a dryer, surround sound system, Smart TV etc.....? It's like they're casing the place.....
May 13, 26
How is everyone coping with the escalating cost of petrol/diesel in your country now due to the blockage of fuel tankers from the Strait of Hormuz. I live in New Zealand and 91 has gone up to $3.69 per litre. It was well under $3 per litre in February this year. Also it is scary to think that we might run out of diesel in 3 weeks time.
Woodster
I filled up on the day the Iran war broke out and don't drive much but the price of 91 in South Australia is around $2.40 I think and the next fill up will be with clenched teeth! You fuel in NZ is very expensive KittyK, in February ours was around $1.59.
Mar 29, 26

The best deals are usually immediately after Christmas. This because the retail stores want to sell the materials they have overstocked on. And want to do this as quickly as possible. What is your experience?
Jellypony
Merry Christmas every one, let's hope there is more compassion and love in the world in 2026. Have a great time no matter where you are and with what you have planned for the festive season, Good luck, stay calm and enjoy good foods with family and friends.
Dec 21, 25

No matter how good-looking a car may be, safety should always come first. As well as looking out for features such as ABS, traction control, and airbags, you should also check the safety record. What features or characteristics do you value most in a vehicle?
lippy loo
I like the older cars with manual transmissions and wind down windows which are plus for safety. If you break down you can push the car and even push start it. If you go into water you can wind the windows down and get out not so in electric cars etc.
There is so much going on in the new cars that it is distracting the drivers.
Oct 22, 25

Ingredients: - 500g mince meat (beef, chicken, or your choice) - 1 jar passata sauce - 1 packet taco seasoning mix (use half if you prefer less spice) - Grated cheese (cheddar or a cheese blend) - 1 onion (optional) - Vegetables of your choice (e.g. capsicum, corn, zucchini optional) - 250 300g pasta (penne, spiral, or your preferred type) Instructions: 1. Preheat oven to 160 180°C (320 355°F). 2. Cook the pasta in boiling...
Von
Aaaw..Let's not be too hard on Rebecca...it's obvious she meant mince meat...not mice meat.
This looks like a quick and easy meal.
May 08, 25
Dear Rewardians! We would like to introduce two new games that we have added today to the Play and Earn section. The first game is "Hexagon Fall," where the goal is to remove blocks to let your hexagon fall down. The second game is "Find Me," where you have to find the specific player in the crowd before time runs out. Since we have just added these games today, they haven't had time to gain a rank yet and are currently at the bottom of the list.
Jewel
I see Thomas is at the top of the leader board for Hexagon fall...just wondering how many points you accumulated? I am sitting at no.5 and for my top scoring game I only got 2 points! Hardly worth the effort.
The Find Me game seems to cheat...I click on the man multiple times before it finally registers and then only ever seem to get 2 points.
Jan 31, 25

What food do you love that other people seem to think is odd? Or what food do you loathe that others seem to love? I really like coriander (aka cilantro for the US users) as do my sisters. I use it a lot when making Thai dishes. My adult 'kids' hate it, to them, it tastes like soap. (clearly their dad's gene's influencing it) I can't stand olives or oysters, but they are both quite popular with others. How about you ? Do you have foods you love/ hate...
Thylas
I love most seafood but do not like oysters. The appearance of them and the texture is revolting. Yet many people seem to think they're marvellous. I also think kangaroo is disgusting too. Plenty fellow Aussies seem to think it's marvellous, but to me it smells and tastes like it's off.
Mar 04, 25
I just completed a Silver survey fro 750 points Anyone else completed a Silver survey?
Chin C
I completed the same survey too tonight. Surprised to see a new colour. Also, my survey list has been spammed by Purple surveys today. All 20 of them, none are accessible - either saying you already attempted the survey or you have been screened out. Yet the surveys won't disappear, just sit there looking pretty.
Mar 08, 24

I had a MIL from hell. Enough said on her. The daughter was much the same, though cut from the same cloth as my Mum used to say. My girlfriend's MIL actually was another. My friend had 2 young boys and all were little surfers (I live in Queensland, Australia). MIL decided they should not have the blonde curls (the hair was not that long, and they looked lovely) and so she buzz cut it all off. I would have never trusted her with my kids again as she knew...
Janet 1621979
In general I have found most In Laws are what you make them. I have seen MIL's that have been very pushy ..... but you just have to set boundries. If your In Laws are doing something you are not happy with - be honest AND TELL THEM (politely). Something like "I appreciate what you are saying ... but these are my kids - my rules". If a MIL is to cut your child's hair without FIRST checking with you - I can assure you she would NOT DO IT TWICE in my house. She would get very cool treatment from me. I do agree that it is often a MIL who is not happy about who her son has chosen..... a very stupid woman I say.
Jan 23, 25
My favorite TV series is 'The Night Stalker' (1974 - 1975). My second favorite TV series is 'The Prisoner' (1967 - 1968). My third favorite TV series is 'The Avengers' starring Honor Blackman (1961 - 1964) - she left the series after the third season. The TV series 'The Avengers' ran from 1961 - 1969!
PatCat
My whole family were fans of the "Vera" series. I've seen some of them again recently and found them much more "real" than any of the new cop series. Seems just like what has happened to the ABC. They take away more and more of their funding and they can't afford good writers and actors to play them. My brother-in-law still chortles over " Fawlty Towers", and "Life of Brian" endlessly.
Dec 28, 24
"Pluggers" are defined as rural, blue-collar workers who live a typical working-class lifestyle, accompanied by a mentality characteristic of the G.I. and Baby Boomer generations. If you think you are a "Plugger", what is it that you do, that makes you think you qualify?
Gigi
You know Aussies and Americans have very different ways of saying things. Constantly am I confronted with a word I'd have no way of knowing in which context you are using it in......like Plugger. Lol
Nov 25, 24
Seen an ad for reusable toilet rolls (cloths). $49 for 24. Would you use them. Also similar for dogs but more expensive. I guess its in line with cloth nappies many years ago. But not for me.
Holly Cat
Next someone will be selling eco friendly leaves you can use and throw outside when you're done :). They clean you and can be used as fertilizer, good for the garden.
Oct 23, 24
I recently was chatting with my neighbours about one in particular who as I write this is merrily out the front of my windows with his little man power tool collection ,including my all time favourite the angle grinder. I have slammed my windows shut twice now but he does not pick up on the fact I may be slightly irritated having ringing ears.. Funny tho ,I can listen to music on loud all day long but he is the first to complain if there's a party next door as they...
mary c
ohhhh so many many noises...except my own loud music haha. Hate people coughing and sneezing these day- not sure why???
Hate hearing my dog swallowing noisily in the night, or noisily licking nethers eww. Hate hate noisy boy racers revving down our street late at night and doing wheelies at the roundabouts. Though i would probably be one of them if i was young and a lad. And there's more...HATE the sounds of those Gunshot firecrackers that people let off..that freak us and our animals out.
Hubby hates the sound of his neighbour howling..yes howling. And the guy who power saws bits of wood for hours in the nearby workshop. He turned up on a sunday once to cut wood- until a certain man in tank chair zoomed over and gesticulated at him to F.O.
Jan 01, 23

