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What do you hate about Christmas?
Dean S. (community member)Dec 14, 20
My mother works herself sick every year. There's no stopping her. We get to my parent's house and there's 10 different cookies, eight different kinds of candy made, four different desserts, and you can't see the table because of all the gifts she's wrapping. I do my best to take over at that point, but she's already coughing, exhausted, and sleep deprived from the two weeks of constant preparation before we arrived. What do you hate about Christmas?
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  • Margarita S
    Santa
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    • Sandra A 131302
      When the shopping centre carparks become very busy and people become rude or aggressive to people who are especially waiting to park after someone’s left!
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      • Claude H
        The preparation
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        • Imperia S
          the fact that I can't be in more places than one, people are about to be left out either by not inviting them or you have to be some other place, My family are all over Australia, so yes I kind of hate Xmas
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          • Peter M 273033
            Christmas can be nice if you have kids, or if you are a kid. Otherwise, it's a cheezy expensive greedfest. It would be nice if the real Reason for the Season were properly acknowledged, but "Christ" seems to have vanished from "Christ-mas" long ago....leaving a meaningless materialistic emptiness. Just imagine Ramadan without Muhammad.....
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            • Shirley H 391879
              The shoppers. Rude angry aggressive
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              • Cory C
                Mariah Carey screeching all i want for Christmas
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                • Lones
                  I agree with Beverly I, to commercial, all about profits, and sales. Does envy one remember what the true spirt of Christmas is supposed to be
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                  • Gaza
                    All the immigrants trying to stop it because of religious beliefs. They are welcome in this country, why try to change our customs?
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                    • Diane M 82776
                      Being alone on Christmas Day
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                      • Louisa W
                        Way to many people around in the shopping centres.
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                        • Beverly I
                          What i hate about Christmas it is to commercial
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                          • Sabine V
                            everything
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                            • LsNx
                              Buying gifts is the hardest job. Even cooking Christmas lunch for 15 people is easier.
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                              • Iris
                                The crowded shopping malls drive me crazy! So pleased they stay open late so I can shop after 10 when they're quieter! Avoiding them this year by making my own gifts
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                                • Michelle 76159
                                  The craziness in the shopping centres and supermarkets
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                                  • Jacqueline R 353303
                                    Trying to keep family happy.
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                                    • Dimitri T 100433
                                      love Festive season of Christmas even with all the commercialism?
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                                      • Carolyn H 319412
                                        I love the lead up to Christmas but hate Christmas Day.
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                                        • Joe B 288252
                                          Ever thought to go earlier and give her a hand?. There’s nothing to hate about sharing
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                                          • meredith j - NZ
                                            Having to cook
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                                            • Helen E 385873
                                              The Stress
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                                              • antoinette d 79977
                                                I think people should remember that it is the day Jesus was born!
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                                                • Michelle 76159
                                                  I agree
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                                              • barbara p 90052
                                                I love Christmas because its the time of year we all get together as a family. Hate the crowds in the shopping centres so try and have everything organised well before. It's becoming very commercialised which is a shame.
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                                                • Jayne C 315662
                                                  I hate the way some groups want to keep trying to take Christ out of Christmas.
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                                                  • Beverley S 383001
                                                    I really hate it when dear friends die just before Christmas. I am 72 years old and a dear friend I have known since I was 16 died and his funeral is next Saturday in another State of Australia. I just cannot attend but will watch the service on a live stream. Every Christmas will not be the same without his cheery greetings.
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                                                    • Patman Newcastle
                                                      Nothing. I love all the Christmas shopping , tree decorating, cooking cakes , puddings and shortbread. and my family love the results of all i do.
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                                                      • Sally S 71235
                                                        I hate how commercialised Christmas has become!
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                                                        • Leanne M 293000
                                                          The gluttony - it seems to be the purpose these days, to stuff yourself with every morsel offered.
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                                                          • Disie
                                                            December!
