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Recently I bought a shirt. As usual, there was a spare button attached. It had me wondering, in this day and age, how many people still would use this feature. Is it mandated? Would it be better to not include this feature and pass on the savings, seeing that the percentage would be quite low.
Nite-Owl
I don't think I ever needed that spare one, but I have several in my 'button box'. (I'm 75) I think most young adults today haven't been taught or wouldn't have the slightest notion or knowledge to sew a button on. It's a throw away society. Very sad.
Sep 03, 24

In the past five years, I've noticed my city has become more populated. It is causing congestion with traffic. Also, the grocery stores are over packed, and I'm finding that the foods I usually purchase are becoming less available. Is anyone else living in the Hamilton area noticing this?
Benz
The elites can make you believe anything when they claim to control almost every global media outlet.
The flood of migrants is a deliberate method of the elite to cause division amongst people so they fight one another.
Why would they want this?
They want you so distracted with all the problems like cost of living, housing crisis, business failures, destruction of the food chain, global warming lies, overpopulation so they can take your land and then lock you up in "smart cities/prisons".
These smart cities are run by Artificial intelligence and track and trace your every move to ensure you exist within their strict carbon efficient guidelines every second of your life.
If you step out of line you will be punshished through the digital social credit system. They may choose to reduce your food allowance, travel restrictions or maybe force you to be re-educated in a strict facility......who knows?
These smart cities are already in operation in China.
Jul 23, 24

My granddaughter and I pick up rubbish, and I also taught my children to do it when we were younger. I believe it s each person s responsibility to keep the community clean and look after the environment and also because it is polluting our environment. If u buy yourself treats make sure the rubbish goes in the bin and treats our community right too!
Grew
Is this even a question? It's a no brainer...I've recycled since I was a child. I'm now 48 always have always will do. My family does the same. It's a privilege to walk on this earth we should treat it as such. Just my opinion
Oct 15, 23

I'm a 60-year-old grandfather and along with my wife we share guardianship of our 3 grandchildren with my daughter, we have a total of 8 living in a 4 bedroom, our house is uncharted chaos, every day is a new direction, and we 2 people high on the autistic spectrum one is 6 and 1 is 40, my daughter has a tumour in the brain, there are multiple issues we deal with daily, my problem is this why do people say how do you cope, why do you live in chaos, why do you...
Sago
I take my hat off to you. There is no way I could do what you do. I find it hard managing life on my own. I\u2019m 44, left home at 15 as soon as I could. Home and family life was intolerable. Constantly being told that I wasn\u2019t wanted. Lots of violence and disharmony. I thought I I\u2019d be truly over it by now but without the proper and normal support networks, it\u2019s really hard. I have to keep telling myself that life could be a lot worse. I feel lucky that I\u2019m in Australia and not in some war torn or dirt poor country. I just feel like my upbringing has left a lifelong legacy on me that is insurmountable and affects every facet of my life. Deep self esteem issues and feeling like everyone hates you. As they say, what doesn\u2019t break you makes you stronger. Thanks for reading. Cheers
Mar 25, 23

I always pause at the door and ask, "Should I take my shoes off?" This polite check is the safest approach, as households have highly mixed opinions on indoor footwear. If your hosts take theirs off, follow suit. How do you handle it?
Lynn
I follow the rules of the home. We have friends that do this so we follow suit. At home we do not but I like walking in bare feet at home.
Jun 29, 26

People spend a lot of time at airports for various reasons; I was impressed with what Dubai has done to entertain children between connecting flights by opening up a new Children's gaming centre and area for family activities. What is your experience? Are airports doing enough to cater for travellers and their families?
John 1362447
Found Melbourne airport to be a problem. Flew (never again) JetStar to Hobart from Hervey Bay. As JS do not have baggage transfers had to collect own baggage but as onward flight was more than 4 hour wasn't able to check baggage in so had to sit in no mans land. After 3 hours went to check in but as the plane had been delayed 2 hours had to wait only to find it was further delayed but fortunately we were able to check our baggage in. They need baggage storage or somewhere decent to sit
Jun 18, 26

One of the big signs you've got a toxic boss is when they take credit for your accomplishments. They might say your work was a team effort or not give credit where credit is due when presenting data on key metrics. What would you say? What is the red flag of a toxic boss?
Von
Yes, I've had one. A DON who sacked me after being called to his office. He said he was sacking me for being cruel to a resident. I have never been cruel to any of my patients or residents.
I used take two elderly sisters (who had no family or visitors) once a month, in my own time, to buy them a Cornish pasty. I had to get the DON'S permission to do that because he was their NOK. He gave me permission but I wasn't allowed to take them to their bank.
One day, one of the sisters wanted to go to the bank. I thought, why not...it's their money.
To make a longer story short, that DON was syphoning money, every pension day, from their accounts into his.
I reported him to the owner ( who I'd worked for previously) The DON was confronted by the owner...and he made up a story, paid a carer to be a witness and say she'd seen me being cruel.
I had 30 days to take him to court. So I waited for 28th day then had my union serve legal papers to take him to court for wrongful dismissal.
I won that case, was compensated and given my job back. But in a small town, mud sticks, so I didn't go back and found a better job.
He was sacked, he was doing the same to other residents.
And to think, I saved that b#stards life when he was kicked in the head by his horse...
Jun 25, 26

Have you ever broken a promise? To a friend, to a sibling, your spouse maybe? Some broken promises are understandable. Things happen, totally out of your control, and you can't do what you promised. It happens. It's not out of malice, just out of circumstance. But some broken promises are not so easy to get past. Even if you had no control over the situation, and you didn't do what you promised you would, it can be something that stays with you. Something you would give...
lys
When we put my mother into palliative care she said to me...you promised you wouldn't put me in a home. I had to explain to her that we couldn't look after her properly anymore. She lived with me for some weeks after a cancer operation even though I had, had a major workplace injury.(siblings couldnt stomach her condition).It was like the blind leading the blind but we laughed our way through. She only lasted a couple of weeks after that. I had to break the promise because more medical help was needed than I could give.
Jun 04, 26

Who has it and why? I've had it twice, once in 1985 from a horse roll over, I've constantly got balance problems, aka one leg is shorter than the other. And a crocodile attack in 1996 when I was commercial free diver. Even having shower scares me because I think a croc us going to jump out of the floor. I've strong pills to put me to sleep. Only the good die young, so I must be bad lil mother
'smee,SWQ!
OK, for those in Australia my Wife is the 65 year old grandmother stabbed 17 times by her granddaughter a few years ago, she was not expected to live but is still here in constant pain and jumps at anyone entering a room where she is, has to keep herself shut securely inside and cannot sleep...she too is on a raft of strong medications whereas before this she would only ever take a paracetamol if she was really in severe pain!
May 29, 26

A survey shows for 21 percent of people, their resolution is saving money, making it the most popular goal for 2025. Nineteen percent aim to eat healthier and 17 percent seek to exercise more. Do you plan to make a New Year s resolution for 2026?
Len G
Absolutely nothing doing. Why \ud83e\udd14\ud83e\udd2f waste my time on things I'm never going to follow thru on. Just going to take 2026 lone i have always been doing. One day at a time . Happy New Year \ud83d\udd5b\ud83c\udf8a to all my fellow rewardia members
Dec 31, 25

We have always instilled the best possible manners in our children, however continue to notice a decline in the use of manners and chivalry that men should have and show to women, despite a so-called equal society. Please let me know if do you still believe manners have a place to play in today's society. Many thanks!
NotFriedLikeMost
Have you been awake the last decade?!?! Men got DEMONIZED for taking interest in women...now, women realizing they were WRONG...they are whining why MEN won't acknowledge them anymore.
Has nothing to do with the decline of manners or chivalry, and EVERYTHING to do with the radical leftist feminist brainwashing lots of women have undergone the last decade or so, conditioning them to be narcissistic sociopaths, degrading men at every opportunity and chastising men at every chance when they took an interest in them. Men couldn't even LOOK at a woman for a decade without that woman ASSUMING he wanted to do something evil to her, and, naturally, they posted these all online for the world to see, to justify their delusions.
Great men are everywhere...sadly, MANY great men are simply DONE with women, thus, they don't get the OPPORTUNITY to experience kindness, chivalry and manners FROM these men. They made their bed, now THEY are laying in it.
p.s. Even though this is the overwhelming truth, I personally still hold doors open for women, assist if needed, smile IF THEY look at me and so on...but, I do ALL of this because I am kind, but, I also do it WITHOUT HAVING ANY EXPECTATION OF IT BEING ACKNOWLEDGED.
Nov 18, 25