Women who have Caesarean births in Scotland go home on the second day of the birth. This is a financial decision, not a medical one. Surely, the care of the mother and child should be paramount. I was concerned when I heard this. Do you think this is going too far in the cost-cutting exercise, potentially putting patients at risk?
Liane H
Absolutely disgraceful. Higher risk of post natal depression and undiagnosed versions of it ...
Why put so much pressure on new mums ? Day 3 is the worst day after birth for the baby blues to set in and milk production to come in properly ,then complications can arise ... that is all just after a natural childbirth!
Aug 19, 24

My problem is that I always forget to eat lunch. I'm not hungry, and I get busy during the day. My meter is happy, though. I googled to see how many meals we should eat each day, and it varies. I've read articles saying we could just eat one big meal each day. I've read articles saying we should eat 6 small meals a day. How many meals do you eat? Do you think eating only breakfast and dinner is a bad thing? Or should we beat eating 5 or 6 times a day. How often do...
Linda Humby
I admit, I have a smoothie nearly every morning for breakfast. I often have a quiche or peanut butter sandwich for lunch, and meat and vegies for dinner, (about 3 x a week) I recently read the Whole meal Bread with Smooth peanut butter, No sugar/salt, actually helps your weight and digestion when eaten before bed. So that's my new favorite bedtime snack. It seems to help. Ive been dieting for 6 months. I lost 25 kgs but am a bit stuck for loosing the last 20-15 kgs. In the last month, Ive gone back up 1 kg...grrr... AnY tips? Im trying to Eat Less and Move More.
Aug 08, 24

We are seriously considering fostering a child. We need to consider many negative and positive aspects. Do you have any insights or advice based on your experience?
Teri 1282723
I've done it. And if you truly love people and want to help someone who isn't old enough to speak up for themselves, I recommend you do it as well. I grew up in a home where my parents nearly always had 1-3 foster children sharing our lives. We learned as children that fosters come and go, but we were able to adopt 2 of the boys. They are my brothers through and through. The girls that I fostered were being abused, both 16 years old. One was being beaten regularly by her mother and stabbed once, the other was being raped by her mother's live-in boyfriend. The time with them was only a few months each but it was enough to let them know there are good people in the world and both changed into good people themselves. One has a lovely family and the other is a veterinary technician. Both are happy:)
I very highly recommend fostering if you honestly feel your heart wanting to help. You don't get much financially, but you get loads in return emotionally. As much as you know they will most likely be leaving your home at some point, each and every one of them stay in your heart forever. You love with all purity of intentions and build them up and show them good in their world. You will make a positive difference for each child.
Jun 17, 24
Ok so they may not have made it to superstardom and won the competition, but some Auditions / performances seem to stick in your memory. Or you may have found one randomly watching other music show clips . Old or new. In fact Dance or other talents ,, magic shows, comedy acts ,,whatever!! Here's one of my favourites. Shavia ( will link underneath)
Holly Cat
I was wondering where you went :) I also like metal, so found this metal cover....Rocio, Sweet Dreams:
https://youtu.be/78Mh3hIh0I8?si=hB-BbTB3C1Lh4LTV
Mar 25, 24

If you invited a friend over for dinner, and you suddenly became ill just an hour before they were to show up, do call them to tell them you suddenly fell ill thinking they may feel you're cancelling because you really don't want them to come, or do you tell them the truth to protect them from catching the illness?
Witchypoo
Tell them that whilst you were preparing dinner you tested it for taste and now you feel ill! \ud83e\udd74
May 27, 24
WSP (Wealth, Status ,and Power) or if you prefer (CP) Class and Power is tearing the USA apart. The USA was the last country (for a HAVE country) - too outlaw slavery - and that took a civil war! Democrats tried too undermine the election results in 2016 - Hillary Clinton (which the public does not acknowledge). Republicans are trying to undermine election results in 2020 - President Donald Trump (Trump is not a budding genius...
phillH
The problem is you americans are under the delusion that you think your country is the greatest thing on this planet when in fact most of the world generally dislikes your country and what it stands for and finds most of you very irritating and quite honestly I couldnt give a rats arse if your country dissolves into anarchy
May 18, 23

How often have we said that someone is "just jealous" when they have offended us in some way. I was a bit shocked one day when one friend told me that another had said this about me after I'd said I didn't think a certain outfit would suit her. I knew she really liked the outfit, but I truly thought she would look better in something more suitable for her weight and shape. I worried over this for some time and concluded that while she has a lot of expensive things that...
Mayhem
My friends jealous because my puppy is better looking than hers .. we are both still besties and always will be ..
Apr 04, 24
Dear Rewardia. It would be extremely nice if I wasn't getting screened out of nearly all surveys. I am genuinely trying to earn points and it feels like I am being blocked from doing so. It is NOT good enough and it is NOT acceptable. Please fix this
PatCat
It depends on things such as, are you working, do you have children under 18, how old are you? It never seems to be a realization that of those who do these surveys, many are at home due to health or age and therefore we can't answer the questions asked.
Feb 22, 24
Ok, so today I heard the story about the 50 year old man who, because he identifies as a 15 year old girl, has been accepted with open arms into a swimming team of girls aged between 13 and 15. And...as if that's not insane enough, this 50 year old man (fully equipped with 50 year old man bits and functioning eyes) is changing in the same change room as his fellow swimmers. So I ask the question...would you be happy to let your young daughter swim and change...
Glenice L 1244113
Oooops! Grandpa may be getting over the hill there!
I've heard of MAP (minor attracted person), but it seemed too filthy for my frame of mind to read any further.
Feb 01, 24

Checkout aisle and impulse Items designed to give you another opportunity to purchase. While you are waiting in line, you look over and see some candy or gum. There are also magazines and other items at the checkout. This is a prime spot for stores to sell impulse items. What are your thoughts? How do stores get us to buy more?
...***...
Don't get sucked in. It's a mind game. Your mind is the decider in the end, you decide to purchase that on a whim. Then the market wins because they got your money. I never impulse purchase, and It's like ads, I mute ads so I do not buy into that crap
Jan 24, 24

Every year we exchange gifts with my sons-in-law, dad and aunt. Most times we do it through my daughter, so we don t even see each other. Many times we get gifts we don t want and either re-gift them or give them to my daughter. I prefer not to exchange gifts. My daughter says just don t give them one. They are not buying for us in expectation of a gift in return. What do others think about this??
Michelle Z 978367
Christmas time to me is all about giving not receiving. If you really want to give a gift donate a child's toys under the Kmart tree for a child in need.
Or perhaps donate an amount that you can afford to charity.
Dec 13, 23

