Ex-boyfriend

23-Apr-25 08:18am
Sue 1585271
Run!
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23-Apr-25 08:08am
Greg T 1041472
Block his number on your phone and treat the relationship as something you learnt from and with those learnings, look forward.
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23-Apr-25 07:50am
Mark 1644145
I don't have one 🤷‍♂️
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23-Apr-25 07:44am
The dog house
Why would you give him money Sarah? He is only using you because he knows he can. Ignore him and move on to someone who will appreciate you and love you.
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23-Apr-25 07:33am
Crazy Nanny
O.M.G. He is a Human Equivalent Of A Red Flag….Move Forward…Don’t waste your energy thinking about him.
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23-Apr-25 07:27am
Elizabeth T 396096
Once a cheater, always a cheater and as they say "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me". He is using you as he knows you are vulnerable. Don't let him. Kick him to the curb and keep this ex an ex he is not worthy.
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23-Apr-25 07:16am
pam rae
ty JANN R
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23-Apr-25 07:15am
Lyn A.
hmm naivety and hope. Hopefully now you have learned. Ignore him totally he is a user you don't need people like that in your life [if necessary block his number. Take care and look after yourself.
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23-Apr-25 06:53am
Linda Z 1041798
Tell him to step off! He is not your responsibility and he's probably giving you a sob story to get you to give him money. If he put as much effort into his marriage as he put into texting you and bilking money from you, he wouldn't have marriage problems. He's trash let him go.
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23-Apr-25 06:45am
Christina D
Block his number and move on. He's already shown you his true colours, twice. He's not a guy you want or need in your life in any capacity.Edited 23-Apr-25 18:59pm
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23-Apr-25 06:44am
MoB
Ignore, ignore, ignore. He is trying to use you. Go out have fun you'll find somebody who really loves you when you are least expecting it. He made his bed now he must lay in it.
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23-Apr-25 06:42am
JANN R
I would not have given him the money and you should not give him anymore if he asks you he is just using you tell him to get the money from his wife
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23-Apr-25 06:41am
Linda 1575777
Say screw you buddy.
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23-Apr-25 06:41am
Lyn B 70486
dont respond
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23-Apr-25 06:40am
Jessie D 1191842
Ignore his texts. Get on with your life.
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23-Apr-25 06:36am
Barbara H 1073102
I think you know the answer to that. Is this even a serious question??
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23-Apr-25 05:53am
Cynthia 1521546
Tell him to ask his wife and never respond to him! Think!!!!
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23-Apr-25 05:47am
Frank K 593543
Forget him he's not worth helping
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23-Apr-25 05:45am
pam rae
Hi ty Toni B
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23-Apr-25 05:25am
Victoria 1304258
He's a jerk! I'm sorry for you, but block him & move on.
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23-Apr-25 05:13am
Tupulua S
cut the tape
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23-Apr-25 05:06am
Angela 1484008
Don't do it again.Sounds a bit flaky to me and if is the good times imagine if you'd married him.
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- 23-Apr-25 10:16am
  sarah J 798280
  you are right yes I will leave him along
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23-Apr-25 05:05am
Christina C 466456
Ignore him because he's clearly using you. Those kinds of people aren't worth your time because they will leave you feeling hurt. Do not make that mistake again.Edited 23-Apr-25 05:11am
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23-Apr-25 04:36am
Kimberly 1603434
I'd say you were crazy to give him $400 after he left you and got married and even more crazy to ask someone what should you do if he asks again!!
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- 23-Apr-25 05:29am
  BLACK LIVES MATTER
  Hilarious
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- 23-Apr-25 09:53am
  Razz
  Totally agree with you🙃
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23-Apr-25 04:30am
Ann 1598539
Good reasons they are ex
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23-Apr-25 03:49am
pam rae
TY Debra D, 624780
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23-Apr-25 03:46am
Hamid T
You should move on with your life.He is a bad experince that happend to you and you should learn your leason from this.He will never be royal to you.Move on and close this chapter of your life.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:51am
  sarah J 798280
  Im going to move on with my life and I will block him
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23-Apr-25 03:40am
NANCY 1657007
He is an EX for a reason. I would ask for the $400 back and when he repays you that should be the end of it. If he doesn't repay you you can always go to his house and ask for the money back infront of his wife. He left you, in his eyes you weren't good enough. Block him from all communication. And find a real man that will treat you like you should be treated. Good Luck.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:54am
  sarah J 798280
  Thanks and I will leave him alone
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- 23-Apr-25 05:41am
  Victoria 1437259
  That’s smart
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23-Apr-25 03:39am
Val 1394045
Drop him. Stay away from him He is no good for you. You do not need him
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23-Apr-25 03:34am
Debra D 624780
I would say, Stay Away From Him. he is not the person for you. If ANY man asks you for money, see how far you can get away from this person and do not, I say DO NOT Go Back!!!