In 1985 most people would have not known what Gluten was or lactose...or A2 protein...they all drank normal dairy products...ate peanuts...and nobody died...AND now there are a massive range of problems that we have ...what is going on?...no-one seems to question all these new health problems...are they real?...
Timtam
Allergies didn't just 'appear' spontaneously after 1985. Simply because you don't know anyone who was allergic to nuts or had coeliacs before that time doesn't mean they didn't exist.
Better medical diagnostics has certainly made diagnosis easier, so people who had been sick all their lives now had a name for their condition & guidelines for how to avoid symptoms from occurring. My friend is 58 & has been coeliac all her life, as well as having allergies to other food items. She didn't suddenly become coeliac in 1985, nor did her mother who is in her 80's.
My sister is in her 70's & has always had digestive issues in regard to milk. She's only known in the last 10 years that the reason is she is lactose intolerant. Prior to that she was just bloated & and felt sick if she drank milk etc.Now, she avoids symptoms by choosing lactose free milk. People certainly did die from anaphalysis due to nut ( & other allergies) before 1985. For some people exposure makes them feel ill, others it can be fatal. Better access to epipens has increased survival.
Has the rate of new allergies increased or are more people who have intolerances etc being diagnosed? I'm not sure. I would need to look at actual scientific studies to see what the conclusions are on that one but allergies & intolerances did not just suddenly appear, they have been with us for a very long time.
May 09, 25

Do u wear? Do you wear makeup daily? Will u leave the house without makeup? Are you a cheap makeup is good enough, or do you like the more expensive brands? Do u purchase products for UNDER makeup? (Like primer) Do you use a setting spray afterwards?
P F
The only "make up" I use is sun lotion 50+, even on mild days. There is a reason why Australia has the highest skin cancer rate and it's called ozone depletion. And being Australian, I much prefer the natural beauty of a person to one that is "painted" up anyway.
Apr 26, 25

There is a housing crisis across this nation and if you fall into certain categories it is even harder to get housing Women over fifty have less super sometimes as they have stayed home to raise children, later becoming divorced or widowed, young families, low income earners Empty nesters, and older couples The governments are trying to fix this problem, but this should've been thought of forty year ago, not now What do you think could improve this crisis and would...
Sylvia Y
It is not the banks that are at fault it lies at the feet of the state and federal governments they need to put a halt on immigration and stop housing refugees etc and put our own people first, also with older women it is not only those who stayed at home back even in the seventies and early eighties a lot of women werent covered by superannuation and that fault lies at the feet of employers at that time, that was one good thing which is due to unions.
Aug 01, 25

Should Nuclear be in the mix for our energy moving forward? The debate over nuclear power's role in our energy future is far from settled. Proponents highlight its reliability and low-carbon emissions, while critics raise concerns about safety, waste disposal, and the potential for nuclear proliferation. As we grapple with the urgent need to address climate change, the question of whether to include nuclear power in the energy mix becomes increasingly complex.
Eric 1286034
My take, global warming is a political way by our politicians to collect taxes, started with Gore over two decades ago with all his scare tactics, that truly never happened, because I believe God put all these energy resources for us humans to survive, period, we just had to figure it all out., nothing to do with politics or fear.
Anything Gore said, has never happened, these frauds will always scare the masses. God will protect us if we get back to Him, and believe, this is what I believe, but people are afraid, thank you for allowing me to express my opinion, Eric.
Nov 27, 24

Not everybody knows what they're calling in life is, for most of us it's not until we're much older and much wiser that we stumble upon it and if you're one of the lucky ones, you've found it early on, but nonetheless we all have one, a calling, a purpose, a thing we're really good at and that we really love doing. If you've found yours, write a few sentences about it and share it with the rest of us, I'd really love to hear how your story impacted you. I'm sure there isn't...
Michelle S 553303
Mine, IMO, is kind of unique. I had been working in marketing for McDonald\u2019s and I was overseas opening up the first store in New Caledonia. There was a female staff member who was having a threatened miscarriage and she was taken to the white hospital in the capital. She didn\u2019t lose the baby but that experience led me to look at the hospital for the indigenous population and I was very disappointed in the difference of care and the infrastructure which the Kanak people had access to in comparison to the French speaking population. After returning to Australia I made the decision to apply to University and study Nursing and become a Registered Nurse instead. That career choice was the best decision I ever made and although I earned less money the satisfaction was far greater than selling hamburgers to 3rd world nations. Thanks for reading.
Sep 04, 25

If you could have one hour with your Head of State or Prime Minister, what topic would you like to bring to the table and why?
Woodster
Give up on renewables and give us affordable electricity. Mind you own business about international affairs. House the homeless and young people who can't afford to buy a home. Get your act together! You are only PM because of preferences.
Aug 15, 25

The government want us to save for our retirement. Great, we are doing that. A little in the bank, a little invested, stocks and bonds ect. We have managed by not having holidays, not going out and working hard to pay off our home. Now they are pushing to have interest rates down at very low amounts. So we aren't getting any interest on the money we have in the bank. I feel for the ones with mortgages at the moment, but we have all gone through it if we own a...
BLM
The rich continuously get (income) tax cuts. Corporations continuously get (income) tax cuts. These tax cuts contributed SIGNIFICANTLY to rising income inequality! FYI: It has NEVER been about interest rates (a myth). It has ALWAYS been about WHO gets ongoing (income) tax cuts (reality)!
Jul 12, 25

Should we still have the death penalty for people that commit horrendous crimes like murder and rape?
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I know I am opposite to everyone else, but I say no. I would rather someone die in goal than the smallest chance of killing someone who may be innocent. It is not unheard of that people have been found to be innocent after having spent time in goal for a crime they did not commit. The cost to keep another person in goal instead of killing him should not come into it.
Jun 13, 25

Surgeons are usually very keen to operate on you it is their job, and it pays very well...excluding things like cancer... I have several friends who have all had surgery to fix problems...but recovery times are a way lot longer than promised one was botched completely...and nobody really thinks that they are really better off (apart from the surgeon involved!)....what does everybody else think?...has ANYBODY got a great story about surgery?..and how it changed their life?
Terry 1550339
Yes I do, I had back surgery in 2017 and it was a lower lumbar fusion and it went wrong from the start and when I got out of my 4 hour surgery that ended up taking 10 hours and after this I could not walk because I felt like I was walking down hill and falling to the right so I went back to the doctor and asked why this was happening and he said that sometimes the nerves in their canal get pinched or blocked so I had to have a second surgery.
Well I went through the second surgery and now I felt like I was just walking down hill so it's half way better and then I went to see a neurologist and they said that I have had a stroke, I guess it happened in my first surgery, so anyway I am walking down hill and after about a week or two it started to fix itself and I started walking better.
Then my surgeon said after x-rays were done that I had 2 discs in my neck that were blown out and it was a simple surgery so I said ok, let's do it. Well, when they do this surgery they go into your throat and make a small cut and remove a disc and replace it with a new metal disc then they closed that up and had to make a second cut to replace the second disc I didn't know this and when I went to get my surgery done there were a few things that I did not know about this, like the doctor never told me that they go into my neck to do this so when I got there I got a shock, I had to shave my beard in order for them to do this (LOL), Hell, I really didn't know that is what was going on anyway I got the surgery done after I shaved and all was good so Ii thought, after staying for 2 day's in the Hospital after the surgery the doctor decided to release me and so I left the hospital to go home and it was 110 miles from the Hospital to the house and I really felt great and happy to be at home finally and then it hit, my throat started closing up and I wasn't getting any air so I was rushed 20 miles to a local Hospital and that was the wrong hospital that I was supposed to be at so the Ambulance drivers gad to turn around and drive me 14 miles to where the hospital was and guess what, This Hospital was only 4 miles from my house again I'm still not getting proper air so they rush me inside the ER and attempt to put hoses or tubes down my throat and they ended up knocking out my two front lower teeth to do this and I swallowed them.
So I laid in that Hospital for 4 more day's to get test done and on day 4 I decided I've had enough because the doctor has never came to see me , so I took the tubes out of my throat and pulled out my wires and needles and I told them that I am getting the hell out of here so the staff called security and they tried to keep me there and we started fighting and I kept saying I"M leaving, so I left and got home and I had an appointment with my neurologist and I went to that appointment and had a MRI done and they said that with all of this, I had another Stroke. I went home, I just gave up.
I wrote all of this because it is a true event, But, my point is is that my Doctor got paid very well and I still am in a lot of pain and I can't work anymore and life has become a real BITCH and I also need to say that I have tried to go and see my back doctor and no one knows where he disappeared to. This is just some mucked up shit that I have been living with and I am not crying about , I hope you folks learn what you are up against prior to letting a doctor do any work on you and pick the very best qualified doctor before getting any surgery done.
I hope you all have a good day!
Apr 07, 25

Have you ever been told you wouldn't be able to accomplish something you were passionate about? You may have been discouraged by parents, other family members, friends and even teachers. However, it was something you felt passionate about or had confidence to accomplish it regardless of what others said. What is something you were discouraged from pursuing, but you went ahead and accomplished it anyway? I was told a number of things. The naysayers were surprised...
Pearlz
I suffered a spinal injury leaving me an incomplete paraplegic which means I had one paralysed leg. I had to wear an orthidic which kept my foot at a right angle so could only wear sneakers or lace-up shoes. If I wore a dress the orthidic strapped to my leg would snag it so I stuck to pants. My surgeon referred me to a neurosurgeon who told me that not only would I never get feeling or use back in my leg but I would also get much worse as I aged and one day I wouldn't be able to walk at all. I was so upset as I left his office and as I watched a taxi coming close I momentarily thought about jumping in front of it, but at the last minute I felt it probably wouldn't kill me but give some other injury. I decided to go back to my GP and discuss the matter with him. He said he felt I would improve over time but my leg would never be normal again in either full feeling or use. I saw a physio who gave me exercises to do telling me nerves can grow back if stimulated and my surgeon told me the best vitamins to make nerves grow. I went to the local chemist to buy the vitamins and the young girl there told me I needed acupuncture but only from someone who was taught in China. I managed to find a real GP who learnt acupuncture in China and he agreed to see if there was anything he could do for me. I went to physio once a week and had acupuncture once a week all the while taking the vitamins recommended. It didn't happen overnight but it did improve so that I was able put the orthidic away underneath the stairs. The injury was 1997 and I now have 80% use of my leg and 70% feeling. I can wear flat shoes or sandals but not thongs or high heels, which I don't miss, and I can walk some distance if I wear sneakers. I went back to the hospital to show them my recovery, they rarely get to see how people cope once they leave hospital. There are things I can't do and I have to be careful because I can't tell if I am standing on uneven ground or flooring which can be dangerous, but, the neurosurgeon was wrong, I did get better and I can walk unaided.
Feb 06, 25