My answer would be no, just because you don t have kids doesn t mean you don t have friends or family that is looking forward to spending the holidays with you. I don t think parents should always be first in line, but I also don t think the person who has been there the longest should always get first pick either. Rotating is probably the most fair option. What do you think?
Claude H
No. There are too many laws now giving preference to everyone. We are all equal & should have equal rights.
Nov 27, 23

Unfortunate events taking place, what has your experience been if applicable and if you are comfortable to share any thoughts? From insurance claim to finding repairers and replacements, or is it market value and any negotiations that have to be made.
LindaB
I overtook a guy 2 days ago and he obviously didn't like being overtaken by a woman because he rammed his car into mine and ran me off the road! I guess it's not technically an accident as he did it on purpose.
Nov 17, 23

Does it annoy you when people leave rubbish in the shopping trolley? Like the shopping trolley is the garbage. I found drink containers from a take-away and a paper in a shopping trolley, when the supermarket was busy and not many trolleys were available. A garbage bin had been provided at the front of the store, in a convenient location. What's next?
Jeneral
There are far more serious issues that concern me in this world than someone leaving rubbish in a trolley.
Oct 12, 23

How to deal with bullying and harassment in the work place? I've been at a job for 2 years with constant bullying from a couple coworkers.. Management doesn't do anything I just don't know what to do. Need this job yet being pushed to the edge. Some advice please :/
Neo
It is sad to say that though companies love to say how inclusive they are and how much they don't tolerate bullying that they do nothing when things are reported and even going higher up the chain of command does nothing. Your options are then:
1/ Report the matter to the government authority for action
2/ Tolerate it
3/ Resign
Not fair but this is life and it is sad to say nothing changes.
Sep 17, 23

I had a friend who recently got scammed buying puppies from unlicensed sellers, he confronted him and managed to get his money back and that was that for him, I didn't get that I wanted to bring him down, so I ask you, you catch someone scamming you or misleading the public do you get your money back with an apology [maybe] or do you pursue them with the law and shut them down, hopefully, maybe get jail time for them
APB
sorry this one in a lot list of where Rewardia could have added another word to make the title make sense (no offense Blunder)..it should be their job to fix these easy problems..it's happened me too..its not necessary and embarrasing
..nobody home?
Aug 10, 23

Doing Shift Work I find it Really hard to have that Balance . On my day off I am so tired I never get to catch up on what needs to be done. Anyone else feel the same?
Edith v
Yes I have done shift work 1 week 6am-2pm the next week 2pm -6pm the worst one 6pm-6am however the money was very good.it was in UK in the 50's.I earned double the wage my uncle earned & he had a wife & 3 kids to support .I was the only Australian in the whole factory.Any time I had off I visited other counties. Only 2 weeks holiday but then it was over to Europe The factory girls were fabulous We went to Liverpool to the Cavern because a new group were there called "The Beatles"It was a great era & for me "I had the time of my Life"
Jul 20, 23

What are your thoughts when you first walk into a store. Would you prefer someone who works there to come up to you right away and greet you and ask if you need assistance, or would you rather browse yourself and ask for assistance when you need it? I've had both scenarios where I went to a store to look for shoes and nobody greeted me or asked if I needed help looking for a size when I needed help, to someone constantly asking if I need help while I'm browsing every...
Liane H
A friendly smile on entering or if they are busy when you do ,then an acknowledgement that you are instore at some stage of the game is always welcomed! Can't stand indifferent rude staff.
Jun 21, 23

Last year I had my grandsons christening. I ordered him a personalised money box, engraved with his name & date of christening, 16 Oct 2022. Since the occasion, I have pondered on if the date on his money box should have been his date of birth, 12 Jan 2022, or the christening date? I am interested in people's thoughts as to which is correct?
Miss Jackson
I don't know I'm not Catholic. We bless babies in our church. Is a christening, giving a baby a blessing? I think it's wonderful to give babies spiritual blessings. :)
Apr 13, 23
Anyone had one of those days? I feel for this guy...see vid below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZe5K1DN4ec
Lachelle B
Maybe he was trying to print in colour but it only prints black \ud83e\udd23. How many eggs have you consumed thus far Mary?
Apr 07, 23
Random story-time...freeflow...add anything you like. Here's the Start of the Tale.. Once Upon a time far far away..rotating slowly on a creaking rusty axis, was the mysterious and often-times troubled Land of Rewardia. One Rewardian day (in Earth time that being 64 hours) the Peoples of Rewardia were more restless than usual. It wasn't because the 2 and a half moons were orbiting dangerously close to each other or because the native beast of...
Witchypoo
\u2026 there were absolutely no red surveys left, at all. What is a person supposed to do now? Perhaps I\u2019ll have a cup of tea, a BEX and a good lay down\u2026.. Now the bloody phone is ringing AND there\u2019s someone at the door. Oh! It\u2019s\u2026\u2026
Mar 24, 23
Is it a child s upbringing at home, educational experiences, peer pressure or just the norm that children now lack respect for parents/ carers/ teachers/ authority figures and sadly themselves.
Christina C 466456
This is a common theme throughout history: elderly people think that youths are wayward, youths think that the elderly are grumpy, every generation seems to be worse than the last. But in the grand scheme of things youths are just being youths and act according to their influence and cultural norms.
Here's some good quotes from a few old timers:
Socrates:
"Children; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. They no longer rise when elders enter the room, they contradict their parents and tyrannize their teachers. Children are now tyrants.\u201d
Plato:
" No man should bring children into the world who is unwilling to persevere to the end in their nature and education "
So in a nutshell, youths are just behaving as they always have. But yes child upbringing is the most important for determining a child's character later in life so if you want good kids then you need to be the best role model for them and the best educator that you can be.
Mar 05, 23

Hollywood seems to like remakes, sequels and superhero movies (yawn)...but with our current CGI there are so many fantastic books that deserve to be made into movies...things that would really blow you away......one is "Fairyland" by Paul J. McAuley ... I'd love to see that one made.... What books would you like made into major movies?
Pato Lo Duck
What’s the point of wanting a movie made of a book you have already read, you already know the plot, know how it ends and know that it will never be as good as your imagination made it when you read it… Of course if you have dementia then that would excuse some people I guess..
Feb 20, 23

What time should different aged teenagers be given for a curfew in this day and age? What factors come into play when deciding a time that is reasonable to you? If your children are grown, or you never had any, please still share your feelings and/or what worked for you? If you have no feelings on the subject, that's fine as well. Non-parents still can have ideas on the subject.
Virgogirl
Of course teen of all ages need curfews. School nights especially. Nothing good ever happens after midnight still applies today.
Dec 19, 22
I am always surprised by all the talent that is lurking away in New Zealand...and there is loads of it that I have no idea about...for sure... ...so come on and give us the tracks and videos that you love
Liane H
Scribe ! sorry A , cover thine ears it is new age stuff ..
https://youtu.be/OkgMt9BVsvQ (easy beats tho :) )
Jan 26, 23