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                                                            • Ken S 80614
                                                              Everything, it a waste of time and money, people go crazies, buying things that they do not need, giving presents that are useless, It causes more trouble than it worth, more divorce and family break up over this time, people drink too much, can not wait till it passed
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                                                              • Alison M 86959
                                                                The over commercialism, I love Christmas because of how it brings people together, I don't worry too much about presents, don't spend much at all, make a few special Panatonne, a couple of Christmas puddings,(Great Gran's recipe), I buy all the dried fruits and nuts from Aldi, so it doesn't cost that much, makes quite cost effective presents, and home made is so personal, don't buy for any nieces/nephews, now have great nieces/nephews, they are so spoilt by their own parents, I won't add to it. Just a couple of close friends, brothers and sisters, they appreciate home made goods. I like how everybody is together, I don't get into a flap about any of it, whoever turns up, they are welcome, everything is done on a budget, (no seafood) there is always enough for everyone. We are on a single married pension, plus a small amount from Super, until I am old enough for the pension, so money is very tight, I buy during the year, ad one thing to each shop, and always have plenty for Christmas. People go overboard, I am
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                                                                • roger l 315504
                                                                  the rampant commercialisation, if you 'believe' the advertising Santa promotes everything from boats to boobs and everything in between for profit, it's bloody demeaning
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                                                                  • Steve 327816
                                                                    consumerism
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                                                                    • diane c QLD
                                                                      nothing ,,i love xmas
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                                                                      • Bugalugs
                                                                        I don't hate it I just don't celebrate it in any way now as it, like Easter, Mother's, Father's, Hallow'een and all the others Christmas has now degenerated into nothing more than a massive commercial operation.
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                                                                        • Sonya F 68771
                                                                          i dont mind Christmas but dont have many family members so its a bit quiet
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                                                                          • Amor Fati
                                                                            I love Christmas!
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                                                                            • Anneliese
                                                                              I love Christmas, the drive interstate can be a bit draining though, takes 2 days.
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                                                                              • TREV
                                                                                SAME HERE
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                                                                            • Stacey M 405278
                                                                              My last minute shopping when I forgot one thing!!!HELP
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                                                                              • Judi D
                                                                                I don't hate anything about Christmas.
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                                                                                • Phyrephly
                                                                                  Christmas shopping, at Christmas, or say 2 weeks prior, to the big day. If I could have 2 pet peeves I'd have to say, deciding what gifts to get for people....I LOVE giving presents, actually I even love more "tricking" people into thinking I'd gotten them something different to what I'd actually got them, (simple- minds, I know). Does all this count? lol Hoping your hatred isn't excited too much this year. Wishing the best to all and sundry.
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                                                                                  • Margarret F
                                                                                    it has become a more and more silly commercial season. I stopped getting involved several years ago and I simply look forward to peace while everyone is rushing around because they think it is the 'thing to do'. Not their fault because the majority do their best to convince everyone that it is necessary. I dont really waste my energy on hating it but just simply 'turn off and tune out' as soon as I can.
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                                                                                    • Andrew T 123623
                                                                                      Pretending you like someone just to keep the peace with others, and they do the same back. And it all because of Christmas it easier just to stay away.
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                                                                                      • Paul J 94868
                                                                                        All the people saying we have to get rid of Christmas...
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                                                                                        • Vicki C 68608
                                                                                          The crowded shopping centres are the most annoying thing about Christmas,especially trying to find a car park.
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                                                                                          • Linda C
                                                                                            Most people enjoy Christmas but I do not like the new PC groups saying we should be more inclusive and not say Happy or Merry Christmas any more but Happy Holidays. Our traditions our being undermined by these people. I do not ask for other cultures to change their traditions and I know other cultures embrace ours so that really bugs me. Dean your Mother is going all out to make Christmas special for her family so appreciate the effort she goes to and as Sandra said, instead of having her do it in the future, you do it or take her to a lovely restaurant and have it catered for and give her the present of not being exhausted trying to make her family happy.
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                                                                                            • Sandra C 12043
                                                                                              Well have you ever thought of instead of going to your Mum's for Christmas that she comes to your house instead for a change. Think ahead and book a place somewhere nice and all have a holiday together there. Somewhere by the water would be nice.
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                                                                                              • StaceSteele
                                                                                                The extra people in the shops probably due to the fact that I shop all year round, especially now that covid is around no one is social distancing it's like it never happened. It's sad really it's not that people don't know that Christmas comes around every year but it's like people forget than October rolls around and people are like oh crap it's nearly Christmas better think about starting my shopping than they go Nah too early or I'll start tomorrow than before they know it the end of Nov is here and you watch people run around like their head has been cut off.
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                                                                                                • Larry S 382961
                                                                                                  Christmas is TOO commercialized now. Turn on the TV, Buy this,buy that. Letter box is full of store stuff to buy buy. Just return to the days when it was a time to enjoy with family and friends not to spend money you don't have to impress others
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                                                                                                  • Lyn 78550
                                                                                                    Well when the children were younger used to love it however with time, of course, they are now adults and it does not have the same feel about it. I do still like seeing people getting into the spirit of Christmas but what I dislike and think about at Christmas is all those who have lost their loved ones and especially those who do not have anywhere to go. I believe Christmas. for a lot of people, is a time of despair so spare a thought for them and in the true meaning of Christmas, if you are able, donate to charity.