After the first long term study of using gas cookers...the researchers have concluded that 40,000 people a year, in Europe alone, die as a consequence of using gas cookers (twice the number killed by cars)...it also says that the connection between using gas and heart and lung problems...had already been well established "over many years"...(DW News story)... All we get in Australia is adverts for and by Gas companies telling us how wonderful they are! When...
lys
The is always data somewhere that will tell you something will hurt you. I paid $16,000 for solar panels and now only I get 3c a kw feed in and still have electricity bills. I am not getting rid of any of my gas appliances only to have nothing as a back up during furture blackouts when too many people go over to overloaded, unreliable renewable systems. They are not nice I lived with organised black and brown outs in Qld not doing it again.
Nov 06, 24

We are all human beings, we are all equal, we all need the same things to survive. Water, food and shelter! Peace & happiness is what we all long for. How can we all contribute to world peace?
writerrochelle
Only one person can bring world peace to this earth. His name is Jesus Christ. He is the son of Jehovah God. Soon God will hand over the kingdom rule to his son, who will then cleanse the earth of all wickedness, and peace will reign forever! Please read Matthew 6:10; Matthew 24:14 and Psalm chapter 37 in your Bible! ;-D
Oct 16, 23

Most of the planet seems to be saying "its OK... happy Christmas" and then slamming the door again on boxing day....in Australia we are opening up the door to a massive flood of covid...with a fair bit of enthusiasm...New Years Eve massive super spreader parties and celebrations could be the turning point when every part of Australia looks like the developing mess in NSW...are we all ready for this?...is it too late to exercise a bit of common sense?....
Timtam
Yep common sense has gone out the window with a govt who is more concerned about the next election than the health of the Australian people. The new rule changes are absolute bullshit and have no basis in science, purely politics to hide the real number of covid cases. Rapid tests are an important tool, but the lack of a mechanism to report the +ve cases detected by rapid tests smacks of the desire to cover up the true number of cases.
The 4 hour exposure rule and household only as close contacts is absolute, unscientific, political rubbish.
Dec 31, 21

Is it my imagination or do people talk more than they actually listen? As a security guard I find people over talk and talk over every one. Instead of listening and helping to resolve issues very quickly with little drama. I listen and I propose simple solutions based on the principle of compromise. When you talk you repeat what you know, when you listen you learn what you don't know.
writerrochelle
"When you talk you repeat what you know, when you listen you learn what you don't know." I LOVE THIS, Brocky! I have to admit, I, too, tend to talk over my friends sometimes, mostly because if I don't reply to what they're saying right then, I may forget what I needed to say! No excuse. I need to listen more, and talk less, but some people don't give me a chance to reply! God gave us 2 ears to Listen, and 1 mouth to Speak! \ud83e\udd2d
Jun 09, 26

Is it ever OK to gaslight someone you say you love absolutely not so then why after 10 yrs of marriage my husband started gaslighting me ... do i think he's cheating
Whitehawk
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse. The manipulator deliberately distorts the truth, denying facts or the victim's feelings, to make the victim doubt their own memory, perception, or sanity. The ultimate goal is to gain power and control
May 16, 26

Do you talk to yourself? I often do! Have full on conversations with myself. LOL, but I ve read in several places that it s a sign of high intelligence!
Sandra H 2204 NSW
I often chat to myself (and occasionally to my husband - he passed a couple of years ago but I still like to tell him when something happens that he would be interested in).
Mar 03, 26

As we all know, life is getting more expensive. With ridiculously high rental prices, mortgage rates going through the roof & profiteering supermarkets constantly raising grocery prices & crazy energy prices - many are struggling to make ends meet. What are your best money saving strategies? Share the love !
BLM
One, buy generic (not brand name) - when it comes too food. Generic is as tasty as brand names! Two, stay away from microwaveable (convenience) foods (too expensive) and you pay for convenience in a grocery store. Last, set up a monthly grocery budget and (tried) to stay within your monthly grocery budget!
Jan 16, 26

Fireworks petition proponents argue for banning the sale of fireworks due to animal distress, environmental pollution, and safety hazards, while opponents highlight the cultural tradition, enjoyment, and economic benefits of fireworks. Would you sign the fireworks ban petition?
JoLongLegs
In Melbourne Australia, it is illegal to buy or set off personal fireworks. You can go and watch the big fireworks events. I personally find them boring.
I have seen the drone lights displays and find them more appealing and no noise.
Nov 08, 25

What would you do? Ask for help? Do something different? Or leave things as is? Most leave things as is, thinking something negative, and if they try to change the situation it may just stay the same or get a whole lot worse. Not just you, but others as well will be affected and is very difficult to change, especially on your own. But one thing is certain, and that is regardless, to find someone you can talk to about anything without fear and that will listen.
Izzy
I will 100% step in and say something.. I have many times in the past and will at any opportunity. I was bullied as a kid then abused by my ex as an adult in public many times, but it took years for me to stop living in fear, and now I will stand up for anyone!
Nov 24, 25

With the recent raise in government benefits, I am wondering whether or not it's actually made a difference to those receiving them. I mean, $1.77 a day hardly seems much when a bottle of milk is nearly $7.00 at some places. What are your thoughts on the recent rise in government benefits and, if you receive them, how are you coping
Spaceant1
I have been self employed for over 30 years. I worked between 100 and 120 hours per week, until my heart attack at 40 years old. I reduced my work to between 60 and 80 hours per week. I had huge insurance costs and half my money was taken by the government as tax not including the gst. I dont smoke, dont gamble and rarely ever drink. I never waste money on junk food or things I dont need. I pay full price for dental and medical treatments, which i cant afford at the best of times. I am now 59, semi retired with destroyed shoulders, and currently unable to work until my shoulders heal. I have a small superannuation account that i cant access as yet, and not elligible for the age pension because i own my home. When i sit on my porch enjoying a coffee and look down the hill at the goverment housing development, I see 3 late model BMW's, 2 late model Mercedes, a HSV Commodore and plenty of SUV's etc parked in the driveways. These individuals are home most days when not at the club playing the pokies, drinking and smoking in their sun chairs. I look at my 16 year old work van that is also my transport, no A/C and rust spots surviving on about $150 to $300 per week taken from my personal savings and wonder if all my hard work was actually worth it. Regardless of that, I have self respect and have a personal satisfaction of my achievements.
A raise in benefits makes no difference in my world. My personal oppinion is that benefits should be only for those who absolutely require it which should include other benefits based on individual needs. If you are able to work, then you should. Be an assett and not a financial drain.
Mar 26, 23

In addition, loneliness has been found to raise levels of stress, impede sleep and, in turn, harm the body. Loneliness can also augment depression or anxiety. What do you reckon? What are the effects of having no friends?
Nerd Face
Depends on the circumstances. I\u2019m a migrant from another country without friends but freedom to choose what I would do and I was contented with that. I found solitude can be a source of healing and rewarding. Friends can cause more stress for you as you have to keep up with them and time and be with them can be all consuming. There are other things you can enjoy on your own that you are not dependent on another for happiness.
Jan 29, 24

Our society has come a long way from the olden days, as today's life is so different now. In our currant society, people have changed so much. They use their bodies far more than many years ago. It is in the way they dress, their hair dos, piercing & tattooing wherever. I sometimes wonder to why so many people do these things. Is it to be different from someone else, getting back to someone you loved or hated. Jewellery anywhere beside where it should be. In my opinion, body...
JessicaP
I have 11 piercings in my ears, 1 in my belly button & a few tattoos. My mother actually took me to get my belly button done since I was only 17 & I went with her to get her second piercing in her ears. I'm not a fan of some facial piercings or over gauged ears, but a small stud in the nose or ring in the eyebrow is fine. I think if you're qualified to do the job, it shouldn't matter what kind of piercings you have. If you're the face of a company, the employer should make it clear in the dress code policy. Don't judge a book by its cover.
Jul 09, 24

Do you think the school system has let our children down? There are so many technological things for them to learn that they have had to cut other things out. My neighbor boy who was born addicted to drugs, tells me that school for him is a waste of time, and he isn't learning anything! There are far too many children in his situation, and they don't get the special attention they need in order to learn. Why are there so many children with Autism, ADHD, etc.? ...
Pearlz
Parents no longer give children rules or boundaries which accounts for some problems. I also notice babies no longer get definite sleep patterns. In my day when it was time for baby to sleep we left them to sleep but now mothers are out and about with crying babies and children annoying everyone else. Children are sleep deprived and undisciplined which isn't a good combination, then they go to school where the teachers spend hours trying to corral the noisy and disruptive children in order to begin a lesson on how white people invaded Australia, the earth will burn up in climate change and global warming and finishing with are you a boy or a girl, don't worry because it no longer matters.
Aug 29, 25