Lots of people in the age 20-30 bracket are choosing to have an engagement ring that does not include a diamond, what could be the reason behind this trend? Cost? Straying from tradition?
merricat
Judging from the number of ads and commercials featuring diamonds, I would have to say that diamonds are still the preferred choice for engagement rings.
Jan 14, 23

Mum irons everything, including t-shirts & towels, what do you iron?
Rhian C
Nothing.. I don’t even own an iron! I used to do ironing as a kid as part of chores but I wash, hang on line, fold and put away, I don’t have creased clothes either so don’t see need to waste my time ironing,, would rather use that time more productively!
Jan 10, 23

Should people have to pay to have their animal checked if they are just worried about a weird behaviour of their animal, if the animal isn t treated.
Jan K (Central Vic)
our vet charged $110 call out fee, and a 120 $ fee for travel...to see our old dog when it was too hot to transport her in the car....bit rich really
Jan 05, 23

What is your favorite short poem or quote from a person, book or poem? I really enjoy picking up quotes for inspiration or to help me express how I feel. Do you? Please share your personal favorites
Maria B 89860
I have come up with a few myself and this one in particular has amused quite a few kindred spirits:
"In my garden most things grow.Mostly things I didn't sow!"Some of you may have heard me sigh about this a few times and know what I mean!
Jan 03, 23
Yes, this can seem like a very sombre and morbid thing to think about, let alone talk about... but we are all going to die eventually. Celebrating our lives after we have gone doesn't have to be a sad thing. Most people have some type of music played to see them off, what 3 songs would you select for your final farewell? I would have: * Slim Dusty- "The Biggest Disappointment" I chose this song because it is how i feel about my blood family. They...
Grommie
Funerals are for the living, not the dead. I came into the world with no fanfare, and intend to leave the same way. The only winners out of funerals are undertakers, florists, printers, vicars and caterers.
But if somebody wants to, as the ashes go over the side, play The Streets of London. on a cheap trannie /tape recorder will do.
Jul 14, 22

I have recently started using the new Laundromat that has opened up down the shops. Wow, just like everything else, the prices have risen. It's now $6 for a small washing load and $8 for the larger machine. I have no idea what the dryers cost. Luckily, I only do a load of clothes and a load of linen once a fortnight. Do you think they are fair prices or too steep?
Tom S Qld
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 2 years
($8 x 52 wks x 2 = $832)
A good new washing machine will cost $800, then after 2 yrs the washes are free. The machine will probably last for 20 yrs.
If you go to a laundromat once a week for 20 years
($8 x 52 wks x 20 = $8320)
Buy a washing machine!
Dec 11, 22
Is there more to anything physical sometimes? Could it be a meeting of the minds or a connection you have found online that finds you more curious than you would like to be about someone you've never met? Interested if this has ever happened to you or someone you know had even met up in reality ...
allinyourhead
does shaky pudding on top of a laptop on a desk constitute falling in love online?,, if so,, yes, hi Liane, yes it is i, the wandering vagabond on return,, but i been looking around, and it seems that you and Mary have been passing out mushrooms to all the participants in our club,, strange shyt going on, people's names changing, A has the covid, Brad has changed his name folks disappearing, well i did that twice, once rewardia's fault ,and the 2nd time was my fault,, so lemme know if i fell in love online or not, laptop was on, had internet connectin
Dec 08, 22
I am "feeding" off foodie discussions by some of you dear folks at the moment and discussion's with a Learned friend here.. So my recipe du jour is Caramilk No Bake Slice.. whats not to like?? Apart from the fact it sounds incredibly sweet and would prob make my remaining teeth ache! Anyone have something decadent or deliciously desirable they would like to make? or get someone else to make and they just eat it!
Christina C 466456
Alison Holst recipe makes the best citrus slice - loved by all. It's my mums book so don't have name of it.
Go to Mac n cheese is from Brian Lagerstrom. It's lighter than the traditional rue recipes and is very quick to prepare - YouTube 10 min Mac n cheese Brian Lagerstrom.
Tahini choc chip cookies from David Lebovits - best cookies I've ever made, such a good recipe. His lemon cake is a crowd pleaser too. Highly recommend any of his recipes.
Dec 02, 22

As you age, do you find yourself reminiscing on your earlier years? Do you look back with fondness or regret? Would you change some of your choices, or are you happy with your outcome? What would you do differently?
Michelle S 553303
I'm almost 58 and my dad is 83 years old. I was emailing him on Monday and I told him how sorry I was that it was a very difficult day for him. You see it would have been my brother's 56th birthday except that he died 3 years ago in a car crash. As it was just my mum, dad, brother and myself growing up it is now only my dad and I who survive today as my mother passed away nearly 20 years ago. He said to me "Michelle, every day is a memory day". I told him that I'm finally old enough to understand that each day you find yourself reflecting on memories from the good, the bad and the ugly things that you've experienced in life and I find myself starting to play the "what if" game! What if I hadn't gone out to the disco and met the man who would have become my husband and the father of my children when I was supposed to be staying at a friend's house and not going out at all or what if I had been content to stay at the house my family had been living in, paid that mortgage off and reduced my full-time work to part-time and stayed home more often with my kids, instead of insisting that we renovate the home that I had inherited 75% of which was really my dream to do and to honour the memory of the ladies who gave it to me, but ultimately led to my husband going off with another woman he met while I was at work doing night shifts as an RN and then led to me ultimately having to walk away from and go bankrupt. I could do this all day but the nights are the worst. I don't think when I was younger that I could perceive of me at 57, hardly able to walk, with very little money and without an ability to do the things I used to love, including my job, and existing in constant pain. THIS me was abstract like a Picasso and bore no resemblance to who I am today and I think that we all reach a point in our lives where we can reflect on the good, the bad and the ugly and some of us can find peace in that, but I look back on my life, on my kids and EVERYTHING else and I ABSOLUTELY wish, with ALL my heart, that I hadn't ever been born! Thanks for reading.
Oct 19, 22
We are going through yet another tough time in our family-extremely serious. I am curious-what do you draw strength from when things are scary, bleak, or overwhelming? I myself am a Christian, and I do believe prayer helps, but I also keep my friends and family very close. Not trying to be controversial....it's on my mind right now. It's awful when you are having it come from more than one direction. That's it. Thanks and take care of yourselves.
Gigi
Well, Nancy, whatever is hittin you hard right now, I'm very sorry you are going through such turmoil. I'm Christian too and the only place real peace and coping comes from is our Father in Heaven and His Son, Jesus Christ. Christ knows your heart and situation because He knows you intimately and there is a reason behind what you're going through. You've got to keep praying and putting one foot in front of the other and cry and let your pain out that way if it helps. I'm going through incredibly tough times too, so I can empathize with you and feeling like you have nowhere to turn and that your burdens are too heavy. My husband is young and term ill. He's dying before my eyes, my sweet loving husband who is a wonderful man, which is hard to find these days... but that's beside the point. I just can't stand the thought of losing him soon and the wrenching my heart will go through. I have a severe debilitating disability myself and it's difficult to care for him when I'm having such a hard time. But it is a privilege to care for him and have the little time I do have left. Just remember that you are not alone. There are people in your life that I know must love and care about you immensely and don't want to see you suffer. Try to put good things, (books, movies, positive talk) into your head so you are feeding your soul positivity and not negativity. Stay close to your God. He's there, I know He is. I wish there was a magical answer to going through tough times, but really there isn't. I only know what I try to do to help myself through mine. I find that focusing on other people and doing acts of service for others always helps me to feel better and focus on others who are hurting too. I will remember your name and what you've written here and include you in my daily quiet time that I take to talk to my Heavenly Father. I don't know you, except what you wrote, but I assure you, your Heavenly Father sure does. I am your sister in life. Please know you are loved. Peace and clarity be yours.
Oct 12, 22
What are green, there are lots of them, they won't give you anything and they keep coming back....
APB
Are you having a day off?
there was a bit of drama on the bongo page
...I didn't have anything to do with it...well not directly...but it was a lot of fun....and I got told off for joining in...as you can imagine..I am deeply shocked....what me?
Jun 12, 22