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- 23-Apr-25 03:56am
  sarah J 798280
  I will not go back I learn my lesson from it
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23-Apr-25 02:56am
Maria B 89860
Obviously he is an Ex for a very good reason you were saved from him. Don't fall into his trap of manipulation, be glad you had a lucky escape when he showed his true colours. Seek true love and move on.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:13am
  sarah J 798280
  Thanks and I will move on
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- 23-Apr-25 03:24am
  Maria B 89860sarah J 798280
  All the best to you, for it will happen, cheers, mb.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:54am
  Maria B 89860sarah J 798280
  ... and also, it shows you have a good heart, instead of bitterness you showed compasion, paid something forward.
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23-Apr-25 02:49am
Jamie 1501965
Ignore him. He's using you & bring manipulative.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:14am
  sarah J 798280
  I will and I will block him for good
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23-Apr-25 02:27am
Linda 3
Ignore him...he sounds like bad news,
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- 23-Apr-25 03:16am
  sarah J 798280
  I will and letting him go
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23-Apr-25 02:16am
pam rae
HI, TY Tom S
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23-Apr-25 02:15am
Tina 423889
not give him anything
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- 23-Apr-25 03:16am
  sarah J 798280
  I want give him nothing no more he show me who he really are
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23-Apr-25 02:10am
Tasha 1666901
Don't talk to him anymore.
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23-Apr-25 02:09am
Giovanna 1654319
That he should not call you ever again, and to forget yiu
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23-Apr-25 02:03am
pam rae
ignore and move on, there are better men who will respect you....
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23-Apr-25 02:01am
Angie
Reading this makes me sad. Sarah J you are being played by this scumbag. Please try and forget about him and move on. Black Lives Matter has given you good advice in this column. Seek the help of a therapist, good friend or councillor who will help you to get your confidence back. Don’t let this man back into your life. Please reach out if you need support. Take care 💜
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- 23-Apr-25 03:19am
  sarah J 798280
  Thanks and I will let him go for good
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23-Apr-25 01:19am
sandra b 1038153
I cant believe you could even ask that question .It doesn't matter who it is if help some one out and they don't pay you back or even call you WHY WOULD EVEN WANT SONEONE LIKE THAT IN YOUR LIFE ?
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- 23-Apr-25 01:26am
  sarah J 798280
  well I'm done for good
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23-Apr-25 01:12am
lin r
get a brain
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23-Apr-25 01:01am
Craig 1601785
Girl you need to find a good man that loves you for you not your money and don't give him another cent his a user and U deserve better
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- 23-Apr-25 01:27am
  sarah J 798280
  Thanks for your comment and I will block him
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23-Apr-25 00:50am
BLACK LIVES MATTER
It is way 'past' time to 'move on' when he left you and eventually got married (but not to you). If you can't (or won't) 'move on' it is time to have a chat (ongoing) with a psychiatrist or psychologist (hopefully you have a health plan) because it reads like you are having self-confidence issues and your ex-boyfriend is taking advantage of you on a monetary level (borrowing money from you with no intentions of ever paying you back)!
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- 23-Apr-25 00:56am
  sarah J 798280
  I will let him go for good block him
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23-Apr-25 00:37am
Zena 1539369
Don't hand your power over to someone who does not see your worth.
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- 23-Apr-25 00:58am
  sarah J 798280
  you right I want he will be block and I'm going on with my life
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- 23-Apr-25 19:10pm
  Mariaj
  Well said Zena, excellent advice :-)
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- 23-Apr-25 21:15pm
  Zena 1539369Mariaj
  most of us have been in a similar situation at some point. It's a life lesson.