I am amazed that we constantly hear how tough people are doing it, the cost of living, unable to afford rent or mortgage, cost of petrol and power, kids going without shoes and yet whenever I am out in the evening or at the weekend every restaurant, cafe or upmarket eatery I pass is full, especially with younger people around 20 50 years. How can they afford to be dining out if times are so "tough?"
Michelle S 553303
I can give you a hint: CREDIT! Yes, these mostly young people who would, back in the day, have already been parents to a couple of kids and might be on their first or second marriages, are being propagandised to play it up and enjoy life WITHOUT responsibilities. Now everyone gets to choose their own path but this is by design. They are paid far more than I ever earned even though I have an undergraduate degree but instead of pesky kids to feed and educate they get to spend like the party will go on forever. Only they are deceived. Most will never be able to afford to buy a home of their own and many live with mates not family, except many still do well into their 20's or even longer. So their rate off disposable income is higher. Their nice cars though are often bought on credit which sounds brilliant to them until they get sick or lose their job that is! Then we have other available credit including the plastic cards but even more commonly nowadays are the Afterpay and Zip BNPL platforms and they can create massive problems which only this generation has seen. The whole "pay in 4" sounds great at first but if you haven't had a good fiscal education, and many have not, then the fact that you can buy a card, with Zip there's no upfront payment to do so although Afterpay requires 25% down, which you can use to dine out, travel, and buy basically whatever takes your fancy even though you don't have the money! I was amazed to find that you can buy groceries with these platforms, and if you are hungry then Im sure its invaluable, but the rest is just trouble! I've watched many financial channels where young people are interviewed and some of them are 50K in debt and they have zero assets. They've had to go bankrupt before they're 30! I understand that those who did the right thing and saved up money, scrimping for years to pay back their mortgage and only driving second hand cars until they own their home outright, like my own parents, certainly deserve to enjoy the fruits of their labour, but today is different and there WILL be a societal reckoning due to this and that won't be good for any of us! Thanks for reading.
Apr 13, 24

When you go to the beach, all you truly need is a bathing suit... what about the amount of skin we show? Are g-strings inappropriate in public spaces?
Tipps
Why do you need to show off your bare body? Isn't your body a precious and personal part of your being. I do not like nudist. Cover up people, Be respectful of others
Jul 15, 24

What Would It Be And How Would You Use It? go beyond the usual wishes for money or fame think life hacks, secret talents, or even completely useless-but-hilarious abilities. Would you become a concert pianist, a master negotiator, or someone who can fold a fitted sheet without losing your will to live? Let s hear your dream skill and how it would really change your day-to-day life. Bonus points for weird and wonderful answers!
IdentifyAs
I would like to have a power to ease pain and suffering in aged people, to reverse old age so they can still enjoy life
Jul 26, 25

When money goes to medical research, which disease or diseases should have priority? Should it be allocated mostly to cancer or heart disease or diabetes or mental health issues? Who should determine the priority, and how should the money be divided? Along those lines, should the money go to administration to pay for staff or to medical supplies or to universities for research courses?
NotFriedLikeMost
It's a perpetual scam.
They research "cures" to ENSURE the money keeps rolling in.
But, if they just looked at the CAUSES of issues...they wouldn't GET money for research because they would know HOW to heal...and, to be fair, it is VERY easy to heal anything...but, they don't know this, and, if they do, they purposely maintain their status quo so they KEEP YOU SOMEWHAT SICK so they can MANAGE your issues, PROFITING OFF YOU THE WHOLE TIME...AND, practicing the SLOW KILL as they push allopathy onto you via petroleum based pills...that NEVER fix anything, they just "mask" the issue, and it just festers internally.
These things are set up to TRANSFER WEALTH from US...to THEM. End of story.
Jul 13, 25

Why is it that since the pandemic, drivers are speeding, going through red lights, hitting pedestrians and not stopping? It is just awful out there!! Where is their sense of responsibility? Are more and more people using alcohol and Marijuana and drugs? A lady with no license just hit 3 people...a mom and her twins as they crossed the street in the pedestrian walkway. One twin died and mom is critical, and driver took off! What is wrong with people that they have...
1
People are selfish. Everyone is an hurry to nowhere. No one wants more police on the streets. However, it may be necessary for a larger police traffic presence to alter driver behaviour. As stated elsewhere, harsher and stricter penalties might also be required. it's not just the speed. There is a general lack of awareness and understanding of the rules of the road. Better and more rigorous driver education standards combined with mandatory re-examination / relicensing for more serious offences might be helpful in altering behaviours as well.
Jul 14, 25

Do consider the end of a product life cycle before making a purchase? A lot of products claim to be better for the environment but when they are sent to landfill they are terrible for the environment, such as those products that take a long time to biodegrade for example.
Thylas
This is unfortunately the problem the world will be facing with all of this so-called 'green' technology such as wind turbines, solar panels and lithium batteries when they reach the end of their usefulness. How is all of this going to be recycled? If it ends up in landfill, what sort of chemicals are going to leach into the soil and river systems?
May 20, 25

How do you guys feel about this? Glyphosate is a carcinogenic. It is available to purchase in most countries around the world to control the spread of weeds in and around our homes and gardens. Market gardeners, Farmers and big suppliers of produce, around the world use this poison (some, not all. But most) Would you pay more and buy only organic produce, or take the risk and purchase food produced by suppliers who use this toxic chemical that is killing people...
Alira
I hope you dont drink alcohol, eat bacon or various other carcinogens. Glyphosate has been proven safe time and time again, you are just fear mongering with no scientific back up.
Feb 12, 25

I was at church, and the pastor was talking about why it s bad to gossip about people. He said it s like killing someone as a person. Then, someone called the pastor on the phone and started getting upset. "If you gossip, there s no point in coming to church," the pastor said. I have been gossiped about all my life at church, but I never called the pastor because of it. This is just one of many things people say. For example, today, a lady told me, "If you don t do the right thing...
Dianne P (NZ)
Can someone explain to me why God doesn't answer the prayers of the people in Gaza or the hungry and their suffering. I cannot understand why such dreadful things happen, yet all the prayers do nothing. Religion in my opinion has been the cause of all the suffering. And don't even get me started on Catholicism and the Priests
Feb 15, 25

Women have come a long way from being thought of as 2nd class citizens. I am all for all the gains we have made. Women are leaders in all aspects of life, Be it politics, business or generally in the work force. But I can't help but feel we have also lost so much. Such as self-respect and respect from our male counterparts. We can swear as good as any man! Not so sure if this is a good thing! Men never used to swear in front of woman, but now it seems...
Michelle S 553303
I truly believe that women in general have less rights now than they did when I was growing up in the 1960's. My mother was able to stay home and raise my brother and I and not forced to leave her home AND her children to afford the mortgage money for the house my father and her purchased together. They had 2 solid years working together at a factory before my mother fell pregnant with me and retired from the paid workforce and she was able to rest during her pregnancy and prepare for my arrival enjoying that time. Even on one income back then we had meat every night for dinner because back then you could afford it, not now! My mother taught me SO many valuable lessons of how to cook well but cheaply, how to sew and how to run a home. I, however, did not think that these lessons were valuable until I got older and unfortunately I bought into the feminist hype of the working woman being able to "do it all"! Absolute BS BTW as all I did was get on a treadmill for 25 years without stopping trying to be everything that my changing society told me was my right but ultimately missing out on some of the most important things in my 5 children's lives. I sent them along to Daycare because I was told it was as good as me caring for them and they'd be well socialised, but they cried when I left them and I abandoned them to a place of noise and no love. They will say to me today "Mum, do you remember when" or "do you remember so and so" and I have no recollection of those events or people because my headspace and I were somewhere else. I wish that I had realised the feminist lies back then and stayed at home raising my children myself and teaching them things of value. You can NEVER reclaim those moments you lost and I regret it deeply. I believe that we are less "women" now than we were before we had the right to choose whether or not to bring to term the children we carried in our wombs and we started trying so dang hard to be as good as men when we already were but in a different way! We got robbed of a lot of simple pleasures of watching our children play or having kids come home with our kids and ask to play in the backyard because there was always someone home back then. These days women, mothers especially, have to coordinate schedules and are often absent from the home and need to organise formal play dates with the other equally busy and exhausted parents of their child's friends. If THIS is what was meant by "progress" for women then we collectively were sold a lemon! Thanks for reading.
Oct 16, 24

Never judge a man (or woman) until you realize the (or lack of) choices that man (or woman) had available at that life-changing moment. Or are you the type that goes with the current and that ship (moment) has sailed (and you are always RIGHT)?
mary c
It must be well past your nap time M1364377...your comments and calling people B****es and retard is inappropriate and offensive. I hope you are removed from here by the time you wake up and are packing your lunch for school.
Jul 30, 23

Do you think it is right for small communities to put off fireworks by neighbours with no license or permission? What are the dangers of fire and also of injury doing this?
GB
I have never heard of putting off fireworks. If you are going to put them off you don't need a license. If you let them off you might just BLOW your hand off.
Jul 13, 24