In this technological world, where machines are replacing by human power in each corner of life. We are surrounded by machines, and now restaurant owners want to replace staff to robot servers.
Pato Lo Duck
I would have to assume that you don’t have to tip a robot..(unless you get bad service and decide to tip it over..)
Oct 11, 22
For example i recently watched manifest because i love the concept of time travel.
Denise C (Qld)
I love watching The Chase Australia and enjoy testing my own knowledge to the questions presented and am estatic if the contestants win their overall game.
Oct 02, 22

The whole world seems to be "tooling up"...tripling its spend on high-tech weapons and war machinery ... suddenly cost isn't an issue.....it's a great time to have a job in modern combat manufacturing, isn't it? A real boom time for one and all...the tills are ringing...the more hi tech the better...they can't build it all fast enough...have we got enough drones? better strap some guns on those robots from Boston Dynamics...when are those submarines coming?....anybody else...
Rockchi
I wish Robin Williams was still around, just to hear him say "Good morning Austraaaaaliiiaaaa!!! But seriously the world is not looking great at the moment. At least the news has something else to talk about other than climate change
Sep 26, 22
We've all been there, certain for years that we had the words of our favourite tunes impressed into our musical memory . Deep in the corners of our oh ,so imaginative minds,we thought yeah , I got this down.! ... but then you got the actual album and read the inserts , or nowadays can read the lyrics at a mere tap of a finger and even get the meaning (thanku internet).like wow unheard of ! I came across a classic one the other day on twitter .a parent overheard their 8...
mary c
Great topic Liane :) Great laff at the 7 teeth.
Just slippin' this song in as i used to make words up for bits i couldn't quite get..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BciS5krYL80
and Rains in Africa by Toto- i used to ad lib that one quite a bit. Hubby has some trippy speakers these days and i can pick up lyrics i used to never know :)
Sep 26, 22

Would making more time for ourselves, friends and family improve the quality of lives, tell us what you think?
Kathy C 90112
Sounds good if you can afford to, better work life balance, but production is directly linked to inflation, less production, higher inflation. Can you imagine , its hard enough as it is now, its been shown that lower production has caused many a countries into dire situations
Sep 24, 22

I m facing the very real possibility to have full upper dentures. I m very afraid. Many people wear dentures, I d like to ask your experiences. Is it very uncomfortable? Is it possible to get used to it?! If you have one, do you wear it all the time? Thank you
Disie
I just got a partial upper plate but wasn't ready for the lack of taste and texture. Not having the food on your palate takes that. You still taste, but it's not as intense. I actually cried when they told me. So I understand your hesitancy. The one question I'll ask is; Is it necessary for you to eat properly and still have healthy gums and teeth? If so, keep your teeth for as long as possible,
Sep 11, 22

Anyone has any good book recs that don't have a lot of smut? But still have a good romance and not super childish
Thylas
What is Book Tok? I'm afraid those of us who are of older generations don't understand the modern terms that are used. I love books and reading though , and while I prefer real tangible books I will also read Kindle.
Aug 30, 22
It has been said that whilst "normal" petrol powered vehicles are polluting evil and bad for all sorts of reasons that Electric Vehicles actually take 3 times the amount of resources to manufacture and need replacing more often that the old petrol guzzlers! - What do you think?
APB
There are safety issues too in the event of crash...I was told that the power supply needs to be disabled before trapped people can be cut out of electric vehicles...and I haven't forgotten the "smart" Tesla whose door failed to open when it hit a tree....everyone present had to watch the poor Doctor inside burn to death....my petrol driven car uses less fuel than a hybrid...might be worth waiting for a hydrogen powered car?...Hyundai already make them....or cold fusion?
...GREAT SCOTT!!!
Aug 19, 22

Do you find living in a country area makes you a second class citizen, but a happier and healthier one?
Pearlz
I lived in the country and I was not happier. Anytime we had any type of medical problem we had to travel for an hour for treatment. Anytime we wanted to shop in a large store we had to travel for an hour. Our fuel cost more as did many other things due to transport. We had 2 TV stations and one local radio station. There were far more drugs around than we ever saw in the big smoke and our children got a better education and better jobs. Even 20 years later our friends who remained there still had to travel for some medical appointments. The only thing we did miss was the beach and stopped going once we had moved. Far too many people at suburban beaches.
Aug 19, 22

OK...scientists worked out that aluminium from cooking pots and pans could leach out into what was cooking and that we could be eating aluminium...YUCK...get rid of all your aluminium cookware...it's poisoning you...THEN...scientists said that aluminium is not only totally harmless....but also passes straight through your body too...since then we have another minor scare about aluminium...banned in industrial kitchens without explanation....and NOW most of the...
Christina C 466456
Yes it is bad for your health but it has superior cooking qualities.
Cast iron is the safest of all the metals if you're not prone to overdosing on Iron so it's great for women of reproductive age and growing children (due to needing extra iron) but not so great for men.
The most inert material you can cook with is soda lime glass or borosilicate glass. Stay away from leaded glasses which leach lead.
Aug 02, 22

