Im in 2 minds about this. Personally I have been in a relationship with a much older guy when I was younger and it didnt bother me then, however now that I am older I find that most men in my age group have health issues and are looking for a partner who is pretty much going to look after them as their unpaid nurse, as their health deterioates even further. As an older person getting into a relationship, why would we (male or female) want to put our lives on hold to look after someone else whom we havent been with for a long time, when because of our own age our own health, strength and ability etc could also start to decline. I think, as a female if you are still fit and healthy once you get to your 60s you do need to find a younger man to be with. As for the older guys out there, you, I think in most cases would be okay to be with a female in your own age group, as in general men dont take as good care of their health, like going to the doctor etc as often as what a female does (this has been proven), the

Can't say that I've experienced it personally, but I have acquaintances who's egos were pumped when showing off their trophies in the past and a few of them STILL have those trophies now doing duty as live-in carers now that we blokes are all disgracefully aged. Just doesn't seem fair.

It is not the age difference but the differences in your personalities. If it works it works. simple

Nope, my hubby is 6 yrs younger than me and we communicate fine, and are best friends first... have been for 16 years! God is good!! he is an answer to prayer!

If its for love, there is no problem. If it's for money then they should be shamed

What difference does age make,if two people love each that’s what matters age has nothing to do with it

Well Look at Charlie and Camella, they seem to be doing ok

no issue here :-)

Love not depend on age

Ditto

I only care about my relationship. Any other relationship as long as it’s consenting is “mind your own business “

all good

Who people think they are to have athe right to put jugements on others how they have to live or what sort of partner they choose.Its entirely up to the couple concerned.Ihave here only one meddsage for them:Keep out of their affairs,mind your own buisness and shut up!

It is up to the individuals as long as love is involved.

It is up to the two people

No one's business but their own; if both parties are happy in love (or lust), what does it matter and who is judge to say it is right or wrong? Seriously, some people need to grow up and mind their 'beeswax'!

Theres nothing wrong with age-gap. I have no problem with it. Age doesn't matter it's who the person is inside of them.

I am 13 years older than my wife and that means I am almost as mature as her! hah

Every time you look at the internet (no comma) there IS a story....unless you are psychic, time traveller or something similar

As long as they are happy...

Age does not matter

its okay there is nothing wrong so long you love each other

It seems to be okay if the guy is older. If the woman is older, she gets called a cougar. So there's definitely discrimination involved.

Don’t care

In my opinion there is nothing WRONG with age gap relationships. The problem is usually other people. I totally agree with Johana C - if it is real love age should not be an issue.

No problem if its well considered...a few pitfalls

People need to find love where they can regardless of age so long as one is not being coerced for the wrong reason.

I agree Johanna AND others really have no right to codemn others who find happiness together

10 years is ok but 30 years a bit yuk

It's perfectly fine as long as it is for love and there is respect between the two. It is no ones business but their own. With my relationship there is a 9 and a half year age gap and I'm the older one this time. But we met online and I had no idea how old he was, I had assumed he was closer to my age due to his maturity. Been together just over 5 years now and still going strong.

There is nothing wrong with the age gap. My husband is twelve years older than me and we love each other .that is the main thing ,But we get some stares often but who cares not me.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with age gap

It's their lives, let them live it.It's no one's business but their own.

As long as they can live in peace and love each other most of the time why be mean life is to short

As long as hey are happy with their relationship then it is nobody else's business. Just poor minded people making up gossip

It has nothing to do with me and I have no right to approve or disapprove. Each to his/her own and to Hell (if you believe in such nonsense) with what others think.

I don't have a problem with age-gap relationships,age shouldn't matter if you both love each other for the right reasons and not just because you want a sugar daddy or a sugar mummy.

who cares it is their bussiness

You cant help who you fall in love with ,each to their own if they make each other happy so be it

PEOPLE HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO THINK ABOUT BUT THIS WHO CARES!!!!

Na. if thy are happy let it be.

As long as it’s for love

it is to the two people concerned

There was 7 years between me and my x, marriage lasted 25 years. I see nothing wrong with a age difference, big or small.

There's a 24 year age gap between my parents and they'll be having their 40th anniversary in 2022

Age-gap works if you are on the same page in terms of your desires, beliefs, wants.

Age is but a number.

it depends on the gap i lived with a lady who was 10 years younger but as she got older she wanted different things to what i wanted we are still good friends

None of my business, only my relationship is my business

Depends if it is love or money

Each to their own. The only beef I have is when the man is older, the attitude seems to be "well done"; when it is the woman who is older it is seen as weird.

14 year age gap and married 30 years... no problem..... the picture above? well, lovely couple but get rid of the silly hat.

it depends on the size of the age gap - really old men/women should not be with youngsters!!!!!!

I've been in two marriages one over twenty years above me and the other around 40 years above me. Later lasted thirteen years. Other is still going for over a decade and won't end in a hurry. Most young people are extremely cruel in my experience. Edited 25-Aug-20 06:20am

I used to be married to someone who was 14yrs older than me, but sadly that marriage only lasted 3 months, though we had been together for 14months and we had a beautiful baby boy together. So was a relationship that started and ended fast

I am 66 and my husband is 50. He has more knowledge of events that happened before he was born than I do. Age does not matter. Love does.

If they care for one another there is nothing wrong. If it is for money then it is wrong. Money does not bring happiness. Sometimes the opposite.

My late wife was 18 years older than me. And i love older ladies.

my husband and I are 8 years in age. I am younger. we are best friends and compliment each other. I wouldn't go over 10 years that is my own personal thing. It would feel weird to marry someone old enough to be my dad

Who cares. Relationships are all about people scamming and scheming, screwing other people and each other over. The age gap between the happy couple doesn’t seem to change anything.

Lust and love do DISCRIMINATE (including age-gap relationships) - which we (including me) all know - we try too rationalize our behavior when it comes to love and lust (including me)!!!Edited 26-Aug-20 08:46am

Depends if it's for love or money