Since Covid-19, I developed a passion for cooking. I found it is a smart way to save money. On top of that, enjoying delicious meals, exploration of flavours of nourishing oneself and others making it a genuine and rewarding passion for many of us. Is cooking your passion?
Michelle S 553303
I hardly ever eat out whether at takeaways or restaurants, and so I have to cook at home. I buy whatever vegetables are on clearance and I make meals with these and pulses as they're cheap. What I really enjoy is getting the "Red Book" out which I transcribed old family recipes from, which had paper that was falling apart, when I was 10 years old. As it's been almost 50 years since I wrote those recipes down and since the writing is fading away, it is almost time to rewrite the family recipes again and hopefully my children and grandchildren will decide to try them out when I'm gone. There are even recipes which refer to "remove plate from fire" which pre date even my own grandmother. The recipes are easy to make, relatively cheap and taste delicious. I like knowing exactly what is in my food and cooking at home from scratch provides me with something to look forward to eating! Thanks for reading and Happy Mothers Day to all the mothers out there!
May 12, 24

Local bylaws say no bikes or skateboards...my own street says 5ks and hour all of that is ignored. Down in the park there is one small sign says "dogs on leads"....also ignored...the same with odd parking rules...nobody wants it...nobody obeys it...nobody enforces it...so what is the point?...someone is getting paid to do this...what is going on?
allinyourNCbc
And the sign said
"Long-haired freaky people
Need not apply"
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said, "You look like a fine upstandin' young man
I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat and said, "Imagine that
Huh, me workin' for you"
Jan 28, 24

I am very much in favour of this. Why? The reason is herd immunity will not be achieved if this does not happen. Herd immunity gives the general population a degree of immunity against this dreadful, unpredictable virus.Herd immunity also protects individuals who through no fault of their own cannot be vaccinated. I fully understand that some people cannot be vaccinated on medical grounds.
Claude H
Yes but the system of getting a jab needs sorting out I am 88 in a couple of days and yet younger people are being done ahead of me
Jul 01, 21

There is a plethora of arguments for and against the above. Towards the end of his life Charles Darwin became skeptical of his theory of evolution. Science is knowledge gained from observable facts. Theory is how we try to link facts to make a story. Given that new facts (evidence) can dramatically change the story should we still see evolution and creation as either/or argument.
The dog house
If we came from the monkeys why has the ape population not evolved yet. I believe we were created in God's image.
Sep 19, 21

In today's fast-paced world, the way we end our day can significantly impact the quality of our rest and overall wellbeing. Evening rituals - whether simple or structured - can help signal to our body and mind that it's time to unwind. Examples are reading, meditation, or limiting screen time. Please, share one evening ritual you would recommend to others and explain why it works for you.
BLM
Why using mouth wash is the last thing I do at night (before going to sleep)? Using mouth wash at the end of my oral hygiene routine - after brushing, flossing, and rinsing with water (in that order for me) - can help preserved the 'beneficial bacteria' in my mouth that plays a key role in my overall physical health (interesting tidbit I learned from my dentist). Furthermore, I do not 'wake up' with that 'awful taste' feeling in my mouth in the morning.
Jun 23, 26

When I was growing up, it seemed that some women, especially older women, would wear the cheapest and most foul smelling perfume they could find. And they wore way too much of it. Thankfully those days are gone. Perfume is now a more subtle, understated and personal thing. But still we all know the rules. Never wear perfume when you know you are going to be in a medical setting, doctor's office, clinic, emergency room. And never in excess. Not so much...
allinyourNCbc
I think these women that wear so much perfume you need a respirator to stand next to them to talk,,I usually tell them nicely that a shower will get rid of that nasty order that comes through the smell of 5 cans of febreze ,,,, stanky,,,
Jun 20, 26

I played slow pitch softball for 40 years, tournament ball for 20. I have been blessed to meet people from all walks of life while playing. Some have given me an insight into a different lifestyle by conversations after the games. It has helped me to understand people in general. How much has sports had an influence in shaping your opinion of the world and people in general?
1
Teaches a lot - how to deal with people from all backgrounds and cultures, how to negotiate / compromise, how to lead / be led, perseverance, how to win with grace and lose with dignity, to do your best and accept others whether they are more / less capable....
Jun 13, 26

Is it a common theme that many of us have great ideas, but we don't have the time or money to get working on them? Do you write your ideas down and save them for another day? Do you dismiss them at the time because you already have enough things to do or because of start up costs, or do you drop what you're doing and action them straight away? What do you do when a great idea pops in your head?
Mrs Invictus
Great read Christina C \ud83d\ude01 I for one am a doer, in saying that many ideas have been just that lol Great ideas are a part of being human and therefore evolution. Regardless of whats going on, anyone with a great idea I encourage to make it happen, don't let any barriers stop you because all great things start from some thing/one small.
Feb 14, 26

It seems like everything from food to cars to electronics to homes have skyrocketed in price since 2020. What's the underlying cause here? Why or how are people still able to buy these things for their inflated prices?
Beth
Two words: corporate greed. Granted covid, wars, inflation etc have some effect, it's not anywhere as pronounced as new set prices would have you believe. Corporations have milked these things to hike prices and get away with it and are continuing to do so.
Feb 01, 26

Yesterday I was taking my bin out to the curb in the evening...a young guy walking past stopped me...he said a couple of doors down...there was a car parked at a slight angle on the driveway...with car door open...that he had tried banging on the front door but no-one answered...so I went down there...banged on the door...there was a Bollywood movie playing really loud in the lounge...nobody home all the lights on... I noticed their bin wasn't outside...and the side gate...
Somebody Kinda Loopy
Arjun finally got Anushka to say "OK Arjun . .let's go upstairs now " !!! . . . . . . "OK" said Arjun . . "Just let me put the bin out and shut the back door and gate" . . . . . "Now or never" said Anushka. . . . "I am to be happy" said Arjun !
Jan 19, 26
What trivia, minutia, details, considerations, or pieces of information, of little importance or value do you know? The more trivial, useless, and interesting, the better.
Von
This one comes under " useless", or " of little importance" or another " why would you want to".......
You can't hum while holding your nose.
May 14, 23

Most people seem to believe that the weather is at least changing massively and that pumping carbon (and far more worse things that are being totally ignored) into the atmosphere is not helping.... We have aging power stations all over the world that need replacing...be it renewables...Hydrogen...Hydro..solar...wind thermal or Tide (what happened to tide generators?)..or nuclear....or if we go back to coal oil and gas) ... whatever we do is going to cost masses of...
Old sheila
All a lot of Crap Same weather for hundreds of years Nothing to do with Climate change . I have so far lived a long time to already know this
Nov 26, 25

Can divorce really be better for the whole family, including (especially) children, and what are the best ways to support children during a divorce? What's your experience?
Wombat
I stayed with my husband for the kids and it was the biggest mistake because my kids suffered in the long run
Oct 30, 25

The space program costs billions and billions of dollars. There has been talk about new moon missions, missions to Mars, missions to other planets or their moons in our solar system, and missions out of our solar system. For which mission or missions should all of that money be spent? Should we not spend so much on space missions and instead focus on fixing Earth and its problems?
BLM
I don't believe 'we' (governments cooperating together on this planet - solving our environmental issues and natural resources issues, etc.) have enough money to solve earth's many issues - all created by mankind. Might as well have a Plan B - exit this planet (Earth) and start our destructive human behavior pattern on another uninhabited planet ('still') it is a dirty, rotten shame we are condemned to repeat our history on another uninhabited planet in the universe (LOL))!
Nov 01, 25

Are you ready for the Christmas rush! Every year it seems to arrive faster & my preparations are not nearly as good as they used to be! Have you started your Christmas shopping? Maybe you have made your Christmas cake. Do you still celebrate with family or friends, or does Christmas pass by without recognition? Old traditions seem to be dying out. What do you think?
CAMC
DO NOT LIKE THE MADNESS OF CHRISTMAS. WE SEEM TO FORGET THE TRUE MEANING OF CHRISTMAS AS EVERYONE GOES CRAZY AROUND THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.
Nov 02, 25

Common disadvantages of homeschooling include a lack of real-life socialisation, limited access to resources and facilities, the demanding load on parents, and potential legal challenges. What are your thoughts on homeschooling?
Joanne D 124129
I come school my child. I do not believe that children need to attend a main stream school. Parents can access so many different resources and facilities. Homeschooling allows kids to learn without disruption, without all the waiting. Kids queue to enter a school classroom they wait while students organise themselves, they wait while instructions and resources are distributed. Waiting to ask questions plus all the rest. Homeschool kids have access to as much socialising as mainstream school students if not more. This depends on the parents and locations. We do group sporting, Homeschool group activities, play sessions, group library activities activities. The difference i find with my kid is that they are socialising with kids of a wide variety of ages, stages, and walks of life.
I have found Homeschool kids to be more friendly, they actually think more, are kind and great well rounded kids. I've not come across bullying and harassment behaviour. We live how we attend a monthly science activity. The kids get together and start group games. No parental instruction and they support younger kids or kids that may have disabilities and adjust things to include kids. These kids do this without any adult direction. Talking to the kids they take each kid individually likes/dislikes and all abilities. There has to my knowledge no restricting or isolation of any kids. They have been happy, confident, caring and intelligent kids. The kids can adjust attitudes and behaviours if they are playing games with toddlers, thru to high school kids and even adjusting games to include kids in wheelchairs or crutches, blind or other disabilities. They don't make a fuss of adjustments. An example was 12 boys (aged between 8 and 15 ) playing with a ball kicking it from one side to another. Then allowing some toddlers to have a kick of the ball and encouraging the little ones to be part of the game.
Oct 28, 25