I have never been a fan of Lego because little bits would go underneath furniture, or I would tread on them with bare feet. Only one of my children played with Lego but wasn't able to get them apart so would bite them. He would make weird things with his Lego and I would think "that's not what you are supposed to build with them" but now that is exactly what people are building with Lego. We have a Lego shop in our local shopping centre, and there are...
Julie K 348980
Soon as they were invented they became adult toys. Kids don’t suddenly wake up one morning and say “I think I’m going to invent a game.
Jul 29, 22

I'm noticing more and more... scam adds -- cropping up on well known internet sites, like Google, YouTube, and I've heard that it's happening on Facebook and Twitter, etc. Recently there was one on YouTube, how to get rich easily on an add that came up when I was watching a video. Another was for a plug in device that claimed to reduce your electricity by up to 90 percent. Lol. I don't know how many people get sucked in by these scams, but people do...
Jude21
It is disgusting how many people are trying to scam others out of money on social media. Remember : If it sounds too good to be true...it probably isn't true!
Jul 27, 22
I spent the whole morning doing mostly long surveys and only get paid $2.40 for completing 7 surveys. Rewardia really sucks. Logged in to Pureprofile, completed a short survey, screened out from 3 and I received $2 in less than 10 mins. I am confused. Why am I still on Rewardia?
maltija
What pisses me off is when I finish the survey and I am not given my due points. Then get the excuse of not have finished the survey which is not true. I feel like giving up rewardia.
Sep 03, 21

Do you have pets? If so, what kind? Do you have any interesting or unusual pets? Did you grow up with pets? My daughter has 2 rescue cats who are real characters & who have brought much joy into our lives. I like dogs, but I do prefer cats, as I love their independent nature. They can also be very affectionate & love attention. I didn't grow up with pets and if it were just me, I probably wouldn't have any, but they have brought much joy to the house with...
Pearlz
When I suggested this topic it was ignored. Perhaps it was the way I framed it. I am a cat person and while I have had dogs it's cats I can't live without. My 16 year old lady left us last September so I now only have 5 boys. They are all rescues so come with health problems but I love them, not like children but family members who are animals. My one rule is that they don't have human names, and I never use the same name twice, the name also has to suit the personality. All 5 have long fur which annoys my husband as he feels they shed, they don't really as they usually leave it on chairs or clothing. I have always had at least one cat other than when I lived overseas. All of the cats has it's own personality and all 5 own me. They are neurotic, bossy, fussy but love unconditionally and get very annoyed if we go away for any reason. They are very independent, dogs are far too needy for my liking, but they know if I'm not feeling well and will stay with me even if they have to hiss and growl at anyone that attempts to get closer. They help me garden, they always want to go with me when I walk and will hide so that I can't see them until they get frightened by a car or dog and I hear them crying. I had to carry one home from almost a block away one day and the bus scared him so much he almost got away from me. They are sticky beaks who have to know where I am at all times. They help me when I'm sewing or making the bed, oh that's great fun, they also enjoy a feather duster, getting into drawers, cupboards and washing baskets. I was missing one once and looked everywhere for him but I was pretty sure he hadn't left home. The following morning I turned the dryer on to air my towels and I heard a loud banging and when I looked his little face was looking through the dryer door at me. He had gotten in while I left the dryer open as I took the towels off the clothesline the previous afternoon. I hugged him so hard as it could have ended quite badly and he was very forgiving but hungry. Ny eldest son keeps birds and doesn't like cats, he says they are sneaky, my daughter has no pets but prefers dogs while my youngest son must take after me and has 5 cats. My grandchildren call me the crazy cat lady but they all love my cats. The feeling sadly is not reciprocated.
Jun 29, 22

Until you research your genealogy, you have little or no idea where you came from. It was very interesting to discover that my family on my father's side came from France in the year 1066 his name was Nigel (they didn t have sir names back then). He was the commander of William's army.
QMY10
Sadly there are so many secrets kept that some of us got intrigued too delve deeper then we find out things we didn't really want too know bit were maybe always suspect about
May 27, 22

Everyone seems to be trying to do other peoples work...the local supermarket wants you to get a home loan from them...the power company want to sell you broadband....the insurance company wants to sell you roadside assistance....Apple wants to make cars...the roadside assistance wants to be a bank...what's going on here?...any ideas?
Larry S 382961
I wait for the government to give back some of the money they rip off us for taxes,road tolls etc but can’t see it happening
May 24, 22

It's thought that one of the reasons for rising rentals is the availability of short stay accommodation, run by them companies like those of Airbnb. Some people are saying that these companies should be regulated as they are helping to force up market rents, and they are taking advantage of the market to earn money for their particular-- company, and preventing some people from accessing long term rental properties. Your Views?
Jellypony
We had a brand new house we rented to a couple with 2 children for 4 years while we did our trip around Australia and I would never rent any thing again. The amount the real estate said was normal wear and tear was just total BS. Who can blow up an oven in 4 years? Tried to fix the water tank after their puppy chewed the wires, totally failed to any way. So with short term rentals I think the damage could be worse and I would never do that because there is no respect for other peoples belongings. Use and abuse then some of the better tenants are tarred with the same brush. Like most things there is always some one whom will spoil it for every one else. I read about a couple with 2 children and another on the way having to live in a tent because there aren't any rentals available in their area. It's sad and temporary housing needs to be arranged for these people. As much as I wouldn't rent any thing again surely there are others that would. Some are selling up as interest rates rise and this will only add to the problem but then a first home buyer gets a chance to buy. Rent is dead money so if the younger ones can buy it is better but then are they still going to be around that area in 3 or 4 years? It's a hard one that is for sure.
May 26, 22

Recently, Elon Musk, the world's richest person, has taken control of Twitter. What are your views on this? Will he make Twitter better or worse?
KD burner account
I don't understand why Elon and Twitter is such a big deal. Not to sound condescending but the majority of the world don't actually care about Twitter. On a side note: Notice how almost every time Elon is reported on in the news etc he is either doing some very silly dance or pulling a weird face when they show footage of him? Doesn't matter what channel. Does the media feel threatened by him or something?
May 18, 22

Do people tend to copy the ideas of others, especially the groups they belong to? Do they then shut out other ideas as a threat to their social position within their group.? When they said the world was not flat or that the Earth was not the centre of the Solar System, scientific groups and institutions and the church held the new ideas as evil. So do people today think for themselves and research reliable evidence, or do we still follow social beliefs?
JoeB
It’s my own idea to follow like a sheep, in fact I love sheep, slow roasted with duck fat potatoes and green beans…..lol
Apr 13, 22

So they are talking about having 4 rubbish bins now. A new one for glass only. Most people have 3 bins already. Where are we going to store this one? Council doesn't like you leaving they on the footpath, they look ugly. I sort all my rubbish, rubbish in the bin, recyclables in the other bin, compost to the compost bin, soft plastics to the supermarket, and hard rubbish to the tip, where you sort out electrical, batteries, drums, paint tins, green waste etc. Where's...
DrSuz
It would be okay if you could choose to have four VERY SMALL bins. Otherwise I’ll have no backyard left. Living on my own, it takes me months fill a large council bin, and I resent the large bins taking up so much space.
Apr 11, 22

