Kids today might be going backwards. I don't believe they are as mature as previous generations. They seem lost and confused by the world around them. They had so many adults pulling them in one direction and then another. They seem less able to stand on their feet and can't handle difficult situations well.

I will listen to what they have to say but I don't have to agree with them. I let them know that every time.

Depends on how dumb the parents are

Children should never teach their parents. If they think that parents did something wrong in the past they just need to do different(better) in their own lives.

Well said Karen Hinds... that's all we can do, teach them the best way we can. I have raised 3 beautiful children who are now adults with their own family and they would no sooner tell me how to live my life and I have not had a reason go tell them how to live theirs..

They don't - at least not until they have actually had some experience of life. The big thing both should learn, and parents must teach their children this at the earliest possible time, is Respect. What's that old saying? Out of the mouths of babes and sucklings comes wisdom - or somesuch. Respect is a Two Way street.

Not unless their opinions are asked for. Both parents and children have to let each other get on with their lives once parents have discharged their responsibilities for their offspring.

There's an old story that goes something like this: when I was 18 I knew everything and didn't need to be told anything by my elders, but when I was 21 I was amazed at how much my parents had learned over the last 3 years.

Because you are all so perfect, and your children ( no matter the age) couldn’t possibly have the intimate knowledge, after being parented by YOU all their lives, where there could be some room for improvement ???? I hope you have all afforded your children plenty of non judgemental space over the years as they have made their way through life!!

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Never .It depends on how YOU bring them up mine were very respectful .We were able to discuss all subjects.They never felt they had to tell us how to live our lives

No comment since don't have children?

After they have experienced a few years in marriage or with a partner after leaving home

When you are senile or 100 or when they are 75 or older

Never ever

When they reach 60. Mine have reached that age and now realise I was right all along!!

Only when the parents ask for ideas, suggestions etc or when they have become unable to function on their own due to dementia. I'd be highly suspicious of a child who tries to tell parents how to live, no matter how old the child. They are probably being selfish and worried the parents are spending what they want as their inheritance.

never

Our youngest turned 19 and become the household expert I shall remind him of this when he has his own 19 year old one day ;)

Even as an adult I would never dare to tell my parents how to live their lives

never

Most parents teach their children well but one word from one of their peers and it all goes out the window. We can only hope enough is ingrained for them to make good decisions. Respect is earnt and should never be expected. Children can be a bit smarter in some things than parents but parents also have experience. I think depending on the childrens age all can benefit from discussions and experiences of each age group.

I taught my children that every action has a consequence. Good or bad. My daughters are beautiful souls who care about others making a difference in the community. They put their lives on the line on the daily basis too keep the community safe. Im now teaching my grandchildren the same. Respect, honouring elders, communicating the truth at all times and showing compassion for all.

Well sometimes they do know a bit more than their parents e.g. technology.

Never because all of us are constantly learning every day.

yes they do

respect for your parents is needed, if you have respect from them as a child and an adult, then respect back for sure, but if you haven't had that from them growing up (not being respected as the child). discussion is the best suggestions but everyone has their own rights to make their own decisions

Not unless the parents have health issues

Not in my life time that is for sure. There is a word called Respect and that is what I expect. We can have discussions and pass ideas back and forth and if they come up with an idea that I would never have thought of then I would think about it and may act on it but definitely not if I was told what I should do.

If you are stupid enough to breed, suck it up!!

In whose eyes?

Never

Oh,by around 40 i suppose...

This all depends on the way the children have been raised and I feel if they are raised right with respect for others it is quite simple. Children have their views of life I am sure but most of it comes from what they hear on social media or their parents. It is our responsibility to raise them into the roles they play in society and not the teachers. My two girls who are in the 40's now never tell me what to do except for the youngest if she feels it is for health reasons. I appreciate it but as I am a nurse I can understand better what is going on. I do listen to them at least once a week when they communicate with me but will never offer advice unless it is asked for with any trouble in their household. They know I will always be honest with what I am saying but that I will not demean their partners as I respect them also.

As soon as they find a voice that's when they think they know better then you. And children today think they have rights and a lot of parents give into their children too easily.

When they are married & know how to run there own life

Well from my limited experience from the moment that they are born they run you ragged and it only gets worse as they get older.

When they overhear you thinking aloud ie you get your first Colour TV and you say " Iwonder how this works?" and the toddler responds "you push the ON button mum!"

seems that its the lack of 'experience and knowledge' of the parents that's the real problem.

Lessons and learning can go both ways. You teach them things and likewise they can teach you things. Your talking about bossing someone, there should be respect from both sides. Discipline is a different thing, it's like learning what's right and wrong. However gaining experience and learning is something you will always do.

never

From day 1....lol, they will tell you, buuuuutttt! You don’t let them rule, because you know better, eh!...lol

I think age groups can easily get slotted into a stereotype of their own. No, not all 13 year olds are like that, being 23 doesn't automatically mean they're such and such, just because you're 50...well, you get the picture. I think you can get smart people across a wide range of ages. If you're truly smart you'll give good useful advice with good reasoning, rather trying to run some other person's life (no matter what age you've reached). After all, we're all unique, with a unique set of circumstances!Edited 26-Jan-21 11:21am

50

Never as if you say something. The teacher teach them tell on they parents and the child will be take off for nothings. Parents don't have rights at all no more its sad

They can tell me when they're older than me! So never.

Never!

My son has given me good advice that I have listened to and I have given him good advice also. I do not at any point now tell himhow to live his life. If he asks a question I will answer it. Ps he is 19

Well, I'll take advice from anyone, including my children.

We all live within the rules our society expect of us and our children need to learn to live within them also,

Issue depend upon the education What they got

In fact, our world and our children's world are completely different worlds. It may be right in our world, but it may be wrong in their world, it may be wrong in our world, but it may be right in their world. The world is changing, people are changing.

I'm sorry, is this an actual issue? It's a joke question, right?

never you should all ways respect your elders

yes when you see young children growing up to fast they think they rule

What do I do as I am still a child at heart but both my parents are well gone. Ummmmmmm.

Never ever

No, not these days!

Never

Never!!

Never

the day children have to financially take care of their parents - which is a day too late - to tell their parents how to live their lives?!Edited 26-Jan-21 08:09am

Never, but they still try

Never, but of course, they think they can.

Some parents might resent interference in their life from their grown up offspring. Can only speak from experience when I tried to be bossy to mum. Edited 26-Jan-21 00:47am

Yes I love my children and what the best for them what them to be well

Lol . As a young adult. Tho many don't really have the wisdom of experience at that age still. They might just think they do. It's usually tho when they get into their mid 40s, and beyond

No

Some do and this made me hit 1 million points.