A family name is usually carried by a man, which has been for such a long time when this world was created. To me, a man is a man that brings his name forward with pride to his wife/partner & children & makes decisions & is the main bread winner of your home. Now these days, life & family meanings & structures are changing a lot. Many men now are adopting their wife/partner's name instead of keeping his name. How do you feel when this has been done? It brings the...
Neo
"taking a man's name" is antiquated and sexist. It is easier (legally) and cheaper to keep your own name (especially these days when people are in the habit of remarrying).
When I was married, I always earned MORE than my husband so I find it offensive when people say "the man is the breadwinner" and I am talking decades ago (when we first married) right up until recent history when we divorced.
Oct 14, 25

I hate group homes. There are people who love to steal and don t admit it, so they don t have to pay back the person they stole from. One or more bathrooms have bad plumbing, messy bathrooms, not enough of them. People bothering people, staff accusing people, they even talk behind people s backs. They tell certain people they can t use the clean bathroom with good plumbing. Certain people get held down. All day long and all night you hear annoying beeping noises on all doors and...
APB
well I have no idea what you are talking about..what is a group home?..is this an American thing?...what country are we talking about please?
Oct 08, 25

Throughout my years, I could never understand how Families could get to the stage where they would not speak to each other. That so much hatred could come between them. Understanding that yes always the arguments that occur but no matter what it is the love that is always there. Do we choose to ignore things that are said or done which would not be tolerated if coming from someone else? Throughout My Years I Could Never Understand This, But Now I...
Goofie
I used to believe family was everything. Life has taught me otherwise. Doesn't seem to matter with some how nice you are or what ever you do! You just keep getting abused and used. Friends you can choose!
Sep 19, 25

What is the voting age in your country, and is it compulsory to vote? In New Zealand at the moment, there's a push to lower voting age from 18 to 16 years It has been stated "it's against human rights not to lower the age" wish someone could explain that one to me!!
guy
I wasn't eligible to vote until 21 and that really is the age the human brain starts to gain a bit of sense and maturity, the left want a lower voting age because the kids can be controlled in their thinking at school and have no idea of the realities of surviving in the adult world
Nov 24, 22

I'm a good person who likes to help others. However, it seems to me that humans have changed in the past 5 years as I've been used, and then I'm kicked to the curb once they've gotten what they wanted from me. I've helped someone learn how to use technology as she was leaving her partner of 30 years and did not understand technology at all. I give up my time twice a week from hiking (which I thoroughly enjoyed) to assist her. I helped her with her move. She moved and never...
Meggan 1691859
In today\u2019s world, good people are often misunderstood. Kindness is mistaken for weakness. Empathy is seen as na\u00efve. And those who help without asking for anything back are sometimes taken for granted, used, or dismissed as \u201ctoo sensitive.\u201d
But the truth is: good people are the quiet strength holding everything together. They show up when no one else does. They forgive when it's hardest. They keep choosing love in a world that sometimes celebrates cruelty and selfish gain.
Being good today isn\u2019t always rewarded, and it can feel lonely. But that doesn\u2019t make it any less powerful. In fact, it makes it more rare \u2014 and more necessary.
Because in the end, it\u2019s the good people who change lives, even if the world doesn't always notice.
Jul 28, 25

We 4WD and Camp all over Australia, when Camping in the Northern part of Northern Territory one evening I hear and saw a woman aged about 25 screaming as she entered her tent, she never zipped her tent closed and a common green tree snake got into her tent. The common green tree snake is not dangerous, and I removed it from her tent (she was from the US) for her. What has scared you when camping?
Smiley
The evidence of a Drop Bear attack to a teacher during a school camp. You've got to be careful of them, they attack when you least expect it.
Jul 29, 25

When faced with something as life-changing as a cancer diagnosis, the path forward is never simple. Chemotherapy, alternative therapies, or even choosing to let life unfold naturally none of these are easy or wrong, just deeply personal. The truth is, we can only choose what we know. And if no one tells us about all the options, or if we re too overwhelmed to ask, how can we truly say we chose at all? It's not about rejecting one path or glorifying another....
Len G
Having had testicular cancer 20 yrs ago and deciding on what form of treatment to do was tough. .i chose radiation and in the end it worked out. But like many times and things in life one size definitely doesn't fit all
Jun 27, 25

What do you think about your Country going cashless? There are thousands of older people who are not doing digital banking, or even have computers, let alone "smartphones." My local branch has closed all their teller's, so now we have to use the ATM...
mumk
I think to go cashless they will have to change the law as what will be "legal tender' I am now in my eighties. I hope I die before this happens
May 26, 25

What have you learnt, good or bad? Has it changed your perspective? Was it a farce? Fearmongering? Are you better for it, or worse off? General question, many options, speak your mind
Edienz
I learnt that the govt is a dictatorship and refuse to listen to any opposing opinions. I never wore a mask unless at doctor or supermarket and I didn’t get any boosters. I was fine until I went to hospital and caught covid there. Headache and sore throat only on first day. 95% vaccination did not stop a huge rise in cases. I will never trust the govt again.
Sep 13, 22

Over the past few weeks, I've noticed more garbage thrown along hiking trails. This includes old vehicle parts, old washing machines, hoses, plastic containers, and the list goes on and on. I live up North in Canada, and I used to enjoy hiking as many trails as possible. I'm now disgusted by the mess people are making. Some of the people have bush parties, they cook all types of foods etc. When the parties are over, they leave all the trash in the woods. Do they not take...
Bugalugs
People are just Lazy. Its not just Litter the dump when and where they want to there are other things people do which also gets up our noses.
Gyms. The great Big, Muscle-bound men and Women use equipment, particulatly Heavy Weights, and then simply leave them where they have been using them so that Gym Staff have to go around putting all that gear back on the racks, we even have one of them who uses the toilet, never flushes we simply assume that Mum/Mom, Dad or some servant at home wipes their bums and flushes for them
The other annoyance is in Supermarkets. People go to the Service Delicatessen get a heap of Smallgoods and then later decide they don't want any of it. So what do they do? Take it back to the Delli? Of course not! They just dump it anywhere and never in any fridge so that when hours or even days later it is found it has to be thrown out. This costs the Supermarket owners and, just like Shoplifting, means that prices are increased to cover those losses.
Is it really so difficult to keep your rubbish until you get home? You are big and strong enough to carry those FULL cans, bottles, wrapped sandwiches etc. into Parks etc. so why are you suddenly so weak you cannot carry the Empty bottles and cans, wrapping papers/bags out and dispose of them at home?
May 25, 25

If you could have three wishes, what would they be (and no more wishing for more wishes). 1. World peace. 2. Healthy planet. 3. Good health. What about you?
Chosen
and only one more wish ..... " That Rewardia pay more for Surveys and Games." .......................... Ummmmmmm.
May 05, 25

Believe it or not, living frugally can actually make you happier than living lavishly. Living a frugal lifestyle isn't necessarily about pinching pennies and denying yourself things you want. It's about making your life easier and worrying less about money. What would you say? Are frugal people happier?
Susan KTC
I\u2019m also of the mind that \u2018happiness comes from within\u2019 living one\u2019s life with Gratitude \ud83d\ude4f and with Joy in everything you do, attracts happiness and abundance!
Apr 21, 25

The best way to deal with someone who constantly asks you personal questions is to ask them why they want to know. It really is that simple, folks. Depending on what answer they give, it's at that point you have the option to proceed or not. You don't have to answer anything that you don't want to. What is your advice? How do you handle people who constantly ask personal questions you're not comfortable answering?
keimanzero
Sorry but I do not have any personal questions that I am afraid of being asked so I answer them and fire back at them a personal question they may be uncomfortable at answering! Tit for Tat!
Jan 11, 25

Sometimes we hear, see or experiment something that is not normal. We try to find a rational explication, but can't find one. Maybe was the wind blowing, maybe was the of house pipes, maybe were my child playing during late hours or my dogs barking. Sometimes is not ourselves the ones one live those experiences. Maybe you know someone who had this kind of encounters. I personally haven't this kind of experiences, but there's a lot of people out there that say yes, and...
Lachelle B
My partner of 24 years passed suddenly on the 30th January. We had him lying in state at home and a fantail flittered outside the window behind him. Two weeks later a fantail flew into the lounge and sat on the ceiling pendant and continued to follow me throughout the house as I opened all the doors and windows to let it out. It wasn't frantic or chirping, I sat down back down in the lounge, said thank you and it flew in front of my face and then left. Being Maori it is meant to bring news of an upcoming death but my mum who's 75 said it was my partner visiting and regard it as a blessing. So I looked it up and the first article I clicked on was written by a person called Stewart (his name), later that day our son got the mail and there was an envelope addressed to him with a $200 grocery voucher and no return address. Probably a logical explanation but I like the idea that it's him and not conincidental.
Feb 25, 24