Ok, that was a long winded title. As an example, my youngest daughter was diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum in the last year at 19. It is something that apparently often goes unrecognised in girls who are "high functioning" as they become adept at masking symptoms. Anyway, long story short, I am pretty sure as a woman in my 50's I am on the spectrum as well. Things that I had always thought of as just my own weird quirks are most likely symptoms. I also...
jdoubleu
You are not strange. We are all on the spectrum. Some a little crazy, others totally nuts. It only becomes a problem when it leads to dysfunction in your life. Labeling oneself can be detrimental because it is limiting. They are designed so professional people can group a set of behaviours easily. Do not take it seriously unless it becomes debilitating. Remember all these little quirks and traits make up the unique person you are.
Apr 09, 22

AA is in place for alcoholics! GA is in place for gamblers. Both are big social issues which not only effects the individual but also the entire family. It s like a ripple in a pond. Everybody is effected. Also friends and neighbours as they step up to help. The financial and emotional toll is unable to be calculated. And yet here we have gambling advertisements all day, especially during the time children watch television in the afternoon. We are literally bombarded with...
Raymond K 449636
The very least that should occur is a total ban t v advertising during the hours that children watch t v
Mar 08, 22

What does it mean to you? Is it really free? What is the price of freedom?
Bugalugs
So long as Governments, politicians and self-styled Do-Gooders who think they know better than everyone else stay out of the way and keep their mouths shut we have all the freedom we need. Abolish Political Correctness, allow people to think and say what they really think.
Abolish the Greatest Curse ever visited upon Human beings: Religion - at least Religion as it is today which has been bastardized again by people who think they know better than everyone else, who deliberately misinterpret and selectively use parts of books such as the Bible, the Koran etc. to persecute others who don't agree with them.
Mar 05, 22

What is your preferred method of tanning, and how often do you tan? Do you use anything to prevent damage if you use a sunbed or tan naturally? Do you have any flawless tanning tips and tricks?
Rod R 101788
I slip, slip, slap. Spent most of my life in Nth Queensland & have a certain amount of tan that is permanent.
If you're going to lay or be in the sun try not to do it between 11 & 2.
A certain amount of sun each day with SPF is healthy, a particular level of brown isn't.
Feb 17, 22

When they are in need or can not do something buy themselves ... I have been down a lot when someone helps me when I can not do something I fell like there is some hope in the world I hope for good things and what to do good things
Grommie
give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, give him a fishing line and he feeds himself forever...hand up not hand out
May 15, 21

In general, homework can help children practice skills, work on projects and learn time management. You can help children by making time and space for homework, helping them get organized, and being positive. When children are having homework troubles, it's best to speak to the teacher.
Cuddles
As long as the child does his or her own homework. Often I found parents had done the homework for the child, and what is the point of that. Homework is a valuable way to practice skills learned in class. If the child can't do the homework, the parent should inform the teacher so those skills can be revised until the child is able to do the work independently. Also, I agree that excessive homework is not good - a maximum of half an hour should be long enough for primary school students.
Dec 06, 21

The more I learn about additives to processed food, the more horrified I am. Do they really need to put trans fats and other cancer causing additives into our food? What is their purpose and why does our government allow it to happen?
Carolyn7 P
I just want to know why they have to put all these weird things in our foods! Seems like we are all guinea pigs.
Dec 01, 21

Some people have a nightly before-bed ritual. Shower/bath, teeth, hair in rollers (am I showing my age, with that one?). herbal tea, or all or none of the above. I like to have a chamomile tea, a small slice of cheese and a few crackers, maybe a bit of fruit, if I'm feeling energetic - not usual - brush my teeth and occasionally clean my face with a cleanser wipe, say my prayers then hit the hay, usually between 10.00 and 11.00pm. What is your nightly routine?
WonkyandProud
I am alone and have depression and anxiety and no family. I do what I want when I want, but that doesn't fit into society. I might go to bed at 10 p.m. or 5 a.m. and sleep most of the day. I try to get my meds on time and eat once in a while. I hate routines. They were not made for me, but my counselors have been fighting me for years to get into a routine. If I'm happy, the world will have to adjust to MY schedule!
Nov 28, 21

We need to get out sometimes of the mood that we are into right now. Let's talk about 3 things that make you happy, no matter what are they. They could be a ray of sunshine in the morning or a piece of cake every week. Please, make it the easy way and explain why.
BLM
1. Yesterday is history (and you can not change history (or your past) - move on (or try to move on). 2. Tomorrow is a mystery (enjoy the slow unfolding of the mystery - since it will be an unique experience for every homo sapien on this planet). Besides, who doesn't enjoy a mystery revolving around themself everyday for the rest of their lives? 3. Today is a gift - that is why it is called the PRESENT - still - Who doesn't appreciate getting a PRESENT - every day for the REST of their lives (I know a lousy PUN - HAHA)? CONCLUSION: Being above GROUND - is still infinitely better then being planted in the GROUND!
Oct 12, 21

Yellow light means: A. Slow down or B. Speed up? We all know it means A so why do people do B?
Imperia S '' PIER''
it sounds that some states don't have the flashing amber to warn the drivers that the lights will be changing to amber so they can start to slow down before you get to the intersection and these days every set of lights have cameras, and red lights regardless to the situation a fine will be issued
Aug 12, 21

Australia has let people down who want to learn a trade or in agriculture. Employers found it expensive and hard to accommodate an apprentice who needs to attend college in the bosses time for long periods. In some trades there may only be one trades person who has employed an apprentice and without the apprentice the trades person cannot do his work as he has no assistance. Some of the training should be done in the time of the apprentice not the employer. Proper training...
Maria B 89860
We need to bring back the Technical Colleges we used to have that taught young people who preferred to work with their hands parallel with High Schools where young people's capabilities belong in the academic arena. Australia should be concentrating on advancing the schooling needs of our own young people and not investing in the education of overseas students who either go back and take their knowledge to their own country or stay and soak up the employment here leaving our qualified brilliant young people to what? Go on the pathetic dole and be labelled "dole bludgers". We need to think smart, act smart and we will have our own smarter home grown workforce. Keep it simple and keep it here.
Jul 25, 21

Last night I let the dog out and the air was so sickening. During my sleep I was woken up by a blocked nose and the smell from outside had seeped into my room. I could not sleep so I got up for a cup of tea instead. I felt better and was able to breath easier. This happens nearly every month. Why I have no idea. Why not every night? Does this happen in your area?
AMUSICALTONY
THE REFUSE TIP NEAR US STINKS OCCASIONALLY BECAUSE THEY USE MACHINERY TO TURN THE SOIL AND GARBAGE, THUS RELEASING THE STENCH.
Jul 18, 21