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                                                                                                    • Linda M 393079
                                                                                                      Family not around to celebrate with.
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                                                                                                      • Sumedja S
                                                                                                        Gifting
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                                                                                                        • Mary M 329762
                                                                                                          I think its that the gifts idea and what they want that cost so much. Peoples forget about the family and being together and thank you what we have.
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                                                                                                          • Frank N
                                                                                                            What I hate is the commercialisation of Christmas. It seems to be all about spending, spending, spending
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                                                                                                            • greg c 125916
                                                                                                              The gross waste of food -- after all its just another day and another meal !!
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                                                                                                              • Mary M 329762
                                                                                                                Same things you can deep freeze so can have next time. Its saved time cooking next time.
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                                                                                                            • Hugh Topia
                                                                                                              I hate it when that big fat bastard in the red suit comes down my chimney and drinks my beer. I leave him out some biscuits and a glass of milk but no! That is not good enough for the big mongrel. He heads straight to the beer fridge. Every year I wake up Christmas morning to find no presents and an empty damn beer fridge.
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                                                                                                              • Linda C
                                                                                                                You are so funny. Thanks for the laugh
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                                                                                                            • CHERRY BLOSSOM
                                                                                                              I THINK THERE IS TOO MUCH FOOD AT CHRISTMAS.
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                                                                                                              • Mary M 329762
                                                                                                                But you can eat left over week later as long you deep freeze
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                                                                                                            • Judy CH
                                                                                                              The commercialism, it is all buy, buy, buy and people are like sheep, they don't stop and think about how they are going to pay the credit card off if they lose their job etc. And they don't have any respect for people who have to work hard without time off just so they can shop, if they can't get what they want the staff get abused as if it was their fault. I always buy everything during the year as I can afford it and put it aside for Christmas.
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                                                                                                              • Mary M 329762
                                                                                                                Me too buy all years around cost cheap
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                                                                                                            • Grommie
                                                                                                              lord of the kitchen,I've heard of Trivago, is Trivargo something new?
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                                                                                                              • Grommie
                                                                                                                Being nice to relatives that you can't stand makes the whole process stressful . But thanks to Covid-19 we can avoid a lot of that this year.. I hope the absence creates a precedent.
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                                                                                                                • Sheree T
                                                                                                                  I don't hate Christmas I dislike how it has become so commercialized and I dislike some peoples behavior. I start shopping months ahead and while it is more special I don't go overboard for the meal whether it is Breakfast or Lunch.
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                                                                                                                  • Mary M 329762
                                                                                                                    As long we have family that Christmas thst great gift
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                                                                                                                • Pato Lo Duck
                                                                                                                  Fake reindeer antlers on people, pets, and cars...
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                                                                                                                  • Robin L 79437
                                                                                                                    Too commercialised
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                                                                                                                    • Rifat H
                                                                                                                      I think hating Christmas is a lot like hating Birthdays as a day of celebration, not surprisingly ;-) While Christmas, like any other special day in the Calendar year has its negatives, weighing out the negatives and positives, the positives can come out on top. Just have to take a positive approach, enjoy, and have fun on a day of surprise and gifts! December is meant to be a good month, not sinister!
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                                                                                                                      • Christina D
                                                                                                                        Everything. People become very single minded, especially in shops. Kids are demanding and rude. It has become far too commercialized. People get into debt just to buy presents that most kids only play with for a few days or to buy the latest gadget and they struggle to pay the loan back
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                                                                                                                        • misfortune8
                                                                                                                          I'd cope better if it weren't always so hot.
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                                                                                                                          • Chosen
                                                                                                                            Xmas is a time for receiving. Bring it on. The more presents the merrier.
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                                                                                                                            • Robert nsw
                                                                                                                              nothing it's great time we get to see the kids and grand kids
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                                                                                                                              • Maree B 85308
                                                                                                                                Bah humbugs
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                                                                                                                                • Jeanine R
                                                                                                                                  I love Christmas and going to church for sure but as was said it is way to commercial. I try to do practical gifts as it is good. Calanders and such are good and easy to send far away..
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                                                                                                                                  • Kristina L 134251
                                                                                                                                    I hate that my dog who I loved more than anything in this world is no longer here. Christmas has never been as fun again without him.