A lot of the surveys seem to target young people or people raising children, and I am worried that I will not be eligible for them as I age. It is my birthday tomorrow, and it is harder to get money for anything as you get older. What do you do to earn money as you age?
Chosen
I'm lucky that I am a multi millionaire, manage over a thousand staff, make all decisions re labour, training and hiring. My companies turnover is in excess of a Billion dollars annually. I do all the shopping and I am the sole shopping decision maker. I also like giving input re my use of mobiles and broadband both for business and home. Also I regulary watch and go to many films, and also watch TV and use and go to my Bank every week. Yes I do have All insurance products also. I am young, have many children and don't mind them doing surveys either. I also travel for business and vacation many time a year and know nearly all airlines. I regret I do not qualify re surveys re Cleaning products as I don't do that as I have hired cleaning help !!!
Jan 12, 25

One of the key reasons why the world feels chaotic is technological advancements. Technology has revolutionized nearly every aspect of our lives, from communication to transportation to healthcare. While these advancements have brought numerous benefits, they have also created new challenges and complexities. What are your thoughts? Why does the world feel so unstable right now?
Dude49
There have been so many stupid people, with such fragile egos, out there and everyone wants to prove they have the biggest d@*k! So you have whoever it is who is running the White House, because we all know that Biden couldn\u2019t find his butt with both hands and a flashlight, who is pushing all of the LGBTQ+++++ crap, destroying the future of America, who is pushing the hatred between Jews and Arabs, Russia and Ukraine, China and the World, and doing everything they can to line their own pockets, with no care whatsoever about the Nation! Then you have the Europeans, who have been such big powers years ago, who still think they are top of the mountain, when they can\u2019t even take care of their own people! The New World Order, funded by Soros and his Ilk, who have way more money than they can ever spend, and are just bored to death and decided they want to play in politics to get back at every perceived insult or slight that has happened to them in their lives, just spoiled 80 year old \u201cspoiled children\u201d, who have decided that if \u201cYou won\u2019t play by the rules I just made up, I will take my ball and go home!\u201d Sheer stupidity! If the governments of the world would just work together, there is enough money, assets and skills to give every person in the world, clean water, good food, a roof over their heads, abd safety from the ills out there! But no, EVERYONE wants to be in charge and control their own little corner of their world!
Jan 09, 25

Playing old music to dementia patients seems to bring them "back" to be massively helpful.... I have a fairly large collection of CDs... I put one on, and I am transported to when I was 19....or 24...and everything else about being there ALSO comes rushing back too...people...names...masses of stuff it can be really emotional too....not to sure if our current youth will have this resource...maybe a video rather than real experiences connected to each song...mixes and...
BLM
Last Night, a DJ saved My life is a song (a very popular song released by an American Musical Group - called Indeed in the dying years of Disco in the USA) - sold over 1,000,000 copies on 45 formats. I use music to link 'pleasant memories' in my mind - the safest place to hold fond memories that are near and dear too ME - in MY MIND - because I CAN visit my fond memories in my mind at any time (day or night).
Dec 28, 24

I know I will get a lot of negative feedback for this and if someone is alone, I can understand them treating their pup like it is their child, but dog clothes are expensive and unnecessary. That money could be put to much better uses, like feeding hungry children.
Sylvia Y
I think it is dreadful to do this to intelligent animals be they dogs or cats and it should be treated as animal cruelty
Dec 17, 24

When is it time for an elderly person to be in aged care? Should it be up to the person themselves, or should their children help them decide? My Dad lives on his own and is happy, but he has recently had a fall, and I am not sure if I am happy about him being alone. What do you think?
BLM
I was never close to my parents or my immediate family on my father side or my mother side. I went on to become a runaway when I was a teen-ager - and never saw my parents or immediate family EVER again! Anyway, a very bad warning health sign is you stated your father recently fell - you need to schedule an appointment with a geriatrician and neurologist ASAP. After the health data comes back from both medical doctors - you and father need to have a heart-to-heart talk about his living on his OWN and any adjustments NEEDED for him to continue to live on his OWN! FYI: I turned 79 - yesterday - I see a geriatrician and neurologist - once a year - to make annual adjustments pertaining to the status of my health - so I can continue to live on my OWN!
Nov 30, 24

There are a few countries that provide school children with free food. Even teachers are allowed to have it too. However, so many developed countries don't intend to do it. What is your opinion? To have access to free food at school is support for children and parents, as well. It is interesting to hear different opinions and facts from the residents of different countries.
APB
Australia should have this nationwide...there is no excuse...we waste our taxes on rubbish...lets feed and love our kids
Nov 16, 24

Lately, renting has become very high. When it comes to food or clothes, one can save up. But renting is something that you depend on others. The cheapest renting in Canada is $2,000 for a family. It takes half the budget. Even if one wants to rent places with low price, it doesn't work as it is wished.
Warrior
Renting is a problem when you let to many foreigner into a country who buy up properties and leave thise homes empty.. you know who these people are.
Sep 30, 24

The other day, I noticed an elderly woman shoplift in a grocery store. I felt sorry for her - she must have been low on money to buy food, and so she was stealing. Would you report an elderly shoplifter or let it go OR maybe offer to buy the item for her?
Imperia S '' PIER''
there are plenty of places for people to get food for nothing eg. Food Bank, Salvation Army, etc.there is no need for stealing, they set bad examples to the younger crowd
Aug 26, 24

Some scientists believe that Climate Change is bogus. It's not real according to their analysis. Some of these Climate change sceptics have done analytical studies and --couldn't find real evidence of it. The earth is always changing, and nothing remains the same for too long. But if these other Scientists are right and this has all been a lie, then what would be the reason for this? Why would so many want to believe it and insist it is happening?
Pearlz
Stalin once said if you tell a lie make it a big lie because people will believe a big lie. Darwin came up with the theory of evolution, and it was only a theory as there has never been any proof. With the advances in DNA this theory has been blown out of the water and yet it is taught in schools as a fact. What did Darwin gain from what is a lie? Fame! Climate change is another lie that started as Global Warming but when it became evident that the world was not warming it was changed to climate change. The CSIRO know it isn't a fact but if they announce that the money tap will be turned off. Malcolm Turnbull pushes climate change, and why wouldn't he as he and his son are making a lot of money from green technologies. As with anything, follow the money. Just look at the money being made by people making and installing solar panels, electric cars and batteries. And all this rubbish needs replacing every 10 or 20 years. It is one huge con and many people have been sucked in either because they didn't really think about it or are too afraid to disagree. How on earth can mankind change the weather? There is the sun and moon with all their effects, undersea volcanoes spewing hot water that heats our oceans altering the currents which effects the rain we get. Climate change has been blamed for the recent floods which is totally incorrect, they were caused by El Nino which has been known by the South Americans for thousands of years. People should ask questions and not simply accept the rubbish pushed as FACT.
Jun 08, 22

Young adults are taking more time to marry, and cohabitation has become a popular alternative to marriage. People may also not want to marry if they have previously felt intensely controlled by others. What are your thoughts? Why do some people never marry?
Lachelle B
Was with my partner for 24 years (he passed this January) and we both never felt the need to get married. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
May 15, 24

Some research suggests that loneliness can increase stress. It's also associated with an increased risk of certain mental health problems. For example, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and sleep problems. My anxiety and depression isolates me from people and stops me from being able to do the things I'd like to do. What do you reckon? What does being lonely do to a person?
BLM
I am NOT a people person - I enjoy being ALONE without ever feeling LONELY! Furthermore, there is a BIG difference between ALONE and being LONELY!
May 22, 24

Well wow this discussion can hit on so much nerves. I can fully understand a life between 2 adults, but when children are involved that is too much to take in. If you live in a dysfunctional life or in an abusive situation, I also can fully understand, but when especially a mother to decide to leave your family & especially children, in my opinion it takes the cake. I find this to be so selfish on your part to up root your children's lifes for what you think for a better life. It...
Turbo Leonie
We have no right to judge anyone as we do not know the complete story. There could be many reasons for a mother to leave, she may be putting her kids first, who knows? It would be such a hard decision. We have not walked in their shoes. Anybody who has made the decision deserves our support as well as the children and other parent. The last thing they need is others judging. How will that help a family?
May 04, 24

Is it just me, or has there been a rise in people who in insist on correcting other people's Spelling and Grammar?? (even now, I'm sure I've probably put a full stop in the wrong place or misspelled a few words) Is this a battle worth fighting or just plain Jerky, what do you think?? By the way, it annoys the crap out of me
DrSuz
I do editing and proofreading for work, and I never correct spelling and grammar when I’ve not been asked to do so. I think it is rude and can be a form of bullying and belittling someone. If the spelling or grammar is wrong but the meaning is clear, there’s no need to annoy the writer with corrections. And if no one ever made mistakes, I would have a lot less work!
Sep 12, 22