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- 24-Apr-25 19:07pm
  MariajZena 1539369
  Yes definitely and I know that saying too but haven’t thought about it when needed :-)
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23-Apr-25 00:36am
Rhonda D 522615
Block and forget him.
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- 23-Apr-25 00:59am
  sarah J 798280
  I will block him and move on with my life
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23-Apr-25 00:34am
Pam G 449028
Ignore him he is just using you, he sounds like a real d ck
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23-Apr-25 00:31am
Connie 1626364
Cut your losses and run.
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- 23-Apr-25 00:59am
  sarah J 798280
  I will forget about him
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23-Apr-25 00:23am
Von
You sound very young and rather niave. It also sounds like you still have feelings for him. If you've given him money, while he's married to another woman and then he's not communicating with you, ( ghosted you) consider it a $400 life lesson, not to be repeated. Close this chapter of your life and move on, he's not worth the angst he's caused you. I don't know you, but you deserve better than how you've been treated in the story you've told here. I wish you all the best.
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- 23-Apr-25 01:02am
  sarah J 798280
  I learn my lesson now I want do that again even if he try this again
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- 23-Apr-25 01:10am
  Vonsarah J 798280
  That's good to hear. Take the advice (I'll edit this to...) the nicer people are giving you.Edited 23-Apr-25 01:21am
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- 23-Apr-25 09:53am
  Lyn 78550
  Well said and nothing further to add as this echoes my view. x
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23-Apr-25 00:20am
mike B 1066235
HE IS CALLED X FOR A REASON, LEAVE IT THAT WAY , MIKE
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- 23-Apr-25 01:03am
  sarah J 798280
  ok I will leave it that way
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23-Apr-25 00:19am
Aisha A 379399
Block his number, he's just a loser who wants to take advantage of you.
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- 23-Apr-25 01:03am
  sarah J 798280
  I will block him
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23-Apr-25 00:18am
Diane M 82776
It is like I met this man. He was A compulsive liar. He told me he was 63 but he was really 49. He looked 63. He told me a different address where he lived. Every time we went out I paid for everything. He borrowed $200 but at least I got the money back. I think a liar never knows when they are telling the truth. He would disappear for days and I found out he had other women. I am glad I am rid of him.
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- 23-Apr-25 01:06am
  sarah J 798280
  I'ma block him it don't need me to wait on something it not true
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23-Apr-25 00:15am
APB
I'm staggered that you need to ask for a second opinion...what is wrong with this picture?
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23-Apr-25 00:06am
NotFriedLikeMost
The $400 was for drugs. You got played. Delete your text chain with him. BLOCK HIM on EVERYTHING. MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE :) Simple. DETACH and LET GO.
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- 23-Apr-25 01:08am
  sarah J 798280
  I will block him and I'm going to let him go it will be hard but I will get through this
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- 23-Apr-25 01:21am
  NotFriedLikeMostsarah J 798280
  Good.You have to do what is best FOR YOU. If you ALLOW him to be a "hanger-on"...he will ALWAYS come back and manipulate you. I've seen this with men and women...and EVERYONE who has moved on, has looked back and said "I am glad I did that". Cheers.
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- 23-Apr-25 03:42am
  Debra D 624780NotFriedLikeMost
  Enrich your life by getting out in social circles where people won't do these things to you, find a good friend to hang around with, read a good book, watch a good movie on TV, consider some classes online to fill in your free time, spend time at a local nursing home, adopt an elder there and read to them, spend some time with them each week, take them some flowers, watch the joy spread on their face. Do whatever you can to move on with your life. Be Happy, Smile alot.
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- 23-Apr-25 04:15am
  NotFriedLikeMostDebra D 624780
  I agree...go and GIVE to others. The best gifts one could ever receive is the happiness that comes from GIVING...your time, your effort, etc. Just start to cultivate good habits that can ONLY benefit you and your mental, psychological and physical well-being. I personally do a LOT of walking in nature and it helps with everything.
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23-Apr-25 00:02am
Linda C
Wake up. He is not worth the time and surely you have learnt he is a scammer.
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- 23-Apr-25 01:09am
  sarah J 798280
  yes I learn for it now and I'm going to let him go for good
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