I've heard, and read of some men, being treated unfairly due to custody matters. Some men lost their .. kids, family-home, money, other assets, due to these -disputes. Some have even suicided, or become really sick. Most kid's get awarded to mothers. Do you think the family court is biased in favour of women? What can be done to change the status quo?
Maria B 89860
Didn't someone once say "the law is an ass"? A very simple statement but there is no simple solution when it comes to broken families. Everyone gets battle fatigue going through the process and children get more and more confused by the to and fro state of affairs and sometimes even thinking that they are the cause of it all.
May 18, 21

It is already one year late, nobody in Japan wants it ... nobody else can go ... it is still massively expensive ... what is the point?
Neo
We don't need ANY Olympics. Waste of time and money. If athletes consder this their job, then they can PAY to go to work like everyone else. If the International Olympic Committee want to have one, then they should PAY to set up a site dedicated to it and just hold it there forever, like a corporate headquarters. IOC is only interested in bribes. Why should countries have to bid for it? Where does this bid money go (backpockets of IOC along with any other bribes paid to them)
May 16, 21

After all the trauma, tragedy, restrictions and anxiety with Covid-19 affected everyone of us to a greater or lesser degree, do you think the world will be a better place?
Mike Pike
The Bible says that when you made Jesus Christ the Lord of your life you have no need to worry about anything for God said that he will take care of us.so what if china takes over the world. My God is in control. my God will never leave me nor forsake me. My future is in my God. and without him I have no future. if you want to know Jesus as your Lord and Saviour Prayer this simple prayer
Lord Jesus I ask that you be my Lord and Saviour come into my life and be my King.
Acknowledge: We have sinned - Romans 3.23, Luke 18.13
Repent: Repent of Perish - Luke 13.3, Acts 3.19
Confess: Jesus is Lord - 1 John 1.9, Romans 10.9
Forsake: Forsake your sins - Isaiah55.7
Believe: Believe and be saved - John 3.16, Mark16.16
Receive: All who receive Him are his children - John 1.11,12
Attend a Church: Find a Faith filled Church.
Mar 22, 21

Lottery is always a great way to win if your lucky but the question is it merely a money wasting exercise? Anybody share your thoughts with me on this
The dog house
I believe it is a waste of money. I know someone who spends $30 a week and others even more. Calculate that over a year and that could go towards a holiday or something you might need in the house. I prefer to work for what I have and manage my own expenses. Sometimes money can bring more issues than it is worth.
May 13, 21

People in wealthy countries are entitled to healthcare and a basic education by law. Is it fair that this free education stops once we have completed High School, or should those who want it get a free passage? Should the poor be able to attend college or university without having to gain a scholarship or bursary first? Should you be able to get that expensive operation at no cost whatsoever? Is education and health being ignored or is it ok because the government is spending...
Sha
I think that less funding should be given to private schools and hospitals should have adequate equipment and hospital beds especially when COVID-19 is still an issue. And having a degree can't guarantee you a job. I wish that the government would offer free courses for people who are struggling to get jobs.
Apr 24, 21

If you read the news, you would have heard of the saga surrounding preferential treatments for the top 3 tennis players where they can enjoy freedom in Adelaide while the other lower ranked players have to suffer strict quarantine conditions in Melbourne. The fact is, they are the top players and they have greater bargaining powers and SA government accepts them to go there as long as they play the exhibition matches. I think it s fair. They attract audiences therefore they...
Sheree T
The top three tennis players should have been treated the same as the rest. I agree the top players do have greater bargaining powers but the government shouldn't have allowed it to happen.
Feb 20, 21

Share what phobias do you have? Here is the list of mine: - Catoptrophobia / Eisoptrophobia - Fear of mirrors (Partially; only sometimes; I feel anxious to look at the mirrors in the dark to see someone there except me) - Cleithrophobia or Cleisiophobia- Fear of being locked in an enclosed place. (For me that's being in very narrow and small places that thinking about it makes me feel lack of air and I start panicking) - Pediophobia- Fear of dolls. - Scopophobia or...
lulu
Being a passenger in a car when the drivers going alongside a semi trailer, talk about shake rattle and roll.
Feb 15, 21

If we enroll our children to day care so we can go back to our workplace, can we justify our children doing same when they have to tend to their lives and put us in ages care ?
Gypsy
Neither my children nor my grandchildren went into care. When needed, my children were looked after by my parents. When needed, my grandchildren are looked after by me. Just recently my grandchildren told me that when I can't look after myself I will be going to live with them. I thanked them and said we will discuss that when the time comes.
Jan 24, 21

To better ourselves we have to change the way we do things. We set goals and take actions in order to achieve it.
Elizabeth J 447888
I joined the Heart Foundation walking group in my local area in late December so i am ready for my first early morning weekly walk on 7 December. Yep, not go overboard but definitely take the steps I should have taken years ago to slow down the decline that comes with old age.
Jan 01, 21

Do you think there is any justice in the law and do you think the wealthy have an unfair advantage in matters of law?
Bugalugs
Of course money buys Justice. Money can buy anything, anybody & power & that includes the Police, Magistrates, Juidges, Politicians. How often have we heard an accused person being treated with kid gloves because if the "reputation" - that simply menas they have money to buy their freedom.. If you are poor you haven't a hope in hell of getting Justice. Just look at how some of the Wealthiest Organisations in the World, such as the Roman Catholic, Anglican, Lutheran, Islamic, Jewish religious businesses got away with so much Child Sex Abuse until the outcry from the Public became too loud to ignore. They were all responsible for covering-up and protecting 1000s of paedophiles and they were also responsible for "Murder from a distance" - some call it Suicide, the 10s of thousands of lives they destroyed and they asll got away with it because those orgnaisations had the money to buy protection starting with the Police and then all the way up to the highest courts in the country.
Nov 30, 20

Trying to maintain a certain standard of beauty is tough, especially after thirty. There is so much societal pressure on women without having to look at photoshopped images of bodies that are unattainable. And they wonder why so many women have eating disorders. The mind boggles!
Edith v
Give me natural anytime .We can be confident whatever shape we are .A good mind A good,kind loving nature can not be beaten
Nov 13, 20

In all honesty, I probably outlay around six hundred bucks a month but it is most definitely worth it. And it will end up getting spent on something else anyway.
The dog house
I have not had an alcohol drink in over a year. As I have coeliac disease I am reluctant to have any thing. I do feel like some now and again but walking the dog helps to relax me so I do not need alcohol. $600 is a lot of money on alcohol. You could save that money and when lock down eases you could go on holiday. I also feel that the preservative in alcohol is not good for our body.
Sep 19, 20
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