At my age (I am old), my number one issue in life is my health and health coverage. Every year I have to wade through Medicare (a government medical program for everyone who is at least 65 years old (and paid into medicare for at least 40 credits (and you can only earn 4 credits a calendar year) in the USA. Because of my income (which the federal government claims is HIGH - HAHA - I am not covered by governmental supplement plans for dental coverage and...
Warrior Woman
At the moment it is convincing those selfish people who still refuse to be vaccinated against Covid. If we are ever to get a hold on this disease or become immune we must all be vaccinated so at least we stand a chance of surviving. Millions of precious people have died and maybe they don't belong to the unvaccinated but they did belong to others who loved and mourn their passing. Too many millions of others now suffer life long health issues because they caught the disease. Most of those I know claim "God protects me" .Well who protected the thousands of Christians and other believers who died? Others claim their body is their property and yet stick strange chemicals and other suspicious mixtures into their arms and up their noses and eat so called 'natural foods which are so chemically modified in order to make them edible. I am vaccinated but even catching the milder version now circulating will affect me because I already have severe respiratory problems and had lung cancer surgery. I know the unvaccinated will give all their silly, selfish reasons and I won't bother reading them because my number one issue is to live to see 2023!
Jan 02, 22

It seems of late that all we hear is how we should eat plant foods and not meat or dairy products etc. Almond milk is not as nutritious as cows milk and should not be given the children? It is also produced with pesticides and heaps of water to grow them. I was watching a cooking show last week and the vegan chef said h I also feel that a acre of plant food will give the grower more money they a cow or sheep would over a year. However, if the environmentalists...
Bugalugs
What I don't like, in fact I loathe, about Vegans and Vegetarians is thet they adopt the attitude that they are so much better than everyone else. yet these are the same people who want all their "Flesh" replacement meals to taste just like the Beef, Chickem Lamb, Turkey, Pork, Salmon, Barramundi, Herrings etc. they used to eat before they became so much better, more Environmentally Conscious and overall Much Superior Citizens than the rest of us.
The next time you are in the Supermarket have a good, close look at the Ingredients Label on all this Vegetarian, Vegan food. You will be surprised, very possibly, and justifiably, shocked at the amount of Laboratory-produced "Nature Identical" Flavours, Colours, the amount of Sodium, NaCl, and other Artificial Chemicals which are used to make those Meat Free Sausages, Mince, Steaks etc. taste just like the real thing!
It is a bit like those people who say they have stopped using sugar, the Cane or Beet variety and have switched to No Calorie, No Fat Artificlal Sweeteners all sold under trade names but which are, in truth, produced in laborarories and some of the ingredients have been shown, no, Proven to be Carcinogenic!
You don't have to adopt any of these extremist fads such as Veganism, if you want to reduce the amount of Meats you eat, just do so and increase your Vegetables including Potatoes!
For the extremists they all seem to think they are better than everyone else, they are so arrogant, so smug, they really have no idea what problems they are setting up fopr themselves after eating all that Artificial rubbish. They won't eat Cheese, drink Milk, eat Eggs and try to imply that this is contributing to cutting down on Animal Cruelty. Garbage, utter garbage because the Cows will still be producing milk, chickens still laying infertile eggs and they do it al Naturally.
Jan 07, 24

Honestly, as road users, we all pay our share of taxes. It is my opinion that anyone using a two-wheel bicycle should pay a share of road taxes and wear a numbered identification bib of some sort, bet that gets a few hot under the collar.
APB
and pedestrians too...we could tax animals even...dogs using the footpaths...what about wheelchairs and motorised buggies?...kids triikes too...think of all the revenue!!!...we could make lots of money and crush everyone under our will....fantastic...we could tattoo numbers on people's heads....and if they didn't pay their taxes we could gather them all up and keep them in camps.....
God I love discussion pages!
Jan 15, 23

Lately, if I am not director or CEO of a company, or I don't have own company, I am scanned out of surveys. I mean, be realistic - would really the owner of a company have time for online surveys? Or someone with income greater than 150k a year would spend time to do online surveys about groceries stores? I don't think so. That requirements of being even able to do some survey is almost impossible lately. What are your experiences?
Magpie
Like a lot of others, I get screened out of countless surveys - certainly there are far more outs than acceptances. There is absolutely no doubt that the main reason I get the 'cold shoulder' is my age. I am 77.
Being rejected used to annoy me but I have come to accept that the so called marketing experts aren't interested in considered opinions from us older folk and believe that the world functions around the upwardly mobile with more money than sense. That's okay, they pay their money and get what they want but I wish they wouldn't waste everyone's time in this manner.
Nov 04, 22

How much are we eating, and we don't know it. Starting to notice warnings on a few foods, what do you guys know about it?
WonkyandProud
I think we have no idea what we are eating. How could we know? We aren't there where our food is grown or even worse where it's produced, handled and packaged. Unless you grow your own food and raise your own livestock, you don't know what you're eating. Even then, what part does the environment and the feed for the livestock impact the final product? Almost everything from the air we breathe to the items we interact with to the food we eat affects us. I'm more concerned with the electronics and all the things we can't see. I have proof that the electricity in our homes can kill us, even our pets and trees. Now there is so much more than just the electricity we use. All the devices we use affect us, and I feel we are forced to use them out of necessity. I hate mobile phones, but almost every company wants you to download an app which I think is for tracking purposes, but they make it appear to be for out benefit. When do companies EVER do anything just to save us money? That doesn't even make sense. I feel like we are lambs being sent to the slaughter and everyone just follows along. I try not to, but sometimes we HAVE to in order to do what we have to do. They assume everyone has a cell phone and internet. We should be able to make that choice and not be forced into using things that we don't even understand how they work! Maybe I'm just too old for this. Does anyone agree or am I paranoid? I've been around long enough to know not to trust everything. You can't even believe what you hear and see now with the AI which is another subject I'd like to avoid!
Oct 19, 23

Has anyone heard of the 'Bulla Rescue' in Australia which involves horses? I watched a documentary about rescuing Race horses that were left to starve to death by a trainer. There were many reports sent to the RSPCA, but it was not investigated. They found over 20 horses dead or dying from starvation. 23 horses were rescued, but 3 had to be put down. If you report something serious, shouldn't it be investigated. In the end the police were also involved.
Mooi
So much goes on in the racing industry. It is all about money and greed. It happens with horse racing and greyhound racing, rodeos and any form of animal exploitation. It is always about the money they can make out of an animal and when it is spent and considered no longer profitable, it is discarded. These animals are sentient beings, not commodities.
Aug 15, 23
I ran a few earlier...they tend to drift down the list and get forgotten...John started one a while back but it is starting to fail ..so I thought it was time for a new one again...OKAY people..who is on first? it is standup on line....which is great....so its not scary...in fact its a good place to checkout your material before you use it!
Holly Cat
I went skydiving for the first time. This guy strapped himself to me, we jumped out of the plane and as we plummeted, he asked ..
"So, how long have you been an instructor?'
1 day ago

I was recently at the Doctors & the waiting room & treatment room all had posters stating, "abuse of staff will not be tolerated!" I then went to the Medical lab & X-ray rooms where there were more posters stating the same in large bold writing. It is sad that society has come down to a lack of respect for people who are doing their best to help others. A nurse at the hospital said they cannot put their surnames on their name tags, or they get trolled & abused through social...
gordy
How disgusting this behaviour is. Sometimes it is because of a medical condition or illicit drug taking. Sometimes people are just downright abusive. The internet has made society very unsociable
and aggressive. Not to mention all the other stuff that has changed our society. Manners and respect - where the hell is it.
Jun 08, 26

What makes you decide a person is beautiful? Is it just their outward appearance? Or, what they are like inside? In my experience with deciding if a person is beautiful, is their initial attractiveness on the outside, and then seeing what they were like on the inside changed my perspective of them as they showed how nasty they actually are. I'm not saying all attractive people are not good, but some can be very arrogant.
writerrochelle
And some not so attractive people can have such a good heart inside that they eventually appear attractive outside too! I've known people with a beautiful outside appearance that, after I got to know them, they actually started looking ugly on the outside for their evil inside. Jehovah God is looking for, and directing us to through his angels, goodhearted people since the end is drawing near, just like before the flood in Noah's day! \u263a\ufe0f
May 30, 26

As the local bank branches have closed and the ATM has gone I have to travel to the next suburb in order to get cash, so when I was in a large shopping centre recently and saw an ATM I decided to use it. I first noticed the keypad was very low so I had to stoop as I put my card in. The screen asked which security I wanted, facial recognition, thumb or PIN, then did I want a withdrawal, deposit, transfer or balance. Then it was cheque, savings, or cash...
Terry G 153626
I bank with Macquarie. They dont have branches or ATMs but i can go to any bank ATM and withdraw cash without paying any fee. They pay me 2.75% on my transaction account and 5% on my savings and they dont have any silly requirements like making desposits every month. Best bank for my needs.
May 27, 26

Woke used to mean one thing.... now it is just confusing... Gay was happy once.... Quark can mean a Desktop publishing program....or a fundamental particle or a type of cheese!....why don't we just make up some more words?...is it a lack of imagination?...what do you think?....if that is too tiring maybe we could get AI to do it for us...it saves us from thinking doesn't it
writerrochelle
I don't use slang words that are meaningless in their context. I prefer using the English language, which is confusing enough already. ;-D
Apr 22, 26

If you knew the world was going to end soon, what would you do? Would you go crazy and do wild things, or would you accept the fact and try to help others to come to grips with this?
Mike Pike
Know Jesus Know Peace No Jusus you're in trouble
May 04, 26
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