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                                                                                                                                    • Sapphire Princess
                                                                                                                                      that this is my first Christmas without my dad. He passed away in January of 2020. this will be my first Christmas without him. the closer it gets to Christmas the harder it is for me.
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                                                                                                                                      • Queenbee
                                                                                                                                        Light a candle at the table in remembrance of your dad on Christmas Day.My mum died in dec 19 and I did this last year.
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                                                                                                                                      • Sapphire PrincessQueenbee
                                                                                                                                        great idea I will have to do that
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                                                                                                                                      • Linda C
                                                                                                                                        Lovely thought. I have lost both parents and two of my sisters one only recently. They all loved Christmas and the get togethers so I remember them and the fun.
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                                                                                                                                    • Leslie E 111465
                                                                                                                                      Spending money.
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                                                                                                                                      • Sandy (Texas)
                                                                                                                                        It way toooooo commercial.
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                                                                                                                                        • Ian F 71654
                                                                                                                                          What is there to hate about Christmas, it is a time to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, and the reason for the season, also is a great time to get together with all the family, and to see the joy on the young children's faces , as they open there presents
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                                                                                                                                          • Judy CH
                                                                                                                                            Unfortunatley a lot of people don't even think about Jesus at Christmas.
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                                                                                                                                          • Linda CJudy CH
                                                                                                                                            No I agree they don't as I don't but the coming together of families is a plus don't you think. Often families squabbles are put aside.
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                                                                                                                                          • Judy CHLinda C
                                                                                                                                            In NZ Christmas seems to be the worst time of the year for family violence
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                                                                                                                                        • Robin N 152029
                                                                                                                                          I have that Christ's birth is no longer the centre of the celebration
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                                                                                                                                          • SueM2
                                                                                                                                            The only thing I hate about Christmas is the crass commercialism.
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                                                                                                                                            • Craig P 469035
                                                                                                                                              it's just another day of the year to spend money on useless junk.
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                                                                                                                                              • Kim N 285099
                                                                                                                                                Santa need to diet, be a handsome old man. Change the image.
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                                                                                                                                                • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                  Like - Funny!
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                                                                                                                                              • Sue2
                                                                                                                                                crowds and noise
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                                                                                                                                                • PETER M 134659
                                                                                                                                                  NOTHING
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                                                                                                                                                  • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                    The truth is that all of the customs of Christmas pre-date the birth of Jesus Christ. The date of December 25 comes from Rome and was a celebration of the Italic God - Saturn , and the rebirth of the Sun God. This was done long before the birth of Jesus Christ!!!! 'What do I hate about Christmas?" I REFUSE TO CELEBRATE A PAGAN HOLIDAY AND WONDER WHY CHRISTIANS CELEBRATE A PAGAN HOLIDAY! I would like to credit (Luna) that Saturnalia is what the actual festival (Saturn) was called and Saturnalia what they actually shouted!
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                                                                                                                                                    • Luna
                                                                                                                                                      Io Saturnalia! :)
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                                                                                                                                                    • BLACK LIVES MATTERLuna
                                                                                                                                                      Appreciate the correction it is not Saturn - but Saturnalia - still does not change my opinion of Christmas - Read my original post again - the new last sentence - LOL!!
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                                                                                                                                                    • LunaBLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                      Oh no you are correct it does celebrate the god Saturn. Saturnalia is just what their festival was called and Io Saturnalia was apparently what they shouted. Christians did incorporate quite a few things into Christmas celebrations though and it might be because the Roman Empire stopped their celebrations. I actually like that elements of Saturnalia survived :)
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                                                                                                                                                    • BLACK LIVES MATTERLuna
                                                                                                                                                      I have to apologizes to you again (SMILE) - hopeful I got it right this time - read my original post again - the new last sentence - LOL!
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                                                                                                                                                    • LunaBLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                      It's all good, you didn't have to change anything you said but thank you anyway :)
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                                                                                                                                                    • BLACK LIVES MATTERLuna
                                                                                                                                                      Bottom line: I still think religion is the worst thing that happened to homo sapient - because more people have been enslaved and killed in the name of religion then any else on this planet - However,, I desire my original post to be accurate as possible - thank you for your assistance!!
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                                                                                                                                                    • LunaBLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                      Oh yeah can't argue with that! And you're welcome :)
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                                                                                                                                                  • LEANNE B 221779
                                                                                                                                                    Everything except roast Turkey
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                                                                                                                                                    • APB
                                                                                                                                                      All the waste and all the packaging
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                                                                                                                                                      • Debbie C 147795
                                                                                                                                                        All the cleaning after
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